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writes:I have a huge crush on my counselor at my uni. I started seeing him a few months ago for some personal issues and the moment I saw him, I thought he was REALLY cute. Now, I know it's a huge no-no for a therapist to get involved with a client but 1. He's an just an intern and I''ll be graduating and out of his care within the next four months. 2. He's can't be any older than 25/26 and I'm 22. 3. He sort of seems attracted to me too and last session I was a bit late so I thought he would cut it short, instead we spent an extra hour talking about nothing important. Bottom line, I need to figure out some kind of subtle way to get to know him outside of our professional relationship and yes, I would hook up with him if I ever got the chance.How do I subtly show him I'm into him and get him to show whether he's into me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2009): I am in almost the exact same situation except, my guy is a teaching assistant. You are right, he might think it is unethical to get involved with a client regardless of the fact you are graduating or are close in age. The sad truth, there is so subtle way to get the sort of answer you want. You just have to put yourself out there or else he won't get the hint. Like I said, I am in almost the exact same situation, and I have been debating whether or not to ask my teaching assistant out for a drink after the class is over. (I still haven't decided.) It has never gone well for me when I really made myself available and vulnerable to men. In my case it has been the kiss of death. So, good luck to the both of us I guess. Ask him out for a drink over email if you want to take it to the next step. (That's what I am debating whether or not to do.)
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