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If I kiss someone with herpes, is it possible for me to catch it?

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5 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - i know you are not doctors. im just asking for your opinions. if i kiss someone with oral herpes and their lips are dry and they have no outbreaks or sores or bumps and we don't do any tongue kissing. we basically do dry kissing. that lasts for a minute. is it still possible ... (69 words

How do I tell him I want us to be together

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5 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - well i have this ex boyfriend. and we went out for a week and i wasn't able to talk to him at all cause i was up north with my family and i didn't get a signal up there....we stopped talking for the longest time and now we are talking again he tells me i'm sexy and beautiful ... (204 words

My garndma is an attention seeker who is driving our family crazy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5647 days ago

5 November 2008 (M age 41-50 - OK. 80 year old grandmohter who is attention seeking but guilt tripping everyone in the family, along with countless trips to the doctors and hospitals, numerious test and they've found nothing. At one point its " ooo i feel like i'm dying.." we leave her house a... (300 words

In love with close friend, who has a girlfriend at the moment, what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

5 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Been really close friends with a boy for 4 months, He used to like me, but i told him i dont know how i felt. Lately started liking him SOOO much, went to tell him.. he got a girlfriend about 3 hours before i was going to tell him. I told him anyways. Hes like im so sorry do... (255 words

Does he just want someone to e-mail or are we ever going to meet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5648 days ago

5 November 2008 (F age - I've been emailing a guy from a dating site and don't really know whether we are ever going to meet. Do a lot of them just want someone to email? It has also set me thinking about whether I want to meet someone this way, and whether I want to be in a long-distance ... (64 words

Has anyone else experienced this problem of bleeding after giving birth?

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5 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I had a baby 5 weeks ago and after haveing my baby i bled for 1 week and a half but i had sex during this time and i stopped bleeding for a week and when i stopped bleeding i begun takeing the contreceptive pill and i have been bleeding ever since i no i cannot be pregnant ... (117 words

How can I stop having pre-ejaculate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

5 November 2008 (M age 36-40 - I have had this problem for almost a year now and never experienced anything like this before. With my girlfriend, everytime I get too excited or aroused I get many drips leaking from my penis. It's embarrassing but the worst part of it all is my ability to not have sex ... (172 words

I felt this bead type thing under my nipple, what is it?

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5 November 2008 (M age 26-29 - Hey, last night i was watching TV and felt this bead type thing under my nipple. Its really uncomfortable to touch and all day throughout school it was irritated. One of my friends says he has one and I heard that teens in puberty get them sometimes. I just want to know what ... (65 words

I'd hate to think after spending months working on our friendship to get it back to close to what it was it would be over now

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5637 days ago

5 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey I had a very loving relationship with my ex boyfriend, we split up over a year ago and things initially were very amicable, we split up cos of stress from work (he's never been good at talking about problems, I didn't realise what had been going on until we'd split up). ... (612 words

Rumors said he's breaking up with her for me..but it hasn't happened yet? What's going on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

5 November 2008 (F age 26-29 - I've had a crush on this guy for a while and there's rumors going around that he likes me back and he's gonna break up with his girlfriend for me but he hasn't and he hasn't said anything about the situation at all to me and nobody's brought it up when both of us are there. so ... (61 words

If it wasn't for her, he'd like me..I know it! What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

5 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I first saw this guy when I was walking through my college's club fair, he was standing by his clubs post and I knew from the second I saw him that he was special, I knew I had to speak with him, and know him. Sooo I was too shy to go up to him... and I found him on facebook ... (228 words

He's emotionally tired and can't give me anymore! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

5 November 2008 (F age - I've been dating a man for 5 years. It's been great. This past August he moved out. I was out of town for 4 months, when I got back he was gone. He tells me he's still attractive to me. He is seeing another woman. I don't understand. We get along so well. I saw him about 3 ... (139 words

Why won't my Mom let me go on the pill?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

5 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - the relationship between me and my mum is rapidly changing and i dont know what to do. me and my boyfriend of 6 months recently lost our virginities to each other, hes the best thing in the world, treats me like a princess and he and my mum do get along. mums boyfriend doesnt ... (205 words

Five months pregnant and just diagnosed with the herpes virus!

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5 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - I'm 5 months pregnant and I was just diagnosed with the herpes virus. I haven't had sex with anyone else in over two years. I asked my bf if he was with anyone and he confessed and said he received oral sex from someone three months prior to me getting pregnant. Could this ... (70 words

After all these years, should I ask him 'what he wants from me?'

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5648 days ago

5 November 2008 (F age 51-59 - Ok here is the scenerio. I met my ex-boyfriend "Brian" 1989 in college. we dated for a 6 months then, I went to his home in TX for the summer met his family. When school resumed we continued our relationship until the end of that semester (around Dec) At that time he was having ... (1608 words

I'm being bullied, does anyone know any good comebacks?

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5 November 2008 (F age 26-29 - okay, i am being verbally bullied. do you have any comebacks or insults???????????????????... (13 words

Why is he telling me about all these other women if he supposedly likes me?

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5 November 2008 (F age 51-59 - I met a man through an online dating site. (First time I've used one) and he is very christian which I like. He was emailing 4-5 times a day and finally we talked on the phone for about a week. Our conversations were 3-4 hours long, so we were getting to know each other. We ... (419 words

How can I stand out at the Shakespeare audition?

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5 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I know this isnt a dating question as such but I dont know where else to go ok so... On Friday im doing a audition to be in the play Twelfth Night. I m reading and extract from Olivia Act 1 Scene 5 lines 271-281, if anyone knows the play. My question is what can I do to reall... (278 words

I need a pep talk about how to handle this weekend.

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5 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hello, My boyfriend and I (I’m 27, he’s 26) broke up almost three weeks ago after being together for 11 months. We were supposed to move in together, but at the last minute we decided that it wasn’t a good idea because we’ve been having a lot of stupid fights lately. ... (243 words

Why am I breaking out after shaving below the belt?

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5 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Okay so this question is embarrassing...I've shaved my pubes for quite some time. I happen to think that hair is nasty. Anyways...I don't know why but like two days later I break out down there? And as soon as I start to grow more the pimples go away. I don't understand this at ... (81 words

Can someone explain so that I can understand where he's coming from?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

5 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend told me that he doesn't want to stop loving me because I'm so amazing but he just doesn't feel the same. He said it's tearing him apart because he doesn't know what to do. I don't understand how he can't choose whether or not to like me still. Can anyone help ... (63 words

Have I gotten myself into a distasterous situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

5 November 2008 (F age 51-59 - Okay so I am new here....and so confused.... So here's my situation...I married my childhood sweetheart after 20 years. It was a horrible disaster..long story. It ended badly, I totally lost myself in him, he was my every breath, and I thought of him every waking moment. ... (443 words

I wrote him a letter sking him out... did I do the right thing?

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5 November 2008 (? age 30-35 - Okay. I'm a high school freshman. I really like this sophomore at my school named Dillon. Dillon is a big man on campus. Well, I've liked Dillon since last year. I first saw Dillon last year at my church's youth group. Well, today I wrote Dillon a note asking him out. Did I do ... (66 words

Why do some guys only want girls for sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

5 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Do they not know that girls are PEOPLE and not THINGS? What causes them to be like this? Is it in their genes?... (23 words

Am I being too aggressive in this new relationship?

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5 November 2008 (M age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have recently started dating a new woman (roughly 1 1/2 months). I have very strong feelings for her already and want to be with her all the time. I haven't felt this way about a woman in about 3 years. I've dated several women since that last relationshi... (191 words

How do I gain confidence so that I can talk to men?

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5 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am a 25 year old female who doesn't have any friends and my work colleagues don't really like me, I am just someone who is there. I have never had a boyfriend and I feel awkward around the opposite sex, I have tried to come out of my shell by going on work night outs but ... (179 words

My boyfriend is really inconsistent in his calling habits, is this normal?

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5 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi my 9 months boyfriend, which I have strong feelings for, is a little bit inconsistent. he is always very busy, and I have confirm that he is going to college and work 2 jobs. he makes time for me, we see each other 3 times a week, the problem is that when we don't see each ... (186 words

How do I convince her that I really have changed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

5 November 2008 (M age 36-40 - My ex-girlfriend (who split up with me by email just over a week ago after over a year together) has agreed to meet me for a chat as she is aware that I've got things to say. I've read her emails that detail why she is reluctant to give things another chance and over the last... (352 words

Is he abusive or just throwing a tantrum?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

5 November 2008 (F age 51-59 - My boyfriend has shoved me, pulled my hair, held his hand over my mouth, and now he has choked me. I don't really think he was choking me with the intent on killing me, but more to scare me. He keeps telling me that I just need to know when to 'shut my mouth'. He tells me that ... (163 words

Is my girlfriend a cheater or is this all innocent?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

5 November 2008 (M age 30-35 - Alright...I feel like my girlfriend of 1 year has cheated on me or might again... At first, I didn't pay any attention, but she was going out of town (2 hours away) all the time with some guy she barely knew, driving his car, etc. I asked her about it and she just said..."... (233 words

It's more than a lust driven affair, but am I wasting my time?

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5 November 2008 (M age 41-50 - I've been seing a married woman for almost a year. It started out with me listening to her problems with her husband and offering advice. Then it moved into occasional hugging and kissing. About 6 months ago she told me that she loved me but couldn't leave her husband for ... (266 words

I'm confused - I want him back, but he only calls when he's drunk.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

5 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I was with my boyfriend for 7 months and things had been hard on us, as alot of our relationship was spent apart but I thought it would all be worth it as come September we would be together properly (we would both be at the same university). Don't get me wrong, we never ... (555 words

It was a silly joke that went too far and now he wants to date me.

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5 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Okay, So I Was With This Guy Brad For Nearly 3 Months, But I Broke Up With Him 2 Weeks Ago. I've Had A Thing For His Mate Mark For 2 Months, But I Knew It Would Never Go Anywhere, As Mark Doesn't Like Me, And He Is Brad's Friend. But He Has Always Flirted With Me. The Only ... (456 words

Does my fella want his ex-fella back? Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

5 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Now, this is my dilemma.. I'm with my perfect guy, he treats me wonderfully, the sex is amazing and we can stay up into all hours of the nite chatting, giggling and pampering each other. We're truly the best of friends, we can tell each other anything and work through it no ... (224 words

I want to give him something special for his birthday. Any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

5 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - It's my boyfriend's birthday soon and i want to get him something unique and special that will remind him of me... we haven't been together for a long time so we don't have many picture or anything like that so that scraps out alo t of engraving photos etc... I want to get ... (74 words

I want to get over him, but can't because I'm in love.

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5 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - I am having a really hard time getting over my boyfriend, beacause i feel like i know that he loves me. I am only 24 and i have 2 long term boyfriends, one for 2 years and one for 3 years, and i thought i was in love but they didn't work out. My last boyfriend we had only been ... (534 words

I'm jealous of his first love... what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

5 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - I'm dating someone right now and I am absolutely in love with him. We started out as friends and things just got better and better until we finally reached where we are now. He has already told me that he loves me and I, him though we aren't really an official couple yet - we ... (150 words

I still want him in my life, but he has hurt me so much.

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5 November 2008 (F age 51-59 - My boyfriend of almost 3 years who I had complete trust in broke up with me 4 weeks ago after meeting a another girl in a night club a few days before, she is from Lithuania. I thought we had a good relationship and a fantastic friendship and this has broken my heart. He said ... (132 words

Is his new girl just a rebound?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

5 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - i have been with this guy for about 8 months, and we always fought about his smoking habits, and I know more than anything that he loves me to death, we always fight, but this time it was different :S we had a fight and broke up,and that same night he went out with another ... (78 words

I'm soo stressed here ...am I pregnant!!?

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5 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi , my name is Mara. I Had sex... well it wasnt sex, he just pushed 3 times, he didnt cum, then we stopped, after that i was very stressed about being preagnant, i know its silly but when my period was supposed to start, it didnt, i have cramps dont know if they are similar to ... (93 words

I love him but don't trust him!

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5 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - hey there i need some help and this is the last straw... i believe that my trust issues are going to end up ruining what i have with my partner... so heres how the the story goes... after a long open relationship me and my partner finally decided to get together, its be... (336 words

Is having sex with just a condom and no pill...risky??

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5 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - im 16, nearly 17 and have had sex with my boyfriend (nearly 18) 4 times and have been going out with him for just over 1 year and a half. we used a condom everytime and im not on the pill, although my mum keeps saying that she'll come with me to put me on but we never have ... (205 words

My ex bf is texting my best friend to have sex with her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

5 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - so me and my bf split up about 3 weeks ago and ever since has been texting my so called best friend to meet up for sex i don't know if they have for definate but his best friend insists they have. Anyhow i have just found out i am 14 weeks pregnant and i don't want to te... (163 words

Is my long distance girlfriend cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

5 November 2008 (M age 36-40 - I'm in a long distance relationship at the moment.. we met in my country 8 months ago and she had to go back to her own country two months ago to continue her studies.. i only decided to come on this because she is ignoring me at the moment and i don't really know why. she ... (366 words

Do I tell her I like her?

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5 November 2008 (M age 36-40 - First, let me give you the background story. I am single and have been for a while. I am not attracted to looks so it is rare when I get a crush on someone. I met this girl at college and we became friends quickly, and at one point she even kissed me, on the cheek. I being a ... (230 words

Is this classified as "molestation" or am I over-reacting? HELP!

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5 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - I feel a bit silly asking this question but its really bugging me and i need answers or something close to it. When i was much younger (+/-8/9yrs old) my dad's friend would always want me to sit on his lap and he would rub his hand over my chest he said that he was "checking to ... (332 words

My BOSS wants to sleep with me what do I do????

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

5 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - ok so i had a job working at a coffee shop this guy use to come in every weekend and get coffee we always chatted very nice and good looking well than one day he asked me if i wanted to come work for him at a hotel and do like front dest work....i said sure the pay was better ... (191 words

Why won't he say what he's feeling?

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5 November 2008 (F age - I have been married for 27 years.He is the love of my life and my best friend.We have had a few bumps along the way but always pulled through.We have moved to a small town and things are going down hill.My husband is destroying this marriage by not telling me what is on his ... (209 words

Is he being unfaithful after 6 years? I know he's been on gay dating sites!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

5 November 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hi, I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 6 years. I was surfing the internet this morning on our computer, when I came across something which really upset me. The computer is a new one and I've never notice before but it has a Google toolbar on Internet explo... (325 words

I'm confused - is he really interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

5 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - hi there, right now there is this guy whom i've recently just had a liking to, he belongs to a group of friends that i always hang out with. i do have a liking for him but i'm really not sure if he feels the same way towards me too. we have known each other for almost 2 yr... (523 words

How can I stop him being so possessive?

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5 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been together 14 months and in the 1st month i cheated. We worked it out and stayed together, but about 4 months into our relationship he deleted all my boys numbers off my phone, all boys off msn and everything. i think its silly. i am not aloud to ... (106 words

Is he having second thoughts? Should I just leave him to it?

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5 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have known this guy for about two years, we speak online but we've never met. recently he's told me he's likes me and would love to marry me one day in the future. then this past week he told me how much he liked me and that he's falling for me more and more and for a few ... (135 words

My hubby saw my postings! My life is over!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

5 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi i really need help, my hubby saw the other 2 postings and in one of them i confess me and my brother in law making love and me being his danzel in distress, he knew of course i confessed, but he didnt know that i was still thinking about him, thanks to one person that ... (137 words

Could it be possible for him to be over me already?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

5 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - been single 3 month well almost 4 after splittin with my boyfriend of 2 an half year we were still very much in love an still had a strong spark after 2 year we were a match from the start but after tryin to battle with his drink problem for so long after loosin his bro an ... (127 words

Should I break it off to salvage our friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

5 November 2008 (M age 41-50 - I love my girlfriend deeply, but don't think I am in love with her anymore or if I ever truly was. I don't know what to do. I have cried every night since last Friday(I never cry) and slept in until 6pm every day too. She is such a great person; we never fight but yet I ... (482 words

He's working away - will it work out?

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5 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 months and its been going great until he landed a new job approx 2 hours drive away. he thinks it won't work and we should call it off but i don't want to do that and i'm really hurting. he's not leaving for a month. what should i do?... (59 words

We didn't break up on bad terms, so why won't he talk to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

5 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hey everyone. I've had something on my mind now for a little while now and thought I'd get some insight into what other people may think about it! Well, basically the back story is that I recently broke up with a long-term bf (2.5years). For a while the relationship was... (405 words

Any tips on writing adverts for dating sites?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5637 days ago

5 November 2008 (M age 41-50 - Has anyone got any tips on writing a good advert to be put on sites like plentyoffish.com? Also, I'm not very good at replying to adverts? Anyone got any hints for replies?... (36 words

He doesn't want me but I want him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5509 days ago

5 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I found out my boyfriend had been cheating on me, but he said that the girl was lying and that i was the one that he wanted to be with and all this other stuff so i didn't break up with him. A few days later he tells me that he doesn't want to be with me anymore and to take ... (124 words

Pregnant and my mum wants me to have an abortion

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

5 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - Me and My boyfriend have been together for just over 8 months..he's the one for me,ive never been so happy, i couldnt ask for anything else of a partner. Weve been trying for a baby, and every month, i have my period, and its a smack in the face.ive been doctors, had a scan and... (250 words

How can I get him to understand my situation?

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5 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - i was dating a guy who is very cute and the same age as me, currently i broke up with him because am in love with someone else, the problem is he does not want to understand, he still wants me date with him even though am already dating the next guy... what ... (101 words

Should I give up or try harder?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

5 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - It's about a relationship advice... Hello, call me StuPiD.CuPiD. Here's the thing, I've been seeing my boyfriend for 2 years now, I really love him, and he does too... Only that his parents are actually forbidding him from seeing anybody since he comes from this family whic... (209 words

2 questions - why can't I cum and why do my nipples always get hard?

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5 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - i have 2 questions: okay heres the first. i can't cum no matter what. i've tried masturbating different ways, but nothing works, and i have been mastubating since i was young and i can have an orgasm but i don't cum.. and the only way i have an orgasm is laying on my sto... (195 words

My boyfriend's facebook crush!

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5 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - hi, when i first started seeing my boyfriend over a year ago, we ran into a female friend of his at a couple gigs we went to (she was an acquaintance of mine too). i was super-friendly to her on both occasions, approaching her and starting conversations. she ws stand-off... (689 words

How come it took him so long to call me?

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5 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - I asked this guy i kind of like to call me whenever he could go out and he only asked me 3 weeks later! whats up with him?... (28 words

Does he like me?!? What should I do??

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5 November 2008 (F - Last week I met this guy in one of my university classes. Its a fairly big class, so I didnt even know he was in my class. As soon as he saw me sitting in the classroom when he walked in, he smiled at me and intorduced himself and sat with me. We talked a fair bit before t... (386 words

I may be pregnant but havent taken a pregnancy test yet...

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5 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I may be pregnant but havent taken a pregnancy test yet. I'm nineteen years old and rent a house with my boyfriend. Weve been togther for quite a while now and typically use condoms during intercourse. My last period was 10/2/08 and my next one should have been November 2cnd. ... (144 words

I'm really confused! Why did this happen?

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5 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - I was seeing a guy for the last 2 months. At the beginning he was chasing me, asking me out on dates, he had swept me off my feet. As I got to know him my feelings for him got deeper and deeper. After three weeks he asked me to be his girlfriend and I said yes. After this he ... (180 words

Should I begin to distance myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

5 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have a problem. My best friend annoys me. She's a very kind person but she tries way too hard. She's always been kind of insecure because she's (I'm really not trying to be mean by saying this, but it's true) one of the dumbest people I know. Lately she's been pulling this ... (328 words

How do I get rid of this feeling of discomfort about her sleeping with her neighbour?

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5 November 2008 (M age 36-40 - I'm definitely not someone who would usually reach out to a random person for help or advice, but I really don't know where else to go with this. Let me explain my situation. I dated a girl for 2 and a half years who ended up cheating on me in a very unusual way, and directl... (473 words

My wife is mad at me because I'm partying way too much!

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5 November 2008 (? age 30-35 - My wife is mad at me because I told my friends her pregnancy was easy and says im partying too much. She had a very difficult delivery (it took 10 hours) and was in the hospital for a week. Then one day I home from work (which is very stressful) and she nagging at sayin... (125 words

My marrige is in danger - my husband has lost his sexual desire!

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5 November 2008 (F age - I have a very serious problem, with trust. My long term marriage is in great danger, because my husband lost his sexual desire, and we are not the same we used to be. We tried many different things, (therapists,doctors,vacation, etc) He is healthy, but they say testoste... (247 words

Why do I love him so much?

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5 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I lost my virginity to him and we were "together" for several months but didnt go out cause he said that he needed to focus on school. I told him I couldn't do it anymore, which is when he asked me to be his girlfriend. We went out for a week before he told me that he didn't ... (171 words

I showed him porn sites, but has he taken it too far? Confused and hurt...

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5 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - I am going to make it clear to everyone that I have nothing against porn.. Heck, I even showed my boyfriend a bunch of different web-sites so that we could watch them together! But now, of course I think I might be regretting that decision. I am 21, the boyfriend is 22.... (730 words

My wife talked to me differently during sex..why??

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5 November 2008 (M age 51-59 - Last night while having sex with my wife she addressed me differently from what she normally calls me.What could be the reason?... (22 words

If she was truly in love would she cheat?

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5 November 2008 (M age 36-40 - Will someone cheat a couple of times during the course of their actual first (meaning first everything)and long distance relationship and break up multiple times because of other reasons aside from cheating but still be in love and swear they're meant for each other? I'm know ... (149 words

What could this mean? He misses me? Thinks about me?

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5 November 2008 (F age 51-59 - met this guy through work. we hit it off, in fact us being together getting along so well, with attraction he told me was one of the best two days he had in a long time and yes i could concur! well, through our time together we liked each other more. nothing happened... (381 words

They were each other's 'first'. Is that why she can't leave him?

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5 November 2008 (M age 36-40 - I've been seeing this girl for a year and a half. We met as co-workers, starting hanging, out and developed feelings for each other. Now we both think of each other as best friends. Now, i love her as a friend and I'm very in love with her.the thing is; when that happened she ... (326 words

We have a newborn at home and all he does is party!

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5 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years living together for 1 year and we just had a baby about three months ago. When we our son was born it was a very difficult delivery I was in the hospital for about to 2 weeks. When I finally came home he dropped us off and said ... (146 words

Will my new routine lower or heighten my metabolism?

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5 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm going on a diet and I was wondering if I only eat half a vitamin in the morning instead of breakfast and I have lunch and dinner and exercise like usually will that lower or heighten my metabolism? Will it make me retain more weight?... (46 words

Does he mean he loves me as a girlfriend or a friend?

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5 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - hey ive had this guy friend forever and ive liked him since the day i met him. but i dont know if he likes me back ? like we hang out all the time he flirts with me and is really cute with me and he told me like a year and half ago that he liked me but then he moved a... (122 words

My co-worker was flirty, my wife saw and now I'm in the guest room.

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5 November 2008 (? age 41-50 - There's this female co-worker that flirts with me all the time. She doesn't know that I'm married. I do like the attention. I tell her that to back off a lot. My co-worker flirting with me again. Then my wife (who doesn't about my co-worker) randomly show up (I forget my ... (105 words

Am I right to think that she hasn't treated me right?

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5 November 2008 (M age 41-50 - I loved this girl and we went out for 7 months. Then we moved to opposite ends of the country. She joined a strange sales, marketing company thats bit like a cult. I went there to be with her and live and work with her, but we fell out about the job. She told me to pack my bags ... (189 words

I accidentally kicked him in his "family jewels" and now he won't talk to me.

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5 November 2008 (? age 30-35 - My boyfriend and me went a party together yesterday. We got separated during the party. I didn't feel so I texted him saying I'm home. On the home I felt someone grab behind and I thought someone trying was kidnap me. I kicked him in family jewels. Realizing I just attack my ... (87 words

My brother is disrepectful to my mom, is there something I can do to make him stop?

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5 November 2008 (F age 26-29 - hi people. my brother is very rude and disrespectful to my mom. he calls her a terrible mother and she cries when he says it which is every day. does anyone know how i can make my mom feel better and how to get my brither to stop?... (48 words

This guy is very annoying, but wants to go out with me, should I go?

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5 November 2008 (F age 26-29 - hi people. there's this guy that likes me but i dont like him. hes very annoying!!! i just want to know if i should give him a chance and go out with him. should i?... (35 words

Should I text him or wait for him to make the next move?

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5 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - I've known this guy for nearly a year and we went to college together. I've liked him since the first time I saw him and I'm usually pretty good at the whole flirtatious approach. But with him I just felt so shy! Anyway, long boring story short on our final farewell... (186 words

This guy in my class, does not like me, but I like him, should I ask him out?

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5 November 2008 (F age 26-29 - hi people. im 11 and i really like like a guy but he doesn't like like me. i want to ask him out but im kind of shy. he sits next to me most of the time in 1 of our classes. and i dont want to ask him out and make him feel awkward about me. does anyone have any advice? ... (62 words

I am fourteen, and I masturbate every day, is this normal?

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5 November 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hi im 14 years old and i masturbate everyday. I was wondering if its normal. For some reason im always dreaming and thinking on watching my classmates naked. Is this normal?... (31 words

My boyfriend has a friend, who he is very close too, do I need to be worried about her?

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5 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hello I am inlove with my 9 months boyfriend, when we are together everything is so perfect, he treat me really well, but there are some things in this relationship that I don't know if they are normall or not. First, for him is very dificult to express his feelings... (694 words

My pregnant wife is making me not want to be with her!

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5 November 2008 (M age 36-40 - well im 21 years old,and my wife is 19.we became parents at an early age.i was 18 and she was 16.ive been married for a year but dating for about 5 years.we have a 2 year old and we have a baby on the way.we really dont have sex and were constantly arguing.she doesnt let me ... (150 words

He's lost his job and then didn't call when he said he would!

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5 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - Boyfriend of seven yrs has been unemployed now for a few weeks but will be receiving paycheck till end of December. In the meantime I have been very supportive in many ways by given him special treatment back rubs, making dinners, emotional support etc... His sex drive has ... (149 words

What is the definition of a player to you?

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5 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - What is classified as a player/womanizer? I would like opinions on this because I have a guy friend, who i sorta had a past with, who is really nice and smart and romantic, but he's always flirting with girls, touching them, etc. He had a girlfriend recently but they were lo... (119 words

I've realised I love him now that he has a girlfriend.

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5 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Me and Tyler met about three years ago. We dated for the first couple of months that we met but soon finished due to our age. We have always been friends and tend to meet up a couple times a month to hang out. The last few months we have been speaking online, via phone and ... (223 words

How can I change my life around ?

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5 November 2008 (M age 30-35 - Can anyone suggest ways in which I can improve my life ? My life at the moment is empty and all I seem to do is exist. I have no social life, friends, girfriend or anything positive to look forward to. Im a descent looking guy (apparently) and can make anyone laugh but I have... (196 words

Wife made an offer, I don't know if I should accept.

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5 November 2008 (M age 41-50 - My wife was diagnosed with Lupus some time ago and since then her condition has slowly deteriorated to such a degree that most physical contact (Shy of a gentle hug) causes her physical pain. As you can guess this has had quite a large impact on our sex life as sexual interc... (360 words

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