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female
age
41-50,
*ab105
writes:I have met this really nice guy at work he and I have been chatting for along time now at work but because we work in different departments its been hard to talk for long periods. so one day he said we should meet up outside of work, so we did and went to the cinema. we ended up kissing which was wonderful.The next day he was due to go on holiday to see his dad and was gone for 3 weeks we texted almost everyday he would tell me he misses and cant wait to see me again I felt the same In his messages he used terms of endearment like baby, gorgeous, hunni.He asked me if i wanted to pick him up at the airport i said yes i couldnt wait to see him so I picked him up from the airport and waited ages he was delayed when I saw him i got that lovely feeling in my tummy it was so good to see him gave him abig kiss and cuddle I styed the night with him and we had sex twice we fell asleep in each other arms we are always cuddling and holding hands we seem really closeI spent the next couple of nights with him sleeping with him and cuddling him. the problem is I think im falling for him we act like a couple but we have never confirmed that. he comes to meet me on my breaks at work he cuddles me in front of others at work and doesnt seem to be worried about being seen.I told him in a text that I was falling for him but he never said anything to respond to that. i dont kow what to do sometimes I wish i never had these feeling but I cant help it the more I see him the stronger thay become its been a month since he has been back and we have been on 4 dates i asked him where our new relationship was going and he said that he didnt want a girlfriend right now because he feels too young at 25 and doesnt want to be tired downI know I should have said that because its been weird between us since Im so stupid i got to emotional. since that we have been on another date but the flirty text messages has stopped he use to call me gorgeous, babe and sweetheart and I called in handsome I still do when I text him but all he does is texts me back with no words of endearment and he texts are much shorter now had a great time tonight we kissed at the end of the night and he wants to meet up again how can I get him interested again im miss those sweet texts ive ruined everything havent i i am so sad he was really into me
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reader, prof_orr  +, writes (15 October 2008):
 Your nice guy may have other problems in his life to deal with so just give it a little time and he'll come around.
When you have sex with a date it may be just for fun,
but twice in one night is a commitment.... ;=)
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