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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He doesn't want to date me again and get his heart broken. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - okay well i like this boy we went out like 3 times and i broke up with him all those times but idk i really likee himm alottt and he dosent want to go back out with me beacuse he said he dosent want to get his heart broken 4 times and i said im sorry and he said it dosent ... (102 words)

I want a relationship, but he just wants to date right now.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5637 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing someone for over 6 months now and just found out that he is dating other people. We are not sleeping together just dating but I'm still really uneasy about it. When I confronted him he said that he wanted to still be friends with me and that he wants me... (103 words)

How can I make sure I'm super clean if I try anal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5637 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Help! my fiance and i have been dating for 5 years and we've been having sex for about a year almost and lately his sex drive is CRAZY!! we were both our firsts and even though i love it we end up having sex about 2 times a day even though we usually try new things what can i ... (134 words)

For two years our relationship has been cruising, parking, making out. I want more!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - so...me and my boyfriend's relationship is becoming the same routine (he picks me up, we drive around, we park and talk, make out, and that's it) which is good but i like to do more like have sex. he wants me to wait for a while til we get our own place...but it's been 2 years ... (70 words)

I want to tell her I love her but don't know how.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

19 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I want to tell the girl i love that i love her but i am finding it hard,what do i do.pls help... (22 words)

She says she was forced into oral, but is there more to it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

19 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - alright, so my girlfriend told me recently that the reason she doesn't go down on me all too often is because she had a bad experience with it once. she said she was forced to do it by a big, aggressive guy she was kind of seeing after a break up. i felt sorry for her, i w... (225 words)

Can you have oral herpes but no outbreaks at all?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5637 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - is it rare to have oral herpes but no outbreaks at all?because i think someone gave me oral herpes but i havent had an outbreak at all.dos that mean that my body is healthy?well it really doesn't matter if i have an outbreak or not i still have a very contagious disgusting ... (57 words)

My GF wants me to finger her but I have no clue what to do!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

19 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - my gf wants me to finger her since shes starting to give me bj's but i have no clue what to do lol... and ive read it up on the internet but it sounds complicated do you think she'll show me? or does she expect me to know how D:... (50 words)

He dumped my BFF because he likes me instead. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend has been dating this boy for about 6 months, and he has just dumped her. But, he dumped her because he likes me instead. To make it even more complicated, I like him too. I really want to date him but it will hurt my best friend because she still likes him. Even ... (108 words)

How can I possibly be this happy after all the mistakes and bad choices I made?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am having trouble forgiving my sexual past and its eating me up inside. I have slept with 12 guys - only 6 of them were relationships - out of the others I was completely drunk and/or believed that we would end up having a relationship. All these relationships/encounters were ... (367 words)

I do wanna so believe him but not too sure if I can??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my partner for 4 years now and I love him dearly he says he does to but a couple of months ago he began 2 stay up late real late 3 in the morning.. I then found out an read some emails off my next door neiqours daughter. I ask him about this he said they were ... (385 words)

I want to know whether she actually wants to be with me or am I being silly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

19 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm 16 years old and I want to know whether she actually wants to be with me or am I being silly. About 2 months ago I asked a girl but she said she wanted to stay friends. However lately in the last week she has been flirting with me. Now is this because she wants to be ... (74 words)

Long distance relationship - I'm afraid it's not going to last...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm curently in a long distance reletionship I love my bf but he lives 45 minutes away. I don't want to leave him and i hope it dosent come to that but im afraid I'm going to lose him because we only see each other for like a week or weekend out of a month and he say... (187 words)

When will it stop hurting me to have sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I lost my virginity to my boyfriend about 2 weeks ago, and today we had sex again for the first time since then, but once again it was really painful for me and I bled quite a lot, even though my hymen broke the first time. Why did this happen? Did my hymen heal itself over ... (83 words)

I'm a teacher - should I continue to respond to this pupil's emails?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a secondary school teacher. One of the students from the school I work in has started writing emails to me to which I have responded to. He is only 3 years younger than me. The messages are quite innocent but I am a bit worried as I would not like him to fall for me ... (204 words)

Does my cousin still like my boyfriend? (Her ex!)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5637 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am with my cousin's ex boyfriend and I have fell in love with him and he says he is in love with me. Every time I talk about him to my cousin she goes all shy and changes the subject. Do you think she still likes him? What should i do?... (55 words)

We're very close... I think I love her, should I tell her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

19 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this girl who is my friend for over 3 months now. She comes around to visit me, always laughs all the time when we are together, touches me frequently and looks at me in the eyes. I wrote a love poem for her and asked her if she loved it but she said she dont know, ... (107 words)

I took too long to make a move and now she has a boyfriend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

19 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Man, I'd say I'm feeling like s*** right now, but lemme show y'all my situation: I met this gorgeous girl.I loved her at first sight.I think she loved me too, cause she started gimme signs, for instance: keep staring at me all the time, giving me conversation, this kinda th... (95 words)

I feel so down and keep crying all the time. What is up with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - For the past couble of weeks I have been feeling really down, low, I've got no energy, I just can't be arsed to do nothing, but I push myself to because I have a 4 year old boy to look after, he is good as gold bless him, he has even been asking me if I'm ok, I tell him I am ... (141 words)

I don't like giving and getting gifts from my boyfriend, what shall I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this is a strange fear but I don't like giving and recieving gifts from my boyfriend. I don't mind giving and recieving gifts from my friends either the same sex or opposite sex but it's happened with all my past relationships. I am with a guy who I really love at the m... (94 words)

She keeps ending it when her period is due!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a relationship with the most beautiful woman but she keeps ending the relationship when her period is due. She says she can't help it but she hurts me so bad. Don't know if I can take any more hurt. I love her more than anything. What should I do?... (53 words)

I feel like she's replaced me and I really miss him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. so ive got my best friend and hes a boy. were soo close and i love him to bits. hes soo important to me and we're always together. but recently we started getting closer than friends but decided that we would be better off as friends. but now he talks to me and stuff but ... (92 words)

My boyfriend is so lazy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for over a year and I love him with every beat of my heart, he's amazing, he's everything a girl wantss in a boyfriend, I'm 19 I work part time every day, he doesn't work nor go to school, I brought it up to him once and he became emotional telling ... (161 words)

My parents caught my BF fingering me and now they won't talk to me.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - HELPP! my parents caught my bf fingering me... and they havent spoken to me since (it happened last night and havent talked to me all night and today) are they disappointed..? sad? will they ever get over it? im so depressed right now because i love my parents and they never ... (86 words)

She says she just wants to be friends, but I want more!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

19 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I asked the girl I liked out, but she says she just wants to be friends. So how do I get her to be my girlfriend?... (26 words)

I like a guy who is younger than me soooo much.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy who is younger than me. Whenever I waken up I always have a smile on my face because I know I am going to see him and whenever he talks to me or gives me a hug I get butterflies. The other week, he and I had a couple of drinks and I got a bit emotiona... (101 words)

His daughter calls another man "daddy".

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

19 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey I’m Jon 18 years old. This questions actually about my older brother he had a baby girl "Chloe" with his ex wife 2 years ago and broke up with her about a year ago (I'm not sure of the details my brother normally goes to his friends not family for emotional support) his ex ... (205 words)

Are we moving too fast with the "I love you"s?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5637 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in the best relationship I have ever been in; he makes me really happy. It's as if he's the male version of myself, we get on that well. We have been in this relationship for nearly two months, and we tell each other we love each other often. We've been crushing on each... (113 words)

Tips for asking my friend out on a date.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

19 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys I was wondering if you could help me out... You see I'm at college, there is this girl I met and 4 months onwards we are quite alright friends... I mean I talk to her a few times... we flirt... we're close and stuff and she's really grown an interest to me... ... (106 words)

Would you call it cheating on his partner when we are only phoning?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Guys:- Why does a guy say he'll ring on a certain day or time and then not? I am keeping in touch with a guy I adore(who has a partner who he says he doesn't get along with) so he only rings me as and when. For obvious reasons I can't really phone him - so instead he... (128 words)

My hubby is swapping nude pictures with his friend... help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was checking our email the other day and was surprised to receive this message: "Thank you for the nude pictures. I was glad you enjoyed my nude pictures, I'll send you some more emails of them next week. You'll cum over these. You are HOT!! DAMN HOT!!! Jeff" (excuse th... (174 words)

I do not know what to do to prove myself.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Over the period of 3 years or so I was talking to a guy (lets call him Bob) I met online through a band. We had always wanted to meet but we didn't until this August when he came in from Iraq on leave. While he was here I met his best friend of 13 years (Fred) and I thought ... (233 words)

Will offering him money cloud his judgment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Will offering him money cloud his judgment? I was getting on really well with a man who liked me (but has a girlfriend) and who was temporarily out of work! Anyway, I really wanted to keep in touch with him so instead of just giving him my number I also said "if you nee... (99 words)

Motorboat at the stripclub

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 25 years old and my fiance 33. Last weekend we went to a strip club with my friend, let's just call her Sally. Sally and I were wondering if the strippers boobs were fake or real so we asked my fiance to go ask her and find out. He gave her some money and next thing I ... (278 words)

How do I heal the rift and resolve this??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 33, married to a 34-year-old man, we've got a 6-year-old son and a 5-year-old daughter. Recently some longtime friends of ours asked our husband to cook for their wedding (my husband is a particularly good cook) and he did. I thought all was well, until all the gues... (199 words)

Should I tell a teacher?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

19 November 2008 (?) age 30-35 - This is a personal question, but it is not relationship based. My name isn't actually Bella Hudson. In my school, there is a list on our wall of students good at science. I am on this list. The thing about my name is that if you add a letter to the end of it, it makes a common ... (107 words)

How should I act around this guy who might like me but has a GF?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5637 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok please please please help me im beginning to go insane trying to figure out whats going on in this *certain someones* mind. i will first tell u about about me and him and u can decide. well i didnt know this guy at all until less than a year ago i have just moved after th... (356 words)

I said I see him as a close friend. Does this leave room for being more than friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hello. ive been talking to my best lad mates friend alot recently, weve became really close friends, weve just been talkin about my best lad mate i said i saw him as a brother, the mate of his asked what i saw him as. i said close friends, what i would like to know is if you ... (106 words)

We're not going out so why doesn't he like me hugging other guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't understand, right this lad i am really close fiends to, and he always hugs me and stuff, and when other lads want to hug me he gets dead over powering and doesnt let them or gets like dead protective and obsessive and jealous, like he will go and hug loads of girls then ... (173 words)

Is he just taking things slow? What do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5637 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a really nice guy few days ago. He says I can come over anytime I like. I have been to his place about 3 times now. We aren't exactly dating but I guess you can say we act like a couple. When we sit he sits more towards my way, we have given little kisses when I leave, he ... (298 words)

I'm stuck between boys.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Well. this is such a long question! i liked this boy and he asked me to kiss him and i said yeah but just before i was going to, about a day, he asked someone out, but then she dumped him. Now he goes out with someone else but he flirts with me and i still like him. But i like ... (88 words)

My long distance girlfriend hates my in town female best friend, help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

19 November 2008 (M) age 36-40 - Hello Cupid. I am currently in a long distance relationship. Everything is going well so far and I have no complaints. The one thing that is putting a stress on our relationship is an issue my girlfriend has with a very good friend of mine. My best friend (female)... (388 words)

I can't move on because of my feelings for him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5637 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I had been with my kids father for thirteen years,We been apart for five years now and it's very hard for me to move on because of my feelings for him, what should i do?... (35 words)

Does "never date your best friends guy" apply to this situation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been friends with my current best friend for 5 years. We are completely inseparable, and have a pretty good relationship. She has had a crush on this guy for about 2 years and a year ago, they hooked up. They never turned into anything like a relationship or ... (356 words)

I really want to make it work this time, do you have any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5637 days ago

19 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everybody, My girlfriend and I fell out over a week ago because I was stupid enough to doubt our relationship and my commitment etc, we have spoken though and have decided to go back out and give it another go because we still love each other etc. Now I am 21 and she is 1... (190 words)

Have you ever had a squirting orgasm / female ejaculation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi All I've been really curious since a friend told me about her experiences of female ejaculation / squirting. She says it's the most amazing feeling, one of complete 'release' and her boyfriend told me he totally gets off on being squirted on. I knew nothing about it a... (110 words)

I love my ex and he loves me, but I'm afraid he'll hurt me again.

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19 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have strong feelings for a lad that has the same feelings for me, he doesnt no that i have feelings for him and im afraid im going to lose me chance with him but i just dont dare to tell him how i feel and admit that i love him too. He is also my ex and he has hurt me befor... (88 words)

Why do I have so many feelings for so many guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - One lad is in love with me, and two there lads fancy me. We shall call the lad that is in love with me GUY 1, Well i like GUY 1 as well, in fact i love him too, but he has really hurt me before and i am so scared he will hurt me again. GUY 2 fancys me and i have no feelings... (463 words)

I'm really struggling with not having my ex-girlfriend in my life.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

19 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - This is something really serious to me so please dont think im like a friken loser but... I have been with the same girl for two years and it was great until the end as i have explained in my other questions. I just wanted to know why in the hell i cant let this girl go and get ... (552 words)

He's confused and now hes got me confused!! What am I to believe and do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5636 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend had been going out for four months and the relationship was perfect. Saw each other often (although not every single day), did things together so we weren't always stuck in and we both said we loved each other alot. Last friday he stayed over at mine so ... (431 words)

I really like him and I'm so confused as to what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5637 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya Ok this is one of those long essay things, but i really do need your advice! Right well, i really like this boy. I see him at school but he is a year younger than me (thats ok right?) so im not in any of his lessons or anything. But i do see him quite a bit. Ive spoken ... (223 words)

I feel excited when people mention my ex's name, but not my boyfriends! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5635 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Il apologize in advance if its a long question. Well heres the basics, im 16 and have been with my boyfriend for a little over 9 months. Ive never felt love like this towards anyone before, its kind of like i'd do anything to make sure he didnt get hurt, and i dont care what... (462 words)

I could be pregnant, and I've just got with a new guy... what to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have had a very casual friends with benefits thing with this guy. Well I have been on birth control so I wasnt worried about getting pregnant. I thought my cycle was off and that would start any day and I havent. I dont know if I should just wait and see or if I should take a ... (161 words)

She gave mixed signals and I don't understand!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

19 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a question/scenario. Here is your chance to give some good advice to a confused man. I had been dating this girl for about 4 months. Everything thing was going FANTASTIC! I played it cool - didn’t try to rush anything - Just had the most amazing time together. I came ... (159 words)

I'm falling out of love - is this normal? What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5637 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I have a question to those who have been in the same position as me I've been in quite a long term relationship my first love for almost three years, and this year things have really gone down hill, we only see each other weekends as it is but I have started going out more ... (230 words)

My girl doesn't like to be touched!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

19 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been going out for nearly a year. We both love eachother very much and have no plans to break up. However, she has an unnoticable case of ADHD to the human eye, and I think it's from this I have my problem. She doesn't like beign touched. No hugs or ... (239 words)

Lots of problems in one marriage....

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19 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear friends, I married my husband who is 24 years older than me when I was 18.I didn't married him because I love him but because my family want it. At the time he was in Canada and I was in Africa but I start loving him. At 19 I had my boy and came to Canada. I am 22 he is 46 ... (168 words)

I think I may be depressed. What are the symptoms of depression?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I have depression but I'm not sure. What are the symptoms, and where should I go from here? If I am depressed who can help me? Thanks x... (30 words)

I feel like I've been given a label by the person who I have grown to love deeply.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Yesterday my boyfriend said in a heated conversation that he thought I'd been 'ruined'. This has upset me terribly and I'm wondering how I am ever going to get beyond his remark. He won't retract it or apologise. When I asked him if he would choose someone else next time and ... (346 words)

My boyfriend is not active in bed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5546 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear friends, My boyfriend is not active in bed? What remedy do you have for him. He does not perform well during sex and as a young girl like me I need it. Please is a serious matter, I need your help!!!!. ... (45 words)

Is there any way I could gain his friendship back if hes feeling awkward?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - We were good friends in college, we were very comfortable with each other. We used to jokingly talk about making out and stuff. He was in a relationship and broke off a year back. Since then he said he is not ready for a relationship. I do not like him either, it's just one ... (189 words)

Is that what squirting's really like?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I have read on this site about the whole 'squirting' business with women and sex but I decided to do some research which lead me to look at porn. (I know some people dislike porn for certain reasons etc. but I would like to point out my reason for this was not for pleasure ... (239 words)

Don't know what she's thinking...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

19 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I've got this female friend who lives in another city and who I'm starting to get feelings for. We recently agreed I should visit her. She seemed really keen on it, saying how nice it would be to see me, how I should get there, asking when am I coming and things like that (as ... (242 words)

How do I know if he is depressed or if it is part of his character? How can I help if he is depressed? What is this like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - What is it like for males who are suffering depression? I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 8 months and he has been showing signs of depression for the past four or five. I am struggling to determine whether these are true signs of depression or if they are true signs ... (111 words)

Is it morally wrong that part of my attraction to him is the lifestyle he can provide me with?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - A few months ago met a man who seems to be very attracted to me.. And I'm considering dating him. The problem is that I have trouble believing that he is really interested in me. He is a partner in an oil trading company, rich, good-looking, and young. He seems like a really ... (200 words)

Friendship - Am I overreacting here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - This is not love question, but friendship. I have a new friend that I know now for 8 months. We met at Italian class, and started friendship right away. We have very different personalities. She is very outgoing, very hyper, talkative. I am on the other hand quiet, won't talk ... (499 words)

I feel like I am being asked to wait too long for something I want NOW! Should I tell him I'm not waiting any longer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am involved in a frustratingly undefined relationship with a man who is in the process of leaving his girlfriend. She gave birth to his son 5 months ago, but they have only been together 17 months in total... She doesn't believe in abortion. In short, we are waiting until sh... (218 words)

Remedies for the development of hips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello friends, my boyfriend always conplaining about my hips. I dn't have hips what can i do to have it. It has become a nagging issue between us and he loves me, i love him too. I need the remedy for the development of hips. I need your answer urgent before i lose my boyfrien... (66 words)

We broke up also because I was needy, now we are building friendship, could this develop into a relationship... again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5637 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I rushed into another relationship shortly after ending a 10 year relationship with another man. The new guy had also recently ended a long term relationship and he realised that we had rushed into something that was too much too soon for him so he called it a day. I was ... (264 words)

Questions about nudity and periods.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

19 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, I have a lot to ask about, so please have patience with me. Thanks. Okay, well first off, I've been trying to know as much about my period as I can. And I know I've only had it for a year and that my body's still adjusting, but is it normal to have your period twice in ... (421 words)

My boyfriend says I'm not as tight since giving birth and doesn't want to have sex with me as much as it used to be!...

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19 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - since i had my son a year and a half ago my boyfriend doesnt want to have sex with me as much as he says im not as tight down there as i used to be. i dont no what to do but he says there is no point having sex any more as he cant feel me ne way im so embarrassed ... (87 words)

Why is he so angry at me?

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19 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I would really like some advice on this please if you wouldnt mind ! :) I met this lad at a party and we really hit it off. Then spoke through texts and on computer and we was getting along find until I found out he has a girlfriend! But he asked me to meet him and go cinema ... (152 words)

Why am I getting all these mixed emotions about who should be in jail?

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19 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so here's my issue: I was raped when I was 9-12 and then when I was 13 (2 different people) The first one is my cousin, and I never pressed charges, and the second is an acquaintance. My problem is, when the second guy got charges pressed on him, I felt like I was coerced ... (236 words)

My long-distance girlfriend broke up with me, I realise I made mistakes but I miss her badly, should I contact or visit her on her birthday??

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19 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone, I am in a long distance relationship. She live sin Russia and We have been together for 2 years now. We really shared best moments and we really loved eachother. However, now taht it was time to make decisions about the future of our relationship, my... (267 words)

We love each other but he is always suspicious of me which I don't deserve!...

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19 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everybody, i have a boyfriend and i love him so much and i dn't mess around, he loves me too. he was even the one that broke my virginity. One problem i have about him is that he's always suspicious of me. which i don't deserve, he said that i am having another guy. ... (72 words)

How do I found out why we are having these problems?

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19 November 2008 (M)

age - i have finally found a woman that i truely trust, respect, admire, care about, and love. we have only been in a relationship for two months and we are having trust and sexual difficulties already. is this normal? is this repairable? how do i found out why we are having these ... (52 words)

Do I dump him as my best friend still has feelings for him? (He's her ex)

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19 November 2008 (F)

age - So recently I began going out with my best friend's ex-boyfriend (lets call him John). They broke up about three weeks ago, and John told me that he liked me and I liked him back, so he asked me to be his girlfriend. Before I said yes, I went to my best friend to ask her how ... (208 words)

I find it really hard to form relationships with girls!

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19 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 17 and have recently moved 6th forms, I find it really hard to form relationships with girls; I had one good female friend at my old school but that was it. I have moved to my boyfriend's school as my best friend moved away, and I can't gather up the courage to hang around ... (191 words)

Could she be cheating on me with this guy?

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19 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi.Im 15 years old and in love with a girl,and she claims to be in love with me.For the record,no,Im not COMPLETELY ignorant and I do understand the complications of being "in love" at the age of 15. Me and my girlfriend see eachother about once every two weeks,and we've be... (340 words)

A complicated best friendship. Got myself into quite a pickle here!

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19 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I’ve been best friends with a girl for several years now, but recently I moved away to university and have found that she is what I miss most from home. We had always been close from the beginning of our relationship; I had helped her through a difficult time at school ... (778 words)

Should I break my virginity or keep it?

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19 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone I really want the answer to this question. I am 25 years old, and am still a virgin. Should I go on to keep the virginity? Or should I break it? Your answer will be valued. ... (39 words)

Broke up with my boyfriend and now my best friend is seeing him!

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19 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - My ex (we were on/off for almost a year) broke up with me almost 2 weeks ago and he re-asked me out about 1 week ago, I said to wait a week to see how we feel being single and we did, so he asked me again on saturday and we decided to stay single in the end. little do I know my ... (392 words)

He's telling me I'm hopeless in the bedroom!!!!

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19 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has a very high sex drive, and is now saying I have to improve our sex life or he will end the relationship. (basically he told me he doesn't enjoy having sex with me.. I need to get into it more and seem like I'm enjoying it) I would do anything to save our ... (76 words)

He gets annoyed because I'm quite shy and don't talk much to his friends.

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19 November 2008 (F)

- I'm 19 years old and my boyfriend always gets so mad and angry at me when we go out with his friends because I don't talk much. I told him I'm really shy when I first meet people and it takes some time for me to be comfortable with people. He should understand this as I was shy ... (323 words)

Is he looking for sympathy or what?

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19 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - After my boyfriend showed no interest to me lately I decided to give him some space. I assumed that, he needed it because he didn't call me for about a week but all of a sudden he calls me 24/7 and wants to come and see me but I am not in the mood for him and I think I am ... (92 words)

To call or not to call???

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19 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Met a guy back in the summer who was in early stages of divorce. Saw each other for a while, pressure from all angles got to him and contact between us ceased. I emailed him about 6 weeks later and our friendship restarted. Been seeing each other every weekend for 6 weeks ... (192 words)

Do you think I'm cut out to be her boyfriend?

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19 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Just wondering if I have anything to worry about here, I don't think I do. I've started a thing with a girl and things are going great, but I can't help but to feel a bit selfconscious. You see, I'm a somewhat out of shape white guy, and all of her past relationships ha... (127 words)

Does he have a trust problem?

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19 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I am in a bit of a dilemma with my hubby, we got married a few months back and I could not be happier. The only thing that worries me is that he does not trust me so I feel anyway. He loves me too I know it but I feel like whatever kind of signals I give off it deters m... (606 words)

What should I do to get my wife interested in sex again?

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19 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have known my wife for the 8 years and we have been married for 3. We have two beautiful boys aged 4 and 2. Ever since the birth of the second child, our sex life has gone down hill. If I don't ask for sex she will never give, and when I do ask it feels as if I am forcing ... (158 words)

Why did my cousin call me and turn on me the way she did?

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19 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - One day out of the blue my own cousin text my cell phone saying negative things to me. She said things that didn't make any sense, she was trying to argue with me over a boy I don't even like and if I did like him he stays right across the street from my house but anyways she ... (201 words)

Why is he acting like my boyfriend again when I know he doesn't want to be?

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19 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex came over and we watched tv for an hour and cuddled on the bed. We broke up over a month ago because he had commitment issues but he insisted that we still remain friends. When we were cuddling he told me how much he missed me and he started kissing me on the cheek. I ... (145 words)

Should I date my ex-friend's ex-husband?

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19 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I was reasonably good friends with a girl for almost 10 years until almost 6 months ago when she tried to cause trouble between myself and a guy that I had started seeing. Her and her husband have broken up in the meantime and he has been showing a lot of interest in me. I a... (166 words)

How do I make sure the pregnancy test is accurate?

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19 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Questions. Do I really have to wait until my period is due and missed before taking a pregnancy test. I think I may be pregnant and my cycle has just finished so do I really have to wait a whole month before testing or can I just wait a week or so from conception. I... (105 words)

My boyfriend, his online dating voyeurism, My problem...Can you help?

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19 November 2008 (F)

age - I would like advice. I probably should note that it looks a little long compared to the other Dear Cupid's but a little background is necessary. I have been dating a man I met online for 3 months - he's a great guy. We are in a real relationship. We spend alot of time ... (445 words)

Will it ever happen for me?

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19 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so, I've never had a boyfriend. I have guys who are friends, personally they are easier to get along with than guys, but i've never actually had a relationship. I can always seem to be friends with guys, but nothing beyond that. I'm about 6 foot tall, bright blue eyes, and ... (79 words)

Am I seeing something that is not there?

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19 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - For the past few months I have been feeling confused, my husband and I seperated about four and a half years ago, and reconciliated about three years ago. The time we were not together I was faithful but he wasn't, it is very hard at times to have the same feeling I had for ... (282 words)

Are all redheads bad tempered?

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19 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Are red heads really tempered?? Cause my bf has red hair and oh man he has the "temeper of a red head. Haha he is one like one time he was drinking and he didnnt get something that he wanted on the game so he sqeezzed my leg dropped the guitar. Likeee seriously. My wuestion... (63 words)

Am I fooling myself in thinking that it might actually work?

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19 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - After reading the "Married Man/Single Woman Syndrome" article by Older Sister, I have a question that might throw your theory on its side... I have been dating a man for 10 months now. During a chance encounter, we had some chemistry between us that led to us exchanging em... (745 words)

Is it simply bad luck - or something else?

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19 November 2008 (F) age - My life is full of tragedies. Illness, divorce, financial crises, betrayal, losing home, losing job, and losing loved ones. Not any of my plans ever goes ,where I want it. I'm trying ,but no success. Yet I see , everybody around me,having a pretty normal life. What could be... (73 words)

If a girl is raped, her first time, will it always affect her?

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19 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - if a girl gets raped her first time will it bother her her whole life?will she ever be happy?wil she be able to live happily?will it be terror for her life?or will she be alright afterwards... (36 words)

I am a 29 year old virgin, and I need advice as to how I relax on my wedding night, he is a virgin as well?

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19 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm getting married in 2 weeks! I'm a virgin and 29 years old. Bf is also a virgin. We have already done loads of foreplay but i get nervous thinking about our first penetrative sex. I'm finding it difficult to relax. Bf seem very confident about the whole thing but i'm not. ... (68 words)

We broke up and she wants me to move on, I love her and don't want to, should I try to talk to her?

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19 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - my ex and i broke up about 4 months ago. for the first three months after our break up i tried hard (almost desperately) to get back with her. i know it was a mistake to not give her some space but i was scared i would lose her and my emotions get the best of me. i felt i had ... (304 words)

I need help getting over this guy, what do I do?

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19 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i need advice badly! So i have a really big crush, on someone that is off limits, and i need to get over it! i'm driving myself crazy! at night i think about him, when i'm getting ready for skewl i think about him, i think about him a lot!! I just really need advice on how t... (124 words)

I need advice regarding climaxing, can anyone help me?

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19 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i just can't seem to cum,how do i?... (8 words)

Does he do these things because he is interested in me, or what, should I be more aggressive?

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19 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Is he interested in me? About 3 weeks ago, I went to dinner and Halloween scare with a new group of friends. There is this guy there that I am interested in(we'll call him TT). During the Halloween Scare, he was super accomdating. For examples: (1) we were standing in a li... (481 words)

I am not sure he likes me, what do you think?

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19 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - im unsure what to do about this guy i like... He is my same age and i really like him but i cant tell if he is gay. He hasnt had a girlfriend before but he seems straight... But lately he has started being really nice and funny. And he stretches sometimes and his shirt rides up ... (105 words)

I'm scared of what's going to happen when I go into labour!

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19 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm about 8 months pregnant and I'm starting to get scared of whats going to happen when I go into labour. I'm only 15 and this is my first baby, I'm not sure if I will make a good parent and I'm kinda on my own. I live with my parents and my dad doesn't want to help but my ... (141 words)

Ladies: Would you wear a ring on your left ring finger if you're single?

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19 November 2008 (M)

- This question is for the ladies. Oh man :)... crushes really are unavoidable aren't they? It's a like a slow motion car crash and it just keeps building every time you see her and there's nothing you can do about it. So she's got what looks like a wedding band (no engagem... (144 words)

Should a girl talk to a guy and if so, what should I say?

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19 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey! ok so, i know im too old to be asking this but here i am, thinking about it. i feel like a school girl. theres this guy at college, we have conversations with our eyes, everyone around me can see it, i.e my friends. its the feeling nervous and excited feeling when hes arou... (122 words)

With someone new but still have feelings for my baby's father.

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19 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well see I'm just about 8 months pregnant and I'm not with the father. I have a new bf but I know it's been about 8 months I havent been with the father. I still have strong feelings for him. I'm not sure what to do. My bf hates my baby's father and I know I shouldn't but I ... (262 words)

I feel totally judged by others when I'm in public places.

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19 November 2008 (F) age 51-59 - I have a weird problem, maybe someone can help me out here. I feel totally judged by others, when I'm in public places. I don't know if it's true or I just imagine this. It's really hard to tell. I feel everybody looking at me really mean, and looks up and down, on me. Now... (195 words)

Because of our age difference he won't date me, but I'm so into him!

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19 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so i like this guy who's 18 and im a 15 yr old female. i have such strong feelings for him we've met and have hung out and text 24/7 non stop and we know each other and have good times, when were together. i love this boy alot and when i told him i liked him he said he ... (136 words)

We didn't have sex but I'm freaking out that I could be pregnant!

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19 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Soo my friend came over for the nite while my parents were away for the nite and spent the nite. And we cuddled and then started fooling around and he tried intercourse(didnt work) but we didnt have sex he fingered me and i grinded on top of him and he gave me oral.. I'm ... (71 words)

If I have a baby with my cousin, will the baby be healthy?

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19 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a boyfriend and hes my cousin. i want to have a baby with him but my question is if the baby is going to come out healthy?... (29 words)

I really want to kiss him but he would think it's weird, what do I do?

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19 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, here it goes. ive recently started dating a guy, we were friends first.. we hang out almost every day, and lately every time we're together, i just wanna touch him and kiss him (we havent kissed yet) but i know he would consider it inappropriate or weird... something like ... (80 words)

Is enough enough or do I have another shot with my ex?

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19 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey there, in serious need of advice. I have been so stupid the only bloke I loved I have pushed further and further away with my stupid behaviour. We broke up just over a year ago, and I have texted him near enough non-stop in a friendly way. Like asking if hes ok? etc, but I ... (351 words)

Was this a summer fling or did she matter?

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19 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I cant seem to get over the idea i meant nothing! Was this a summer fling or did she matter? A guy I had a bit of a past Im starting to think is a player. After he ignored me over summer, he started off liking one girl at work who he texted constantly, wrote love l... (247 words)