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writes:Hi all,I know I might get bashed for this, but I still want to know how you all cope with the following scenario:Let's say you have met somebody whom you really love and loves you in return, but he/she has had more sex partners than you. Have you ever thought of 'getting even' by sleeping with others just to make the numbers of past sex partners on both sides equal, and actually did it? How do you feel after that? Is it a big mistake to do this kind of thing?Devil Crazy Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2010): i spent the last 38 years trying to even the score with my welsh wife ,its impossile to recreate a womans abilility to be permiscous all they need is a pulse and a willing vagina.my wife even met an aussie in oxford univrsity parks and fucked a random stranger in public and she was a teacher it still screws with my head after all these years.and i would have been faithful to her if she had not been such a slut.i am now full of guilt about all the prostitutes ive been with(thats the only way losers like me can even the score)dont do itmate.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (27 April 2009):
 Have I thought about it? Sure I have. Would I ever do it? Never in a billion years. I value our relationship way too much to cheat for empty sexual memories and to destroy the trust and security of our relationship.
While it's hard to be with someone who has had more partners than you (and I can empathize. I'm marrying the first guy I slept with and I'm number 23 on his list!!!), the past is the past. Evening up won't make you feel any better, not in the long run. It will hurt the relationship and make her feel awful that you cheated, and you'll be in a real mess. If you really want to go get more sexual experience, maybe you should reconsider being in a relationship at all! If you want some freedom to have some one night stands, by all means go for it, but accept that you're letting her go.
Figure out your priorities - experience or your lady?
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reader, x_Joe_x  +, writes (27 April 2009):
well yes i know how you feel.
we're from south east asia and we expect a women who didn't sleep with too many guys.
well i still couldn't find the solution how to deal with the feelings but if i were you i'd find a girl who is equal to me.
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reader, purplecloud03  +, writes (27 April 2009):
 id never ever do this, my partner has been with 17 other women, ive only been with him and my ex. It has never ever crossed my mind to try and even things up. its the past and he loves me for who i am.
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