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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Me and my boyfriend are so different, should I end it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

27 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone! First I just want to say that I love this site, it's very helpful to hear others' opinions on things... Lately I've been questioning how I feel about my relationship with my boyfriend of almost a year. I really do love this guy and care about him a lot, and he ... (323 words)

Confusing eye contact question.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

27 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hiya! There's this girl I like at school. I caught her looking at me the other day. When I looked at her, she quickly looked away. She has done this a few times now. I don't know how to interpret this. Does she think that I'm checking her out and wants to give me the cold ... (146 words)

I want something more meaningful... any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

27 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. There's a guy at my uni who I really fancy and we've been getting closer lately. We sit together in classes, chat on msn nearly every evening and we're going to go on a date next week to get some coffee. My question is how do I play this? I really like this guy ... (183 words)

Is this intimacy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

27 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Is this intimacy....? I went out with this guy who ive been seeing, and we got pizza and was eating it in the back of this car, I was leaning on him, he was sitting behind me and my back was leaning on his chest and his arms were around my waist massaging me. I get mixed ... (79 words)

Will a woman go after the "working" man who's best for her - even if he's off-limits?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

27 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Good evening! I've a silly question really. I'd like to know from the lovely ladies out there who frequent this web-site whether you can genuinely be selective about who you decide to date in a working environment. In other words, if a guy was 'off limits' (i.e. married and/or ... (189 words)

Why do girls act this way????

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

27 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - okej hello all, I came just to ask about some activity that girls do and I want to understand why and what is it for. Well when you ignore a girl she will smile and look too much and sometimes come after you but when you give her just little a re-smile or a back smil... (98 words)

Do you think he will ever get back with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

27 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my bf finished on sunday I had already written a question on sunday there sayin that we always argue .. we still toked on the fone on the monday a cppl of times and then on the tuesday and wen i was at college on the tuesday afternoon he had not txt me the whole day or ... (145 words)

I like this guy but I'm really shy... how do I tell him how I feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

27 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I just need a few tips on how to go about this. There's this guy at my college who I like quite a lot, he's in one of my classes, and I've liked him for a few months now. we don't really talk or anything, we just sometimes say hi to each other like if we see each other between ... (135 words)

Help! What on earth should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

27 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been calling on a 49 year old man for a few months most weekends. To start with he adamantly pushed me away. He has never had a relationship before. He has a dependant sister a few years older than himself. Both parents dead. He has slowly let me into his life. We have ... (110 words)

He calls here at 3am and they have random talks, should I be worried?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

27 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - First I'm sorry this question is so long~! I'm thinking or starting to go out with this guy. He's amazing in every way and so special, he's really sweet, generous and just a good person. He wants the same type of future I'm looking for and wants a loving s/o, travel, to have ... (571 words)

How should I initiate things regarding sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5632 days ago

27 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend's taking me out to dinner tonight and I want us to have our first time (we're both virgins). we've talked about it before and agreed to if we're in the right mood and lately if he says one thing dirty I get wet.. and I've always wanted to lose it to him, I love him ... (137 words)

Does a mouth ulcer indicate pregnancy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

27 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hiya i have one question does having a Mouth ulcer mean a sign of being pregnent my friends just found out shes pregnent and she said she had a mouth ulcer just before she found out, I actually said to her that shes being stupid and thats not one of the symptoms but now im n... (76 words)

What do I say to my doctor?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

27 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice, I am thinking about going to the doctors because I think I smell a bit down below and I have thought this for some time, I am a little embarrassed although I know they are used to sort of thing, I am not sure what to say to my GP. Any help very welcome? ... (98 words)

How can I shift these spots?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

27 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - This is irritating me. I know this has nothing to do with relationships, but I need help. I've tried everything but my spots just won't go away. Everynight and morning I rub a spott cleansing lotion on my face. Every other day I wash it. And occasionally I also use a scrub... (79 words)

Why can't he work harder to get my parents' approval?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

27 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a very ambitious 21 year old girl from India. My parents are both doctors and have always been high achievers. My relationship with my boyfriend started when I was just 16 and this is our 5th year now, he was my class fellow. My family is one of the most prestigious ... (348 words)

Why did the other boy work better and not this one?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

27 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey. so me and my boyfriend have had sex quite a few times. we went out in the summer time and started having sex. it never felt good for me. one time it almost felt good but not really. we did it like 10 times while we went out btw. then we broke up and i went out with this ... (194 words)

Is it okay to feel contempt for the man that is dating my ex?

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27 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Is it okay that I feel great contempt for the man that is now dating my ex-girlfriend? They had been together before she met me, but had separated because he had 'a lot of baggage' (her words). We started dating and then he comes crawling back 'a changed man' and she takes ... (404 words)

Help...hot tempered girlfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

27 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend is kinda hot tempered...she blews off for unwanted things..even if its her fault?? there is one time where she lied to me and blew off at me as though it was my mistake..but we did talk it over..my question is why.?? How can you blew off at a person that you ... (95 words)

How to heal a father/daughter relationship after his affair?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

27 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband had a affair a year ago and it has been a long year.My 13 year old daughter is having a hard time, she started pulling her hair out we put her in counselling . This has helped a bit but every time she pulls her hair her dad gets on her case I try to explain to him ... (142 words)

Should I keep on fighting or just stop being friends with them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

27 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i need help. so my friends are pretty much telling me we should go our seperate ways cuz i have a bf. they say i think boys are more important then themm but thats not even close to true and i always tell them that. so whenever i hang out with my boyfriend they gotta say ... (394 words)

Should I forgive him for having a affair with the housemaid or should I leave him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

27 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Should I forgive him for having a affair with the housemaid or should I leave him?... (16 words)

How do I ask him without sounding dirty?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

27 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my bf and i have been haing sex using a condom and he cums inside of the condom its okayy with me but id much rather him cum on me ( i find it a big turn on..) but i dont wanna make myself sound dirty or anything.. should i just ask him? ... (53 words)

How do I split my time between my boyfriend and friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

27 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, right well i have this prolem, me and my two best mtes were so so close done everything together, tld each other everything but then i got a boyfriend, i hve never felt like thid for anyone before, he means everything to me but so do the girls. anyway now i slowly d... (98 words)

Could she really like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

27 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - sorry for my bad english. will i meet this girl and shes in all my classes and am not sure if she likes me she's allways giving me mixed sings like some days she toroally ignores me and other days she stares at me alot and when i talk to her she's like super nice and rilly ... (148 words)

Should I give up on my marriage or keep trying?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

27 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi My husband has left almost three months now. We have a 14 year old daughter. I want so badly to have my family back. He says he doesnt love me anymore. I have found out he has slept several nights at another womens house that use to work with him he says its just someone to ... (125 words)

Should I break up with her before I go to the university?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

27 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi me and my girlfriend have been going out for 1 year now and i'm going to university in 2 years time. I keep thinking i want to break up with her when i'm at uni. I know its a long time off but i'm gunna be miles away and i'm always thinking about other girls when i'm n... (115 words)

Did I have a right to feel insecure in this relationship?

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27 November 2008 (F) - I'm trying to gain some insight on things.. I wish my ex would come back but I have questions the situations that happened over the course of the 3 years I was with him. I wanted to reveal some aspects that made me feel insecure which led to a cycle that i guess i couldnt ... (1550 words)

Do all women expect you to read their minds to some degree?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

27 November 2008 (M) age 41-50 - Girls keep leaving hints, sometimes I get them sometimes I don't. Of course I don't really mind when it comes to little things, but when it comes to huge emotional issues it seems to come out at an unexpected moment. Unexpected as in "how was I ever supposed to have known ... (94 words)

I originally married him to help with his green card, will it work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

27 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Originally I married my husband to help him with his greencard. The first couple of years we fought constantly, and I tried to leave him several times. Eventualty, I got tired of fighting. Now we have been together for 4 years now. I was in love once before, and I knew w/o... (222 words)

Is my husband making a fool of me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

27 November 2008 (F)

age - Hi i'm maried 31 years, we met 2 women in out local a few years ago and became friends as I thought. It seems now that my husband has been texting one of them for a while (shes a widow) and last month I caught him in her house, he said they are only friends and he calls up to ... (186 words)

He's not well endowed enough for me so he wants a divorce....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

27 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 31, and married with a 5-year-old son and a 1-year-old daughter. I've been married for 4 years now. Last week my husband told me he wanted a divorce. I was shocked when I heard it. I asked him why, and he said "I'm not well-endowed enough for you, find someone else, yo... (160 words)

My husband had an affair with his sister in law. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

27 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - HELP!!! I just found an email on my husband's account from his siter-in-law. It was refering to them having sex and loving each other. I asked my husband about it, and he told me everything. This affair went on before I was in the picture. We have only been married for a month! ... (178 words)

Was he looking at her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

27 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - this is going to sound really crazy but its really getting me down! ive been with my bf for 6 months and never had any probs with him. the other day we were outside our flats when a boy and girl walked past. he was fiddling for his keys and i saw him look up and down the road ... (192 words)

How do I discretely make him come to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

27 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, my boyfriend and I broke up a little more than a month ago. We go to school together, and therefore we see each other every day. I would love to get back together with him. I have worked on the things in my life that was part of the break up. I'm following a 'get your ex ... (97 words)

Are guys like wolves on online dating sites? It's unbelievably hard being a woman!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

27 November 2008 (M)

- I tried an online dating site. Out of curiosity I set up a fake female profile to see what it's like from their end. It's absolutely ridiculous! What an eye-opening experience. I got bombarded by messages. The guys were almost like wolves. It was a bunch of silly generic... (179 words)

Is this relationship over?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

27 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 25 and have been with my gf for 5 years now, we are engaged and I feel as though our spark has gone. I love her more then anything else in the world and she is "in Love" with me. I don't think I'm in love with her any more, I take her for granted, don't really treat her ... (250 words)

Why won't my family accept my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

27 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - any advice is welcome. this is rather embarrassing to write as i am 29. been with my boyfriend two years,he is a divorcee with two kids. we dont live together.(i met him when he was divorced) we have many arguments yes but my problem is my family dont really accept him because ... (167 words)

Will I regret saving my viginity for marriage?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

27 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Has anyone saved themselves for marriage and then regretted it and wished they had slept with their partner before or wished they'd had more than 1 sexual partner? Thanks... (32 words)

My ex asked me to have sex with him! Should I?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

27 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've just split up with my boyfriend who i was with for 8 months and my ex before that has always been there for me. He's always come round when i needed him and gave me a shoulder to cry on, he's been like a big brother to me (: The other week though he asked me to have ... (114 words)

Did the girl of my dreams write down the wrong number?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

27 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Back in August this gorgeous girl came into job and I was too nervous to talk to her, but another guy who works there got her number. For months I've been wallowing in regret thinking of all the things I should have said but didn't have the nerve to! Well, yesterday she came ... (188 words)

He wanted me to stick my finger up his bum! Why?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

27 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my bf and i was having sex the other day when he wanted me to stick my finger up his bum, why did he want me to do this, he said he liked it mut my nails where to long, i was going to do it again last nite but he said no why did he want me to do it in the first place for me n... (73 words)

Why doesn't he want me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

27 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex dumped me 3 months ago, and im still talking on the phone to him everyday, and sometimes we meet in the evenings for sex and thats it, he left me to go bk to his ex the mother of his child, we where together 10 months, anyway basically she told him that she loved him, and ... (227 words)

Am I over reacting about my wife and her son?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

27 November 2008 (M)

age - I am 66 nearly 67 and my wife of 12 yrs is 22rs younger. we have both had previous marriages. We have 2 children and my wifes eldest son aged 23 (from her prevous marriage has come to live with us in the last 3 months having been kicked out of University. Since he started ... (233 words)

Stomach bug or Pregnancy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

27 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been sleeping with this guy for about 5 weeks, and im really scared im pregenent, Since yesterday afternoon during work i begain to feel faint, and had to go to the toilet 3 times as i had a bad stomach, i also felt like i needed fresh air ( girls at work joked i was ... (169 words)

I don't think I love my husband anymore! Help!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4027 days ago

27 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I feel sick and utterly alone not being able to talk to anyone about my marriage. There is nobody I feel I can be absolutely honest with and the one person I should do my husband I don't want to hurt. We have been married 9 years and have 4 children. I feel that having... (322 words)

We're just sex buddies...even though we broke up 2 months ago! Any advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

27 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hiya everyone, i now this is sounding stupid and desperate but, me and my ex broke 2 months ago for the past month we've been having sex as in f**k buddies, the thing is we both we not getting any and he hardly has any money and so he puts it helping each other out, im giving ... (100 words)

Not sure if he likes me or he's just playing with me...help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

27 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm Cheryl and I'm 18 this year. I knew this guy who's is a year older then me from my very close friend. And this guy is from my school, schoolmate. He used to like me before, from the start of the year, he got my number from my friend. But I got no feelings for him. And ... (325 words)

Is there a way I can tell I am pregnant...this soon after having sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

27 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently had a one night stand with a very very good friend of mine and well we kind of had a problem with the condom. I went to the doctors and took a morning after pill but there is still a niggling feeling in the back of my head... what if? I havent really got anyon... (138 words)

My period came twice this month and I'm really worried that I could be pregnant!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

27 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am 16 years old and I had my period twice this month :/ first on the 2nd of November and it lasted like 7/8 days and again yesterday on the 25th of November.. :/.. I am scared that I could be pregnant because on the internet I found you can be pregnant if you have had ... (142 words)

Is my relationship over? Loving someone and to love someone...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

27 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with my gf for 5 years now, we are engaged and I feel as though our spark has gone. I love her more then anything else in the world and she is "in Love" with me. I don't think I'm in love with her any more, I take her for granted, don't really treat her for what she ... (165 words)

What's the easiest way to get out of this without having to deal with his crap?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

27 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am currently in a relationship. I have been in this relationship for a year in December. I moved out with this guy in March - as we clicked so well, and it felt as though it could work. While we have been living with each other we have had lots of problems. in june things got ... (401 words)

Am I being too hard hearted here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

27 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I love my boyfriend so much and yet have never felt so confused as well. We have been in a long distance relationship for just over a year. He has gone from being the most attentive, affectionate and wonderful man who wanted to spend time just with me in the first 10 months ... (568 words)

I really need some advice on making good friends.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

27 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hiya everyone, I really need some advice on making good friends. I can set up conversations pretty easily but then the night or event ends, nothing happens and I'm back to wishing I had even one person apart from my mum every now and then. I know this sounds shallow and I know ... (280 words)

I am thinking about suggesting to her about maybe involving other men so she gets satisfied but how do I go about this.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

27 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Let me start by saying I love my wife so much but we have a little problem. We have had 3 great children and as things happen my wife is larger down below. I only have a small penis just under 5 inches, now we know that is not enough in that department. We use dildos and m... (138 words)

Massage techniques.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

27 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi My (fairly new) partners had a rough time at work lately and has been poorly though she is getting better now. I've done my best to cheer her up (flowers to work etc) but when I next see her I want to give her a relaxing massage, help her unwind and feel pampered. Haven't... (223 words)

Baby fever

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27 November 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I don't know if this is normal or natural, but I really want to have a baby. I'm only 18 not financially stable, I have a flat to pay for but I can't stop thinking about babies. I haven't been with my boyfriend all that long but my broodiness has gotten worse since I met him.... (116 words)

Whenever we have made plans to meet she always bails.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

27 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 20 year old male and I am in love with this girl. I have never met her in person. I have met her on the internet a long time ago and now we text each other almost every day. We are very good friends and are really close even though we never met. I have been madly in love ... (299 words)

No penetration - could I be pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

27 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really scared!! =\ One day I was at my boyfriend's and after some time we were kissing and he was laying on his back and I was on him [no penetration] I was with my underwear but then he started masturbating. After some time he ejaculated and it all went on my underwear. ... (92 words)

Is he waiting for me to make the next move?

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27 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I went on a 1st date which went really well. He kissed me at the end of the date and said that he had a nice time. We have messaged each other a few times since and he said that he would like to meet again soon but he is not sure when. I told him my plans for the weekend and ... (180 words)

Other than diets, exercising and starving myself how else can I lose weight?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

27 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm new to this site and just had one main question if you could help I would really love it. Well to start I'm 16 years old. I weigh 130 About. I'm just under 5 ft. To me I'm am fat although my family and friends say I'm normal. Plus for obesity running on both ... (305 words)

He got what he wanted from the start so why play this role?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

27 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - A year ago I got my heart broken by the first guy that I ever gave my 100 percent all to. After being with him almost every day for 11 months, I found out a day before his wedding that he was getting married to his ex girlfriend. I felt my world shatter as I lost my best friend ... (498 words)

Squirting during clitoral orgasm? Is this possible?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

27 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - 75% of the time I "squirt" during vaginal orgasms (they don't feel like orgasms to me, but eh), but the other 25% of the time it is during a clitoral orgasm. I'm always afraid that I'm peeing instead of squirting, so I never let the fluid come out. Usually no more than a teas... (125 words)

I'm very, very worried about my ex!

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27 November 2008 (M)

- I'm very, very worried about my ex. Unfortunately she's not the most responsible girl. Before I met her she would go jogging in the sketchy parts or town at night. She'd come home and tell me how the guy that drove them home was drunk! She hurt her arm and keeps swinging i... (249 words)

What are the chances of breakage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

27 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - What are the possibilities of the condom getting tore on the first time you have intercourse?... (16 words)

Why is my boyfriend so sensitive?

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27 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm having problems with my boyfriend, I have to count every word I say when I'm with him because he easily gets upset with things I say, even though I honestly thought I was only conversing, he thinks I can't talk to people and he's the only person who says that. Sometimes... (80 words)

Is there a ray of hope here...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

27 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I’ve known this girl for more than 2 years and unfortunately she has a BF (otherwise I won’t be writing it here). Anyway over the last 2 years I have kept a respectful distance and always available to her when she is down (sad) and when we go out drinking in a group, I took ... (315 words)

My birthday is close to Christmas.. My boyfriend wants to give me a combined two-fer gift....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

27 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - What if your boyfriend knew your birthday was coming for a couple of months, he knows how poorly you have been treated in the past on your birthday and because your birthday is close to Christmas he says he is going to give you a twofer, meaning your Christmas and birthday ... (54 words)

How can I make myself more thankful for the things I have?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) age 51-59 - How can I learn gratitude? I try really hard, when things go real bad in my life to count my blessings, but I have such a hard time to do so. Am I a selfish bad person? I know, it would be greatly improving my life, yet I'm just always looking at things I don't have. I mean ... (95 words)

Does she sleep with me because of love, a bond or is it just lust?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5642 days ago

27 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - How would you know that the girl is having sex with you because of love, the bond or just because of lust and desires? It's kinda hard to predict someone's actions nowadays... especially when it comes to romance and sex... I do love my girlfriend a lot and I do see me spendi... (76 words)

Do you think this is a sign of his true character?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5642 days ago

27 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there everyone. I'm looking for some answers as to what I should do about this guy. We started talking online a few weeks ago and I really love his personality. He is (or was) interested in me big time. But since he lives far away I was hesitant with my feelings. Well he ... (338 words)

My husband bought a clunker.. it broke down, I fixed it.. now he is mad at me.

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27 November 2008 (?) age 41-50 - My husband brought this really crappy car (which I have to fixed almost everyday) without asking me first (im not mad at him anymore) that keeps breaking down. We were on the way home the piece of junk died on us (what a surprise). I fixed in like 30 minutes without my ... (110 words)

I am set in chains...

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27 November 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Sorry if I bother you by this, but I've no one to go to right now. I am Set in Chains. My dad wants me to like working in his restaurant, he just does not see that I hate everything about it, I hate working with him, don't get me wrong, I love my dad, I just hate working with ... (131 words)

What do his texts mean? Is he flirting big time? He's married!

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27 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have been texting this married man, who is 9 years older then me. I am 17, I will be 18 next October. I texted him because I needed advice. He told me what to do, tell the kid I like him as a friend. I told him that I told him that, and im in love with a married man to top ... (306 words)

I don't wanna be used by him or his friend

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27 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - A friend told me this "he loves you" but he's talking about my ex hooked up friend I mean I didn't date this guy but we hooked up a couple of times and now his best friend said to some of my best friends when he was a bit drunk I love Maree till I met her but I don't know her ... (145 words)

Who do I end up having sex with the guy who hurt me, do you think I let myself be used for sex? Could this be because I never got over my ex?

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27 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, this might be a little long sorry. When I was a freshmen in highschool I met this amazing guy, and i was pretty innocent when it came to physical stuff. Even though I was not a virgin i believed you needed to be dating someone almost a year before you have sex. Well i fell ... (816 words)

His girlfriend has his baby, but he doesn't love her, Can there be a me and him in the future?

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27 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hey everybody, just looking for some advice, 4 years ago i met a guy on a chat site whos the same age as me but lives in the uk.. (i live in ireland)... anyway we chatted as friends for nearly 2 whole years, got very close, but he made it clear from the beginning that he had a ... (362 words)

We're dating but he like another female...how do I deal with this?

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27 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I been together for 2 yrs now and he recently met a girl he really likes. Now, we're not planning on breaking up with each other but she does apparently "appeal" more to him than I do and this is what got me freakin out. How do I win my boyfriend back!?... (58 words)

Any tips about dressing to look funky yet rich?

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27 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hello friends, i am 5'6" male weighing 72 kgs. though i am overweight and my lower body fatter than upper body, i dont look fat. both casual and formal wear suit me. my girlfriend is not impressed with the way i dress up. can anyone suggest me some tips to look funky yet rich... (99 words)

I have dated men who treated me badly--so how do I gain a man's respect?

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27 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - why is it that I am 25 years old and have never had a meaningful relationship in my life? The closest I ever had was in my teens but I had to break up with him because he was abusive. It seems now I go on a date with a guy and they are all over me and before I know it they ... (239 words)

He constantly tells me that we would be together if he wasn't in a relationship already, do you think we can be just friends?

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27 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy over the summer and we became fast-close friends ever since. We like each other very much (not just a friendly way). However, he's in a 4-year relationship. We have not done anything with each other; not even holding hands. Yet, he would constantly tell me how ... (208 words)

I believe in fighting for the one I love, but how do I do that in this situation? Any Advice?

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27 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been with my girlfriend for approx 18 mos, we had a slow, deliberate start for a few reasons. We both had been burned in prior relationships (not recent though, I felt we were both pretty far moved on by the time we both got officially going, I had been divorced and even ... (633 words)

Guys say I'm beautiful, but I have a lot of stretch marks, will this make a difference?

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27 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok guys say I'm beautiful all the time but what they don't no is I have stretch marks EVERYWHERE!I really wanna be intimate but I think my stretch marks will drive guys away.I'm wondering if guys will still b interested after they see my horrible stretch marks.... (47 words)

I broke up with my boyfriend of 10 years, met someone else, still interested in my ex, confused, which one would be better?

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27 November 2008 (F)

age - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 10 years. We broke up 2 years ago and since then have gotten back together and broken up many times. In the meantime, I met someone else that I've seen off and on over the past 2 years. Neither knows of the other one ... ... (164 words)

I like this guy, what are some cute text messages that I can send him?

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27 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i like this guy an i want to text him something cute an sweet what should i text him?... (19 words)

He doesn't tell me he loves me anymore ..what's going on?

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27 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I met my boyfriend whilst on holiday, I stayed at my aunt's (not biological) and he is her husband's nephew. Anyway, I decided I needed the holiday after my previous long term relationship ended. I was with my aunt for about two months when he told me he liked me and wanted to ... (343 words)

He likes his sex rough! And it hurts me...help!

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27 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really love my boyfriend but when we have sex he is really rough... even though e trys to be gentle he ends up going really fast and i end up crying from all of the pain. He knows it hurts me but he cant seem to go slow because he slips out and then gets fustrated. When he ... (130 words)

I have been back with my ex-wife for 2 weeks, we were divorced 6 months ago due to an affair on her part, I am confused about the relationship, please help?

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27 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am going thru some serious issues at the moment that is driving me crazy.My situation is I have recently got back with my ex-wife it's been about 2 weeks.But the problem is that we got divorced about 6 months ago due to an affair on her part.I am so confused..... (51 words)

I am in love with a guy, who was verbally abusive and he dumped me, I am very sad, how do I get over this?

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27 November 2008 (F) age 36-40 - I'm in love with my ex. He had huge issues with my past. He was like Dr. jekkyll and Mr. Hyde. Sometimes he'd be the swettest and then he'd practically hate me. He was always blaming me for spoiling the relationship, becasue of the past, he was always complaining about things I ... (269 words)

I feel my husband is lying to me, but have no proof, what should I do?

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27 November 2008 (F) age - What can you do ,if you think ,your husband is not telling the truth, but you can't find a way to prove it? I feel very strange, because I think he is not telling to me what he does, but it's just an intuition, without any evidence. How can I not be a bad wife , who can't... (87 words)

My bf gets turned on by asphyxia and domination fantasies!..and it scares me!

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27 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend gets turned on by asphyxia and domination fantasies. I am aware that fantasies are harmless and did not worry unduly about this but he has recently incorporated putting plastic bags over my face when we are having sex. I know that he would like me to lose ... (176 words)

I want to remain friends, even though we have had sex, any suggestions?

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27 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So I moved 1800 miles away from home to play a sport at a top college. At the begining I was quite lonely, only having my team mates for support, when I met some football players at our athlete-orientation. I found out they lived in the same dorm as I did and we hung out all ... (231 words)

When we try anal sex, I have bad pain, is there smething we can do to stop the pain?

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27 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have tried anal a couple of times and sometimes it really hurts and this has put me off it. i want to know what positions will stop it hurting or will it take time to get used to and then it wont hurt anymore? i have this really big pain when he enters me ... (81 words)

We are not dating, we have had sex, he sees other girls, am I being used?

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27 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so i am in love with this guy.. but we are not dating. I mean it seems like we are, and he tells me he loves me and everything! He just hasn't asked me out, and i dont want to say anything about it because i dont want to seem "pushy". I just wish he knew what this is ... (196 words)

No dating in over 4 years, and I run out of things to talk about on a date now, any suggestions, don't want to be boring?

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27 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm 42 yrs (young) and about a 1 month ago just started dating a man I met on myspace. That is something I thought I would never do, but I did and it's so far been real nice. The problem is, I haven't dated in over 4 yrs. (Mind you I said dating) My problem is things to talk ... (320 words)

My best friend likes a guy, who likes me, should I tell her?

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27 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay here's the thing, my bestfriend likes a guy, but the guy likes me instead. How do i let her Know and how do i do it with out causeing a fight.... (32 words)

After 4 years, the love of my life left me cold, I cry all the time, what do I do to get over her?

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27 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My lover of 4 years just left me for someone else. She betrayed all the promises she had made to me, betrayed my trust and faith in her, forgot all the sweet moments we’ve had, forgot all that i have done for her and just left. The way i find out is when her new boyfriend picks ... (180 words)

After taking birth control pills, would I be able to have children later in life?

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27 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok. I want to go on birth control because i have long periods, bad cramps and i'm sexually active. I've had sex before and i'm close to having sex again with a new boyfriend. Does birth control (after taking it for a year or more) really keep you from having kids when your ... (54 words)

Does she really care, or am I being used for the time being?

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27 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - an old (and sometimes very close) friend who i have had sex with in the past has recently broken up with her boyfriend. they were having troubles for some time, but recently she has started to talk to me more and i helped her decide to end things. She says she is intereste... (275 words)

How do I shave my private area, without getting irritated?

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27 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I shave down there but every time i get little red spots and i always get ingrown hairs! how can i make it stop? what should i be using to shave?... (31 words)

My boyfriend is constantly being told by this girl in his class, very sexually oriented things, what can I do?

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27 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my bf has a female friend at collage and she is wildly innapropriate. This is some of what she does: asked my bf what his tongue technique is like she details about how she gives head she always talks about how big her boobs are she tells him she shaves she talks about sex ... (170 words)

I have been having a sexual relationship with my two first cousins, do you have any advice?

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27 November 2008 (?) age 51-59 - I too am sleeping with my first cousin..and I love him very very much. We dont see eachother often as we live in two different states...but this has been going on for years. The part some may find sick and twisted, is that he has a twin brother - who also came on to me...and ... (117 words)

Why do I have strong non-romantic, feeiongs for my good friend?

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27 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - The girl who I have been close to for a while never seems to get off my mind. What I have come to realise is that I do love her, in a non romantic way. None the less, my feelings for her never fully go away. We get along so so well, and it's obvious to people how close we are... (107 words)

How can I tell when he's ready to ejaculate?

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27 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for a while now and I know he wants more than what we have currently done in the past (furthest we have gone is with the hand). I want to give him a bj but for some reason I can't stand the idea of him cumming in my mouth. I've done some research and ... (88 words)