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writes:Hey guys,Im 24 and i met an amazing guy in a chatroom and we hit it off right away.We had great chemistry from the start.Although it was all cybersex i didnt even realise he'd fall for me the way he did. He writes me the most romantic messages everyday never stops telling me how much he wants,needs,loves and misses me and that he wants to spend his life with me.im head over heels for him too.Never met someone so romantic and passionate before.Hes even hinted he might want to marry me someday.We live in different countries but sooner or later hes going to fly down to see me.I dont know how he imagines me when we roleplay but hes said hes drawn to my breasts when he thinks of me.The thing is i lied to him before i knew just how seriously he was about meeting me.I told him im a 34D, although im a 34B which is a kinda small cupsize for doing a lot of the 'stuff' i can pretend to able to do during cybersex.Im scared he fly all the way here,and il disappoint him .iv shown him my pics including one in lingerie.but thats one of my best angles.and im wearing a padded pushup bra which makes me look fuller.Without it i almost look flat especialy when im lying down.I dont know what to do.I realy love him and dont want to loose him.He looks perfect himself even has a 4pac. What should i do?Tell him the truth eventualy,let it be maybe he wouldnt notice?Im not sure how feesible it is to get a boobjob right now ,although my petite size does drop my confidence a little.What should i do for now?
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (30 December 2009):
 I agree with those who think men wont even notice a difference.
Last night my man saw a bra amongst the shopping I had just done and asked 'whose bra is that?'. I said 'mine'. His response, ... 'nah, you're not that big' (lol). I told him it was the same size as the one I had on, ... and he actually wanted to check the size tags to verify it.
Clueless when looking at the packaging and comparing to the content - and he see's em every day!
Don't worry about the furbie - this guy is soooo not likely to take a glance and have an accurate cup size in his head anyway.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009): I'm more worried about you, that you say you love him and don't want to lose him, yet you haven't met him in person. How do you know if you'll both have physical chemistry? Online chemistry and physical chemistry are very different!
Better to come clean with him now, because if he's really a big-boob guy, he'll want you to get implants or he'll eventually move on to a bigger-breasted gal. Unless, of course, you do want implants, then it could become a match made in heaven! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2009): Well, when he cups one he'll know it's not a D. But like the other guy said, by then you both'll be naked so he won't care. When you got a hot naked chick in a room with you the last thing you're doing is figuring out her measurements.
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reader, Lost annd Never found  +, writes (20 December 2009):
 well if he says he loves u and u say u love him then b4 he comes over tell him i have something to confess tell him ur real size and if he says he doesn't want to b with u any more then it wasn't meant to b. if hes going to let 1 lil lie make ya'll break up then he isn't worth it. im not going to tell u that u need to meet someone in ur town cuz that would make me a hypocrite, I met my husband on the internet and we r so happy together. Plus u have no idea what his background is he may b what ha says or he may treat u like my cousin he put her in the ICU after 3 weeks of b-ing with each other.
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reader, Tigerlily +, writes (20 December 2009):
If his feelings for you are genuine he won't care
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reader, Lost annd Never found +, writes (20 December 2009):
well if he says he loves u and u say u love him then b4 he comes over tell him i have something to confess tell him ur real size and if he says he doesn't want to b with u any more then it wasn't meant to b. if hes going to let 1 lil lie make ya'll break up then he isn't worth it. im not going to tell u that u need to meet someone in ur town cuz that would make me a hypocrite, I met my husband on the internet and we r so happy together. Plus u have no idea what his background is he may b what ha says or he may treat u like my cousin he put her in the ICU after 3 weeks of b-ing with each other.
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reader, Shannon Williams  +, writes (20 December 2009):
 I think he won't mindtell him
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