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anonymous
writes:I met a guy online and chatted for months before eventually meeting, we got on really well and met a few times. i am moving away with work (only a few hrs away), something he was aware of but he still met me.after meeting the last time i didnt hear back from the guy for a couple of days and then got a text explaining he had heard from his ex and it had sent him 'weird' but he was afraid that if he saw more of me when i moved away and didnt get to see him it would hurt more and therefore didnt want to see me anymore.spoke to him online a few days later and he explained that although he didnt want to see me he still wanted to stay in touch.we have been chatting but he seems very confused and it isn't helping me move on.i guess i fell very hard very fast, but as we had chatted for months i foolishly thought there was something there. does anyone have any idea what is going on? cause i haven't a clue and i dont know what to do for the best. im guessing stop chatting to him!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2008): Dear Poster
His behavior sounds very confusing but I suggest you don't contact him; there might be more to the story then what he is explaining; I don't know and I cannot judge, but maybe he is getting together with his ex and just don't want to tell you; I don't know, it is merely something you should consider;
However, you must decide if you want to stay in contact with him; but should you do remain in contact keep it very casual and platonic; just as a "chat buddy"; I don't think
you should have any hope on this guy for any future relationship; if he is bailing on you like this and if he cannot explain himself; I does not make sense;
You deserve to be happy and deserve somebody that will value you enough to travel the world to be with you and to see you.
Best wishes; hope this is of some assistance.
Wishing you lots of luck with the move and oh, always keep SMILING.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2008): I think ignoring him would be the best solution. If he tries talking to you anymore just tell him how you feel and it would be best not to talk anymore. You'll get over him eventually just hang in there and stay strong.
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