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I'm afraid to talk to him in person...what should I do?

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Question - (15 October 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 15 October 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *ilzDon'tKnow writes:

Like everyone else im haveing love troubles.

but my question is a LIL more complicated.

So here's how it began.

My friend invited her to her sweet 16 party. Of course im going to go she's like my best friend. so its me her a bunch of her friends her boy and then two guys show up.one of them is in one of my classes but i had never met his friend before, so i go up and say hi we talk. Everyone play truth or dare and it ended up making people kiss other people. So i get dared to kiss the guy like 4 times. I get back to school on tuesday (long weekend) and then i get his number. But everyone tells me that he has no interest in me. INCLUDING my best friend who would rather see me happy than anything. So im texting him after school and we actually have ALOT in common. One problem. Im really shy around people i don't know so well, and im afraid that ima make a complete fool of myself if i go up and talk to him in person. So what do i do?! i really need help PLZ!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2008):

When you kissed him those four times (wow that is alot for one person you've just met! lol) did he kiss you back or where they just pecks? Another thing, he wouldn't text you pack enough for you figure out you have lots in common if he didn't atleast see you as friend material. That's what you should ask him. Does he see you as just a girl that can only be a friend or a little more. Don't put the scary 'girlfriend' word in their. Ask him out on a date by text and meet up somewhere after school where you'd both feel comfortable like a park or a coffee shop, whatever your into. You don't have to approach him at school except for a smile down the hall.

Good Luck hon!

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