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How can I make my boyfriend cum faster?

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Question - (27 April 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 3 July 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 22-25, *aybee-x-sparkii writes:

Hi =)

Been having sex with my boyfriend (This isn't a pregnancy question, we have been using protection), but he can last for AGESSS and usually i wouldnt mind but he has way to much stamina for him to enjoy it and he gets really frustrated about it. Is there anyway to DECREASE stamina?

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A female reader, MunsipleMollie United Kingdom +, writes (3 July 2010):


It takes us about 2 hours sex wise but thats because we want sex for a long time, we don't take it that serious we just mess around and talk.

It's so much better that way than being all serious and not fun because it's harder to enjoy.

Go on top of him it's easier and make him move up and down.

Lay on his neck while he goes up and down and it gets both of you like that.

I tried this last night with my bloody bmx boyfriend/scene kid. So much easier when there active (:

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2009):

You can try oral- and the best way is to be on your knees while he is standing. When he is at "full attention" and the veins are clearly showing, make a ring with your pointer finger and thumb at his base to keep all of the blood there for a better orgasm.

Also, try being on top. For some men, I've found, the effort required to be "maintaining" prevents them from really relaxing to the point that they can ejaculate. A great way to do this is to have him lay on the edge of the bed, then turn around and with your legs squeezed together, sit on him. It's kind of like a standing version of doggy style.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2009):

You know the muscles that you would flex if you were to try and stop a stream of urine? I don't know what they're called or even where they are, but try it. Flex the muscles down there and see if it stops your flow.. and if it does, they're probably the ones i'm talking about.

If you flex those during sex, it may make him finish faster. Also if you do something that drives him crazy.. like kissing/bitin ghis neck.. nipples.. whatever gets him..

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