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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What do you do when your best friend goes after the guy you secretly love?

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8 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright me and my best friend almost always agree on everything. And me i've been single for like 3 months now. (not complaining mind you) but she's only been single for 2 days. And she's succesfully it on every guy i've ever liked. Recently my friend told me that he's leaving ... (130 words)

Please help I feel like my husband is cheating

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

8 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My question is my husband has been going out a lot lately and one night he was out till 430am in the morning he had to go to work so might as well say he spent the night somewhere his story does not match up, but i found a text message in his phone that said" so you don't want ... (102 words)

A friend in Need

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8 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi my friend is in love with a girl he met online. he never seen her in his life b4 only the pictures. They text and ring each other sometimes but she has a boyfriend. Some people think shes leading him on and he gets upset when he hears this or when he sees pictures of them ... (75 words)

How will I tell her how I truly feel about her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

8 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so I really, really, REALLY like this girl I work with! We get on really well with each other and shes has come to me on occasions for reassurance. Tomorrow I want to finally tell her how I feel about her. I plan on asking to talk to her after work and then telling her my ... (158 words)

How to get my wife to tell me the real truth about an affair?

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8 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Are there any special words that I can tell my woman to get the truth out of her? Possibly, something that I can say that will touch her in a way(emotionally) that she will finaly come clean? I have a strong sense that my wife has had sex. I found out that she was interested ... (497 words)

I'm afraid that he doesn't love me or if he doesn't want us to be soulmates.

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8 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a teenage girl who enjoys languages. I've been taking Spanish courses since Mid-September. I really love this course. In october there was a new student, who's about my age. He looks at me sometimes, he smiles and then I smile. He's very shy... Usually I'm the kind of girl ... (253 words)

What type of guy asks this so early on?

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8 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - A guy that I see at my job occasionally asked me out a few months ago and at the time I was seeing someone else so I wasn't that interested but he's a really nice guy so I explained my situation and we still talked occasionally through texts and online or when I saw him at ... (180 words)

The baby daughter I never knew about...

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8 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I just found out my boyfriend of 4 years cheated on me in the begining of our relationship with his child's mother. Not only that, she got pregnant and he has a daughter that me and his family knew nothing about. He has kept it a secret all this time because he knew I would ... (325 words)

The snip with the man!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

8 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi there I am just emailing you to ask my hubby had the snip about 1 and a half years ago but can you still get pregnant? If you could email me back just so I know, thank you ... (40 words)

Well, this is a new one!

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8 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I had given my number to a girl I met at a Halloween party, and on that night, we seemed to really enjoy each other's company. A few days later, I get a call from a number I'm not familiar with, and when I answer, I get a *click*. So I call the number back and a girl's voice ... (280 words)

...he has taken money from my bank without asking and completely abusing my trust.

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8 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - ok here goes, 21 years ago I met and fell in love with the most gorgeous man on the planet, after 3 happy years I fell pregnant and was promptly abandoned! He has no contact with our son until a month ago when we met up again only to discover all the same feelings of love were ... (252 words)

I don't want to see him any more but how do I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5633 days ago

8 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been seeing each other for the past 7 months, and they've been great, with a lot of happy times, but i feel its come to the point where i don't want to see him anymore, i don't feel like i want to talk him, text him or see him. I'm at university just ... (165 words)

I'm in a long distance relationship and my boyfriend said he fell in love with someone else...

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8 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - First of all, thanks to everyone who is participating on this forum. It is very helpful. The disclosure of my long distance bf has had me in a state of utter misery and confusion. I met my boyfriend a year and a half ago in Japan. We only spent three days together but I ... (299 words)

I'm scared and hurt after having been cheated on, I'm worried I won't be able to go back to who I was!

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8 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Just got out of a 18 month relationship and feel like shit. I was cheated on for 3 months by my 'girl', and we ended it, but for some reason its been about a month and I still have feelings for her. What do I do to get her out of my mind and stop feeling as lonely as I do? ... (309 words)

We've been having a tense relationship, any way to make him stay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

8 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has recently been really ill and me being me i am really clumsy. we were play fighting when he was tickiling me i would wave my hands about and it hit him and he was hurt due to his illness. He went in a really bad mood, which i understand about, and he then told ... (241 words)

I'm 40 and the ageing is upsetting me too much! Why does it hurt?

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8 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I am heading towards 40 in that slippery slope of time. I work hard and have 2 beautiful children. I watch in the mirror as each day seems to bring more wrinkles and the reality that I will never look really good again. Today my son (6y old) saw my photo in my passport take... (302 words)

Should I really stay if sex is gone - for no apparent reason? We're only in our 40's.

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8 November 2008 (F) age - My husband lost his sexual desire,several years ago.. We don't know why he says he loves me. Its been more than 4 years now. He is healthy otherwise. He says he loves me and he has no idea why is that. . But i don't know what to do? Should I believe him? or Should I just go?... (128 words)

Could he have raped me and not remember?...

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8 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Can a man rape a woman and not remember? A relative of mine was super drunk with me on a holiday. He wanted to show me how to drink for real. But when my other relative fell asleep in the other room. I felt something wet on my lips. It was his lips. I couldn't open my eyes ... (300 words)

I started an affair and the sex is great! But it's affecting me as I love my hubby! Help.

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8 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - THis is probably a story that so many have told. I am 33 married to a wonderful man for 14 years now we have 4 kids together we love our kids and I do love him. Here is the terrible problem I started an affair about 2 years ago and I'm addicted to the sex with the sex with this... (111 words)

I need to get girls from talking to the bed.

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8 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - LADIES!!!! I have a problem when it comes to getting intimate. So a couple nights ago I was studying at this girl's dorm and she was just asking for it, her shirt was low, she had this tight gymnastic (I guess) pants on... anyway she was smoking. She was on her bed and I was ... (94 words)

Am I the cat who wants too much cream?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5646 days ago

8 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello! Bit of a dilemma. I was going out with this guy from work when all of a sudden another (better looking and sexier) guy (who did not know about the first guy) asked me out. I did not give him a reason for turning him down. A few months later there was a department ... (171 words)

Would he think I am "easy" if we were to have sex right away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

8 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Calling all men.... I have recently got back it touch with an old friend. We used to have a 'thing' for each other but it never really went anywhere. We are now several years on and well things are moving really fast... but in the virtual world... The shyness and innocence of... (106 words)

Am I expecting too much wanting my best friend to stick up for me?

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8 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Quick question for you: Am I expecting too much in that I want my best friend to stick up for me? I'll explain a bit more. At school we are in a group of 7, but of that seven me and this girl both agree we are best friends, however one girl in the group hates me and is always... (249 words)

Does it seem like we'd make a cute couple?

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8 November 2008 (?) age 30-35 - hey. my problem involves me and my friend nathan. i'll tell you now it's a very long story. me and him are in our high school band together but i'm a freshman and he's a eighth grader. well anyway yesterday, we had an away game and i sat by him on the bus. well, me and him ... (315 words)

My virginity is getting in the way!

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8 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 26 years old and still a virgin. I'm not saving it for any reason, it just hasn't happened (which is weird I know). I really want to have a healthy sex life at my age. I'm still single, and not really concerned about being in a relationship, so I'm not too wild about ... (111 words)

He always talks about bondage and stuff, how can I get him to do it to me in our sex life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

8 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have a great sex life, we try a lot of positions and have a lot of fun. I'm into bondage very much, and he's always talking about it during sex, what he'd like to do to me and all but he never accually wants to do it, how can I get him to try it?... (59 words)

Why would a married guy say everything is very good with family and yet flirts and hits on you?

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8 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - If he's married and says he's good with family, and then starts talking softly and says that it's nice to hear from you, he wants to be more in contact with you. I mean I can believe that in a ladies man, but in a guy who people say he's not like that. Well, at least this gu... (129 words)

He's lied before, should I trust him now?

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8 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for about a year now. This winter he is going home. We literally live a world away and in two different continents. He is going home for a month and I am going home for a month. I am afraid he in not trustworthy. I am scared of how he ... (260 words)

She told me she wants to date other men as well as being with me.

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8 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been dating this woman for only 3 weeks, but in that time we have spent a lot of time with each other. She seems to be really into me as I am to her but she told me she also wants to date other men. I am newly divorced and have not been in a "dating" relationship in a ... (182 words)

I love him but there are still so many problems in our relationship.

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8 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been going out with this guy for about a year now. In the beginning things were good but weird. He was cheating on his girlfriend (at the time) with me. He did not tell me openly at first and we had already done "it". We continued to have sex for 2 months until he ... (398 words)

Do men like to be chased?

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8 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Do men like to be chased? Myself and this guy at work got on well - I was madly falling for him and kept smiling at him so he would know I felt! - Eventually I gave him my number (so in effect did all the chasing). However, since then he has only called when he wants som... (99 words)

Why won't he show me where he lives?

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8 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - AM I HARD ON HIM I am 25 years old and I have been dating a 30 year olg guy for five months. The problem is that he doesn't want to show me where he lives. He knows where I live and he visits me every day. I feel like he is hiding something from me although he has denied i... (86 words)

I made out with my friend's boyfriend, what should I do?

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8 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - sorry its kinda long! One of my friends is dating one of the popular football players. They have been dating for eight weeks and tey have only made out once. and that was just recently. SO anyways......I went to the park wiht a couple of my friends and Casey wasn't the... (256 words)

This past week I keep having a recurring dream of being raped.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

8 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, For the past week I've been having a dream where I'm being raped; this guy who seems stalks me (in reality) comes up to me (in my dream) knocks me out and puts me into his car, when I wake up I'm on a beach which is surrounded by cliffs, I'm stripped, gagged and my hands ar... (141 words)

Fighting isolation

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

8 November 2008 (M)

age - I work from home and my company has gone virtual. Married but long for hellos during the work day, and almost find myself curiously attracted to telemarketers. Participate in things outside home but the work time is getting tough. DR... (40 words)

Would just being friends really work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

8 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Would just being friends really work? I have a friend form work that I have been flirting around with for a while. People are always asking about us and telling me what a great girl she is, but she always seems to back track when ever we seem to be getting anywhere. Finally ... (354 words)

Is my 10 plus year relationship coming to an end?

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8 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I have lots of good in my life – a person who loves me, a loving family, a job that I mainly enjoy. But there is something missing. Passion, desire, the excitement of life – I only realised how much these things were missing from my life recently, and how much I miss them... (743 words)

Help Need advice ASAP !!!!!

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8 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been friends with this boy for about 2 years now and in those 2 years we have been out once but he said he wasnt ready for a relationship so he ended it. it really broke my heart as we went out for about 9 months and i really loved him and he said he loved me but after ... (331 words)

Have I been raped?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

8 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - (sorry that it's so long) a couple of months ago i got drunk coz my 'friend' spiked my drinks and that night i was sleeping round her friends(John*) house he is about 22-23 he takes drugs n was waiting to go to court for grh(grevious bodily harm) his friend(tom*)who is about 18 ... (252 words)

I'm having a problem satisfying my wife. Advice ?

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8 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - hello all solve my problem I'm a man and i think that i can not sataisfy my wife and my stay time is about 7 to 10 minute my wife not orgasm within this period why? please let me answers i m waiting... (47 words)

How do I stop my Husband's Insecuity ?

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8 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My Husband and I have been together for 6 years, married under 3 years. I was 18 when we met and finishing college. My Husband was in his mid-thirties and left his long time professional career for a job as a firefighter which made him much happier. We married after my first ... (316 words)

She thinks I cheated but I didn't. How do I get her back ?

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8 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - ok everyone well my girlfriend just broke up with me because she thought i was cheating on her when i was like rubbing on another girl but i realy wasn't i was just playing around with a friend but im desperate to have her back. i would do just about anything i would even say i ... (67 words)

Should I tell her or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

8 November 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - i've been madly in love for this girl for a lot of time. and i guess she feels just a bit attracted for me. but i suffer from an early case of borderline personality disorder. it makes me a very problematic person. but i care so much about her that i'm not sure if i should tell ... (64 words)

Am I being a fool to stay with him ?

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8 November 2008 (F)

age - i have been with my bf for 3years.he was married for 15yrs. divorced 2yrs. he has no children, but had a horrible marriage. he told me it started the day of their wedding and they ended up coming home early from there honeymoon ( which was in hawaii, unreal , right) he told me ... (125 words)

Am I over-reacting? Should I forgive and forget?

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8 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I just recently got married. Less than 6 months. My husband and I are saving to buy a house. So in the meantime, we are trying to save money and are living with his parents. It's not the worst of things but sometimes I feel trapped in "his life", not "ours". We hardly ever ... (243 words)

He asked me out, I said no. How do I tell him I am now interested ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5646 days ago

8 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - 4 Months ago this guy asked me to go out with him and I said no, and its been on my mind ever since. Problem is how do I tell him that I want to go out with him. I cant get him out of my mind and dont know how to approach him. he is 45 and im 27 please help.... (62 words)

I Can't concentrate on my studies an am much disturbed.plzzzzzzz help!!!

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8 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a silly girl of 23. I have tried my level to run a smooth relation with my boyfriend. Well it is a long story. We met by a wrong call. He just dialed my number and asked me to be his friend. At first I refused but then after his continuous calls I accepted. We were just ... (429 words)

He likes looking at pornographic pictures of women with VERY large breasts. I have small breasts. Do I put up with this or move on ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

8 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I'm writing in because my boyfriend has a porn addiction. He's been trying to break the addiction for almost 6 months but he hasn't done well. He's trying, but keeps slipping back into the habit. I'm trying to be supportive of his recovery and I've asked him to be ... (522 words)

Advice on calmly bringing up a problem with boyfriend?

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8 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My problem is that my boyfriend doesn't reply to texts if he's out having a good time. When he goes away for a weekend or just a night with friends/work he won't bother to text me back if I text him for example asking if his gig went well. This upsets me because it makes me... (158 words)

How do I know its going to work now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

8 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello I have been in a 5 year relationship with a man, things have been great, we have had our ups and downs like most couples. i feel like this person is my soul mate, and he has told me that his love for me is deep too. we recently came back off holiday together, and he... (186 words)

I'm bored and alone, any advice for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

8 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i am so depressed and lonely.my life revolves around my work and studies. every time i get an oppertunity to go out i have to choose between my obligation towords my work and books or to have some fun. i dont want to die bored and alone. please help.... (49 words)

I broke up with my boyfriend of two and a half years last October. I found out that he'd been lying to me the whole time and cheated with lots of different women. Now he calls me all the time. Help !

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5646 days ago

8 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I really am just heartbroken right now and have noone else to talk to about this. I broke up with my boyfriend of two and a half years last October. I found out that he'd been lying to me the whole time and cheated with lots of different women. This last one ye... (269 words)

Boyfriend dictating having a break caught me unawares… Should I trust his reasons and wait for him or protect myself and try to have some fun on the side?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

8 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am so confused and need help. My long term boyfriend has asked for a break recently. We have been fighting because of being frustrated with life issues ( we work opposite shitfs, we don't get to see each other that much, he still lives in at his mum although we are renting a ... (702 words)

Does he want to go out with me or just be my tennis coach?

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8 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i hung out with this guy alot in first semester in college. We kinda knew we liked each other but we're just to shy to make a move or show it. Eversince we got back from christmas break it's been different. I don't even know why. It's been almost a year already and i'm ... (162 words)

Should I let her go?

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8 November 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Hi my name is joe. am still in collage but i have this girl that, i always go out with and buys her launch and last time we all went to a school party and i askeed her for a dance she said no, but she was dancing with other guys ealier plz what should i tell her.but i still ... (73 words)

Why do people settle for second best in office romance situations?

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8 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - ...so frustrating. I'm single. I've just found out that this woman at work I've fancied for years is having a ding-dong with a guy who sits virtually right next to her. I'm the other side of the building. Why do people settle for second best / the easy option? Clearly I think ... (224 words)

Two miscarriages in two months, will I be able to have kids in the future?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

8 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! The majority of anyone who reads this will more than likely think that this is crazy and that I should be happy. I'm 19 years old and live with my boyfriend we have been together for quite some time but we are still young. Just a few days ago, literally about three days, I ... (258 words)

Should I insist on him calling me once in awhile?

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8 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I live in Guam and my boyfriend lives in Hawaii, but in 4 months he will be out here again for work. We plan on moving together and eventually marrying. In the mean time our only mode of communication is chat email while he is at work or calling him on his cell phone, but only ... (250 words)

He wants to watch me having sex with another man! What does this say about him??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

8 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend wants to watch me have sex with another man. This is disgusting. Of course I won't do it. The question is, what does this indicate about a man's character, or even, future? [Added from the same user] Does my boyfriend's obsession for anal sex which I won't gi... (62 words)

How do you get on with a liar?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

8 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - HE LIES ABOUT EVERYTHING! EVERYTHING! He lies about his feelings, where he has been, how many drinks he's had, what he does on the computer, if he has a crush on a girl, if he macked chicks at a party, what he really wants, how he feels about me, himself, he lies about ... (93 words)

How do I tell him I have hepatitis?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

8 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - what is the best way to tell my boyfriend of seven months i have hep c? we are both virgins...no drugs etc. ... (22 words)

I want to tell her how I feel but should I tell her now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5644 days ago

8 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been hanging out with her about 5 months now. For the last 6 weeks i have been renting a room from her. I am 28 she is 35. We have become very good friens over the last 6 weeks but im falling head over in Love with her. She tells me (when we are joking) that she wants ... (185 words)

How do I convince my older girlfriend that age does not matter?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

8 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 19 year old guy who has been dating a 27 year old girl for 8 months. She has recently been concerned about the age difference because she believes we are in different parts of our lives even though we have talked about or future and agree on everything. As far as I know ... (365 words)

I'm annoyed that my friends seem to prefer my brother! What can I do to change this?

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8 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm 15 years old and I have great friends, but one thing that really annoys me is that i always get the feeling that they prefer hanging around with my brother who is 17 than they do me. Like me and 2 other friends have a little get together a few times a week at one of ... (115 words)

My LD lover of 6 years doesn't have time for me and our daughter!

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8 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i am involved with a guy for the past 6 years, we have a 2 year old daughter, we live apart in differant towns, he is always telling me he is very busy and has no time for us we see each other once every month. is there reason he is having an affair. ... (54 words)

Is it me or the other girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

8 November 2008 (?) age 26-29 - I have a slight problem.... Some reason, i get along with guys more often then other women. Im not a huge fan of attention; i hate being babied when im hurt. Im not trying to cause a problem or anything, i mean i would be talking to a guy then along comes one of his girl ... (91 words)

My wife is a very attractive woman but I can't stand her!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

8 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I have been married for 4 years. We have two boys, one is 4 and the other is 2. My wife and I have fallen apart, we literally sit at the dinner table and all you can hear is the silverware hitting the plates, anyways my real problem is that I am only attracted to my wife ... (185 words)

Good and bad news and 3 problems.

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8 November 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - My girl friend is no longer going to a new school but the bad news is that i found out due to a good friend that she does not like kissing me because i had chaped lips for like 2 or 3 days i now use chap stick daily that is only one problem there are 2 others another problem is ... (130 words)

How can someone change their outlook on life so quickly...?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

8 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - 9 months ago my boyfriend of a year and a half broke up with me. We lived together for the 2nd half of our relationship. While we were together he told me that marriage scared him; he would need to know someone for a very long time (and live with them) before he could ever get ... (208 words)

I just kicked my boyfriend out of the house for trying to choke me!

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8 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Confused, just kicked my boyfriend of 3 years out my house cuz he tried choking me 2x's with my kids in the house. I know he loves me cuz he tells me but why should I want this man back in my life being that he has a short temper, violent and I have two boys 14 and 7 who never ... (89 words)

My father is the most annoying person I ever met!

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8 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, my father is the most annoying person I ever met, he wants to know why I have a piercing in my ear, according to him only homosexuals have it there, am I wrong for telling him he has to learn how to be a better father instead of worring of what's not important or shall I ... (66 words)

Earlier today he asked me if him and one of his friends could..."play" with me

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8 November 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend asked me to dress in something sexy before we..."play".....but other then langerie what else is there? Earlier today he asked me if him and one of his friends could..."play" with me....um..what do I say? I wouldnt really mind it... but then again I don't really ... (51 words)

My mom wants to talk to my "online friend/boyfriend" -- what do I do?

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8 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - When I lived in a different state, this guy and I met online. I was 17 and he was 19. The relationship--should it become physical (and it did)--was ENTIRELY legal as the age of consent there was 16. He went to U of M and ended up driving to my town one day so that we could... (679 words)

Is there any chance that he MIGHT actually like me and not JUST want sex?

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8 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Sorry so long! I met this guy back in April. He's 24, I'm 20. He was my manager at the clothing store I worked at. Long story short, we became friends (we had a ton in common) and we always hung out/talked, etc, at the store, but never outside because managers weren't... (726 words)

In his cupboard I found butt plugs, a mouth gag, huge dildos, handcuffs, double penetration toys and other things...

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8 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend has a cupboard in his bedroom which he locked. In it I found butt plugs, a mouth gag, huge dildos, handcuffs, double penetration toys and other things I can't even put a name too. I haven't said anything to him, but it's put me right off him sexually. He pesters me ... (106 words)

How to seduce a guy I like at work by sending him anonymous email as a start.

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8 November 2008 (F)

age - Hello, everyone - I'm interested in knowing, especially from you guys out there (gals may know too), how to seduce a guy I like at work by sending him anonymous email as a start. I'm trying to break a 6-month syndrome of flirting and other non-verbal communication that's been ... (121 words)

I'm scared to have a boyfriend because the doctors don't know what's wrong with me.

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8 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - this is sort of complicated.. i bet its a new question.. anyways. im 14 and i have VERY bad stomach problems. ive had a colonoscopy to get checked for colon cancer.. and they found a polyp but thats besides the point. they cant find whats wrong with me so i have no way of ... (160 words)

I don't know how to date any more.

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8 November 2008 (F)

age - Ok, here I am once again needing your advice. I really like this guy I'm seeing, we've known each other for about 4 months and have been dating about 2 months now and I really want to tell him how I feel but am scared that he will run to the highest mountain. It may not be ... (314 words)

Men and Commitment

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8 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - What is it about commitment that some men fear? I'm just trying to understand, because the guy I was with had commitment issues, and wouldn't even try and talk or explain himself to me. Is it the increase in responsibility? Fear of getting attached and hurt? Can anyone help ... (56 words)

I've never had sex, but I'm not getting my period. Is this normal?

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8 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone. I am 14 and I got my first period in December. Most were on time but I haven't had a period in 4 months. Is this normal or should I be worried (I have no had any form of sex or sexual acts)?... (45 words)

She hates when I touch her, she hates flowers and candy... what can I do?

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8 November 2008 (?) age 41-50 - My girlfriend (of a year) hates it when I touched her breasts (she finds it disrespectful) or try and eat her out (she doesn't really like it). How can turn her on? She also doesn't like the traditional flowers and chocolate. She thinks its over done. Its mainly her ex bo... (80 words)

I dumped the love of my life and want him back more than anything!

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8 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so i dumped the love of my life. i love him so much and im the one that got hurt really bad. i cried for four hours straight, so for awhile i was with another guy and trying to get over him didnt work so i dumped that guy to go out with the love of my life. he said no and i ... (177 words)

I have a feeling he might be bisexual, but I'm not positive. Help!

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8 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello all, I have a friend , whos been married and been in relationships with other women. being gay myself i think i have a hard time knowing exactly how a str8 acts with another guy friend. as i probably see into things that a str8 wouldn`t. We`ve been friends ... (432 words)