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writes:i need advice badly! So i have a really big crush, on someone that is off limits, and i need to get over it! i'm driving myself crazy! at night i think about him, when i'm getting ready for skewl i think about him, i think about him a lot!! I just really need advice on how to get over him, because he is dating someone else and i am jealous, but i don't want to ruin their relationship because they seem really happy and good together, it's just that i'm being selfish and wanting him 2. I need to get past him and move on to other people, but i can't seem to. Please help!
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reader, mightyhawk  +, writes (19 November 2008):
 I think you are being really mature; it is normal for you to feel jealous if there is someone you are attracted to who already is with someone else, and your attitude and respect for other people's relationship is really nice :). The only thing you can really do is spend a little time to stop avoiding your feelings, sit down and think about why you feel so attacted to him, try and think it through and think of his bad points after, I'm sure when you look at him he's not the angel you think he is. That might help you to move on, there are plenty of gorgeous boys out there! And chances are plenty of them are better than this guy you like! Hope that helps x
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