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writes:I've just about had it already!! I'm 21 years old and my mom is trying to control my life!!! I've been out of a job for 3 weeks now and Im getting frustrated because no one is calling me back and I understand I can only do so much and my mother is taking it out on me! So she is preventing me from seeing my boyfriend! I don't think it is fair at all!!Help!! Reply to this Question
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (11 December 2009):
 Thankyou for the followup by messages. Your mother is right, in today's economic climate finding jobs is not as easy as it was a few short years ago. You should be dedicating a lot of time to finding employment, and you cant do that if you are hanging out with your boyfriend.
She may also be concerned that you quit your previous job without making sure you had a new one to go to, irresponsible, who is now supporting you? Is your mother feeding you, buying your shampoo, supplying the toilet paper, laundry powder, toothpaste and all those other incidentals we believe we cant live without, your boyfriend?
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reader, Aunty BimBim +, writes (11 December 2009):
Thankyou for the followup by messages. Your mother is right, in today's economic climate finding jobs is not as easy as it was a few short years ago. You should be dedicating a lot of time to finding employment, and you cant do that if you are hanging out with your boyfriend.
She may also be concerned that you quit your previous job without making sure you had a new one to go to, irresponsible, who is now supporting you? Is your mother feeding you, buying your shampoo, supplying the toilet paper, laundry powder, toothpaste and all those other incidentals we believe we cant live without, your boyfriend?
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reader, Aunty BimBim +, writes (11 December 2009):
I'm sorry but there isnt enough information here, why are you out of a job and why is your mother blaming your boyfriend? And your location is not showing for me, what country are you in, as employment issues can be different in some countries.
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