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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Someone please help me. I love my significant other so much, and yet, I do not trust him. He has NEVER done anything to make me not trust him, but every time he mentions a girl, or says he is with a girl, I get these raging feelings of jealousy that I cannot help. I know that if i keep this up,I am going to lose him,but I seriously have no clue what to do next. I have talked to him about it, but theres only so much he can say or do..
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reader, Garm +, writes (20 December 2009):
Well, you're right: you will lose him if you keep this up.
Men are simple creatures, and are easily manipulated by women. Take all of that energy you are investing in being paranoid, and re-invest it into something that will surely keep him in check.
Give him great sex, ALL of the dirty things he wants, and be enthusiastic and spontaneous about it: you will never have to worry about any other girls--You will essentially own him.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (20 December 2009):
Then you need to look at your own past. Have you been hurt before a lot by someone you loved, or felt deserted or had low self esteem? Take a look at your past and see what you can find in it.
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