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writes:Hi everyone I really want the answer to this question. I am 25 years old, and am still a virgin. Should I go on to keep the virginity? Or should I break it? Your answer will be valued.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2008): My advice will be ...........if you are going to get deflowered pleeeeeeeeeeease do it with someone you reaaaaallly like or elseeeeeee............I got deflowered November 3rd and my only consolation was that i wanted it and i really love the guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2008): It is a personal choice. Since you asked, I will say what I would do..If I were you I will save myself for a little more time to that special person in my life. I myself am a 29 year old virgin, I'm about to get married and I will be giving my virginity to my long time bf who will be my husband. We both await that moment eargerly and I'm so glad I saved myself for the wedding night. Because I believe, any man would love it if they knew that their wife was only theirs.
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (20 November 2008):
 It's your choice, but remember, when you meet the one you love and want to give your heart to... if you've waited, you'll be glad you did.
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reader, Blue_Angel0316  +, writes (19 November 2008):
 There's nothing wrong with being a Virgin! Take your time and don't do anything that you aren't completely comfortable with. It really is a matter of personal choice.
Your first time should be with someone very special and many agree that you should be pure and saving yourself for marriage.
Again the choice is up to you. You having asked the question, it seems that you aren't really in all that big of a hurry to be *DEFLOWERED for whatever your reason. Many women of all different ages still maintain their virtues until they are completely ready. This could be when they are married, or just when they are emotionally or otherwise ready.
Now we can't all be like Mary the Mother of Jesus.....but remember she was a VIRGIN! :)
God bless,
Blue_Angel
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2008): Nobody can answer that question. It is entirely your decision.
When you do decide to do this, make it special; a day that you will be able to remember with good and fond memories; there is no second "hymen"!
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reader, Teacake +, writes (19 November 2008):
 I wish I had waited to have sex with someone who was special for my first time.
In my case, it resulted in too many one night stands and never got the experience to form love relationships. I look back now and I regret experimenting just to see what it was like. The best thing in life is to do what you can to get close with a boy, a man, and the sex is more like a way of expressing how much you care for each other. Sex without love is very lonely if you make that a habit.
If this boy is not special to you and you to him.... if you meet the special one next, you might regret having lost your virginity. Just to do it to do it is not a good idea emotionally.
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (19 November 2008):
 That's just for you to decide.
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reader, lovebug101 +, writes (19 November 2008):
 ok all ii can say is if you are comfortalbe with being a virgin then stay a virgin,but if you want to lose it go head.basialyy what im tring to say is its your decison..
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2008): Ginawhatsit has a good take on this. It's a personal matter, and there's not a 'one size fits all' answer.
Old Chinese proverb- 'Virginity like balloon - one plick - all gone'.
If you treasure it, keep it, if not, at least save it for someone you're in love with, and make sure he's in love with you too.
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reader, Dineo +, writes (19 November 2008):
 You should be more specific on why do you think about breaking your virginity. There must be a reason for your question.Is there maybe a guy that you want to give your virginity to, if yes you should first consider if he is worth taking your virginity away. I must give you credit!!! How many girls out there at your age are still virgins? The answer is "ZERO". So you must really be sure before breaking it.
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