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How to handle a penis!!!??

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Question - (15 October 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 6 February 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Hi, I could really do with some help. Any answers will be much appreciated. Well I've had quite a few sexual partners but not very confident in bed. Basically I don't have a clue what to do. For example before sex when me and my fella are just fooling about he touches me and it's great. But when he moves my hand toward his penis I just move it away as I feel stupid and don't know what to do. Please give me some advice as I really want to pleasure him as he does for me. I know a lot me people are going to advise me to ask him but I'd really rather not. Please help I feel useless.

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A female reader, VampyricHybrid United States +, writes (6 February 2009):

VampyricHybrid agony auntReally get into it, let yourself go. Don't think about it, be spontaneous, do what feels right. Try different techniques, if you don't want to ask, then watch his reactions to everything.

-Good Luck. =)

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A female reader, lexilou United Kingdom +, writes (16 October 2008):

lexilou agony auntBe gentle!! Just take it slow, you can ask him if he likes what you are doing. He might say - speed up - slow down or whatever. Double-M's advice is pretty good, he's a bloke after all!!

My hubbie likes me to lick his balls and play with them a lot - but if that's too much to take on board just yet then just concentrate on his penis for now and relax and enjoy exploring him too x

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (16 October 2008):

DoubleM agony auntNo problem. If he is erect and still wearing britches or even underwear, just place your hand upon his bulge and begin to slowly rub up and down with medium pressure. That is about all you can do with pants on, but you may soon after reach inside to expose his member, or simply remove the attire. He will likely aid in this process or drop his pants and underwear voluntarily.

An exposed and erect penis should be an obvious toy for your playfulness. Begin by rubbing gently up and down as before. Then grab it about midway from the base to the tip with a medium grip and begin to stroke up and down. Begin fairly slowly at first, then after a moment you might increase the pace of strokes. His reaction to your actions will guide you. Perhaps he would like your grip on his penile shaft to become tighter, or the stroking pace to increase. You can experiment and adjust according to his response.

He may enjoy you fondling his scrotum (balls). Just act as if you are "exploring" his privates. This is your toy, and he will almost certainly enjoy the attention. Basically, this is a hand job and it may result in an ejaculation.

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