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*eorgia13
writes:So, wen i was,like, 10, I lost contact w/ a girl who was realy important to me. She was my first kiss, first girl i ever had feelings for, and the first person who ever made me truely happy. It's been 3 years sinc I last talked to her, but, the other day, I got an email from her. She said she was doing realy well, had lots of friends, and a boyfriend. I don't know how to react, on one hand, I still like her alot and i was hoping she still liked me a little too, on the other hand, I'm realy happy for her and I think I might only think I still like her beacause of how much she meant to me. Now, I don't know what to do, do I tell her I still like her and hope the feeling is mutual, or do I keep my mouth shut and hope for the best? Reply to this Question
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reader, Georgia13 +, writes (12 December 2009):
Georgia13 is verified as being by the original poster of the question She didnt email me just 2 tell me that, she meialed me 2 say hi and stuff. I know she realy likes him. Shes all the way i washington, im in california, so we cant realy meet.I didnt exactly reak up w/ her, we never officialy dated,but what we had was realy special, and if its still there i have to know, i just dont know how to find out.I agrea,people do change but i would like to know how much she changed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2009): i would say just continue contact, cause in three years so many things could have changed, in fact, personalities can change too! its pretty random that she just emailed you to tell you that she has lots of friends and a boyfriend- did you breakup with her 3 years ago? but in any case, dont have feelings for someone unless you know them, and 3 years is too long- things could change. meet up, talk for a while, then see if she's really the same person she was before.
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reader, Advice_man +, writes (11 December 2009):
 I would say for now just initiate contact and ask her to meet, don't mention anything about still liking her. Meet her and try to figure her out, how happy she is with her current boyfriend, why she contacted you after 3 years, maybe she missed you...find out first before reveal that you still like her. Good luck!
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