A
male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hello everyone,I am in a long distance relationship. She live sin Russia and We have been together for 2 years now. We really shared best moments and we really loved eachother. However, now taht it was time to make decisions about the future of our relationship, my GF decided to break up by reasoning like '' she need space'' ''it is blackline of her lifetime now'' ''she does not know if she loves me anymore'' '' she needts to realise what she has and waht she can loose'' etc. Having heard such reason unfortunately I begged to her to come back and I seemed really desperate and needy. However, as I have realised some mistakes I did, I then sent her a hand writter letter agreeing with the break up and giving the time she needs and I cut all my contacts with her. It has been only a week now and I am still misisng her to death. Presumably the letter will arrive to her by the end of this week and I really dont know how she will be reacting to that!!Morever, I really need help from you guys how to act!! I want her back!! and also she has birthday on 29 November 2008, which is 10 days from now..do you think I should call her on her birthday or buy her a gift or even go to Russia to see her? or even conversely keep up no contacting!! I am really confused!!I appreciate your comments!!Thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2008): I have just been 18 months in a very long distance relationship (10,000 miles apart to be precise) and I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. Personally I would let her go and try to move on. You have half made your mind up but you are simply going through the grieving process. See her reaction to your letter. I think she needs time to think too.
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