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Really weird love quadrangle...??

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Question - (27 April 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 28 April 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm in a really weird love quadrangle...

I really, really like this guy who is one of my best friends; we've known each other for about a year, and we get on really well. But he's gay. It's common knowledge that he has a major crush on another one of my male friends, who is straight. That friend has an unrequited crush on my best female friend. It gets even more complicated when a few weeks ago, she confessed to me that she was a lesbian and had been in love with me for half a year already.

What should I do?!

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A male reader, Who United States +, writes (28 April 2009):

Who agony auntSell the rights to your story to ITV?

Seriously the four of you need to agree to just be friends and chill out on the whole romance business. If any of you tries to make a move, it will be like pulling the pin from a hand grenade and dropping it in the middle of your little foursome. Only with the grenade, there would be less mess to clean up.

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A male reader, StudentOfLife Canada +, writes (28 April 2009):

StudentOfLife agony auntWhat can you do?

It's not rare to see a girl falling in love with a gay friend. If he's gay, focusing on loving him won't bring you anywhere with him though.

Same goes with your Lesbian friend.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (28 April 2009):

eyeswideopen agony auntWrite a book?

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