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writes:dear cupid,We are both married and I asked him if he wants to get together? He said, we would have to be discreet. I was like good he likes me.. but when the time came, he told me he is "chicken" and didn't want to get caught! What does he mean by being chicken? Then in the next breath, he told me he would really love to spend some time with me. I was dumbfounded to say the least... I said why? and he came back with I like people too much and I don't get excited any more about things? I never asked him what he meant by that because I "assumed" we would get together.. he didn't give me a change to comment and left.. I see him most of the time but I feel that he is ignoring me. I need some guidance? Has anyone ever dealt with this before? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2008): Thank heavens one of you has enough sense to be scared! Means he doesn't want to get caught sweetie..He might want a little fun doing the wild thing..but you aren't important enough for him to risk his marriage, home, ect..Wake up, smell the coffee, and you're married! What are you thinking? Are you ready for a divorce? Think again....Play with fire, you're gonna get burned. Divorce isn't fun by any means. Think about what you are doing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2008):
Its nice to feel wanted by people other than your spouse.
Maybe he just liked the tingle and excitement of a new relationship but is realistic with himself that he doesnt want to go through with it.
Or maybe he thinks that you are a blabber.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (16 October 2008):
 It means he scared to get caught. What he's saying is that he loves the attention you're giving him, he'd love to see you in his bed but it's not worth it because of what he might lose. Maybe he's a afraid of catching a sexually transmitted disease. Or maybe he is a afraid that his conscience would bother him and he's chicken of that. T's a good thing one of yo has some integrity and decided to draw a line. YOU'RE BOTH MARRIED!!!
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reader, xelax  +, writes (15 October 2008):
Chicken means he dont have guts to do it or courage...
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reader, Paula4u +, writes (15 October 2008):
 Why would you want to do this if you are both married? Ready to divorce are you? Is sex that important to you? Are you unhappily married? Divorce is expensive, painful and tears your home apart. All for a bit of fun??
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (15 October 2008):
 At least he a chicken with honor and integrity, where's your by the way?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2008): Good that he's a chicken. It will save you trouble which you are determined to ask for. It's just wrong looking for more outside your marriage.Being chicken means he got scared like a chicken or chickened out meaning he didn't have the guts to do what he promised.
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