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*on123123
writes:My sister, she is 11 and I think she just got her first ever period today because when she woke up she scared shit then I went to her room and I saw blood on the bed and on her pjs she was wearing, she won't talk to me and my parents are out of town, they're in Portugal on a trip. Any way what do I do? Help me, I'm 15.
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reader, Olivia(Y).  +, writes (30 April 2009):
 Yeh :) I look back and laugh at my first period thinking i was going to die lol.
Glad you can laugh at it :P
Livia
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reader, mon123123 +, writes (29 April 2009):
mon123123 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks it was a good momet now we cna look balk ans say hay remer when you got your period and we cna have a good laugh
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2009):
Thank you for coming back :) Well done you. Best Big sister moment in the world.
Star.x.
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reader, mon123123 +, writes (28 April 2009):
mon123123 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks so much for the anser ok i talked to ehr and showed ehr how to use a pad and then i gave her somthign for her cramps and we talked and wached oen of ehr fav moives she was really good after i clmed ehr down i called my mo and told ehr she was suprized and sayed that just told on tight tell she gets home so ya and lol my baby siser she is 3 gose omg sisyew dying lol i thotu thats was funny
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2009): Who is looking after you if your parents are away? If there is a sensible female tell her. If there is no one then well its down to you as Oliva suggests is the best way.
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reader, Olivia(Y). +, writes (27 April 2009):
You need to sit your little sister down and explain to her that it happens to every girl and theres nothing to be embarrested about.
Go to the shops and buy her some pads and tell her to put them in her knickers and change it every 4 hours. At night give her a hot water bottle for the pain as the first period is always very painfull.
Just be there for her. I was 8 and at school when i had my first period and i thought i was going to die and sat in the toilet crying.
Good luck :)
Livia
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reader, say_anything +, writes (27 April 2009):
 make sure you have some pads in, first of all, and maybe clean up the bed for her so she doesn't have to do that task herself or feel humiliated if your parents were to come home and find the sheets.
i don't mean anything by this, but i take it she does understand about periods and everything? i'm sure she does but try talking her through it all again, just in case.
it must be strange for this to have happened to your baby sister at such an inoppurtune moment for everyone, but stay calm and keep a positive tone and try to talk to her about it in a relaxed way so she doesn't freak any more than she probably is already. once she calms down she may appreciate her big sister's input as you will already have gone through this yourself more recently than say, your mum, and be able to understand how she feels.
good luck & best wishes.
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