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30-35,
*naldia
writes:One day out of the blue my own cousin text my cell phone saying negative things to me. She said things that didn't make any sense, she was trying to argue with me over a boy I don't even like and if I did like him he stays right across the street from my house but anyways she text me and started talking crazy, she called herself cursing me out, then I began to snap back because I'm not allowing it. She used everything she knew about me against me. I mean some things that were really serious/like I don't care about you and I wish you wasn't in the family and that ;s why something bad happen to you. She was being so negative so I told her to get off of my phone because she had no respect. She said b I don't have to respect you. My silly self argued with her for a while but I never figured out why she just out of the blue just called me trying to put me down? Do you think that she will later regret it? Why would she do that to me?
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reader, samsmommy +, writes (20 November 2008):
 She's probably jealous that he always hangs out with you and never her. She's probably liked him for a while and seeing him hanging out with you all the time probably gets to her. But still, she really over reacted.
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reader, Analdia +, writes (19 November 2008):
Analdia is verified as being by the original poster of the question yea my parents know and no i don't like the boy she likes.as a matter of fact he's not her boyfriend,it was just this one time him and i and some other people were hanging out on my porch and that same day she called him and asked him how did his day go and he told her.but he doesn't even like her and i feel that she is stupid because me and him are bestfreinds and she knows that we are close that's all.it's more like she is bothering something that is mine not me bothering something that is hers
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reader, samsmommy +, writes (19 November 2008):
That's really weird that she would just randomly call you and start yelling at you. Maybe she heard you did something with this guy and she likes him so she got mad? She might regret it later, but probably not if she still thinks you did something that you didn't do. i would send her an email or a text or something telling her you don't like that guy and you don't know where she got that from, and ask her what made her so mad at you.
I do agree with EbonyBlossom's comment except, if she genuinely thinks you did something wrong, she might not call to apologize, you might need to clear things up with her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2008): Maybe someone put her up to it? Maybe she was drunk? Perhaps she'd been hiding things... I don't know. But it was wrong. Just ignore her until you get an apology. I know it's easier said than done with cousins, but do try and keep a bit of distance. If she wants to say sorry she will, if she doesn't wanna say it then she's not worth talking to. Don't be outwardly mean, don't ignore her if she is nice to you, but don't go out of your way to be nice because she doesn't deserve it. Do your parents know?
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