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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Any ideas for a single 18 year old girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 279 days ago

23 November 2008 (?) age 18-21 - So I had left a question about my boyfriend (ex) and a friend of his if they both could 'play' with me -left him, now I'm single again... and have no idea what to do. I enjoy the fact that it's so quiet and I can do whatever without him telling me to drop what I'm doing. But... ... (72 words)

I cant get through to my fiancé......he's upset with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

23 November 2008 (?) age 18-21 - Hello Cupids..... Days ago I had bought myself a..."toy". I haven't used it yet. Vincent saw it, and now he's upset because he thinks that he can't please me...mm;) he can. I had only bought it because he's going to his parent's house for about a month and something would be ... (61 words)

Sex - It hurts!!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

23 November 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Me and (not real name, I can't call him bf all the time) Tony had sex last night. It was kinda strange... he was on his computer lookin up music for band. The song tony was looking at was really fast and sexy. He stood up and I pulled his tie and brought him closer to my face. ... (149 words)

How can I try to get my dad to understand me better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

23 November 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - I currently am living with my parents, and things are getting progressively worse. This is the longest period I have had living with them, as I am on a gap year after finishing boarding school which I had been at since 11. We always argue. My dad works all the time, and when he ... (578 words)

Why is she torturing herself by wanting to be friends, when she clearly can't handle that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 363 days ago

23 November 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - I need someone's opinion or analysis on this situation preferably from a woman's perspective. Basically, my ex-girlfriend was torn between me and her ex-boyfriend. After a few weeks, she chose the other guy. It hurt a bit as any break up does, but I love her enough to le... (233 words)

Does he want a relationship or is he just playing me around?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 345 days ago

23 November 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - ive met a guy who ive gone on about 4 dates with. he seems to like me..but my only problem is i cant really work him out. im always the one that has to initiate text conversations and ask him 0ut on dates..but when i do hes always really sweet and never lets me down. he hint... (202 words)

I told my GF that I've had a relationship before, but I lied. Should I tell her the truth?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 361 days ago

23 November 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - hey this is the first time that i am asking a question on this so here goes.. In the beginning of my relationship, my girlfriend asked me how many previous girlfriends i have had and i answered by saying just the one. Now i dont know why i said that because i have never been ... (120 words)

Do I keep him out of my life and stay pregnant at 14?? Help me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 363 days ago

23 November 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Hi, i am 14 years old and my boy friend is 16. in his car one night and he pulled out a condom and asked me if i was ready and i didnt want to look like a baby so i said yes, when i was not really at all. while we were having sex the condom broke and i felt it, it hurt. i told ... (138 words)

I'm having an affair with my sons HS basketball coach and now I'm pregnant, help!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 54 days ago

23 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My name is Ashlee my husband and I been married 18 years and we have 3 beautiful kids a son and two daughters, but I am having an affair with my son's high school basketball coach. My son is 16. The trouble is, we're both married. I had noticed how cute he was when my son ... (216 words)

Does he just call me because he's worried that I won't tutor him anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 350 days ago

23 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone, There is a guy in my class I really like, and he knows my feeling too. One month ago, when I said I liked him, he rejected me saying there were plenty fish in the sea- I should find someone better than him. He also let me know he had a girlfriend alrea... (311 words)

I can't seem to get my dream Aussie out of my mind! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

23 November 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Ello all, i know this isnt one of you run of the mill questions but im just curious if this has happened to anyone else as its a first for me and has left me confused all day!! well its about a dream really, ill explain... this dream involved a man i have never ever seen in my ... (195 words)

What are the facts about pre-cum?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 358 days ago

23 November 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hello, I've recently come off the pill and my boyfriend and I and now using the 'pull out method'. I'm a little worried because once his done his business outside me he re-enters me straight away. Could I still get pregnant? What are the facts about pre-cum? Hope... (68 words)

We fight so much - are we really meant to be, or too opposite?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 364 days ago

23 November 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Me and my boyfriend fight at least once a week. Its normally the same fight over and over again, about how I don't tell him things. But half the time I don't understand what I'm thinking and can't explain it to him. Since we fight so often are we really meant to be, or are we ... (61 words)

Could someone get pregnant if he touches them before ejaculatings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 364 days ago

23 November 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hey people. i would like to know if someone can get pregnant if a guy brushes a female before he ejaculate. please give me ur answers.... (26 words)

She broke up with me and I want her back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 334 days ago

23 November 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - Hey Agony aunts and Uncles ;P i am 14 and i have been going out with a girl ( i'm a guy btw) her friend hooked me up with her and 8 of us went out as friends and she broke up with me a day after we started going out but now i love her. Basically she told me that she knew i ... (143 words)

Should I start dating my ex-wife again even though we're divorced?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 304 days ago

23 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Should I start dating my ex-wife again even though we're divorced? Divorced ended because of an affair. I will admit I still have feelings for her... But trust and honesty play and issue. I don't want to be played for a fool again or ever again especially from her. Our ... (62 words)

I've lied to him about my real age...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 353 days ago

23 November 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi, I've been going out with this guy for 4 months now but we have liked each other for a year now he loves me so much and we have been through so much together, I can't imagine my life without him. I love him so much I've sort of pushed my friends away because I love him so ... (136 words)

Should I go out with my best boy mate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

23 November 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - I am 16 years old and have a friend called Trey. We are really close and he always comes to mine every saturdaay. We have never kissed or anything and just see each other as mates but when we are together everything just seems perfect. We hold hands and mess around. We was ... (185 words)

He's a virgin????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

23 November 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I love my bf and everything he does. Yeah the band teach! I got over the thing with him and Starla. He asked me if I ever wanted to have kids with him. I'm 21 and he is 38. I really want to but I am in college and he has band and all his other "kids" and he told me he is still ... (133 words)

He doesn't like me any more because I told him I was bi sexual, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 364 days ago

23 November 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - He doesn't like me any Iore because i told him I was bi sexual, what can I do? I was dating a guy for a while, and recently I told him I was bisexual and he said he hates bisexuals, and now he's ignoring me, what can I do?... (52 words)

Is the "bum" considered a sexual organ?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 336 days ago

23 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I had an argument this morning about anal sex. He doesn't want to do it because he says the bum isn't a sexual organ. Is that true?... (30 words)

I feel it's too soon for his kids to be introduced to her. Am I being unreasonable here?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

23 November 2008 (F)

- My husband moved out 4 days ago with no warning.. he asks to see our sons and be part of their lives so far no problem. Thing is when he left he told me that although he had slept with someone else it was just a once in a while over the past year.. now he tells me he has ... (218 words)

Does he love me or her...? I'm lost.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

23 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was dating a guy for 2 years and 2 months. We were having the usual relationship spatting nothing major. He decides we need a break. We broke up for 2 months. I found out he liked another girl who is married so they can't totally be with one another and that's why he wanted ... (264 words)

Is he taking things too far with his "interest" in his band?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

23 November 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend is a band teacher. I love him with all of my heart but he ALWAYS talks about his students and how much he loves them. There is this one girl, she's a freshman in high school. He always says "She's so awesome!" he has pictures of her and everything!!! When we when ... (154 words)

Should I or shouldnt I call him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

23 November 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - I really like this guy and I want him to like me back. A friend of his told me that I wasn't really his type. He gave me his mobile number and I gave him mine but I'm so afraid to text him because when we're both on bebo he never really talks to me when I mail him. He stays ... (79 words)

Why are we always arguing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

23 November 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and we argue a lot, we have finished like 3-4 times for like a week or two but we finished today well this morning and like when we finish he always says horrible stuff like he doesn't want to get back but this has happend ... (136 words)

Something "special" for my birthday........

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

23 November 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - My girlfriend said she wanted to give me something "special" for my birthday which is in a week and when I went to her house she had left her computer on so I checked some websites and while on google I typed in the search bar and some searches said stuff about a blowjob... I ... (81 words)

I can't seem to get the rhythm going when I have sex...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

23 November 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Hey. I'm just getting to the point now with my boyfriend where we're probably gonna have sex. I've done it before but am nowhere near as experienced as he is. The first time I had sex, and another time since, whenever I've gone on top, it's been uncomfortable, p... (96 words)

My husband's father repeatedly raped me, he's just found out about it and he's heartbroken!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 348 days ago

23 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a huge problem. I have been repeatedly sexually abused throughout my childhood and adulthood. I have a husband that just wants to take care of me. His father raped me and made me continue to have sex with him by threatening me. I did not tell my husband because I was ... (72 words)

I want to marry her but I don't think it's going to happen.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 364 days ago

23 November 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - Sir, I am a 22 year old guy, 18 years old that's right from college life itself, I saw a girl and fell in love with her. Actually I tried to avoid her those days but she was also looking me for fun. Unfortunately I fell in love with her. Yet I didn't tell this to her till the ... (172 words)

Why does my boyfriend always comment negatively when he sees I'm wearing makeup?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 360 days ago

23 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Why does my boyfriend of 6 years always comment negatively when he sees I'm wearing makeup. He will comment here and there, stare at my face and ask if I'm wearing makeup. He makes me feel embarrassed and unattractive about wearing makeup. He says he likes a natural beauty? ... (104 words)

Do you think I should end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

23 November 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Please read all!!!! I need help With this. Well i'm in my last year in school and I'm under a lot of stress with school and in my relationship. I haven't been perfectly happy in a long time in my relationship. I constantly switch between happiness and sadness. Every now and ... (701 words)

Is marriage worth feeling this crap???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

23 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so miserable and lonely in my marriage and don't know what to do. Sometimes things are fine and we get on ok, other times things are just shocking and we don't even remotely get each other. We've been together 12 years and despite my wish to have children don't have any a... (213 words)

How to switch the excitement

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 361 days ago

23 November 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey my girlfriend seems to have zero libido. She'll make out and rarely will do something involving below the waste. She claims to not be in the mood for that part but would be in the mood to just hangout kiss and all that? Anyway, any tips for making her want that and sort of ... (123 words)

Guys - Are some men afraid of kissing passionately?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 364 days ago

23 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Guys - Are some men afraid of kissing passionately? I have been on a couple of dates with this guy I adore although I'm not sure if he is just with me for the sake of it! The first time we had a goodnight kiss I tried to kiss him passionately (ie french kiss) but he wouldn't ... (114 words)

I met him and he looked NOTHING like his picture!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 357 days ago

23 November 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - It all started about a year ago when I met this guy online, who lives in another country, I was at the time dating someone else, but the guy online was just a friend for 6 months, so no I wasnt cheating. I did in the end sort of break up with my bf for him, although it was time ... (379 words)

He treats me like I don't even exist.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

23 November 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - It's been 10 days since my boyfriend of two years have stopped talking to me. We never had a fight for this long but the thing is I didn't even expect that he would react this badly to what I did. Basically, my boy and my mom never really got along. In fact, they hate each o... (431 words)

Why doesn's she like giving me head and swallowing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 363 days ago

23 November 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - My girlfriend and I have a pretty healthy sex life, we have sex at least once a day or ever couple of days and enjoy it. I go down on her every day at least, or whenever she wants it, and make her orgasm by licking her, she says she loves it. But she never does like 'going ... (386 words)

I told her something in jest and now I'm in the spare room!!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

23 November 2008 (?) age 26-29 - My wife and me were texting each other. Well she asked me (rather not talked about it) my reply was nothing else better came alone (as a joke), Now she thinks I'm using her (which isn't true). She makes me sleep alone in the guest room. How can I make this up to her ... (57 words)

Why did he leave then want to spend all his time with me and then leave again, please help me understand.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 361 days ago

23 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - About 4 months ago I received an anon letter telling me my husband was having an affair. Devastated I confronted him and he admitted it to me and our 2 children before walking out on us. Since then he has come round to see the children and insisted on having me along for thei... (306 words)

What is the best way to go to win someone back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 317 days ago

23 November 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hello, I'm after some general advice, if you want to win someone back, is confessing your love to them a good way to go about it or are there other alternatives? Thank you for all your advice in advance! X... (44 words)

Is he only using me, or what is going on here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

23 November 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hiya, I met a lad a few weeks ago and we txt each other and talk on the phone quite alot. The week after we met we went to the cinema and the weekend after (last weekend) we met up again and had sex. This week when I asked if he wanted to meet up he said 'he's not in the best ... (150 words)

I'm very confused! Why do I go back to my ex wife? Why does anybody do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

23 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Why does one go back to an ex?Even after an affair that lead into a divorce on her part..I have been recently divorced since June 9th.Now I see myself back with her sexually and emotionally it's been about 1 year since I was with her last..I'm in state of confusion.Don't know ... (100 words)

I get extremely hurt and upset when he says things about other girls, am I taking all this too seriously?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 363 days ago

23 November 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Hello, I have been with my boyfriend for a year in febuary. Thursday night we we're on the phone talking about someon on the telly and he said what the one with masive boobs and I said yeah, how do you know shes got massive boobs and he said well you cant miss them babe there ... (421 words)

He shows no concern. Does he love me?? Is it my fault?? What have I done wrong??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

23 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, About four years ago I met a man who worked in one of the shops down the road. I didn't know who this person was but for some reason I had fallen in love with him. Soon after we started talking and texin 40-50 texts a day. He knew that I loved him. When I met him he ... (709 words)

She informed me she's not a virgin! What shall I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 363 days ago

23 November 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - I have been seeing this girl for 3 weeks now, we have developed a really good relationship, and I was under the impression that we were both virgins. The other night however, she informed me that she is in fact not a virgin, not even close. I am the only person she has told ... (79 words)

Why is it so difficult to have a serious relationship with someone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

23 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - why its so difficult to have a (serious) relationship? everybody says i'm cute, good looking ... bla bla bla .... but i'm stil alone ... i'm friendly, openminded, funny, serious when needed .... what's wrong? ... (35 words)

I broke up with her and now realized what a big mistake I made! How do I fix this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

23 November 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - Ive been dating this girl for three weeks and i broke up with her for a stupid cause i wasn't sure if i really cared about her. Now i've realized that i made a mistake and that i want her back what should i do?... (45 words)

How can we get the "I love you" out??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 364 days ago

23 November 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - im 21 and ive been with my boyfriend whos 25 for 9 months and im completely and utterly in love with him. We are completely honest with each other and can talk about nearly everything. the only "problem" we have is that we've never said the "i love you's" yet. to cut a long ... (180 words)

We can't be anything but friends and we both have a hard time over this and keep going back and forth. What can we do to accept what can't be and still remain good friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

23 November 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - i have been dating with this girl since 6 months. she loves me a lot and really cared about me. i was a special gem in her eyes and i am very lucky to get her.but to be frank, inspite we being committed, i didnt feel for her that way . i care for her and love her more than ... (536 words)

We had a fine "overly friendly friendship", then all of a sudden he turned around and now says he wants nothing to do with me! What is going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 364 days ago

23 November 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - in confused! so there is this guy and we had been good friends for a year, and for that whole year he tried his hardest not to like me. then one night everything happened and we ended up starting in what we call an overly friendly friendship. and that was fine with me. but then ... (476 words)

My boyfriend has adhd and is paranoid and controlling, what can I do to ease his mind?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 80 days ago

23 November 2008 (F)

- Hey all those in dear cupid land. ive got a bit of a problem. im with a fantastic boyfriend he has got ADHD but he's so sweet and caring, but he is so paroinoid, he always askin me if im cheating on him, or who txts me everytime i get a txt. that and he knows my ex bf still re... (147 words)

It hurts so much when being fingered, what's wrong??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

23 November 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I've been fingered a few times and each time it hurts and thats only with one finger! Trying two fingers hurt too much and one doesn't even feel good, i can't tell that its in or not. is something wrong?... (40 words)

How do I get closure with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 364 days ago

23 November 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I am a girl who has fallen in love with her first cousin. Of course, falling in love with him was totally unintentional. It started out with short text messaging, and as we got to know each other, I found that though we had different personalities, our perspectives in life are ... (290 words)

How do I initiate the first kiss?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 364 days ago

23 November 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Hey there :) Im in a complicated situation with this guy I like, I dont know if he likes me, but he flirts loads, then other times he doesnt seem interessted. Also I find him realy boring when talking to him through msn or text compared to real life, yet other people like my ... (164 words)

I feel mature and comfortable with sex, but now I want to do a striptease for my bf and I get all nervous and selfconscious, why??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 364 days ago

23 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hiya!Well,I feel I am a full grown woman,very confortable with sex,masturbation,and getting naked.I like my body,and feel very nice when naked. I have this boyfriend for almost a year,and sex is well...explosive.Just love to do it all the time. I want to surprise him.Wan... (128 words)

When is too soon to be committed to someone after a divorce..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 363 days ago

23 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok I've been separated from my husband that I was with for 10 years and have 2 children with for 6 months. It was my choice and I have never felt better since. I've been over it, since the day he walked out the door. I have dated 2 rebound guys since then. You know just having ... (270 words)

Is this guy interested in me - are my friends right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 349 days ago

23 November 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - OK, going from my questions about the guy i think likes me, heres what happened yesterday. I saw him yestreday morning and he asked what time i was on lunch, i told him and he told me to go meet him and we'd go together and he asked alot of questions about me, then we were... (244 words)

Do I wait for her till she's done with her friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

23 November 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - Do I wait for her? Dear Cupid I met this girl (Let’s call her Kim) last year at college and we dated for some months. The first month it was just fine until I broke up with her, cuz I felt there was nothing growing between us, but after another month Kim came to me crying to ... (386 words)

After I met my bf I started feeling all needy, how can I regain some self-control and act less pathetic?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

23 November 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - seriously help! i have just realised that them rules women invented to play it cool and everything actually should have been stuck to or you just get messed around. right well my boyfriend ignored me for a couple days and i being totally in love with the guy kept calling and... (364 words)

After our first date he said he'd text me - should I wait for his call or initiate it myself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

23 November 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - hi i went out on a date with this guy it was our first date, but i've been left with a confused feeling i don't know how he feels maybe you could help! during the date he kept asking questions getting to know me better, he even said its about getting to know each other... (125 words)

Is it illegal to get fellatio from an underage girl?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

23 November 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - my neighbor is 16 yrs old and im 21, and shes really into me and wants to have sex but i told her that i wouldnt cuz of i didnt wanna go to jail... so she said that she would give me a blowjob but idk if thats consider illegal???... (51 words)

Is she flattered or is she having second thoughts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

23 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Afternoon everyone! Recently I asked a woman out at work who unbeknownst to me at the time, was already seeing another guy (same place of work). In knocking me back she said in an e-mail that she 'must decline' my invitation. Is this different from 'wanting to decline'? ... (287 words)

Will he lose respect for me if we carry on with oral sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

23 November 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - I am in a relationship with this guy.He doesn't want to have sex because he don't want it to turn phhsical and he dont want to loose respect for me.I am totally fine wit that cause im a virgin but we do have oral sex sometimes. Will he loose respect for me at the same pase as ... (64 words)

I want to tell her that I like her but I can't find the words! How to tell her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 363 days ago

23 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Basically I have fallen completely head over heels in love with this one girl I've known for a number of months, we have been through a lot already. She has hinted quite a few times and it takes me like two hours before something happens or someone says something which makes me ... (149 words)

I told him I want to wait but he carries on asking me. Is he desperate for sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 363 days ago

23 November 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Well av bin with my boyfriend a few months now. He is a virgin and so am I, he is always asking me if I wanna trade v's with him, I mean I do but I want to wait so its special i have already told him this but he carries on asking me. Is he desperate for sex? What shall I do?... (66 words)

He cut contact with me and our son because his wife has discovered our affair! What do you think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

23 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Over a year ago i got in contact with someone from my past. His marriage was very unhappy and he was there for his children as they meant everything to him.He stopped loving his wife and his marriage had been on the rocks for a couple of years previously.My marriage had ended ... (319 words)

Improve Image Or Relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

23 November 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - My girlfriend and I have been together for eight months. We love eachother very much and have just finished school, and no, we haven't had sex, and we don't plan to for a very long time. This is my first relationship but this is her third because her first two only wanted sex. ... (353 words)

He's the best thing that has happened to me in a long time but he's married, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

23 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, i've been seeing a married man, we've known each other for 16 years, but we started talking again 6 months ago and hit it off straight away, we fancied each other all those years ago but never acted on it, until now. We've spoken about how things are, he can't leave hi... (143 words)

My guy friend who I have fancied for years is falling for my best friend. I don't know what to do!!!

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23 November 2008 (?) age 16-17 - my guy friend who i have fancied for years is falling for my best friend. I don't know what to do!!! how can i fall out of love with him? any ideas..they both like each other but my bestfriend won't make a move on him because i like him. I don't want to stop them but i feel ... (61 words)

Our date was great, but when I suggested we would meet up on a regular basis, he completely backed off! What is going on?

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23 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Can anyone help i went on a date the other day,we both agreed we had a gr8 time and we will do it again, i sent him a email regarding us meeting up again and ask him can it be once a week just to get to know each other again, i know he works 7 days a week and is very busy his ... (492 words)

He never initiates sex and lately he keeps turning me down, I feel so sexually frustrated, help!

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23 November 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Ok since when is it the man turning down the woman for sex? I'm an attractive female and my boyfriend has always said that he finds me attractive. When we first started dating, we were pretty physical, but after the first 6 months, we've hardly had any physicality at all. I ... (378 words)

He wants me, but without commitment...huh ?

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23 November 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Sorry for this-its going to be long. My boyfriend broke up with me, and Im trying to make sense of this. He sent me this (after he broke up, I might add): “ok, this is the way i look at it, i dont want a relationship. period. but i do want somebody without the commitment. ... (254 words)

I'm a virgin, we attempted sex but he is too big for me?

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23 November 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - hi im 18 and ima virgin,me and my fiance have tried to have sex,but hes too big for me,i have relaxed as much as i can,but he is still too big for me! what can i do? i really want to have sex with him but its not possible at the moment! any tips?? anon ... (63 words)

How do you think my friend feels? He often mentions we slept together in the past.

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23 November 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - So i have a good friend who i slept with twise. A realationship at the time was off the cards, as we are two different people. We talked every day - via email,net or txt. We stoped talking to each other for about 6 months, my excuse for this was to get over it - do... (220 words)

Should I tell her I know that she's having an affair?

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23 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - i know my wife is havingan affair with a man where she works, should i tell her that i know?... (20 words)

Should I move back and be with the woman I love despite her drug addiction?

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23 November 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Me and my girlfriend had been dating for about a year and things were great except for a drug problem that popped up about half way through the relationship. I tried really hard to get her to stop but to no success. We broke up because she started hangin with really low people. ... (239 words)

I get really nervous when doing a presentation, as my classmates always make fun of me! What could I do?

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23 November 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I get really nervous when presenting a presentation.For so many years I hate doing presentations. I don't like to present because my classmates will laugh at me once I start walking up to the front of the class, they make fun of me, and do sound effects while i'm presenting. ... (95 words)

I have all these qualities and yet don't have a boyfriend... what am I doing wrong?

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23 November 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Confidence? Beauty? Personality? I have all of that, except confidence and I've never had a boyfriend....What am I doing wrong?... (25 words)

I can leave all other women I am seeing but not this married woman, and she wants to end our affair now!

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23 November 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello I 'm here once again for ur guidness I realy love you all auntyzee who spare time for others. well this time, I 'm goin to show you the other side of my coin. it like this, I having an afair with the married women whos havin one kid too, along with that I 'm going ... (291 words)

Is it wrong for a 13 yr old to date a 19 yr old?

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23 November 2008 (?) age 13-15 - Is it wrong for a 13yo girl to be dating a 19yo guy that lives over seas? I love him to death, but i want other peoples point of view. No my parents dont know about him-im not supposed to date. I have been with some one that was 14....it didnt work out so well. Both boyfriends ... (74 words)

Why do I always get my heart broken?

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23 November 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - dear cupid, i could really use your help. im 18 years old and in college, im attractive and funny. i have goals in life.i have an all in all good personality and am fun to be around. i get asked out alot. i go out every weekend and there are too many plans sometimes. there is a ... (465 words)

Playing safe in love or in a relationship?

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23 November 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - how will you define the quotation "playing safe in love or in a relationship"?... (14 words)

How do I "terminate" her?

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23 November 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - hi everyone, i like this boy but i found him hugging another girl... they're dating. he doesn't know i like him. does anyone, i mean ANYONE know how i can "terminate" the girl so ill have a chance with him?ill take any advice. if anyone does reply to this, please dont lecture ... (72 words)

Threesome gone wrong!

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23 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently had a three some with my husband.What i thought was going to be an amazing experiance for us both ended up going totally the wrong way.It was my idea.We liked it so much we did it three times.It was shortly after that when i started to get really insecure.I was ... (195 words)

I am having major anxiety over this situation with a senior!

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23 November 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Dear readers: I am in alot of stress and anxiety over this senior thats has a huge crush on me, he would get red infront of me he would waite till i would look at him, sometimes i would look at him and smile, other times i would just not look at him. so im a freshan and im r... (374 words)

How can I support my friend? She may lose her sight...

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23 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - thanks for reading this. I have a freind who has bad eyesight and she has the possibility she might,lose her sight, she might not, but she might. I saw her recently and she was really upset and I was the shoulder to cry on - which is Ok, I want to be there for my frien... (178 words)

Why don't girls want to talk to me?

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23 November 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - well, Im seventeen, and Ive never had a girlfriend. in fact, ive only had like two or three girls that were just friends. I dont know what it is about me that makes me feel so hopeless around them. all the other guys at my school can talk to any girl about any thing without ... (118 words)

What's a good present I can get him?

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23 November 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - so, me and my boyfriend have been dating a while and its a really good relationship. christmas is coming and he won't tell me what he wants, and him and my best friend are trying to out do the other to get me a really nice present.. i want to get him like an " your the ... (62 words)

I like my boyfriend but I like someone else too!

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23 November 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - i have a boyfriend, and he's really sweet and i love him, but, i also think i might like someone else. i don't wanna do anything about it,cause it's pretty much just hugs and stuff like that, but my boyfriend is a little protective. we've been dating for 3 months and i don't ... (80 words)

I think about him every day and I can't move on....

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23 November 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - First let me appologise because this may be long but i really need advice because i don't know what to do anymore!i was in a relationship with guy i met in college, we were together for over a year and it was the best time of my life i really cared for him and i know he really ... (509 words)

Should we start anything sexual?

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23 November 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi. I'm 17 and my girlfriend is 16, and I was wondering if we should start anything sexual. I would like to try oral sex, but would she? I'm not sure if she wants to or not, and I feel like if I mention this it will scare her away or make her think I'm crazy and break up with ... (104 words)

I have no clue what to say to her! Any suggestions?

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23 November 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - I am recently in my freshman year in high school and have never really had a gf. However in the beginning of the school year i kind of dated this girl i didnt really like and well..... broke up with her after a week. Anyway it has been about a month or two and all of my friends ... (255 words)

Why is he so different with her? Was I just nothing?

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23 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Please help me. My life is in chaos. I met a man online six years ago and we wrote all of that time. Then we met and spent two weeks together to see how it would go. It went well (I thought.) and he promised to come and see me for the weekend in a few weeks. As soon as I got ... (344 words)

Am I crazy not to trust him 100%?

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23 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi My boyfriend kept a female pen pal he had secret from me. Only me finding a letter she had sent him, before we started going out, triggered the questions. Who is she? Why were you writing to each other? He said she is married and that there is nothing going on. But wh... (172 words)

How often do rebound relationships work out?

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23 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - How often do rebound relationships work out? My fiancee left me because he cheated on me and now he spends every free moment with this girl. It's going on five weeks now. He says that she's not his girlfriend but she's just a cool girl to hang out with. We have a 20mth old son. ... (105 words)

I said the only reason I danced with her was because I felt sorry for her... how do I fix this?

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23 November 2008 (?) age 13-15 - My friends and me went to a fancy school dance. One of my girl best friend (I think she likes me) she looked a disco ball. She ask me to dance (I did and she was awful). Long story short I talking to my friend and I said. Friend: So you with dance "Sam" (not her real na... (140 words)

How can I become the faithful girlfriend that I used to be?

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23 November 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I'm a bit confused. I'm an attractive, well educated woman who seem not to be able to solve a simple enough problem and so would love some good advice. I love my boyfriend, we've been together for a long time. I use to be faithful but these days i'm not. I don't even recognize ... (371 words)

I really like him, so what should I tell him?

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23 November 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - So there's this guy that I like and he has told me he likes me too. He just got out of a relationship and we're talking. The problem is that we only email each other and see eachother on the bus, and he says he "confused as hell", yet he never has asked me to go somewhere with ... (78 words)

Is it normal to want to be pregnant at 15?

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23 November 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Is it normal to want to be pregnant at 15?... (10 words)

His HS girl friend is vacationing in Greece where he's going to school. Should I be concerned?

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23 November 2008 (F)

age 10-12 - Last week, my boyfriend of a year (who is studying abroad in Greece) and I had an argument about trust and such. Usually we set an appointed time to go on Skype to see each each other, and sometimes he doesn't show up. I was really angry at him, and in desperation he gave me ... (198 words)

Is my long distance girlfriend just playing games and trying to hurt me?

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23 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with a girl for almost 3 yrs, she was from spain, was studying and working over here. We got together and like any good relationship... it was good. However, she found it difficult after a while, didn't like the culture, found it difficult to make good friends, all ... (560 words)

Am I crazy to feel this way please help !!!!!!!!!!!!

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23 November 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - What should I do? I’m 22 years old and married for about 4 months my husband and I have a 1 year old and another on the way. When I was pregnant with my son he wouldn't touch me. When I asked him to have sex it would be I’m tired. He would then watch porn, beat off and lie... (894 words)

She doesn't know me but I like her.

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23 November 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - Hi, I really like this girl in college but she doesn't even know I exist, we are in the same class together but never talked, help please!... (27 words)

Pregnant and spotting...

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23 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm nervous. I'm 8 weeks pregnant and haven't been to the doctor's yet. My appointment is December 10th. Well for the past 2 weeks I've been spotting sporadically. Not heavy enough to require a pad or even a panty liner, but there was blood whenever I would wipe myself. Then it ... (161 words)

Is this normal or am I crazy??

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23 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - OK so I have so many questions and I dont know where to start so I giving this a try, I'm honestly just looking for advice, so I am a fairly younger person who has recently went through a divorce, my marriage was falling about a year ago, anyways when my ex cheated on me at ... (181 words)

I'm pressuring myself to have sex with him, how do I stop?

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23 November 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - my boyfriend wants to have sex or at least do sexual stuff. But I'm not ready. He said he will wait and not pressure me to do anything, but I'm pressuring myself for him. I just don't know what to do. I do want sex but not right now.... (49 words)

How do I ask to have phone sex?

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23 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i want to have phone sex but i think the guy always asks. how am i supposed to ask?... (19 words)

Lately my GF has been really sexual and I'm not sure what to do next...

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23 November 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - lately my gf has been very sexual....always feeling my private area and im not sure what i should do should i ask her if she wants to see it? or do something to it? or is it just a tease....? lol im so confused and i wouldnt mind if she wants to do something to it just a ... (78 words)

I can't seem to find anyone because I'm just not good around new people.

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23 November 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi, can anyone give me advice? im nearly 23 and iv never had a girl friend, i wouldn't say im a geek or anything, i socialise with my friends a lot and always go the clubs and pubs. But i cant seem to find anyone. im kind of shy around new people and dont know what to say. i h... (92 words)