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writes: Hello Everyone, I'm currently married to my son's father( been knowing each other for 10 yrs, married for 6, together for 3, and separated 1 1/2 years). Anyhow, throughout our relationship, my husband has cheated in my face with 2 other females that we had a threesome with, and stayed in contact with them. And he has a BIG rep of being a sexual freak in his 20's( 8 years difference between us). Just recently last weekend, I ran into my ex,and we was at a club together with my BFF(which is his sister). I came home late due to the fact that I had the best sex with my ex, but now I feel guilty. But I can't seem to get my Ex off my mind. Should I tell my husband about this,or should I keep lying to his face, like he has to me over the years since we been together? Thanx for all your answers!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009): he cheated. you cheated.
you are now even, so whats next?
an orgy???? or a divorce???
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIts not like that I don't want to stay in this marriage, or "throw it in his face" type of thing. Nor I was doing this to get back at him for what he's done to me. All I'm saying is that I want to work on our marriage, but he doesn't show any effort whatsoever. So, what am I suppose to do next?
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reader, pinktopaz  +, writes (11 December 2009):
I meant should NOT be married to each other, if at all.
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reader, Carrot2000 +, writes (11 December 2009):
 I don't think you feel guilty, I think you REALLY want to throw this in your husband's face because of his years of cheating. Clearly, there is a lot of unresolved hurt and anger, and you've probably lost a great deal of respect for him. The real question is not whether or not you should tell him, but whether or not you really want to stay in this marriage.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (11 December 2009):
Well, first of all, I don't really think that you can really be angry at your husband for "cheating in your face" if it's something you agreed to. It was wrong of him to stay in contact with those girls though, but that's the risk you take when you get involved with threesomes.
Anyway, I think you need to tell him. Maybe it will give you a both a dose of reality. Besides that, have you thought that maybe you two just shouldn't be together? I think you should tell him and go from there because it sounds like neither one of you are very happy in your marriage and this could possibly be what will make you two want to work on a happy and faithful marriage, or decide that maybe you two should be married to each other if at all.
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