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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Broke up with boyfriend today, he has punished me for telling the truth!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Help - I realised that I still love my ex and tried to do the honourable thing by breaking up with my boyfriend today, afterall, it is not fair to carry on stringing him along while I still think about my ex! I only realised I still loved my ex after he has come back on the ... (151 words)

Contraception for an Epileptic?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have previously been on the contraceptive pill. I came off that maybe 2 years ago due to been diagnosed with epilepsy. I stopped taking it as it was making my mood low and it just wasn't agreeing with me. Since then my husband and I have been relying on male condoms as a ... (106 words)

How do I get her out of my mind?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid I'm a first year university student in London, and recently went to visit my friend in Manchester for a week (study week). Whilst I was there I met one of her friends and I know it sounds creepy but I can't stop thinking about her. I've never felt anything like it ... (185 words)

I'm pregnant by my best friend's brother....

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30 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - HELP!!! I'm pregnant by my best friend's brother.... he wants nothing to do with me or the baby and that is fine by me. His family adores me and is so excited. What am I going to do? How can I remain a friend of the family when he will always be around ... (53 words)

Was he jealous about me keeping in touch with this other guy he knows?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've being friends long distance more like a crush kinda thing with this guy I met 2 years ago in a meeting. He's military and in duty while I met him. We exchange emails and phone calls, well phone calls recently. When he was here in his duty there was another military mate ... (162 words)

What can I say to him to minimize the hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel very upset and down in the dumps over my ex. We split up 6 months ago, he ended things because we weren't socially compatible (I like going out and he doesn't!). I was gutted and fought for him to take me back, coming up with solutions, and he said he would not be ... (267 words)

Is there a way to apologize for my stupidity?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

30 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I asked a guy friend to ask this girl for her number specifically telling him to tell her that it was for me. I didn't ask her myself because I had recently moved to a different part of the city and his was the only number I had. I called her and she asked me how I had gotten ... (105 words)

Is this amount of sex bad?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there. Me and my bf really really enjoy sex, and when he's back from uni we do it every opportunity we get. He satisfies me every time but I get worried that this amount of sex is bad. I think about sex a lot during the day and i'm always quite horny. I'm 18 and he's 2... (98 words)

Is he just not into me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a guy last spring in the mall, he is definitely attracted to me. i had a crush and we flirted a few times. then he stopped flirting with me and i decided to stop going to the mall to see him but decided to leave a "window open" by seeing him one last time and giving ... (217 words)

Pursue or not pursue, that is the question.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a friend who is leaving soon and I want to know if I should persue him. I can't decide because he gives me mixed signals. For instance... says he cares about me, talks about hot girls, puts his arm around me in public, won't make a move around his friend, has kissed m... (127 words)

Help! Dilemma!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I found out I am pregnant, for most this news would be exciting and happy as it should be for me. I was indecisive about what i wanted to do and when i decided i knew i had to tell the "sperm donor". The relationship I had with this person was at first only about sex, but i me... (249 words)

He doesn't want to get back together whereas I do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5624 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I saw my ex for about 5 mins earlier on, I've not seen him since friday anyway when i saw him he gave me a hug then he said sorry i dont no why i needed to do that, He dumped me but we still talk every day, he doesnt want to get back together where I do. I'm now not sure wha... (101 words)

What gift should I give a girl on her birthday?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5624 days ago

30 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am clueless as to what gift i should give a girl i really like in school[university] on her birthday without letting her think i'm trying to hook up with her. Can you please help me out?... (37 words)

Her aunt died just as I was about to break up with her. What do I do now?

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30 November 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - I have a problem, my girlfriend's aunt died, right before I was going to break up with her. What should I do? ... (24 words)

My girlfriend seems so cold towards me at times...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

30 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I'm new to the site but I just wanted to fire out this question and I hope Ii can get some responses back soon. I'm currently in a relationship, and am very much in love with the girl i am with, but there are times when i don't know how she feels about me. She se... (221 words)

Is this guy being a jerk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5625 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been dating this guy for 7 mths now. He definatley told me that he's not ready for a long term relationship. Last night he told me jokingly "I own you" (which he says this often). And I said "No you dont". What gives? He doesnt want me seeing anyone else. but since he told ... (130 words)

Has your husband ever left you to be with his mistress?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

30 November 2008 (?) age 41-50 - Has your husband (or long term boyfriend) ever left you to be with her (the mistress)? Did they work out? Mine left me 18 months ago and has now brought a house with her. We were together for 10 years and have three children together but he treats me like crap and always ... (229 words)

How should I act when I meet his parents?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5621 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i have been with my boyfriend for over three months now and he has met both of my parents. The thing is he wants me to meet his parents and yes i want to but i dont think they will like me. The last bf i had i met his parents and they did not like me because i did not wear... (79 words)

My boyfriend has a crush on one of my best friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm increasingly noticing that my boyfriend has a crush on one of my best friends. My best friend is unaware of this. However, I know and have come to realize it over some time due to our private dialogues with one another. Also, supposedly it was a joke, but his eldest nephew ... (155 words)

How do I stop my boobs from growing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4999 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay i'm 15 years old, i'm 5'1 and my boobs are way too big already, i just want to know if there's anything i can do to stop growing anymore! I'm already a 32F, no 15 year old at my short height should have boobs that big, and i'm really quite skinny too so i can't lose ... (235 words)

What is female masturbation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I was just wondering what female masterbation is??... (8 words)

Is there an age limit to find out if you're fertile?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was wondering I read a question earlier asking how do you find out if you were fertile and repliers said to go to their doctors. I live in the UK...I want to know the same thing cause I am worried...Is there an age limit for this? What age do I have to be to ask a doctor ... (96 words)

I'm truly in love with a guy I hardly know!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a serious problem, its not like most problems posted here. I'm in love with a guy I hardly know. I think it is love at first sight. I know cheesy, but its true. I can never stop thinking about him. I miss him everyday I wake up. When I say 'hardly know' I don't me... (196 words)

Should I make a move and tell her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

30 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - basically in the short of things i really, really like this girl, and shes just finished with her boyfriend and shes had a bit of a rough time about it all! now while you may think im trying to make a move when shes upset, thats not my intention 1 bit, you see she has this ... (143 words)

He claims to hate his ex but I suspect otherwise. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5625 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend claims to hate his ex-girlfriend, but I really dont think this is the case. He was with her for eight months, and she broke his heart by dumping him for another guy. She texts him quite a bit still, often while hes with me, and he always answers immidiately with a ... (177 words)

My husband won't touch me, what should I do?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 3553 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) age - I would like if anybody who has some good points would give me a few min.What should I do with this totally awkward\ situation? My husband lost interest in sex, and literally ,he won't even touch me, yet, he says ,he loves me , wants to spend his life with me. He has totally ... (233 words)

Can we make it until the end?

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30 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a third year college student studying in singapore. I been in love with this girl back home in india for about 2 years now. We got into the relationship knowing its going to be like this for quite a while (6 years totally, 3 years of education and 3 years of bond). - i ... (616 words)

How can I stand out from the others and get him to pick me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5625 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - How do i stand out against the rest? I really like this guy josh who me and him i found just clicked as soon as we met. But the problem is is that me and my friend both like him and it obviously has caused a problem because he likes us too but he also has a few other girls ... (314 words)

I love my friend of 17 years

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

30 November 2008 (M)

age - Hi Everyone i have been friendly with this lady for years, we go out for the rugby matches. But recently she has split with here husband, due to his drinking and Gambling, and the divorce proceedings are near the end, but i have fallen for here big time, i have been a shou... (184 words)

He's backed off and become distant. Should I wait this out?

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30 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend of 6 months has backed off and gotten distant. Our kids are not getting along-he says he loves me but when we have our kids he wants to keep them apart for a little while. When I tried to tell him about my feelings and how I wasnt feeling important to him ... (195 words)

How can I cheer up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i feel so stressed out its un believable, i just feel so annoyed and under pressure with school and stuff. I also feel so useless, and like nothings ever going right it feels like if im not here it will be better :/ please help on how i can cheer up :( xxxx... (55 words)

My bestfriend became my lover and now he ignores me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known this guy for years and over the summer we became great friends, then we became more than great friends and he became ever so lovy dovy and often said that he loved me. But recently he has become distant, he never says that he loves me anymore and always seems to be ... (193 words)

I'm in a loving relationship but I'm really falling for another girl...

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30 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I've been in a relationship with a girl I really love for a little over fourteen months now. We attend college in the same city as each other and met as a result of that. We know we'll be able to be together for at least the 2+ years we have left at this school, but... (302 words)

I love him but I'm tired of feeling unsatisfied....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years. Before we got married, the sex was great, but now I'm lucky if we make love once or twice a month. I've tried talking to him about this, but he always wants it to be all on his terms. Sometimes I wonder if he's taking ... (87 words)

Is it fair to be with someone if you're not over your ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Do you think it is fair to be with someone if you are not over your ex, I realise that you havam in this situation and I have realised that I have to move on. Afterall, my ex had his chance! I have heard that you it is better to be with the one that loves you the most than be ... (133 words)

I want him back but he won't answer my calls!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5625 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - we married after a relationship lasted for years.we made a wonderful marriage,everything was perfect until...after 10 months of marriage we started fighting not on major issues(problems not related to us)but in an agressive way.now after couple years of marriage he left me and ... (83 words)

It ended before it even started!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5625 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - For a while I liked a guy in the pub. We ended up getting together a couple of weeks ago. Both said we like each other but are worried of getting involved because we both have children to think about. And he said he likes being single and wishes he hadn't met me really because ... (393 words)

What can I do to make him happy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

30 November 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend got mad at me because I hugged my dad when he got me an ipod today for my birthday. My boyfriend said he doesn't want me hugging other guys. What can I do to make him happy? ... (39 words)

He's in to me and doesn't want any one else - but he said the thought of us being bf/gf scares him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I guess you can say I've been seeing a guy for a few weeks now. I go to his house couple times a week. We always enjoy each others company. We kiss, hold hands (even in public..so its not an indoor thing), hug, cuddle, we are intimate. He has already told me that he is ... (133 words)

I'm worried because I don't know what to get my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, I am 12 and my boyfriend is turning 15. I was wondering what I should get him for his birthday. It is coming up very soon and then right after that is Christmas. So I also would like to know what I should get him for Christmas as well. I have already gotten him some col... (123 words)

He's come on so strong and said he loves me. Is this normal? is he desperate? Or just too good to be true?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok I've been talking to this guy for about 4 months but only seeing him for the past month. Things have been amazing and I really see this going somewhere. The thing is he has come on very strong from the start. Things like he hasn't felt like this in 8 years, wanting to see me ... (229 words)

I'm secretly bi and in love with a guy - will I ruin our friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

30 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Heres the story, Im Bi and not out,but a friend of mine i have always been attracted to him but i think im in love with him i cant stop thinking of him and really want to kiss his lips romanticly. I dont know whether to tell him because. 1. it could ruin my friendship with... (144 words)

On a scale of 1-10 how important is sexual compatibility?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

30 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - How important on a scale of 1 to 10 is sexual compatibility in a relationship? How devastating can sexual differences be to a relationship? Are there ways to overcome these differences and make things work? Or is it a case by case thing. I'm looking for some general feedback... (121 words)

I'm having a hard time understanding his intentions....should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im having a hard time understanding his intentions This guy I had a past with but found out to be a player, is back in my life. Over the summer, he liked 2 girls but ended up dating one of them and then cheating on her after she moved away for school in less than a week. At ... (218 words)

Why do you catch so much hell as a mistress?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - HELLO Ladies and Gents, I have a question when you are the mistress why do you catch so much hell. I have been involved with my friend for about two years now and i love him very much and will do anything for him. But this is my problem in the beging he called every hou... (137 words)

Why did he choose a woman similar to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5625 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) age 41-50 - hi all,i got a problem that needs solving,i have a best friend who is a guy,he is also the best friend of my guy,thing is we were friends before my guy and i got together. i will call my best friend R. R and i are so close that i tell him everything and so would my guy...yet we ... (736 words)

How do you break off a LDR?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

30 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - How do you end a long distance relationship. We have been going out for over a year and she moved 3 month ago. She visits frequently (once a month), but do I end it now like over the internet or in person when she comes to visit. One is impersonal, one requires me faki... (85 words)

If he doesn't kiss you passionately, is he not interested?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - If a guy doesn't really kiss you passionately does it mean he is not interested? I have been out on a couple of dates with a guy who doesn't really show his emotions! - We talk a lot and get on well but not about how we feel for each other! Anyway, when we kiss goodnight h... (98 words)

Can sexual attraction be so intense between two people that they are actually uncomfortable in each other's presence?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2503 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi. I was just wondering (and please don't read too much into this!) whether sometimes the sexual attraction between two people can be so intense that they actually avoid each other (i.e. never actually consummate the attraction), net result being that people actually pursue ... (74 words)

I've fallen for my ex girlfriends sister.....Help

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4946 days ago

30 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, So like many of you I have a real complicated love situation I am in. For a few months now I have fallen for my ex girlfriends sister. I know it is wrong but I cant help how I feel. She lives right next door to me so it makes it impossible to avoid her. My ex... (296 words)

If anyone out there has any ideas or knows how to let go I would appreciate you sharing it with me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age - I have been married for 40 years and my husband passed away. Now I find myself in this relationship that is verbally abusive, I have no trust, he consistently lies to me, I let him walk all over me, I know this is wrong, it is not me to come across to him as needy, pushy but ... (180 words)

How do I ask a woman to have sex with me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

30 November 2008 (M)

age - I'm in my forties and have not had sex for nearly 17 years. How do I get a woman into my bed? Females only answer please. Thank you.... (32 words)

Why would he not call me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Can anyone offer me any explanation for this please? I met a friend of a very good friend of mine a couple of weeks ago. This guy told my friend (also a guy) that he really liked me, asked him loads of questions about me such as am I single, what do I do for a living, do I w... (150 words)

Who should I be with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - M1's pluses are that he is gentlemanly, accommodating, accepting of my appearance, is an enjoyable company to be with, is loving and is patient. His minuses are that he has not-so-nice family members, lives faraway from me and speaks nonsensical stuff at times. M2 is just the... (101 words)

I'm in love with my in-law, how can I get this out of my system??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a big problem, this is a taboo topic. for the last two or so years I have developed feelings for my sister in laws husband.I am now totally in love with him I cant stop thinking about him,I try my hardest to stay away from family functions so that I can avoid him, m... (251 words)

My ex massively betrayed me, how do I get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was with my ex for a year and thought we were totally in love. Then all of a sudden he started acting strangely, distancing himself from me. I suspected he was cheating and finished it. A few weeks later his ex girlfriend contacted me saying they had been together most of our ... (125 words)

I'm pregnant and my partner has started acting really weird, what is going on here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 3 months pregnant and confused. I have been with my partner for 5 years, he is 23 and i am 21. We broke up over a year ago then got back together within 6 months. Recentley he's been acting strange. He will say he'll meet me then will let me down at the last minute and ... (160 words)

I cry every time we're apart and it's making me a wreck! Why am I like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) age 30-35 - hi. i'm 18 this year unlike many of you here, my problem doesnt lie with my partner. it's my first relationship and i am enjoying every moment of it when i'm with my boyfriend. i love my boyfriend and i know he loves me alot as well. but for some reason i cant help cryi... (155 words)

Should I ring him or let him ring me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5625 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - last nite like i always do I rang my ex bf. we have been sleeping together for a few weeks, anyway he had his daughter stay over last nite and i no he doesnt go out when hes got her. anyway as he was board and so was i..anyway i rang him to see if he wanted to meet me he said ... (119 words)

How do I talk to my child about the birds and the bees?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I caught my 8year old masterbate.How do i talk to her about this?... (13 words)

I want to add this guy I like to my facebook, but I'm afraid he'll think I'm stalking him! How do I do this in the best way?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

- When I was on facebook I was doing a random search of people in my city and I saw a face i recognised. So I click on the profile and realised it was this guy who comes into my work all the time. He works right next door to me (we both work in retail part-time). Whenever he ... (196 words)

Should I call him even though I got his number from someone else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this boy n he comes over n we huge out all the time, but I got his new number by someone else. Should i call him if his not the one that give me he's number? And should a girl get upset when a boy don't call as much as she does?... (56 words)

How can I learn to trust him more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5625 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im almost 17 my boyfriend is 19 and i've been with him almost 6 months. We get on really well and hardly ever argue. However recently he has been going away alot to manchester with a few guy mates and meeting girls that he met on holiday in ibiza. I wanna be able to trust him ... (127 words)

I want to be there for her to get closure but not sure what is the best way to help her out of this?

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30 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - We broke off a month ago and we have decided to stay friends after that. we care for each other alot and I can never think about hurting her. she is also a nice person to be with. it has been heart wrenching in behaving like friends and we keep going back and forth. i was ... (337 words)

He doesn't want me to have sex with him if I don't really want to, but he also complains if he doesn't get any at all! I can't win! What am I supposed to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My question is whether you should have sex (in a relationship) when you don't really want to? In all my relationships, after the first few months my sex drive has gone down quite a bit (I hear this is fairly common), but my partner's hasn't. They get cross and sulky if I don't... (255 words)

I'm dreading Christmas! Whatever I think about planning I almost get anxiety attacks! What would be the best thing for me to do during this holiday?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Christmas is coming and I'm dreading it unfortunately. I do have a lovely boyfriend who is caring and loving and loves me to bits, but he is lazy, undermotivated, etc. He hasn't achieved very much when it comes to career...he doesn't work at all.He doesn't make an effort w... (394 words)

If she's not interested, why doesn't she tell me so??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

30 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all, well i sent a question in last week regarding a girl i had dated a few times, and got some great advice on what to do. Well since then she has been in contact with her friend on a social networking site. Her friend asks her how shes doin, anythin? you know. And her ... (164 words)

I thought the sperm was meant to go upwards, not back out??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - heya just a quick question - the other day i had sex without a condom (its ok im on the pill and i was my bf's first so he doesnt have anything)and afterwards i found that sperm was leaking out of me- is this normal? cos i thought it was kinda meant to go upwards not back out! ... (65 words)

I'm getting more and more paranoid and it is getting out of control! What can I do to stop feeling like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ive been with my bf for 6 months and never had any problems with him before. last week while we were outside our flat a couple walked past us and i saw him look briefly in their direction and for no reason i instantly got paranoid and thought he was looking at the woman. well ... (208 words)

Why won't he come and see me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am seperated and have 2 children, I got talking to a nice man on the internet and we have been in contact now for 10 months, we have emailed and text each other every day and we have chatted for hours on the phone. He is divorced and has 2 grown up children, who are 18 and 24 ... (207 words)

He doesn't love or want me so why is he doing this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, I've been with my partner bout 11 years. Four years ago he had an affair which lasted on and off a year.. he eventually left but never admitting the affair saying he was working until he had no option but to tell the truth. After a bit I gave him another chance, ... (314 words)

Sperm worries!

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30 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm guy of 18. I'm very much interested in sex. I don't have any girlfriends, but looking for! Whenever I got sexually aroused, I used to masturbate but the problem is, I haven't seen sperm coming out of my penis. One day in the morning I found sperm spread in my underwear, ... (102 words)

Masturbation problems...

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30 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've got a question about girl masturbation... well actually clit stimulation.. Is it normal that it hurts after? Well I have been masturbating the last time in the shower and I had an orgasm but then it hurt a bit... I was wondering if something was wrong!!:S and also every ... (67 words)

Where do I start in getting my life together?

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30 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay guys well here's my question. I have a range of medical problems - ADHD ect and like I went through life and people supported me and I got to secondary school and I was severely bullied and in some cases I faced abuse. What upsets me the most was I thought one person ... (193 words)

Have I been unreasonable here? Am I overreacting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been together for about 10 months now, the latter 3 spent living 7 hours apart. Because of the length of the trip, we have seen each other once since the beginning of September, on Thanksgiving weekend, and the next scheduled time to visit is ... (1324 words)

Lost in time and feeling confused! Will he ever let me into his heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I met this guy who ask me for a dance, we had a great time and seem to hit if off instantly. He walk me to my car and we continued to talk for some time, than he kiss me very respectfully. Since we had met its been six weeks now. We both just got out of a long term ... (300 words)

All of a sudden he is not interested in me or my pregnancy - we met online; what do I do now??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I really do not know where to begin. Its simple though I met an incredibly sweet man on the internet. We hit it off really well , we were always online or the phone. I even helped him with a few bills. Even went as far as even buying him a cell phone and payed two of the bills ... (424 words)

I'm somewhat confused - why did he ask my mother what kind of ring I like?

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30 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Im alittle confused, need some help figuring this out... First off I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, hes 27 and Im 22... Today my mom told me that he asked her what kind of ring I liked...(He didn't want her to tell me but she has a hard time keeping secrets) I have... (177 words)

My boyfriend insults me but says he is joking. Would you take it as a joke?

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30 November 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend calls me names like b__ch, sl_t, w___e, ugly, fat, smelly, tramp, etc. But he says that he is just joking and he doesnt mean it. Well I dont take it as a joke, and I take very seriously. Do you think that Im overreacting? Would you take it as joke? ... (55 words)

I'm not allowed to use Internet but all my course work is online!

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30 November 2008 (?) age 26-29 - Im home-schooled and grounded from the internet. Since all of my course work is on the internet..it doesnt make any sence to me. Would you explain?... (27 words)

A seriously confusing situation...

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30 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Let's see here... I guess I can start with the beginning. Back when I was in highschool, I'm now a freshmen in college, I became very close friends with a girl. We hung out and generally were able to talk to each other about pretty much anything. Junior and senior year, I ... (797 words)

Is it a pipe dream that I have trying to make my marriage work?

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30 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I am so confused. I am 37. Have a 5 year old daughter and a 17 year old step son. My wife has bounced from job to job and I have held my professional management position for 15 years. I make almost 100,000 a year and her spending habits have depleted us. I pay the car paym... (198 words)

What do you do when the love of your life leaves you?

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30 November 2008 (F) age 36-40 - What do you do when the love of your life leaves you claiming he no longer loves you? We were together for 2 years and he told me I was the love of his life. he was my first boyfriend and we had everything in common and a lot of stuff, well it was just amazing most of ... (445 words)

Why would she be doing this in front of him?!

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30 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - About a month ago my girl broke up with me for her ex. We continue to talk and flirt. I'm just having a really hard time understand why we have full on texting conversations when I know she is with her bf? These aren't really rare. We probably have a couple each week. Why ... (136 words)

She's out of the picture but the thoughts still haunt me....

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30 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have been together for 13 years, but have been married for only 8 years. We lived together from almost the moment we met. We went through quite a bit in our lives together and this makes the story more and more sad. However, I needed to "find" myself and we ... (509 words)

Is there anyone who has a fetish for tights?

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30 November 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - all my life i have had this fetish for tights. about 0ne or tw0 months ago i bought a pair and whenever i can i where them.im not gay but i love the feeling of them. is there anyoneelse like me?... (41 words)

Could this cramping mean I'm pregnant?

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30 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am new at this so bare with me? I have been cramping for 5 days now and my period isn't due til the 13th! I can't figure out what is going. Is there any chance that I could be pregnant even if I do take every precaution condom, im on the pill!!! someone please help me cuz its ... (62 words)

Is he lying about his feelings for me?

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30 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 16 years old and there is this guy i chat with and i know him i see him so one day well were chating and he ask me where is everyone and i told him the everyone is sleeping and he starting to telling me that long he had a crush on me he say i love me and he promise me that ... (120 words)

Is there a way to break this cycle or am I just doomed?

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30 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Why is it that the only women I seem to attract are the ones whose lives are a broken down mess, and who are needy, neurotic, insecure know-it-alls, who like me as long as I do what they wish, but the minute I think for myself or want to do something that doesn't involve them, ... (133 words)

How can I make him feel the way he makes me feel?

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30 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend with every inch of my heart. He is so amazing to me and treats me like a princess. So why is it that every time he even just calls me I end up getting pissed off at him? I've been telling him for a while now that we have bad communication and that we need ... (215 words)

How should I handle not being able to see her?

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30 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, I met a girl online and we have been talking for a while, and its been heavy flirting both ways. I'm pretty sure in a few weeks I'll be able to move to considering asking her to be my girlfriend. Although, I have never met her in person, we plan on it. We are about 3 hours ... (182 words)

What would be my best option?

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30 November 2008 (F)

- Hoping someone or a number of people can help a bit here. I am on an important committee and am respected for my contributions. I briefly dated one of the guys in the group. He broke it off as he met someone else. I took it pretty maturely but at the meetings whenever I make a ... (189 words)

I'm really very bored of my life...

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30 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 18 years old, I had a best friend, she is my best friend from last 2 years. I was admiring her so much that I used to help her a lot, even she was like that but nowadays she is not caring for me at all. She just hesitates to talk with me. Maybe the reason that one my ... (76 words)

Should I do something a little more special and sincere since we have been together for quite a while?

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30 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year now (in January it'll be a year) and he's really not into much so I don't know what to get him. He hates sports or anything to do with them, he loves music but he has every song and CD out there. But he does love ... (163 words)

BJ help

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30 November 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - ok im 13 and im REALLY horny, i have a girlfriend and i really want her to give me a blowjob, help! and please dont answer tht im too young, i need help not parental lecturing, thanks... (37 words)

In love with my ex boss/ married man...after he told me it was over at home, its not

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30 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am so frustrated, I like many of you got involved with a married man, and he was my boss. Its so sick the more i think of it. He had told me he was unhappy in his marriage and it had been bad for a long time, well after 6 months of us seeing each other he still wont leave her ... (625 words)

Whats wrong here?

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30 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy I know from Theater club asked me out for dinner on Facebook. I was excited... (his roommate is the guy that I like) so he takes me to dinner and we talk about music mostly. J is really musically talented and asked me if I could sing, I said yes, then he rushed me ... (265 words)

I found and used my moms dildos.

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30 November 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - im a 15 year old female. recently i found my moms 4 dildos and used them. is that bad ? ... (20 words)

What is the most honourable thing to do?

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30 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello I just started college this fall, and have been having issues fitting in with both the people at my institute. I find nothing appealing in getting drunk or high, or hooking up with random girls, or playing video games or staying up all night for no reason. And this... (228 words)

I'm engaged and slept with someone else and now I'm pregant!

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30 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiancee and I were having problems and I thought it was the end of our six year relationship, one night I got severley intoxicated and slept with someone else which has resulted in a unwanted pregnancy. I feel like I should tell him but my friends are telling me not to. I ... (101 words)

He really made me feel used and like an object. Ever since, I've never been comfortable with intimacy, and especially not sex.

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30 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, this is really embarrassing to talk about, but I need advice. This is a sex question. A few years ago, I went out with this guy who was completely into my body. I was only 14, and he was my first boyfriend, my first kiss, my first sexual experience, but didnt have sex ... (289 words)

Should the fore-skin be back before you put the condom on your erect penis?

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30 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Should the fore-skin be back before you put the condom on your erect penis?... (14 words)

She's amassed $70,000 in debt!!!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

30 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello; I've asked a few other questions, so I don't want to overload the board, but I figured I'd try one more. I have been with my girlfriend for 6+ years, engaged for 2+ of those years. I don't believe we will ever have a wedding -- after I proposed, I took some steps to... (368 words)

I think he's trying to impress the wrong people... what should I do?

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30 November 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Theres this (cute) guy (he used to live in Australia and this Aussie accent) who's new to my school but only plobem is almost everybody says he`s a loser. The boys in my grade shove in lockers (he just lets it happen without defending himself) and the girls humiliated him (they ... (123 words)

Younger men!

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30 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There is a guy who is younger than me and he really likes me but I think he is a geeko and I really don't like him. He is always following me around! What do I do!?... (38 words)

Tell me what you think!

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30 November 2008 (?) age 26-29 - Everyone watches the news yea? So tell me what you think about the missing 3 year old child Caylee? The people in my house think that Caylee was sold for money... But no one really knows what happend. Where did the mother get the money and how is every thing getting paid? I do ... (61 words)

Am I giving off the wrong vibes here?

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30 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know if it's a vibe I put off or if men don't find me beautiful but I haven't had a boyfriend since junior year. I like to do lots of fun things like all types of boarding, I ride a motorcycle, have got a good job and would say I am beautiful. But I am going to ... (110 words)

Because of my friend she doesn't trust me any more.

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30 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey people I need a little help, I mean I have this very beautiful GF... lemme just get to the point guys she doesn't trust people that easily and my Best friend told her that I went off and getting girls msns and sort... it pissed me off to no extent but it tore me to shreds ... (122 words)

I am scared to get in a relationship with him fearing he is worse than I am thinking.

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30 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a friend from work whom I will call N. We longboard and I talk to him at work. He works in the same department as my uncle and recently my uncle said that N is saying stuff about me he doesn't approve of. He wouldn't tell me anything specific but I am thinking it is ... (117 words)

Falling Again

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30 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a Big problem!! I am married and find myself falling in love with another man!! This is so seperate from my marriage!! I still love my husband and we are happy! Is it possoble to be in love with two people at once? And, what should I do?... (50 words)

I feel like life is too short and too precious to just "put up with." I want fulfillment!

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30 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I just have to get this off my chest, and if you can help me, I will be so grateful. I can take an honest answer, whether or not it is the one I want to hear, as long as you genuinely want to help. When I was in college, I struggled to figure out what I wanted to do, an... (598 words)

Should I knock this relationship on the head and move on?

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30 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been dating a woman that lives with her partner. He is seeing someone else and does not sleep a home 5 out of 7 days per week and when he does, he sleeps on the couch (so she says). The woman I am dating says that she wants to end their 20 yr relationship and sell their ... (119 words)

Does he really likes me or am I another one of his conquests?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

30 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a military guy 2 months ago, he's leaving in January, so I have this single month left to do something. When we met I notice he's too much out there, like a player kinda thing. He kept looking at me a lot and he even asked me if I was a trouble maker. Well, I have t... (290 words)

Controlled and abused...

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30 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - How do I decide if I need to stay in the relationship I'm in when I feel like I'm being controlled and somewhat abused? ... (26 words)