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writes:ok, im 16 and me and my long term boyfriend are already discussing out future, like how many kids we're gonna have, and we're gonna get married at 20 and everything. and its filling me with every kind of hope imaginable. i want it to come true, and he tells me it will. but everyone else says ive got to let go a little coz it won't last forever. what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2009): You should just enjoy it, if it does last and things end up the way you want then, Awesome! You can look back and say how wrong people were. But if it doesn't last, then its ok. It will probably change because people change, and you're still growing up so what you both want may change.When I was 16 I knew exactly what I wanted and who I wanted it all with. And now I'm 23 and my life is completely different than I thought it would be, but I'm incredibly glad. I'm also glad that I didn't stress about what people thought because I had a good time with that boyfriend and I have good memories associated with those hopes. It fine to hope and plan things out, just make sure you can adapt to however it turns out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2009): I did the same thing I think every young girl does. Its just harmless fantasy theres nothing wrong with it so dont let it go. You never know you may last with this guy and be with him and get married. If not then you still had that hope in you which you can do with someone else. Hope never dies.
People arent always right so just work on your relationship and maybe you will last forever.
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