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writes:Ok before we got marryed we disscussed oral sex, it's my mind blowing moment or highlights my first sexual exp was going down on a girl so it thrills me .2 weeks after we get marryed she switch on me. Been marryed 1 1/2 yr I can count on one hand how many times I had oral sex. Now I'm pissed we disscussed this matter openly and clearly I always felt that if your wife do everything that statified you why cheat that would be greed even though sex ain't all that and she think she has a great vay jay that ok I didn't get marry for that purpose but if you did your ex's why do I have to be without it and listen to her story about it how it will curl my toes. Lol haven't seen that I think about some side fun I have had 3 talks about the problem.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2009): If she was "happy" to do it before you married but not now, it seems that she used doing it to entice you into marriage, and now she has you, she doesn't see why she has to do it any more.
In other areas of life that would be known as fraud, or false advertising, and you could terminate the contract.
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (20 December 2009):
 HMM thats messed up she needs a hell of a good reason, there really isnt one unless maybe she doesnt like it. but im a little lost does she not want you to give her oral or does she not give you oral or both. I think she should do it whats her deal i dont suggest cheating maybe to get your point across just stop having sex with her at all dont even talk to her shes gonna win that huh well i dont kno tell her you want a divorce she probably has some ridiculous reason for not doing it.
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reader, Sincerely Yours +, writes (20 December 2009):
 Oh don't be ridiculous. Don't have side fun, don't cheat on her over oral sex! Yes, it was wrong of her to play nice and open until she had you legally binded to her, but what's worse? Not letting your spouse give your oral, or cheating on your spouse because she doesn't want oral?
There are more reasons not to cheat than just "she does everything sexually."
Either get over it, or sit down and have a talk with her about why she won't let you, how it's not fair that she won't let you, and how much you'd really, really like to.
~Sy
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