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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He's taking steroids and busy with work and the gym - is this why he doesn't feel like sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

20 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been seeing this guy for 2 months we are both married, in the beginning we were having sex 3 times a week, now he works 60 hours per week, spends time off at the Gymn, with me and says he doesn't feel like sex. Every time I say to break up, he says I can't because it... (149 words)

I'm scared.. is this an emotional affair undercover?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

20 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy 2 years ago in a business and he's military. When we met we became friends and then split to his base and family. Two months after that we became in contact for the same business. Turned out we started keeping in touch by email even by long distance. Our em... (204 words)

My newborn keeps getting ill - what am I doing wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

20 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys. Well basically i've just had a baby - he's just over 2 weeks old. I am absolutely *loving* motherhood - although obviously it is tough/tiring...But it is so worth it. I'm so completely over-whelmed with love for my lovely little son it scares me.... I'm trying *So... (197 words)

I have a feeling she likes me and I like her too... should I go for it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5628 days ago

20 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - So there this girl i met when i was 13 at my cousins party she was a good friend of his and we really hit it off we've kept in touch all these years and whenever i went to my cousins i would spend a few days at her place. we told each other everything and now her family has ... (183 words)

Are there any good websites for sexy positions that aren't completely trashy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

20 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was wondering if anyone could suggest a good website that teaches different sex positions. I want to read something sort of informational, and all I keep finding is kind of nasty websites. Thanks for the information!... (37 words)

My fiance thinks he's a problem at the funeral but he's not. Am I being horrible?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5628 days ago

20 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I dont want to ask my family or friends about this, so i want some opinions from people on here. okay, im very mad/upset and a mixture of other feelings here and i need someones advice. My grandad died 2 weeks ago and his funeral is next neek. my fiance lives abo... (772 words)

Have I played it too cool or is he just not really interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5628 days ago

20 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Have I played it too cool? Well I am totally in love with a guy who I met up once with and when we kissed goodbye I was wanting a big passionate kiss whereas he just hugged and gave me a peck on the lips!! Anyway, because he acted so cool I guessed he wasn't that in... (154 words)

Is this lad friend one to stay away from?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

20 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - this one is bit complicated but i will try to keep it simple guys ! :) well i have a lad friend he told me he liked me when he was going out with his girlfriend. Hes really close with one of my girl friends who he talks about all the time, and it does kind of annoy me although ... (210 words)

Should I marry him if this is how he acts with porn?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

20 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my fiance watches porn. It has been two encounters where I have been sleep, wake up to find him in the other room butt naked looking at a porno movie, and butt naked sitting in front of the computer. I guess he was going to masterbate to it until I came in, cussed him out and ... (363 words)

My husband of 12 years packed up and left... what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

20 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Here goes..Today My husband of 12 years packed his clothes and left. He told me he didnt love me anymore and has left me with our 2 boys. I know we haven't been seeing eye to eye for some time but i honestly never expected this. after all, what family doesnt have problems? But ... (163 words)

Why is he avoiding my questions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

20 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My question was Y when I asked my friend if I could see him soon he begin 2 talk about my son. I told him he doesn't have to b afraid 2 tell me NO! I've explained 2 him that he wouldnt hurt my feel'ns. Y do u think he avoid'n my questions? Do u think he wants 2 possibly... (77 words)

I want him back, I need him to give us a second try!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5628 days ago

20 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I had been in a relationship for 5 years previously, anyway it was over and within a couple of weeks i started to date someone new, who i knew of, but did not know well! We both fell in love with each other and i thought everything was going really well, but whilst ... (648 words)

I'm worried about travelling with her family - is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

20 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright. Well first, I have to tell you that this is about my girlfriend and me having not really problems, but my head is twisted. Okay. I am only 13 years old, she is 14. She asked me to go back to both of where we are from. This is overseas and I am really scared, we wil... (147 words)

What do you do with a hubby who creates dating profiles and views porn?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

20 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance and I have been together on and off since middle school. He was logged in to my computer and forgot to log out so I glanced at the first page of his email (being nosey) and seen that he had registered with a dating website. I then clicked on the link and went to the ... (405 words)

Is it meant to be or is that romantic nonsense?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

20 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - To be honest I'm not sure this will help but good to get it off my chest even if abuse is likely to be forthcoming. I am married and have been in love with a married man for 4 years. Nothing much has happened but he told me that he loved me but wouldn't leave his wife. 4 mont... (195 words)

I'm afraid my online girl won't like me when she sees me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

20 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - hello,i have a question i met this girl online.we have talked for 6months. we know everything about eachother,we know how we look. but i feel scared she aint gunna like me when she sees me. idk... am i being paranoid?... (48 words)

Should I buy her an engagement ring for Christmas or is it too soon?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

20 November 2008 (M)

age - I was in a ltr for 7 years and she left for no apparent reason A month later I met (again) a woman I had a crush on when we were teens. we started dating and neither of us were looking for anything it just happened. now a month later we are very much in love and she is a cancer... (179 words)

I'm the one getting called all the names and he gets away scot free!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

20 November 2008 (F)

- I slept with my ex a few weeks ago and his girlfriend found out and split up with him. She asked me if it was true and I told her it was. Now my ex won't talk to me because I didn't deny it for him. He text me calling me a slag and I haven't spoken to him since. Now his ex and ... (180 words)

Is it possible that he is impotent with me, but not, if he were to find a new woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

20 November 2008 (F) age 51-59 - This question is for men, but not only! My husband is impotent with me, a few years ago. There is no medical reason for it. He is healthy. So my question is, is it possible that he is impotent with me, but not, if he were to find a new woman? I'm just wondering, how often it... (151 words)

I feel sooooo depressed about the future sometimes.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

20 November 2008 (M) age 41-50 - I'm so scared of the future. I'm not religious, but I think of the world really coming to the end. There is bad news everywhere. What do you guys think about all of that? Is this right to feel depressed about the future,or its just me?... (50 words)

My boyfriend is so selfish when it comes to us sexually.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

20 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is so selfish when it comes to us sexually. We've been together a year and a half now, and recently he's been asking me to spice it up a bit with how I do uno stuff with him.. But he has never once or gone down on me or properly satisfied me, I don't know what to ... (75 words)

I just wanna tear myself open and rip all the anger out.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

20 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this isn't about love or anything, but I'm just wondering if anyone feels the same as I do. I feel like sometimes I get so hurt and upset I just wanna tear myself open and rip all the anger out. I cry a lot and I don't even know why and I dream about the past. I self ... (285 words)

I'm very shy, how do I let him know I really like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

20 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - How does a shy girl who has never been the type to flirt respond to a guy she is talking to when he flirts with her? He makes me feel good when I'm around him, but I don't know what to say or what to do when he winks at me or tells me I am beautiful. I just smile and drop my ... (86 words)

I feel I can't give him anything he has not already had, what can I do to feel better about myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

20 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i am looking for advice preferably from other women. i have been with my partner 1 1/2 years,he has two kids from a previous relationship. we love each other dearly. my problem is, when i think of us having kids (he's happy to have another)i cant get away from the fact its ... (94 words)

My friend was just diagnosed with diabetes. How can I help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

20 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - not a relationship question as such, but a good friend of mine has just been diagnosed with type 1 diabetes and i want to know how to be a good friend and support her through this tough time? any help appreciated. ... (44 words)

How do you think he really feels about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5628 days ago

20 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Trying to understand his feeling.. we dated 20 years ago and recently started seeing each other, but three hours away. I am currently separated. i have visited his home several times, when I’m there it is like I’m the most important person. He treats me great, introduced me ... (389 words)

Why would my ex girlfriend want to see me if she can't control her feelings about me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

20 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'll be the first to admit that I am being strung along by my ex-girlfriend. I know that everyone here would suggest that I leave her alone for both of our sakes, but I'm not that strong and I am head-over-heels for her. That being said, she has a new boyfriend who was her ... (273 words)

The signs guys give to girls....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

20 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Heya, This is a question about guys and the signs they give to girls. And do any of these situations fall into the 'does he like me category'? 1. We are at the bus stop. Since he reached it before me, and I didnt want to stand next to him (as not to seem obvious), I stan... (257 words)

At what point in a relationship do you reveal your past?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

20 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - At what point in a relationship do you reveal your past? I'm 20 yrs. old and this is really my first attempt at a serious relationship. I was a troubled teen. I used drugs and alcohol. I became sexually active at 14 and had literally dozens of partners. I lived from place to ... (266 words)

Should I commit forever to a relationship that started with me as sloppy seconds?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

20 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - The first two times I hooked up with my girlfriend she had slept with her ex boyfriend earlier in each night. These two times we hooked up were a year apart, and the 2nd time a few months before we began officially dating. Once in a while she talks about how much she loves "our ... (157 words)

Can you guys just let me know if this can be the pill or could I be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

20 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I know that one of the side effects of the morning after pill are irregular periods for a while. I took the morning after pill in the last week of August after a slip up with my boyfriend. After that, my period became a little bit irregular but last month it was bang on my du... (122 words)

Should I consider this marriage/relationship to be over or should I try to make it work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5628 days ago

20 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have only been married for a year, but we have been together for over 4 years now. When we moved in together we got off to a bad start, I was pregnant with our son and I found out he was sending e-mails to other girls and always chatting with them. After all ... (186 words)

Is it possible for a man to not like sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

20 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm confused. I started things a little late, but since I've reached 30, I've been with three women one time each. The first time, even though the girl I was with was attractive, I didn't feel turned on. I couldn't finish, and the whole experience was not much fun. The ... (188 words)

Should I believe him that he has finally given her up and he will never cheat on me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

20 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend (now husband) for 6 years, there were always signs that he was cheating but, he always had and answer for everything. I caught him with lipstick on his underwear last April, we fought for several weeks, he then proposed to me and said that he loved ... (147 words)

I can't get over the fact she killed my child!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

20 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My Fiance and I Have been going through a lot. In the beginning things were perfect, she got pregnant and things were still fine but she was becoming distant. I was sitting watching a football game one night (this was the day before we were going to get the sonargram for the ... (286 words)

Am I wrong for accusing him of being with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5628 days ago

20 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So after I found out my fiance has a child that he thought was not his things have been weird. Right now we are in two different states for about three more weeks. He constantly tells me he loves me and we have been engaged for a year. His daughter's mother is constantly trying ... (289 words)

Information about "swinging" needed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

20 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I want to learn about swingers! What does mean? I wish if you can update me please with all information and I wish to know where there are groups that I can join as I'd like to start.... (40 words)

One hell of a kiss.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5628 days ago

20 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I'll try and keep this brief... I kissed a guy I liked at a party several weeks ago. We usually kiss when we're alone together now, and since the start I explained I wasn't ready for a full on relationship. I'm a virgin, and he's into sex, and I'm just not that fo... (193 words)

I don't know how to stay, I don't know how to leave.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

20 November 2008 (F) age 51-59 - what should I do if my husband never does anything for getting better. He is not touching me, he is not doing anything else just works. I have no more idea... I tried, talking to him, changing things.... I'm taking care of myself. I hate to leave. It scares me so much. Bu... (125 words)

I told her I liked her and she said she felt a bit smothered by me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

20 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing this girl for about a month now, the first three weeks she was studying really hard, we hung out four or five times and I knew she was really focused on the studying more than anything... can't blame her. Anyway, this week is really the first week that we ... (254 words)

He wants to kiss with tongues and I haven't a clue what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

20 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 14 and I have just got with this new lad. I had a strict upbringing and have never kissed a boy before, my boyfriend has told me he wants to kiss me with tongues awkward! Please help, I do not have a clue what to do!... (49 words)

Things have been much less stressful for me since I stopped dating...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

20 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so about a month ago I wore off having any involvement with men. My last couple of relationships have just been awful. There was the guy who forgot to tell me he was married, then the guy who was meant to be my best friend but who after sleeping with me told me he just ... (346 words)

After our daughter died my wife keeps chasing after other men, what can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

20 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi its bit of a long story but will try to keep it short I've been married 17yrs with one daughter 7 and her sister who we lost in a car crash 6yr ago when she was only 6. For about the first 2yrs our relationship was really bad,she blamed me for what happened even though cras... (338 words)

My wife said she cheated on me to get even, then said they only kissed, I don't know what to believe or do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5628 days ago

20 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Well here it is, I made a Huge mistake by meeting someone on the internet and it went way farther than i expected it to go anyway she found out about it and eventually i admitted to everything, i did cheat and am Very Sorry for it its been about 6 months now and she just went ... (184 words)

How can I advice my friend to choose the right guy??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

20 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My best friend (who is female) and I are always there with advice for each other when times are tough, but this time I don't have advice, so I would like your help. Hopefully I can keep this short because it is really a long story. She started dating a guy (call him B) abo... (388 words)

She acts weird while on the phone, I'm in a lot of pain because of it, should I leave her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

20 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I got a girlfriend for 2 years now and she means everything to me. She makes me feel special and everything. The Only problem is that she been acting weird i don't know if she is tired of me when we are next to each other she acts the way i want when we are over the phone she ... (92 words)

I feel ugly and scared I'm passing this negativity to my son!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

20 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - im 25 yrs n ave a 2year old son. i feel ugly even do my parter or my mum dont think so. i always think negative, i'm scared dat i am passing the negativity to my son. some of my friends made comments without thinking saying i am just there meaning nothing special about me, also ... (142 words)

What can I do and say to help us get together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5628 days ago

20 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Before i tell u my life story i would first like to say sorry for how much i am going to write its just im becoming more and more paranoid and feel as though im going insane ): So here goes, yes it is about a boy and me and him are both 14. It started when we all moved in... (636 words)

Has anyone else here ever looked back on something, perhaps something similar to this and wished it could have been different?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

20 November 2008 (F) age 41-50 - Hi. I know there may be no point mentioning this, as it was a long time ago, but I just wanted people's opinions. I was recently thinking about a boy I used to like at school. I liked him for about two years, I was in year 10 and year 11 when I liked him. Year 11 is the last ... (1141 words)

What can be done about my big breasts? Some of my friends are poking fun at me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

20 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone i have big breast please help me i dn't no what to do about it. Some of my friends are making a jest of me. If i wear some of my clothes i don't fill comfortable about my dress and myself. Is there any medication for it. Please help me ... (52 words)

I plan to propose to my girlfriend - how do you find this scenario?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

20 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I plan on proposing to my girlfriend, she knows i want to marry her as we have talked openly about it, but she dosent know when im going to ask her. she is away at college at the moment and has been begging me for a puppy, so i plan on buying her a puppy and surpri... (105 words)

She wants me to do her but I'm afraid it'll hurt her too much, we're 16, your thoughts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

20 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my gf are both 16 and we've been talking about sex lately we have protection and whenever she gives me a blowjob and i finger/eat her out it gets so intense... i just wanna go in we love each other very much and i dont wanna hurt her though does it really hurt for girls? ... (86 words)

Does he really mean what he says or do you think he's maybe just mad/upset?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

20 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I was dating this guy for 1,5 years. I'm foreign and graduating, therefore don't have permission to stay in the US. He asked me to marry him a couple of times but didnt really do anything about it. So there is one month left and I asked him if he wanted to do this. He said "I ... (577 words)

How can I gain more weight and also get rid of pimples?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

20 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Friends what are the remedies of pimples and fat? I have pimples in my face for long and my friends are companing about it, to me i know it's not right but i don't no what to do about it, also no matter what i eat i don't get fat what can i do bec's am not comfortable ... (73 words)

I have to stay with my husband for another 2 and a half years for me to get residency here. Should I risk it all for the new guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

20 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been married for 6 months and i am living in australia but i am english. my husband and i were in love but i got married so i could stay in Australia.He is so in love with me and i loved him but i have fallen for someone else. The new guy i have known for around a year ... (138 words)

My best friend and I fight over this boy's love, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

20 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend and I are in love with the same boy. We fight over it every single day and hate each other to bits at the moment. This boy told me he loved me and hated my best friend...... what should i do?????? XxX... (45 words)

My ex toyed with my emotions, like this new guy is doing. They know each other. Weird? Not a coincidence?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5628 days ago

20 November 2008 (F)

- There is this guy who I have gone out on some dates with over the last 3 months. But nothing really ever evolved from them. He would turn hot and cold so I was too scared to ever tell him how I truly felt. As soon as I would show some interest in him, he would turn cold. Then I ... (307 words)

Why bother making the dates in the first place if he doesn't want to show up? What's going on in men's heads?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

20 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy and we had one date - it was great. We had an awesome time. He made plans to meet me Saturday for lunch, hang out during the day. He called at noon and said his cat got into the garbage and was vomiting all am and he had to take him to the vet. I wasn't sure if ... (201 words)

How do I approach this guy I like when we don't even go to the same school?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5628 days ago

20 November 2008 (F)

age - iam 13 years old, recently met this guy we have so much in common and i got my friend to ask him what he thinks kf me he wouldnt really talk to her much, but she then asked him if she thinks im attractive, he answered with yes but i really really like hima dn i have only know ... (89 words)

She ignored my message in which I wrote that I love her, what should I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5628 days ago

20 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this girl who is close to me and i love her. She doesnt know that i love her.but recently she saw one of the msgs i sent to her telling her that i loved her,she didnt say anything. What should i do. Should i tell her bcos she now knows.... (53 words)

Do you think there is any chance for us after my husband discovered I had lied about the amount of debt I was in?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5628 days ago

20 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i am deeply upset. i am only married a few months and lied to my husband about the amount of debt i was in.i do not blame him in anyway it is all my fault and i am deeply sorry and facing up to all me problems. he found out and threw me out of the house. for the first two weeks ... (260 words)

She says she's unhappy because I am too needy - what can I do to save our marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

20 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - ok here it goes I was looking through my wifes cell phone bill and noticed that the same number was popping up not to much just long,so i asked my wife and she told me everything, she told me it was someone she was attracted to.She let me know that nothing has happened and that ... (308 words)

He flirted and then didn't tell them I was his girlfriend... do I leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

20 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi...i have a question,..i have a live in partner for 8 yrs,and were happy and inlove,,but this past 2 months till now something change,he talk to me and tell me that he's flirting with other girls and the worst thing is " the other girls are my co worker and some of them are ... (176 words)

I'm worried that my first date will be awkward!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

20 November 2008 (F)

age - I am 14 and i recently started going out with a guy from school. i'm going to see a movie with my new boyfriend on the weekend, and im nervous! i guess its normal cause its like my first date with a guy, just the two of us, but im afriad its gonna be awkward before and after ... (87 words)

Break up!! What to do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

20 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone, I have had a long distance relation for 2 years now and I really love her! Now that she decided to break up, I am really down and desperate. Unfortunately I commited begging to her to come back and I seemed really desperate and needy. However, then I decided ... (211 words)

Broke up with my otherwise perfect girlfriend over physical attraction, feeling shallow

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5628 days ago

20 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I ended a relationship with a women after two years. She abused me verbally, and in the end I found out she had a second boyfriend almost the entire length of our relationship. I would have broken up with her sooner, because she was quite shallow and mean, but she was ... (278 words)

Married spiritually but not legally and his ex won't leave!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

20 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey everyone, this may make me sound like a bad person, but belive me I'm not! I have dated a married man for about 5 years on and off, he was having trouble with his marriage as he said but it was true and the last 2 years he had seperated from his wife, and then he divorced ... (235 words)

We can't live with or without eachother...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5628 days ago

20 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am an 18 year old female and i am pretty much in love with my best friend. he is a year older than me and we have been good friends for about 2 years now. we speak everyday, see eachother almost every other day, and have also tried the whole "more than friends" bit. we were ... (289 words)

Is he a shy guy? What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5539 days ago

20 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Im really into this guy but hes so shy its hard for me to tell if he likes me.. I want some advice on how i can tell if he does without asking him.. we meet at my old job.i always thought he was rather attractive.we then started talking that was cool.but it was a real basic... (106 words)

How can I answer them when they say horrible comments about my girlfriend?

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20 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey all! Me again, so me and my girlfriend have been together for about 3 years. Everything's been going great and whatnot but I recently started high school, the thing is, people.... are just....assholes. Since the first time I've gotten with my girl, people have told me ... (185 words)

Can I ask my boyfriend to marry me while he's getting divorced?

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20 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Can I get engaged while going through divorce?... (8 words)

My happiness or hers?

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20 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a good friend who had this thing for some guy a while ago. She pretty much just hooked up with him and they were never serious or in a relationship. I've been interested in him for about a couple months now and he asked me on a date and I was kind of hesitant for a bit ... (437 words)

How come I seem to be able to solve everyone elses problems but my own?

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20 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - It seems I can help everyone in the world from anything except myself that's why I took up this website but for some strange reason I can save a girl from killing herself but if I have the slighest problem I can't solve it or usually find anyone to solve it. Is there something ... (65 words)

Why do I keep getting these urges to worry about what other people are thinking!

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20 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I just recently starting dating this girl, she's so sweet and I actually like her for more than her looks, she's really just an amazing person but she does have a kid and only 17, I'm one of those people who usually doesn't care what people think and yet I find myself looking ... (99 words)

I want her to try something new.

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20 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a 22 year old male and have been seeing this girl on and off for quite some time. We have a relatively deep connection and are completely comfortable with each other sexually and have sex quite often without exclusively seeing each other. She has not really explored and ... (325 words)

How can I make sure that he is faithful?

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20 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf is a flirt and my friend told me that my bf is having a good relationship with another girl so I decided to end our relationship without the evidence that he really had and he said I'm really the only one and he can't let me go because he really love me and he can do ... (112 words)

I'm pregnant and have just found out my partner has ANOTHER baby!

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20 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I of almost 7 months have gotten pregnant. This isn't the problem though. After he left his wife September of 07 he immediately began shacking up with this other chick for a little less then 2 months. Well she up and left him without warning or so much as a ... (150 words)

I'm in love with my cousin, and I don't know what to do.

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20 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - It's simple. I'm in love with my cousin. He's 21 and I'm 18. We met when I was 13, then again when I was 16. He lived in Florida, and I lived in Illinois. As soon as I went down there when I was 16, I was immediatly attracted to him. Face it he's HOT. So, I blew it off as a ... (147 words)

She's threatening me with divorce if I don't wisen up.

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20 November 2008 (?) age 41-50 - My married boss (she doesn't know that I'm married) and me have flirting (nothing serious) a lot lately. She even gave me a raise for no reason. Then one day my wife came to my work unexpected because I forgot my lunch. She saw us flirting got very upset. It got so bad my boss ... (114 words)

Am losing or lost her! She said she needs space...

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20 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Been with this girl for 4 years now and suddenly things are going down the drain. To cut the long story short, she bought a house and wanted to move in, being this is my first realtionship I was scared and freaked out and told her I was not ready for that, then things started ... (249 words)

He won't commit or tell me what his intentions are.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

20 November 2008 (F) - Well to begin, I've known this guy for about 9 years and we've been seeing eaching on and off for the last 5 months. We both are really attracted to, and like each other a lot. I care for him, love being and spending time with him. He makes me laugh and feel so great about ... (108 words)

Promise/purity rings.

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20 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Promise/purity rings. When you see an older person wearing one, how do you feel about it? I'm 21 years old, and I have worn a "promise" ring since I was quite young. It was given to me by my mother. I don't consider it a "purity" ring per say. I consider it more of a "remin... (169 words)

Are girls more serious and emotional then they let on?

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20 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I was upset over something, you know, just some bad luck and stuff, so I decided to talk to my girlfriend about it. She made me laugh and I told her to grow up. However she took this very seriously and got offended. Are girls more serious and emotional then they let on?... (53 words)

If I can't have his whole heart then I don't want any part of it.

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20 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing a younger man for the past couple of months and we have fallen in love. We both feel like we've known each other in another life. Everything just happened so quickly. Problem is I found out the he is married and has a newborn daughter. When I confronted him ... (297 words)

She constantly worries about everything including that I will break up with her.

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20 November 2008 (?) age 41-50 - My girlfriend (of 4 years) is extremely nice and always helpful and she will let me do whatever I want like if I want to go hangout with friends she will let me. She constantly worries about everything including that I will break up with her. I think that’s how I get my way, ... (315 words)

Talking to my ex as a friend...

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20 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex broke things off with me and a month later his ex-girlfriend said she was pregnant. He married her and now they have 2 children together and now realizes that she is not the one for him. He has apologized to me and admitted his mistakes and would like us to be friends ... (82 words)

I wish my ex would come back

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20 November 2008 (F) - I'm trying to gain some insight on things.. I wish my ex would come back but I have questions the situations that happened over the course of the 3 years I was with him. I wanted to reveal some aspects that made me feel insecure which led to a cycle that i guess i couldn... (1550 words)

Why does he want to hang about with me again after all this time?

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20 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - There's this guy who I like... I have no idea why I even like him, other than the fact he is good looking. We fooled around twice many months ago, now he's trying to talk to me again but I made it clear I don't do the friends with benefits thing. He said last time he just ... (309 words)

My boyfriend wants me to shave around my vagina.

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20 November 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I want to too, but should I use hair removal cream or shaving cream? I have hair removal cream, but it says on the thing not to use around bikini/vagina areas.. should I anyway? What's the point of hair removal cream if you can't do it there? will it burn?... (51 words)

Nothing you've ever seen

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20 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend had been dating for a long time about two years or so and for some stupid reason about two months before we broke up I told her that I had cancer, everything was fine, I have absolutely no idea why I did it and I regret it greatfully. It's been about a year ... (136 words)

Am I wrong to be insecure with where I stand in this relationship?

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20 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Well here it goes, I have been doing online dating and talking to guys for the past couple of years since I separated from my child's dad, I have talked to a lot of guys and met a few in real life with no connection. Until about 4 months ago I had been talking to this guy that ... (217 words)

Male/Female Masturbation: Double Standards

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20 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - This isn't really a question, but a comment that I'm interested in seeing people's thoughts on. This is about male/female masturbation. My girlfriend woke up in the middle of the night and couldn't sleep. She tried to wake me up but apparently I would just roll ove... (197 words)

Do all people fulfill their life? Or is this just a big illusion.

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20 November 2008 (M) age 41-50 - Do all people fulfill their life? Or is this just a big illusion. Life can be pretty boring and meaningless sometimes, somehow like a dead-end street. Yet there are very exciting life stories, but not a lot. Most people will experience this I think, yet there is not too much ... (68 words)

Do you think he's really over me and that it will work with this rebound girl?

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20 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - So I was engaged to this Marine for over 3 1/2 yrs. We were living in Maryland and he then wanted me and our son to move back to Florida while he stays up there for the last few months of his duty. The plan then was for him to move to Fl. Five days after he moved me here, he ... (151 words)

He lives in another country... but I want to date NOW!

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20 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone I'll say sorry for the length now but I really really need someones help I have the most amazing boyfriend, He understands me, makes me laugh, and truely cares about me. And I love him more then air more then anyone in the world. The only problem with our... (476 words)

Can anyone recommend a good book/articles on how to ace the dating scene?

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20 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Can anyone recommend a good book/articles on how to ace the dating scene? How to understand what women are trying to hint or body language etc..? Any ideas and suggestions very welcome as well as any real life advice.... (42 words)

How to be porn free

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

20 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello I have a porn addiction and last year for the first half of the year I was able to abstain from porn and I was able to focus more think clearer. However, I have ventured back into the porn now because I'm in the offseason and have more time. I have a girlfriend so thats ... (116 words)

Technique for going down on her

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20 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey, I am sexually inexperienced and my girlfriend has given me head and I have fingered here and I want to go down on her, but any advice on how to get that going without it being awkward. I mean the first time for that will be a little awkward obviously but I mean as far as m... (77 words)

Just found out my ex-girlfriend is dating someone else, whom I know. This is bothering me more than it should.

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20 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Just found out my ex-girlfriend is dating someone else, whom I know. This is bothering me more than it should. How do I get over this?... (26 words)

My lesbian lover makes me mad as hell sometimes!

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20 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 26 and I am a lesbian dating a 42 year old woman and we are both virgos we have a lot in common and then we don't on views of life and etc. She makes me feel mad as hell when she says things that I don't feel she be said example. When she says something to me that hurts ... (81 words)

Lesbian relationship but my partner's family still don't know about us being "together".

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20 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a lesbian relationship for almost 3 years. We have lived together for 2 years and have a dog. The problem is she is not out to her parents. I have only met her mother once and have never seen her father in person. I am 26 and she is 28 so isn't it time for ... (137 words)

Help please, I just found out I'm pregnant.

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20 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, Here is my situation. I am 20 married to a great guy, (but we have had a lot of troubles in the past) I have just been accepted into medical school, and a hall of residence which I am really excited about. It is also 3 hours away from my home by plane. At the m... (219 words)

We fight all the time! How can I avoid this?

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20 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been in a relationship with a woman I'm madly in love with for 1 year and two months now. Throughout the relationship, we've had some ups and some downs, and a lot of those downs have led to breakups and makeups. the truth is I had a real big problem with jealousy, ... (461 words)

Is there such a thing as breaking SOME of your hymen?

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20 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My hymen has been broken from something other than a penis so I am still a virgin but when I stick my finger into my vagina it is painful. Does that mean that not all of my hymen has been broken? If I actually do decide to have sex will it be painful? Is that considered ... (87 words)

I feel betrayed and I don't know why...

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20 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone my problem is that I'm so parrnoid I've been with my boyfriend for a while and I love him, he says he loves me but I think it's just because of the way I look and our good sex life... he complains about me as a person quite a lot... I daydream a lot I smoke I sw... (463 words)

Am I too young to move into an apartment?

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20 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My step-dad is a real jerk most of the time, and I've had ENOUGH...I'm good in school, I don't stay out late (if I ever get to go out, he never lets me), I dont usually yell back (lately I've been defending myself a lot more) and even my mom has threatened to leave him. I've ... (211 words)

My boss gave me the green light... what can I do to ask him?

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20 November 2008 (?) age 36-40 - Hello, My boss, whom I am very close with, and I took a young unmarried man and his colleague to lunch today to introduce our company to his. It was a very good lunch, lots of laughs and conversation unrelated to business flowed easily. I thought the gentleman to be ... (101 words)