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Wife's past sexual escapes are still haunting me

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Question - (27 April 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 1 May 2009)
A male Nigeria age 51-59, *iggy. writes:

I don’t know if you can still remember me that about a year ago i sought for your advice on what to do over my wife narrating to me as her husband about her past sexcapades with various men differently. She practically even demonstrated how they shared her from one city hotel to the other. She kept me in the dark until only after we married. am still passing through the agony of thinking about those past experiences of my wife. I thought i could gradually get it off my mind but to no avail. Please be candid in your advice to me over this dilemma.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009):

Retroactive jealousy is one of the hardest things to get over. I don't think anyone ever really does get over it, they just push it away.

But you are dealing with the manipulation of it all too. Does she even see what is wrong with this? With manipulating you into a marriage to someone who is not what she presented herself? She has cruelly trapped you between your feelings for her and hurt that it now brings you to think about who she really is.

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