A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi,I'm 31 and will be getting married in a month. Me and my b/f has never had sex with anyone. Though we have been having a lot of foreplay together, we have never experianced vaginal intercourse. I want our wedding night to be a very special one. Please give suggestions to make my b/f go crazy with pleasure. Also I know the first time is difficult for some women. Is it true for everyone. What can we do to make it less painful for me? Also, do all women bleed during first intercourse?
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reader, Aunt Phyllis  +, writes (15 October 2008):
The main reason first time sex hurts for some is that couples no not spend enough time on foreplay and becoming aroused. Not all women bleed during their first time either and it can be a painless and enjoyable time too! You should both be completely relaxed, perhaps play some sexy slow music and have a glass of wine if you drink. You should only engage in intercourse when you are sufficiently lubricated down there. Some women can attain this through sufficient foreplay and arousal and others will need the help of a personal lubricant. It is best to keep a tube on hand just in case. Use soft lighting amd camdles to create a romantic atmosphere and make sure the room is at a comfortable temperature. You should spend at least 30 minutes on foreplay and preferably an hour. Don't rush into the sex part... you have all night for that!
I'm sure your first time will exceed your expectations and be wonderful.
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