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writes:I am a 19 year old man and have been dating an 18 years woman since April 2007. We had sex once in November 2007 and now that we are in a long distance relationship I called her yersterday and she told me that she is not prepared to have sex with me again during the December holidays and I don't know what is wrong with her. I thought maybe is because she a christian. What can I do to change her mind please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2008): Its up to her, not you
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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (15 October 2008):
you can't "make her have sex with you" if she wants to have sex with u she will. but she obviously has a reason for not wanting to. maybe she has had bad experiences in the past or is worried about std's, pregnancy,etc. it;s abit odd that she wants to wait untill December though. best thing u can do is talk to her about it, don't pester her though and do not bring it up in the bedroom, talk about it somewhere away from the bedroom.
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reader, Honeygirl +, writes (15 October 2008):
 She must have a reason why she doesnt want to have sex with you... perhaps she is afraid of falling pregnant or contracting HIV or STD's.... maybe because she is a Christian she is going to save herself for marriage... You need to ask her for her reasons for not wanting sex with you bearing in mind that they are very valid to her. Dont pressurise her into having sex because you want sex, it must be a mutual decision.
Honeygirl
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