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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Ok so my first love and I broke up almost 11 years ago. I always have had him in the back of my mind...We both moved on. I never got married but have been living with someone and had children. We are about to separate. I recently got in touch with my first true love and he was also married but is now divorced. We went on a date and everything was perfect, felt like it was all there. But then he called me and said he didn't even want to be friends because he has not forgave me for leaving him. Will he ever and if during the date he showed me emotion does he still have any feelings? So confused.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2008): 11 years is a very long time for someone to hold a grudge.also according to your age range,you would have been a teenager or close to it 11 years ago.unless it was a very serious,long term relationship with a really bitter break up,it seems odd that he would still have hard feelings.and even then it would still seem strange to me.are you sure that maybe there isnt another reason? just remind him that it was a long time ago,and your both much older now.im sure you both have matured and changed quite a bit since then.the past doesnt have to hold you back from atleast being friends.tell him you would like to start over and see where it goes.just dont push too hard,or he will likely run the other way.
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