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writes:Hello everyone. I'm a 24 yr old femaale and have been dating the most amazing man I have ever met in my life for almost 2 years. we find ourselves staying home alot because my bf hates being at bars, but my cousin had a gathering and we went. My bf left early and I stayed. I ended up drinking so much that I literally blacked out. I don't remember even leaving the bar. I kinds remember arguing ang crying to this guy I used to talk to a few years ago begging him to take me to my boyfriend, but he refused.... everything else was a blur. I ended up taking a taxi to my bf's house (don't remember) and he greated me and was glad I made it home safe. My friends told me the next day that I had kissed the guy at the bar and left with him. I feel horrible. I thought about it for a day and couldnt keep it from him. He's hurt and can't even look at me. I don't know what to do. He keeps saying I never loved him, and I must be bored with him. I also couldnt tell him who the guy was, I didnt think it was fair to throw details on him especially since the guy was noone important, a mistake. I don't know what to do or say.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthe reason I know I didn't have sex is because I remember the guy trying to get me to go inside his house with him. I refused and threw a fit. I started crying for my bf. I know I have a problem with alcohol. I rarely drink but when I do I drink too much. I already told him that I would give up drinking alcohol. The bar scene was a blur..after my bf left a black out. After my friends told me that I can, kind of, recall kissing him once...it was a peck. I'm not sure if there were more. I'm positive I didn't have sex with this guy.to the first comment. Thanks. you're right we should be able to get past this. It's just the guilt. I've only had two bf's my whole life. Going out just isn't worth losing my bf. I've figured that out now. But we do have a lot to figure out still. thanks again
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthe reason I know I didn't have sex is because I remember the guy trying to get me to go inside his house with him. I refused and threw a fit. I started crying for my bf. I know I have a problem with alcohol. I rarely drink but when I do I drink too much. I already told him that I would give up drinking alcohol. The bar scene was a blur..after my bf left a black out. After my friends told me that I can, kind of, recall kissing him once...it was a peck. I'm not sure if there were more. I'm positive I didn't have sex with this guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2009): How do you know your friends aren't winding you up? And anyway what's a kiss. You went home to your boyfriend, didn't sleep with the other one and were honest, so can't you just both forget it and work on why he thinks you are bored and why you stayed on without him? That might be a better way forward in your relationship as it would increase understanding between you.
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