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anonymous
writes:omg i dont know whats happened to mei came out of a bad relationship 8 months ago-he left me financially crippled etc-used me for what he could get so no way am i looking for anyone-but this guy started at my work a month ago and we have worked together and get on REALLY well-even he commented about it-working is like playtime-so much fun and ive noticed im really taking my time in my appearance for work now-and i get excited about seeing him-whats happening ?heres the problems - his wife left him 4 months ago and we've had chats over coffee at work hes got 4 kids-2 from 1st wife-teenagers and 2 lil ones from last wife and now hes casually dating someone he met 3 weeks ago-a very distant family friend ????? suddenly i feel very protective of him-i know i shouldnt and ive been really nice helping him with his work etc and there is some connection there when we work but i dont want to get hurt and im not into causing trouble but i have feelings for him-i can just be friends but what should i do-sorry for long post and look forward to your always excellent advice x
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2009): hey, first of all i love the advice on these sites..always spot on. I hope mine can be of help!
I think you need to ask this man if he feels the same way as you feel about him. If not this could cause some awkwardness between you but at least you know where you stand. However, if he does feel the same...ask him out on a date?
You never know where it could end up going, one thing is though you need to get him to understand your intentions CLEARLY as not to cause any confusion.
Hope this helps !
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