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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Am I being a hypocrite wanting to meet up with this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Just recently I have got back in touch with many of my old school friends via Facebook. One of them (who I shall call J) confessed to me that he had fancied me at school but had been too shy to tell me. I explained to him that I was very flattered but that we would only ever ... (551 words)

Is he worth it when he lets me down all the time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5625 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Do you think hes worth it? when he lets me down like all the time. Right well my ex bf, wants to get back with me and i told him i would get back with him if he showed me he can change because, he never used to spend time with me. But now he seems to spend even less time w... (358 words)

If he didn't want to be with me, wouldn't he just tell me upfront?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a super huge problem me and my boyfriend (well ex i duno) have been together for 8 months. and for the past 8 months he has talked to me either by seein me text or email everyday. he texts me every morning before he goes to work because i can't be with him physical... (302 words)

Is college supposed to be this lonely?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im in my second year of college and I have never beeb so lonely in my life. I know people but I feel I have no REAL friends that I can depend on. I had a best friend last year who I always partied with and stuff but we had a falling out becuase of this thing and she moved away ... (360 words)

Shall I do the sexual stuff and hope for the best?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is always asking me if we want to do sexual things(Not sex!) He has not done things like this before, i have with my previous relationships and they all ended, i want to stay with my boyfriend i have got now and i want to do stuff with him but am shy and scared t... (78 words)

Am I stupid and not seeing something that I should?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

22 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear all, My recent attempts for help have failed so i have come back another time for help. met the dreamgirl of my life, the problem was she had a really popular boyfriend. I have always had popular friends but im not that good looking. I had this girl worke... (405 words)

I don't want to disappoint my late Mother, but my father is out of control.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys I need some advice on what to do! My mum died back in early 2007 and although we weren't really close, I still really miss her. Anyway, after she died my dad moved back in who had left when I was about six and at first me and my sisters could tell he would rather b... (804 words)

We can't afford to break up!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've lived with my long term boyfriend for a good few years. We do have a lot of problems that have come up over the course of that time, I've discovered we're very different people, with very different priorities. The spark may not completely have gone, but it's definitely ... (178 words)

How do I divorce him when he's mentally and physically abusive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for 4 years and together for 12. He's always been mentally and physically abusive. The abuse started as early as the first 6 months. We have 3 little girls and I don't know what to do. I'm in the military and he's constantly trying to get me ... (145 words)

It hurts if I masturbate for awhile. Is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I masturbate on occasion. But I've never had an orgasm. It physically hurts after a certain point before I get there so I have to stop. I'll still be wet and everything but like I can't keep going. It hurts. Is this normal?... (44 words)

Would it be a problem if I told him directly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am almost depressed because of being single for a long time. I had just 1 boyfriend in whole my life that we broke up 3 years ago. everybody agrees that I am beautiful, friendly and sociable. I have a lot of boys roaming around me and all of my friends are surprised why I do ... (301 words)

Is she trying to do the right thing or is there another agenda here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

- Hoping people can give me a bit of a hand here. I broke up with a guy at the end of August. I was feeling bad about it for a bit but am much better now and am dating again and having fun. He has a new girlfriend. I have seen them together and I have heard she is really nice. ... (254 words)

What do I do about his high sex drive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hes really into sex while i would rather hang out and do stuff even though sex feels amazing i would do it a few times a week but he wants it every morning i asked if he could masterbate instead of sex but he said it doesnt cut it and i find when we have sex to much i get ... (111 words)

I'm getting mixed signals from my teacher!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright well..I really need an opinion on something that happen just this week. I get so many mixed signals from a former teacher of mine... I recently saw him after classes and we were just talking and then I had him help me with Math..I told, Ohh man, I have a test this week, ... (672 words)

His gift was more expensive than mine!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 15 years old and my 18 year old boyfriend of not even a month bought me a $200 gift for christmas. I had like a $50 budget for him. But I don't know anymore. I don't want him to feel like I don't care. What should I do?... (49 words)

Is he jealous since I don't like him or is he just mean to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5559 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I need your advice! I have two guyfriends; their names are Tony and Kelvin. I really like Kelvin even he has a gf, and I think not only Kelvin knows I have a crush on him but also Tony. My question is that whether Tony got jealous when he knows I like his friend ... (258 words)

I can't go out with him as I can't do that to my parents.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a muslim girl and 15 years old. This might sound stupid, but please read the whole story. 2 years ago I met this boy. I never liked anypne before, and wasn't very intrested in having a boyfriend but he was different. I started liking him and he like me too. Both of us... (208 words)

He said the distance is too much for him and wants to end it... I'm heartbroken!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Ive got a little bit of a strange situation but I would be grateful for any advice. Just over a month ago I was introduced to this guy through a mutual friend and we got on so well that night and I ended up staying up to 3am talking to him. The next day I was gutted though ... (224 words)

I just can't get over his past, am I being paranoid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months and things were great, but we have recently started arguing all the time because of his past. I know it was before he met me but I cant get over it. His ex had an abortion which I'm extremely against, he slept around, he did drugs, ... (118 words)

Have I just messed up the signal-reading again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - A good six months ago I met a woman at my evening class - although obviously I couldn't help noticing she was attractive, when we first started chatting I wasn't all that interested in romance (I've been happily single for a while now). Over time though, I've been chatting... (307 words)

I have a terrible moral dilemma...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (F) age - I have a terrible moral dilemma. I will try to explain my situation, but I know, it's not easy. I live in a totally collapsed marriage, my children are all gown ups. Not independent, and causing lot's of headaches. I feel totally drained and exhausted form trying to save my ... (227 words)

Losing extreme faith & trust in someone I thought I loved...what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently I've been having trouble with someone I met online who I was meant to meet up with soon to get closer/get to know better. Mind you this little relationship spark is long distance, and anyone who has negative responses towards "online dating" please don't bother ... (422 words)

Rushed into bed on the first date and now I think I've blown it...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - im a 18 year old guy and ive been on a first date with a 22 year old we got along fine but i rushed it too fast we ended up sharing a bed but we didnt have sex, alothe we dont mess around (foreplay). as you can imagine this killed the conversation for the next day it had been... (217 words)

Am I mean in telling my horrible ex to go away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend kept texting me, to begin with it was just about general stuff such as 'how are you?' ect. However when i began replying to his texts after a little while he started asking me to send him seductive pictures. I told him i wasn't going to and didn't text him back ... (207 words)

How do I tell if it meant anything?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was at a party yesterday and met this guy. I known who he was but not know him to talk to but my friends use to be really good mates with him. We got talking and then I sat on his knee and then we went outside and started kissing. We went into town afterwards and were close ... (247 words)

Do you fess up to cheating and get dumped? or try and pretend it never happened?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (F) age 30-35 - so i cheated on my boyfriend ,i had sex with my exboyfriend. it was just all in the moment, i know it was wrong and i shouldnt have done it. i love my boyfriend now, and i dont want to lose him. its only been 2months but i dont want to tell him, bc im sure if he knew he would ... (119 words)

High School Madness

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - So... I'm a Senior in Highschool and I'm dating a Sophomore. I'm sure there are alot of you who say that a teenage relationship is meaningless; well maybe it is maybe it isn't. Anyway there are alot of underclassmen who openly like her. They flirt with her and tell her tha... (213 words)

He want's to commit, I don't like his personality, Is it time to break up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I just started dating a man an after a month he is asking for a commitment. Not marriage but he wants me to tell him it is him and only he that I will be dating because he wants to see where this will go. I don't want to lose his friendship but I feel this is going too fast and ... (178 words)

Does my boyfriend give a crap about our relationship?I NEED HELP

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hello, I need some views about this. My 9 month boyfriend is the best guy, he has always treated me like a princess, he is very introverted and shy, and he hasn't been very lucky with women. I am his first real relationship, and he has alwas said that has has never like anyone ... (243 words)

Is this for real?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have been seperated from my husband for 13 months(pending divorce). 8 months ago I was sent to a nearby and familiar city for a 2 week training program. I lost weight, chopped my hair, and bought a new wardrobe. I was looking and feeling great! The top mana... (646 words)

How do I tell my 14 yearold boyfriend that I am pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 14 years old and about 3 months pregnant. My family already knows and was upset. Now they are dealing with it. However my boyfriend (14 years) does not know. We had sex for the first time and used a condom. I got pregnant anyway. I am scared of telling him and don't really ... (77 words)

I like my boss, I think he feels the same, but we both have partners and he has kids!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - What do I do, the chemistry is there, the eye contact is there, we still blush even though we've been working together 3 months now. I think about him almost everyday and when he goes home on a friday im the last person he says goodbye to and he looks into my eyes before he ... (226 words)

How can I know if he is the one for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Here we go Iam a mature girl with so much guys around..but i can trust NONE!!i liked someone once and he was almost perfect..tried 2 give him what he really deserves but i always get far when he comes closer as well as the whole bagagge!! every single day i set by myself an... (136 words)

I need some advice about my ex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupids I have questions about my ex bf(im not sure what he wants thats why im writing this to u for help, thanks for reading) he left me about a month ago now, he dumped me and im still not over him, i see him most days down the pub in which he comes to talk to me,ive s... (388 words)

How can I help my pee shy girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

22 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - What can I do to help my girlfriend who is very pee shy? This makes it very difficult to plan a day out going to the beach or to a concert or even to a long movie. When she gets home to her apartment, I have to wait outside so she can pee. Sometimes she is so nervous about that ... (125 words)

Is he right for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Am i with the rite guy he is really nice but he flirts and gives girls hugs rite infront of me it makes me feel so gelous he says he loves me and sometimes i do think he means it somedays it feels like it dosnt its amkin me feel so confused about 8 guys have asked me out a... (103 words)

Am I doing the right thing trying again with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5625 days ago

22 November 2008 (?) age 30-35 - i know this is very long, but im desperate for advice, so please please please read this and tell me what you think. im at a really awkward stage in my life right now. my boyfriend and i had been together for almost two years when we broke up.we were each others first kiss fir... (1044 words)

Since we broke up, porn is doing nothing for me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - OK, this is a bit of a strange question. Whenever I'm not in a relationship, I masturbate/watch porn with a normal frequency (say something slightly less than daily). When I'm in a relationship that drops significantly (maybe weekly or even more infrequently), even if I not ... (104 words)

How do I deal with a cheap boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am at a loss. I have been in a relationship with this guy for 3 years. We lived together for 1.5 years and then moved out but decided to keep trying our luck at making the relationship work. The main issues (according to me!) were 1. money 2. lack of communication 3. ... (686 words)

How can I tell the GF he has another woman without her knowing that it's me?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - O.K I'M the other woman and I want the other woman (the girlfriend) to find out about us. This way it will put the man in the spot to make a decision. I don't want her to see something that will hurt her, I just want her to be informed, the man you think is completely honest ... (158 words)

Is Tony jealous or is he just mean to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5624 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I need your advices! I have two guyfriends; their names are Tony and Kelvin. I really like Kelvin even he has a gf, and I think not only Kelvin knows I have a crush on him but also Tony. My question is that whether Tony got jealous when he knows I like his frien... (260 words)

MONEY ORDER!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently i sent a money order out to an ebay seller and i believe i put the wrong address, What can i do (IF anything) to get a copy of the money order so that i can resend it or to get the money order back. any help will be appreciated! thank you!... (54 words)

My hair is falling out due to stress!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm dealing with a great amount of stress and my hair is falling out! can anyone help me stop this?... (20 words)

How can I get him out of my head and have him not affect me in the future?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I cant get over a guy i met couple months ago. When we first was talking everything was going good, till I found out that he was bestfriend with my Ex.... Of course ex's get jealous so he basically brain wash the guy i liked n told him different lies about me. how i use to... (233 words)

I feel like there's something wrong inside of my head and I need guidance.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really hope this doesn't sound stupid. :( In the last few years, I've had a few problems in my life, as everyone does. My brother attempted suicide two years ago and it kind of put my family in a really awkward situation.. Like, everyone was lost. My parents split up... (288 words)

Can a boy kiss a girl he doesn't love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everybody this question might be stupid but i am really thinking about it i kissed a boy on our 3 date but i knew him for 3 weeks before that i am afraid he doesn t love me or he just like me he did not said i love u but he asked all the time about the kiss he said i feel ... (83 words)

I'm not attracted to men themselves, but their body. I still like girls too, am I gay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

22 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hey, im 16 okay so here goes, i like girls, well at least i thought i did, and i think i'm starting to fancy men. so i've had a rough time, 12 months since my last relationship and not really close since, i've only managed to kiss a girl twice, and they were meaningless. Th... (376 words)

So many guys, only one of me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5565 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i have this problem were im wiv this guy who is really nice but a load of guys have been asking me to go out with them i mean about 8 guys there all really close m8ts so i let them down gently but when i see them they tell me how much thy like me i liked the attention at... (136 words)

Our relationship has gone KABOOM! How do I get us back on track?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Look i need help on how to get back in line with my relationship. I love this girl and we hit it off great but after 5 months things just seemed to go kaboom, i really need someone to help me patch up my mistakes and help me get us back on track. ... (121 words)

Is there anything I can do to enjoy life more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is it that i always look at the bad side of life.? Well i always think i am fat, i weigh about 7 and a half stone, and im 14 nearly 15, and 5'4-5. But im always worrying about my weight and every one says to me " you dont need to diet your so skinny " but i dont think th... (223 words)

I can't move on...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi me and my boyfriend broke up in the summer and since then he has moved on with a girl in my college. and i have tried so hard to move on-i've met some guys but i've never been that into them eventhough they are perfectly fine and i am trying really hard to be friends ... (178 words)

My girlfriend is acting distant and won't talk to me.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I really could use some advice concerning my girlfriend. We have been seeing each other for about a year. I am 30 and she is 39. She works two jobs and I work and go to school, so we would really see each other on the weekends and once in a while during the week. Every... (818 words)

I don't know wut to do wit this girl can sum1 help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - my gf doesnt wanna hang out wit me wut turned into 2 days wound up to be almost week and a half then she tell me that it dont feel like we go out and when i think of her i get butterflys and my heart hurts sum1 help me plz... (52 words)

We broke up, do you think we will get back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - About three weeks ago, my boyfriend and I broke up after two years. He slept with me two weeks ago, and said one week ago he wanted to get back together, but then changed his mind. I know that he is confused, and have found it really hard to get over it. Last week after he ... (261 words)

Should I pursue this long distance relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 24 years old girl. I have just met a guy during a trip. We have been together for 3 whole days with a lot of my friends. I got really interested in this guy. I have heard through my friends that he has a long distance relationship but he rarely talks about it. His behavior ... (149 words)

I am depressed, have a girffriend who understands me, but I don't want to lose her by talking about my problems, what should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

22 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a freshmen in highschool and me and my girlfriend have been going on a good six months now,and we love eachother.We don't see eachother alot,but we don't care because we're both willing to try and be comitted. But the problem with me is that I'm always so unhappy and depr... (218 words)

Boyfriend wants to go further, but I don't yet

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost two months now, he wants to go further but I don't. I've gone further in my past relationships and he knows that they have ended bad. I've let him know that I just want to kiss at the most, but he constantly tries to go further. ... (149 words)

I am attracted to this guy, in my class, how do I get to know him better, maybe date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm a 24 year old single lady that is in need of dating advice. i have this man in my college class that i have a serious liking to. i do not approach him because the other women are desperately in his face. i want to get to know him by being his friend...maybe more. what ... (60 words)

What should I get my boyfriend of six months, for Christmas?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What do i get my bf of 6 months for christmas? thanks!... (12 words)

There are things my boyfriend does that upset me, am I too sensitive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have been with my boyfriend for a year in febuary. Thursday night we we're on the phone talking about someon on the telly and he said what the one with masive boobs and I said yeah, how do you know shes got massive boobs and he said well you cant miss them babe there ... (399 words)

We decided to have sex, I had terrible pain, how can I stop this from happening again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been knowing each other since we were 8 and 3 years ago he proposed...we are now 17 each and we have decided to have sex...we love each other very much..but the thing is that..for my first time, when he actually penetrated me...i had an horrible ... (86 words)

What do I do when a girl puts her head on my lap?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I need to know what to do when the following things happens because they have happened to me and at that moment I have no idea what to do. When friends/crushes: 1) put their head on my shoulder 2) when they put it on my knee 3) when they hug my arm Note: All female... (77 words)

Will we get back together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - OK so two days ago my boyfriend broke up with me. He is 2 years younger than me (I'm currently 22 he's turning 21 this December) and we met at school. We have been friends for over two years and one night when he came to visit me something between us just clicked, this ... (614 words)

She has feelings for her ex husband - but he is gay!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello, I've been marriage to this wonderful lady for 2 years. Her prior marriage, her husband ended up being gay. From that marriage, she had 3 handsome boys. Now the father has had multiple boyfriends including a relationship that lasted 2 years. He is also in the boys lives. ... (194 words)

My husband is obsessed with a threesome - but even the guy he wants it with thinks it's a bad idea!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Recently my husband has become obsessed with having a MMF threesome after reading various magazines and online sites about it, and he insists we should have it as it will make our marriage stronger. He also wants me to sleep with his best friend (who we socialise with a lot!). ... (295 words)

GUY PROBLEM HELP pleasee!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So theres this guy i met when i was 15 (im 16 now) at the school prom i was helping with music. So he came over and asked me to dance thinking i was older LOL and after he asked for my number and i said sure why not and a few days later he found out i was 3 years younger than ... (267 words)

We can't afford a house as big as I want!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Aunts and Uncles, i was hoping for some advice. I am 26 and I have always lived at home with my parents and my sister-we have a gorgeous,huge house with a big garden and front drive and every bedroom has an en suite and i love it.Also as a family we get on really well. ... (192 words)

Hurting from Porn

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a 6 year relationship, we live together, and I just found out that my boyfriend frequents a couple of porn sites. I came across this by accident on my own computer. I came across this website by trying to understand why this is happening and although many people have ... (545 words)

Do I stay or do I go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - OK.... I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and we've had a fabulous relationship. Considering how much we've been through in this time, We both enjoy going out for meals and going to the cinema and generally always find things to do. So about 4 months ago he ... (508 words)

People keep calling me frigid!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I went out with a boy in my year for about 3 weeks and we didnt kiss, and we only hugged about once! He dumped me yesterday because he didnt think that it was going very well. But now everybody in my year thinks that i am frigid and now none of the boys will go out with me.... (108 words)

My husband is obese and isn't willing to diet or exercise, what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband is obese and isn't willing to diet or exercise, what should I do? He is not willing to seek outside help, doctors said our sexless marriage is because of his weight, as being obese reduces a man's libido, also he suffers from sleep apnea, very heavy snores, so we sl... (147 words)

I really like this boy but he keeps giving me mixed signals.

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22 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Well I like this guy and I am not so sure if he likes me because one minute he smiles and stares at me the next minute he is moody and doesn't even look at me. What should I do?... (40 words)

I want to be in love with him so that sex won't be for the wrong reason.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15, it's been 3 months with the boyfriend and we have had sex once and I know we're going to do it again. I know I have strong feelings for him, I tell myself I'm in love but how do I truly know? Because if I didn't love him I wouldn't have sex with him right? How do I know ... (86 words)

Partner's ex pregnant with his baby

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22 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my partner now for 6 years and in june of last year we split up. We were apart for about 12 months..... I had a couple of relationships in that time nothing serious and he also had a brief relationship with someone. During the time apart my ex was going through a ... (622 words)

Sex sex sex... yet he still jerks off and sends nude pictures???

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22 November 2008 (F)

age - Something is wrong with this picture, we have sex every night and some mornings, on weekends sometimes 2-3 times a day, yet he jacks off to porn daily and he has just sent a girl he doesn't know nude pics and videos of him jerking it. ... (46 words)

I need some ideas on how I can support my friend.

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22 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am 15 and so is my friend who I am trying to support at the moment. I was just wondering if I could have some ideas on a way I can support my friend. She is having a tough time at the moment with exams, home life and at school. She has been self harming which I have not ... (469 words)

Unprotected sex at the end of her period. Could I have caught something from doing this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, something troubles me. Earlier this week me and the girl I recently started dating had sex. We'd used a condom the first few times we had sex, but we've been together for a month now, and so have recently started doing it without protection (she is on the pill). Howeve... (139 words)

Why do I keep putting myself down if others see different?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, for the last few months I have felt so ugly, and useless. People say the opposite yet I always seem to see the bad side of myself and I don't see it in the mirror! I feel really unloved when it comes to boys, my home life's okay - but there tends to be at least an ... (123 words)

Peer pressure!

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22 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone... My girlfriend and I have been together for 8 months and we do really love each other :), but her older sister who's now twenty did something maybe some would consider rather silly. She had unprotected sex with her boyfriend, she got pregnant, he wanted an ... (190 words)

How to tell my cousin, I love him.

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22 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I'm in love with my cousin. The morals n what not, the 'family' issues don't bother me. What I want to know, is how to break it to him? We talk almost everyday texting. And lately he's been calling me everyday, having phone conversations with me for over an hour each night. ... (152 words)

MMF - is this a common fantasy for men?

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22 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we have always had a very good sex life, we have always been experimental but have never tried a threesome or anything like that, though we have discussed them before. Tonight we were talking about things we'd like to try, both bei... (451 words)

Grandad of 71 hitting on my girlfriend of 19!!!

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22 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a real problem..... My grandpa (father's Father) had been acting so stupidly around my girlfriend that I started becoming very agitated. He would always tell me to calm down and that he just really admired her. Then he began bragging to me about how if I didn't buck up... (211 words)

Nerves and doubt in my relationship are eating me alive.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so me and my boyfriend that I lost my virginity to have been together off and on for 2 years. We recently broke up for 7 months and just got back together. About 3 months before we got back together he had gotten a girl pregnant. He claims he doesn't love her and really ... (188 words)

I look at porn and enjoy it then feel digusted, am I normal?

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22 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im 15 years old and look at porn. i masturbate of it and everything but i feel really disgusted after. AM I NORMAL? my boyfriend thinks its hot, so is it just me that thinks its kinda freaky and disgusting..? helppp!... (41 words)

Guy advice on dating.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I am after some general advice.. as I have been single for an age until recently. I met this guy, we had a rocky start.. and I really just don't know where his head space is. Like, i so enjoy him and his company.. so we hook up, and he's invited me out. But he i... (374 words)

I was an idiot, but I have changed. Now I want her back !

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5627 days ago

22 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, I'm 25 and had lots of girlfriends in the past.. I started dating this girl "Nicole" April of 2007 and we got engaged August of 07 and moved in together.. I love her with all my heart but made dumb mistakes with finances and being irresponsible and the end result was she ... (175 words)

It itches and burns,(down there). What is it ?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - kinda personal but need help figureing this out. so for the past week or so my vagina has been very itchy and burns. it has got to where when i go to the bath room it burns and hurts to even wipe. and after sex it burns twice as bad. i was wondering if anyone could tell me what ... (83 words)

I'm 14 and cannot relax for my first time ! I don't know what to do..=(

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well..hum me and my boyfriend actually didn't have sex..The thing is that i cannot relax and i contract...=/ I don't know what to do..=(... (25 words)

My boyfriend fingers me regularly ,but sometimes I start bleeding...Why ?

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22 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriend fingers me regularly but sometimes i start bleeding. i know its not my period because its regular ands not due and the first time i didnt care cuz that was when he broke my hymen. whats going on? is something wrong with me?... (47 words)

How many years of a sexless marriage should be enough for divorce?

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22 November 2008 (F) age - After years of sexless marriage, is there a hope that sex will come alive again, or is it over forever? How many years of no sexual desire from my husband should be enough for divorce? Or most marriages will end up with no sex? I wonder so much, what is the truth? If it's ove... (68 words)

Any remedies for stretch marks and wrinkles on the stomach after two kids?

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22 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was wondering if anyone knew a really good remedy for stretch marks and wrinkles on the stomach. I had 2 kids and am left with a prune belly. Please someone help me. This is not exactly a sex questions but due to my self-esteem because of it, I'm not a very sexual person and ... (61 words)

I don't want to lose my friend, but I want to have a relationship with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a classmate...i like him very much....we both are very good friend but i want to have love relationships with him...he always has his concentration on me..His concentration on me is more than what a friend has over her friend...We both have a very good time with each ... (72 words)

What do you do when she tells you she had sex with a stranger?

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22 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - what do you do if you break up with your girlfriend of 8 months then you date someone else for only a month no sex then get back with your ex then she tells you she needs a break after a week and you get back together and after a month passes in the middle of sex she tells you ... (97 words)

I don't have the courage to give him head, what do I do?

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22 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - iv been with my boyfriend for 4 months now and we've had sex and everything but i cant seem to get enough courage to give him head. hes fine with it but i really want to. iv only done it once before, im just scared i will be shit! help me?... (52 words)

My sister's loser boyfriend tried to kiss me and now she's ignoring me!

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22 November 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My sister (she's 17 and im 15) has this loser boyfriend (age 18). Well he tried to kiss me (I tried to stop him so but didnt work it). She caught us broke up with him. She wont talk to me or be in the room as me. Shes pretty much ignoring me. I would never do that to her. ... (135 words)

How do I cope with depression as it keeps getting worse?

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22 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Most of my questions have been answered her so here i go again. i'm 13 years old I have had depression sense i was 12. recently it's gotten a lot worse i mean a LOT worse, anyway I have seen 2 therapists before and now i'm starting on my 3rd. i've never taken pills before and ... (80 words)

She's jealous because he talks to me all the time instead of her.

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22 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this boy in my class who I really like. I think about him every second of the day. He sits in front of me and I flirt a lot. I can't tell if he is flirting back. He talks to me a lot though. I don't know if he likes me. The problem is one of my best friends likes him ... (89 words)

I like her, but everyone is telling me that I shouldn't get involved with her!

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22 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 (16 in january) and I go to an early college highschool. There's this girl I usually sit with at the cafeteria, she's 20 and in college and today she told me that she loves me... I do like her but everyone is telling me that I shouldn't get involved with her. I j... (66 words)

Since he found out I'm not a virgin, he's claiming I'm "dirt and someone's leftovers".

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - About 2 months into the relationship, I was curious about whether he was a virgin or not... but he wouldn't tell me and wanted to know if I was. I wasn't sure what to do--tell the truth and have the chance that he might think i'm a slut, or lie. So I told him I was a virgin but ... (177 words)

People will think I'm gay if they find out I'm sleeping with another guy in school.

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22 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Im a senior in high school and im starting quarterback,free safety and team captain for my high school varsity football team. I also have girlfriend she is sweet and beautiful, her and I have been sexually active, she doesnt know that i also have been having sex with another ... (113 words)

When is it okay to take back someone who has once cheated and may still have lingering feelings for the other person?

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22 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - When is it okay to take back someone who has once cheated and may still have lingering feelings for the other person? What can the couple do to get past this and build trust again? Is trust something that once lost is lost forever? He said he would do anything to rekindle ... (133 words)

I love my best friend more than life itself...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

22 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help... I'm in love with my best friend, but she has a boyfriend. I love this girl more than life, but I don't know how to tell her. I don't know if I should tell her face-to-face, or keep telling her in letters. I keep trying to tell her but I can't bring myself to ... (66 words)

Is This guy a player/womanizer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

22 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing this guy since September, we've been out for lunch, shopping, cinema, dinner and he takes me out in his car a lot. He used to call me and text me all the time, but now things have changed. One time when he picked me up in his car he had loads of girls address... (132 words)

Have you eaten with a guy you liked but he's vegetarian?

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22 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Has anybody had a meal with a guy you really liked but he just happened to be a vegetarian? Which is completely fine with me, but I'm just not sure what to eat in front of him. I mean, do I just get whatever I feel like or should I avoid getting meat? It's probably a stupid ... (70 words)

Girl tells me "a secret code" then says I am going to have to find out its meaning. What does this mean?

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22 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, There's this girl that I know of, and lately, when smsing her, she'll write "iahfadlfahkl" on her messages, and she says it means something and I'm going to have to find out. It could be something innocent (my guess... I'll think pessimistically), or do you thin... (89 words)