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My crush!

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Question - (27 April 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 May 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, *oviefan writes:

I have had an on again, off again crush on a girl who has also been my friend since, Elementary school. I remember that in elementary onward i had a HUGE crush on her, and for 2 years she moved and came back and I remember i was sad and missed her that entire time, because i really liked her(even if i didnt know what that feeling was then) and because she was a friend. Which at the time at that age when someone moved she was gone.

The oddest part about all of this is the fact that my feelings for her rear up randomly once or twice a year, and I have never really tried to tell her before because i used to be a complete coward. She has at the very least a bit of interest in me because in the past when we were really close friends a few times we were alone she just hung on me and did a lot of touchy feely things, but at the time I was getting over a bad relationship and I was lost to that at the time and didn't show much interest in her, but deep inside I really liked it even if i wasn't showing. She had also done a little of this before in public accept toned down a bit around the same time, i had fallen asleep in the auditorium and she was playing with my hair and touching my face the whole time.

Is it normal for my feelings to come and go with her, if it does that while im dating her that could make the relationship go bad, i don't know if it will, every time i liked someone and dated them I have kept interest in them.

Any other advice would be nice, thanks aunts.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2009):

If you really like her then you should get up the nerve to talk to her, and if you don't talk to her about it then you won't like her as much as you thought.Though I'm in 5th-6th grade and can tell my crush anything, but how I feel about him. I'm wen't to a party to night and was told I was hot from a kid at the other school. I wish my crush was there, to see if he get jealous. So I got all dressed up for him not to come.So don't talk advice from me. But you should still tell her. I now that is what i would want my crush to be as out going.

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A female reader, mimisoph3 United States +, writes (28 April 2009):

mimisoph3 agony aunti think shes intrested in u too..shes flirting and showing u some east slow signs that she might be into u too..just go right ahead and ask her out if she says no the worlds still spinnnng but i dought shes going to say that

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