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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Stuck between the devil and the deep blue sea!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 November 2008 (M)

- Stuck between the devil and the deep blue sea. I have been with my partner for almost 2 years. My partner has a young son from a previous relationship who is 2 and has problems with his health one of which is we are waiting for a diagnosis because Doctors seem to think he... (920 words)

Why is he acting like this all of the sudden?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Since we moved into our new house (5 months ago) the sex is different. In a sense it's better (more intense). He's more commanding, like once he was on top and said kiss me but played hard to get which was fun, or another time I was on top and he really refused to kiss me and ... (175 words)

He's showing me videos of his wife and I'm not sure how to react.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. I am a man in my 30's, single and have had little sexual experience. My main form of relief is masturbation over pornography which, at times, can be a little dull and lonely. On the odd occasion I watch pornography with a close male friend, who is married. Whilst ... (522 words)

How can I look available but not desperate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 November 2008 (F) - Hi, I was unsure how to proceed after talking to this cute guy who works in a cafe I recently went to. We talked a little bit about music and we found out we attended the same high school, but he graduated a year after I did. We had a nice convo since it was almost time for ... (169 words)

I'm completely hetero but getting turned on by someone new...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

6 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi folks, just need some help here in a strange situation I find myself in. I've been on a dating site for several months now and very recently have been approached by a very pretty oriental ladyboy who is 21. Now I am totally homophobic, hetero, love the ladies etc but this... (158 words)

How can I can stay close to her, without seeming like I'm trying to steal her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 381 days ago

6 November 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Well, I've never really ever had a real girl friend. I've just never been able to make that final step in asking a girl out. The only one I've ever had asked me out, but it didn't last very long. Over the past few years, I've gotten close to many girls, but was never able to ... (666 words)

I have a boyfriend but know I still have feelings for my ex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 375 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I have a boyfriend, but i know that i still have feelings for my ex. what should i do?... (19 words)

Is my boyfriend worth it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Is my boyfriend worth it ? He acts SO immature sometimes, and its annoying, He's sometimes nasty to me like, spreads around nasty things about me like, that i slept with my ex-boyfriend and got pergnant. And my whole class was going on about it all day and even my teacher ... (484 words)

Why did she do it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 381 days ago

6 November 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi. This happened some time ago, but I still try to figure out why, I hope you can help me. I was in love with a girl that admitted to love me too, but few days after, she lost her virginity to another guy and started a relationship with him. That broke my heart and I thou... (96 words)

Can a man cumming inside of me hurt the baby?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 381 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - during pregnancy if a man cums inside me can it effect the baby.. i'm only 4 weeks...... (17 words)

How long until I can truly move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 November 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - Why am I still feeling this way? It’s been 1 year since the break up. One full year –time has flew by. Is it even possible to still feel LOVE? How long does it take to get over it. I know there is no possibility of me getting back especially if she is moving in with someon... (271 words)

I want my girlfriend back but she'll be hurt by what I've done on our break.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Basically, I had a girlfriend for a year and a half.. We were truly in love, i've cheated twice on her before with another girl though. Then things weren't working out and I broke up with her, hooked up with the girl i've been cheating on her with again. Now i want to get ba... (130 words)

The dreaded ex-girlfriend who won't get out of our lives!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I am with this girl and her ex is still in the picture she won't leave her alone My girlfriend said it's done between them but then the next hour here comes all the drama. What the hell should I say or do?... (43 words)

I try to spice up our sex life, but the hubby isn't into it... or me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I am a young female 26 and my boyfriend (soon to be husband) is 42 we have been together for 5 yers. I am in love with him but sometimes I don't know if he feels the same way. We have kids together and i think he think i'm not sexy anymore. He looks at a lot of porn, and we ... (127 words)

Why is he lying about going out with me if we're just friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 381 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hey there, I have a slight problem: A friend of a friend has asked me to go out with him tomorrow night. I presume this means as friends (he already had a long distance gf), and we will only ever be friends. But, the guy in question hasn't told our friend. The only reason o... (104 words)

I'm into my girlfriends sister!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 378 days ago

6 November 2008 (?) age 26-29 - me and my girlfriend aren't working out i find her less and less worth seeing everyday, but now i'm into her sister who is just amazing i want to be with her so bad any help with what i should do here?????... (42 words)

I feel guilty being together and she feels sick when we're not. Why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - hi. i'm a sixteen year old girl. i have a girl friend who is fourteen. we have been friends for a couple years after we both moved to the same neighborhood. we always knew our friendship was different. we enjoyed being friends even though our other friends thought we were ... (246 words)

He thought my Halloween costume was too sexy to wear without him with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Need help my boyfriend travels out of town about every other month for a month at a time. When he leaves town I am very open and honest with him when I go out, he ask many details even down to how I did my hair. He is upset with me currently because I went to a halloween ... (127 words)

We started dating, but he's still logging on to the dating site.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 381 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been seeing this guy for about 4 weeks now and all is going well. We met on a dating site and both still have our profiles on there. I think it is too soon to talk about taking them down. However, I haven't logged in for 3 weeks, mostly due to the fact that we are seei... (294 words)

When will he open his eyes and see that I am here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Theres this guy I have liked for the past year or so but I have never said anything as he told one of our mutual friends that he didn't like me in that way. And I wasn't offended by this I just took it on the chin and got on with my life but I've never completely gotten over ... (176 words)

I like a guy, but two of my friends have already "claimed" him!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Well i didnt like anybody alot alot. i went to a party from a bat mitzvah so i was all dolled up. so i was dancing and partying and i realized that one guy that i knew in 1st grade, but then he moved away, was there. he was putting his arms around me when i was dancing and ... (281 words)

Confused as to where I stand.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hello, I'm 21 this year and he's 22. We got to know each other through a particular class which required project work and we happened to be in the same group. Eventually, a month later or so, I started noticing him and liking him, which I have told him. He would frequent... (291 words)

Is it too early to move in??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm not sure what to do.I'm 18 and I've been with my boyfriend,whose turning 19, a year and a half [on and off] and he wants me to move in with him. The only thing is that he lives with his mom still. I'm not sure if I should move in with him.Any advice??... (56 words)

OH GOD! been worrying about things turning physical with my new girlfriend and tonight they did!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 November 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - OH GOD! been worrying about things turning physical with my new girlfriend and tonight they did... but I couldn't get 'aroused'. I got aroused a little then went down and she assumed that I had finished but I just couldn't keep it up! help! ... (44 words)

My new workmates aren't very nice... should I get a new job?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 251 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - hi, i've just started work three weeks ago at a new place. on my first day, when i was introduced to colleagues, they just looked up from their work and nodded. there are five people i have to work directly with, only one of whom is friendly. the other four are the type of ... (568 words)

Am I being too pushy in wanting him to talk to me almost every day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I need some advice - I met this guy about a month or so ago, at first I thought he just wanted to be friends, so we got to know each other mostly through online chat (its easy since we both have office jobs). Then about two weeks ago we started dating.. i.e. sleeping togethe... (207 words)

Can you help me make some firm choices and improve my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 381 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't want to sound selfish or moany but it's been such an awful year. My Mum is schizophrenic which is controlled by medication most fo the time but she started the year off with a bit of a bad spell. Then in April I was forced to move into a flat on my own against my will ... (582 words)

He's obsessed with me and won't stop asking me out!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 381 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - This boy in my school has had a crush on me for ages. He keeps asking me to be his girlfriend, I keep saying no but he wont give up! At the start it was kind of cute, but its become like an obsession of his. He asks me at least 5 times a day. I really don't want to date him, ... (77 words)

Don't know where I stand with her... is she testing me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 375 days ago

6 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi Everyone, I have been dating this girl (# 1) (28 years old) for 8 months. Months ago she basically said only friend status. Days later from that she went on vacation and I met another women. I dated her (lets call her # 2) for a couple months and she moved away. #1 knew al... (324 words)

What can I do to make sure she is happy and comfortable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 November 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - How do I get physical with a friend who is a girl? I think she doesn't mind. But when we are alone I would like to touch her more than usual. How can or what can I do to make sure she is happy and comfortable?... (46 words)

Six months later, she's acting differently and it's breaking my heart.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 364 days ago

6 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello. I am going steady with my girlfriend for 6 months now. I am 39 and she is 48. The first few months were perfect...we loved each other so much. Now 6 months later things are different. We don`t kiss as often as before,she does not tell me she loves me as much as before. ... (135 words)

How do I know if my husband doesn't love me anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 381 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Me and my husband have been together for about a year now and we just had a baby boy. Sometimes I feel like we moved too fast. We got married after 6 months and in the beginning everything was great but now it's not all. I don't even feel like he loves me anymore. I've tried ... (203 words)

My 12 year old is masturbating and I don't know how to react.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 355 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - hi im a lil worried about my daughter, she's only 12 and she masturbates a lot, she does it everyday maybe more than once, she hasn't got her period yet. how can i make sure she doesn't hurt herself? should i stop her or face her? how should i react to this?... (54 words)

Liar liar pants on fire!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband is a worldclass liar. Let me start from the beginning. So around 12 years ago I got addicted to pain pills and ended up going to rehab in malibu california. While in rehab I kicked the pills and was feeling really great. I also fell in love with my therepist and ... (509 words)

Ejaculation problem!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 381 days ago

6 November 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi all, A recent girlfriend commented one that day that I ejaculate quite a lot and that it probably isn't a good thing - she certainly didn't seem to like it! After reading a few posts on this site, I decided, in the name of science (!) to do a test and measured my sper... (111 words)

Mistaking kindness for love...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have always been confused as to whether girls are being kind or loving. I meet a lot of girls throughout work, leisure time and other parts of my life. I tend to enjoy talking to them as I would talk to guys. Now and again, I may feel attracted to some girl nad alwa... (192 words)

Do I go for the new guy or give my relationship a chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for just over a year. Recently things haven't been the same and I told him I wanted to break up with him. He said we could work through our problems and doesn't want to let me go so I agreed. The thing is I met another really great guy. ... (131 words)

Polyurethane condoms?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - This is mainly one for the guys, although ladies feel free to chime in too. I have a terrible problem using condoms. I thought I was weird, but after some research, I have discovered that I'm certainly not alone, about 25% of men have the same problem as me. The prob... (835 words)

I've went through so much to be with her, now I don't think she loves me any more...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 381 days ago

6 November 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - I just don't know any more, I love this girl with all my heart but I don't think she loves me any more... The other night she called me by a guy's name and a guy she has been flurting with lateley, today she skipped school and hung out with him. I don't know what to do, I've ... (87 words)

I can't stop loving a man who I know is probably just using me!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I can't stop loving a man who I know is probably just using me!! I keep in touch with a guy who knows I love him but he only rings when he wants money! - We hardly ever meet up as we both live quite a distance from each other - but I always live in hope that we will get it t... (121 words)

He does work two jobs which I am grateful for. I just wish he would respect my job just as much.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - My husband and I have a couple of issues. It's usually about money or sex. We are both a little overwhelmed cause we just bought our first home. We have two children an eleven year old boy and a one year old daughter so this should be the happiest times of our lives. We ... (1075 words)

Why does my genitalia smell like "onions"?!?!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - This is for all you girls... or maybe guys if you know the answer. Down in my special area I used to smell ok, different but ok ya know? But lately I've noticed I've been smelling like onion! It makes me want to throw up! Is there any way to fix this??... (53 words)

I don't want to waste my time and get my hopes high only to find out she doesn't like me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 November 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi, I work with this girl that I am interested in and I think she likes me too. She and I flirt all the time when were together at work. Two weeks ago she even asked me for my cell number. So we exchanged numbers and all. After that would text each other like every day. ... (306 words)

My man of 8 years will not even try to have sex with me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid: What have I done? My man of 8 years will not even try to have sex with me. He won't even flirt, act interested or touch me. Since our daughter was born he has regularly slept in another room, and he likes it that way. I think it's disgusting!! Last year I s... (188 words)

I woke up with blood in my underwear, what's going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Me and my boyfriend have been trying for a baby. I have been noticing my stomach getting bigger and so has he. But Wednesday morning I woke with a bit of blood in my underwear, it only lasted till like now Friday morning at 4:00. Plus it's 19 degrees and I'm in a bather top and ... (68 words)

Any tips on how to do it or how to deal with my confidence??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 357 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a month now and we've done stuff together. The problem is, it's always him doing things to me and not the other way around. It's not his fault, it's mine, I just don't know how to do it. I'm sure he'd love it if he got a blowjob or a ... (104 words)

I'm baffled by these texts from guys!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm quite old fashioned when it comes to dating and in the early stages I normally leave it to the guy to initiate contact, because I think if you don't hear from them for a few days then they can't be that interested. I've noticed that recently though I've waited for a few ... (106 words)

A huge task for anyone. Desperate situation.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 November 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - My ex-partner and I do not live together. We seperated, not by choice, but by illness I suppose. I have epilepsy and my partner developed hyper-vigilence and post traumatic stress disorder over me having fits. The problem being I hadnt had any seizures for 3 years and then all ... (311 words)

My friend says he's straight but I don't know.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid. I'm a 31 year old gay male. A few years ago I meet a guy I'll call him Bear. Last year Bear and I met up at a part and we hit it off real well. I let him know from the start that I was gay and he was great with it. So to this day we have become best friends. But I ... (195 words)

I'm interested to hear from anyone who does or has ever worked in the corporate office environment.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 381 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone, I'm interested to hear from anyone who does or has ever worked in the corporate office environment. I am feeling miserable and really need some advice :( I'm 25 years old and for my entire working life I have been bullied at work. I have had a huge number ... (910 words)

I'm really jealous, and can't help but envy her when I see them together holding hands.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 381 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - I moved to a new school around 8 weeks ago or so for sixth form. There's a boy in my English jt. class. He's lovely, charasmatic and such a nice guy! I haven't known him long, and he confided in me some troubles his family are going through - which, I thought was significant as ... (148 words)

Is she testiing me after 8 months of nonsense?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 361 days ago

6 November 2008 (M)

How can I find out if my teacher is definitely a lesbian?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 184 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi I know this is a really common problem but this goes so much further. This may be long but I would really appreciate some answers :-). I'm in love with my art teacher, she's the same sex as me!!! I'm only 14 though but I look and act so much older and I'm SURE she's a lesbia... (232 words)

My partner and I both share a really good male friend... who I think I'm falling in love with!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 360 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I really need some ones advice as I'm going crazy. Basically I have a partner of 3 years who I do love. We both share a really good male friend but me and this guy seem closer, we are like soul mates. We both admitted there's something there between us but didn't discuss ... (165 words)

I really want to get back together with him as I do believe this was all just a stupid mistake.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 361 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend (17) and I (18) have been going out for just over a year and 10 months now, however we are going through a really rough patch at the moment. Since february of this year 2008, he and i have been planning a holiday to Paris, disneyland, for my 18th birthday in ... (560 words)

Boyfriend downloads Spyware and constantly accuses of cheating

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has always insisted I'm cheating. We will make love and he rolls over and asks who I'm sleeping with. He has spyware on the computer, and daily interviews me about who I spent time with. He confronts me constantly with items of suspicion; who I'm texting, who ... (159 words)

Please tell me aobut your experiences with an emotional affair

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age - Hello, all - Has anyone out there been involved in an EMOTIONAL AFFAIR? Please relate you experiences if you have been (or still are) because I'm trying to move on. Thanks much!... (34 words)

I am 18 and want to date a 23 year old girl that I work with

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 November 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Ive been working in virgin megastores for over a year now, started when I was 17 and am now 18. Ive also worked with a girl for that year as well...at first there was no attraction physically, but as ive gotten to know her ive become mad about her! we get on really well, always ... (163 words)

I need to help my cousin avoid this trap!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My cousin is currently separated from wife and is at a weak point in life. He knows a "lady" who helps him out financially (they have been friends for awhile and she has told him that she has feelings for him). I have a feeling she is going to ask him to pay her back in more ... (163 words)

I am prematurly ejaculating. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 30. My penis size is very small. it is 4 inch and for the reason i do not know i can not saty long- only one minute or some time less. i can not express my embressement when I see my wife being unsatisfied and turn her face on me. it really hearts. help!!help!! h... (62 words)

Women's comparrison of sex partners

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 381 days ago

6 November 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Hí. I've been reading around and found some answers wich i consider a little scary. I read that women always remember previous sex partners and compare current partner with them. So i have a double question about this for women: 1.- Wich's the reason you compare? is that una... (101 words)

I want to date other guys

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - i've been with my boyfriend for 3yrs. he was my first and i love him dearly but latley i've been feeling like i dont want to be with him anymore. hes had many other girls that hes dated and i feel like i haven't dated enough guys to see exactly what i want. i try to tell him ... (100 words)

Is Osteomilitis hereditary?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - heya people, I was wondering, my dad has/had Ostiomilitis and i was wondering is it hereditory (sorry cant spell) cos im having pains in my leg and i was wondering if ostimilitis is a possiblity :o Okays, Thanks, Tasha x... (44 words)

All my friends are boys and I cant be friends with a boy without fancying them!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - is this unusual? Well ever since I was young my bestfriends have always been boys, i am 14 now. But I cant be a boys friend, without me fancying them. I hate it and i dont know what it is and when it will go away because of all this i fancy about 7 boys that is so wierd! :... (70 words)

I am too self concious to enjoy sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I have had a few partners and I am in my early twenties. However, every time i have ever had sex I feel so intensely self conscious of my body that I can barely enjoy the sex or my partner. I have a very pretty face and i have a well shaped body but I’m a little on the fat ... (341 words)

My boyfriend gives too much time and attention to a child that isnt even his!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a serious issue,my bofriend and I have been together exclusively for18mon,but we been messing around off and on for 8yrs.he has a son and daughter from previous relationship,also inappropriate talkin between them tomuch contact!he's crazy about the little girl!ifound out ... (333 words)

Was my ex hitting on my friend or did he really just need a shoulder to cry on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I thought I'd ask this one more time since I got no replies last time. I could really use your help. thanks. My bf of five years and I had a rough patch awhile back. We took a break and we both really fell apart without each other, but we just couldn't get on track. He is ... (270 words)

He broke up with me, but doesn't seem to quite want to let me go

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 380 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Ive been split with my guy for about nearly 3 months now, but are relationship seems weired compared to my other relationships, and also a few of my friends ex relationships. On the day we split it was his choice to end it, anyway we split in the morning, then which we spent th... (242 words)

I still don't know why he broke up, but keep hoping he will come back.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 381 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - My ex finished me over 5-6 month after over 3yrs needless to say I was devastated and people who we knew were stunned. I gave him everything but it felt like it wasn't enough. When people asked why he use to say he didn't know and he even said to me he felt lost but it was ... (404 words)

How normal is this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - hi I've been going out with my boyfriend for 4 months now and we're very happy together. We often spend hours just led together in bed (we haven't slept together yet) and we normally end up making out with one of us on top of the other (fully dressed) with him kindof humpi... (135 words)

I'm starting to like his cousin...I'm so confused!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 372 days ago

6 November 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I really need some help i've been with my partner for five years and i love him, i really do. Recently i've started talking to his cousin online and i really like him we talk and text alot and i like him. I pretty sure he doesn't like me like him and just wants to be friends. I ... (105 words)

Is she testing me after 8 months of nonsense?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 November 2008 (M)

Does she want me to Love her already? Its only been 2 weeks!

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6 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - there is a girl who works behind the bar in my local pub. i liked her but never really spoke to her as I didn't know what to say. 2weeks ago she came after me and told me she liked me and wanted to go out with me. we have gone out a few times and had a good time. last week she ... (177 words)

My long distance beau is depressed and dealing with all sorts of stuff. I don't know if he wants me anymore!

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6 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I have read a couple of your threads on this site seeking help for my own situation. I see that many responses are unbiased and offer some solid perspective. So if you wouldn’t mind, please read about my situation and if there is anything you can offer, I would like to ... (730 words)

Does it get less painful for girls to have sex with a big man over time?

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6 November 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Does it get less painful for girls to have sex with a big man over time? My girlfriend and i decided to have sex last night and she is very small (5ft, 95pounds) and im quite big (6'1 230) and roughly 7inches big, and she has only been with 1 other guy and that was over a ... (133 words)

My husband forgets things that I have just told him!

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6 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am worried about my 58 year old husband. I may tell him something and then he asks me questions a short time later about the same subject. Example: Last night watching Private Practice he went downstairs to turn off lights in the middle of the program. When he came back I ... (143 words)

Trying to love the alpha male...

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6 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been involved with a successful and driven alpha male for about six months. I am crazy about him but there is something lacking. Being that he is a workaholic, our time together is limited to one lunch during the week and then Saturday night and most of Sunday. ... (114 words)

Why has he put me permanently offline on his chat ?

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6 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I haven't chatted in years and we didn't have chat installed. He recently installed his chat and I did too. The thing is I was looking at my profile from his machine as he was logged into chat and then I right clicked on my name and he had me marked as per... (69 words)

Long distance relationship woes...

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6 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am in an awful dilemma. I am madly in love with a woman who I met while working at sea on a cruise ship together. I'm from the UK and she's from the US. I'm 39 and she's 44. I'm in the process of getting divorced and she's a divorcee with two kids aged 19 and 20. I have ... (942 words)

Trying to get over a break up...

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6 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm trying to get over a breakup. We have been together for 5 years, and I know he still thinks and cares for me. I have to take care of myself, and that's what I'm doing. I just want him out of my mind! Today he just tex me and ask me who I voted for, and how I was doing.... (87 words)

How can I overcome my jelousy problem?

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6 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - how do i overcome my jealousy problem? is it normal to be jealous? please help me overcome this problem... (19 words)

Why has he done all of this even though he is married?

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6 November 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - why he done all these even though he is marries? i met gug at my work place he was top level manger in he working company he was begin my company... v had chance to talk ... it was normal mean time he said im un married... i feel it does matter for me.. it he deveelop interse... (102 words)

How can I help my friend not feel so guilty?

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6 November 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - One of my very close friends is down lately, because after she broke up with her girlfriend (she is lesbian) her ex tried to kill herself. What can I say to her to relieve some of her guilt and help her through this tough time? I always find it hard to talk to someone if I ... (70 words)

What does my ex want from me?

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6 November 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - My ex and i have been split for over 4 weeks now,he left me for someone else, she has since started going bk with one of her exs but has told my ex that its him she wants, anyway since we split we have always keept in contact over the phone, but now he pranks me then i ring him ... (255 words)

Having an affair with a married man, but met a nice divorced guy. What shall I do?

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6 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Am having an affair with a married man. im single. its only just started. it wasnt ment to happen. he said he has been with his wife for 4 years and they have a baby. they dont sleep together anymore and she is having an affair said he was planning on leaving her next year whe... (166 words)

How can we break this cycle?

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6 November 2008 (F) - My b/f and I view certain things in our relationship differently and I don't know how to get around these differences. For one thing, sex is expendable to him when he's got other things on his mind. After a week or more of going without, I don't feel close to him. I become ... (149 words)

Have had a crush on my teacher for 7 years now!

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6 November 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - dear readers, here is my problem when i am still in grade school. i have a crush on our contractual teacher when i am still in my grade 5 year. but when i first saw him, i felt nothing. my feeling was just like my friends. i was a journalist in our campus. we are in ... (212 words)

I was ripped off before - do I risk going through the same thing again?

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6 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Two months ago I met someone who treats me really well, says he loves me, is gentle and kind etc etc etc. He lives around 70 miles away and stays with me 2 nights a week whilst he is off work. I go to his flat 1 night a week when I can (I have a teenage daughter who liv... (373 words)

Trying to get over this breakup and a miscarriage. Please help!

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6 November 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Im completely at my wits end. At this point I could really use some serious advice. I posted a question earlier about whether or not my ex would come back to me after I let him go to sort his feelings out. It was under 'now that ive let him go will he come back to me' for ... (684 words)

Why is it that my b/f is so quick to lose interest in sex just because he's having a busy week?

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6 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is it that my b/f is so quick to lose interest in sex just because he's having a busy week? To me, it's the greatest escape from work!!! A chance to re-connect with the person who is there for you, and loves you. Yet he pushes away and makes me feel unimportant. I do ... (113 words)

How will I explain my deception?

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6 November 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - i started dating this other guy in my school but i used false identity because at the beginning i did not want him to know who i really was due to the fact that i had a crush on his friend and i did not want him to know who i was either because i chatted with him too(my ... (104 words)

My bf is being manipulated by his ex-wife...

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6 November 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - my boyfriends ex wife had an affair on him twice with the same person.he cant stand her but he has 3 wonderful children with her so he has to have contact with her over the children which i completely understand. unfortunately we are all in the same martial arts association and ... (236 words)

Is this is the end? Does she will back to me? And if she returns to me should I forgive her? If she doesn’t return to me what should I do to keep saying my baby and take care of him?

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6 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend with my baby left me, she said that she wants to live for her own children from now on, therefore she needs to leave me alone, and because we live in conserved society, its forbidden to have relation with girls outside of marriage, but we could to have baby and ... (318 words)

Tired of crying & lying to the world & myself...

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6 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, Six years ago I dated a this guy, and the relationship ended very badly. He went into our relationship knowing that his ex was expecting his child, after a short 3 month relationship he finally confessed as she had a miscarriage. The thing that hurt the most was him sp... (372 words)

Since I moved we have been arguing much more...

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6 November 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi am east indian am dating a east indian guy who is in india... we are together from past 4 year.. last year I moved to canada everything was fine but now suddenly alot of misunderstanding and fights going on atleast 2 a week. AM not able to understand the reason... he loves ... (66 words)

Should I tell my friends ex that I have feelings for her?

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6 November 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - should i tell my friends ex that i have feelings for her? I went off to college and was introduced to my friend's girlfriend,we ended up having a class together and started hanging out studying. which soon steam rolled into us goin out to eat and clubing with some of her... (311 words)

Why does he do romantic things for me if he doesn't want a relationship?

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6 November 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - This guy I just started seeing usually contacts me every couple of days and we have seen each other a couple of times. He basically told me that he doesn't want to be in a relationship, but if that is true, then why does he do romantic things for me like cook, light candles, ... (95 words)

In love with my best friend but don't want to lose the friendship...

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6 November 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - so theres this girl i really like but see the problem is that we've been extremely close friends for over a year now and i'm starting to fall for her a lot just recently and idk what to do now cuz we also just signed a house on campus yesterday for the next 2 years so we (me ... (144 words)

How often should a guy you just started dating call or text you?

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6 November 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - How often should a guy you just started seeing text you/contact you? Once a week? twice a week? every couple of days? Just curious because this guy I have been seeing usually contacts me every 2-4 days and I was just wondering what you all think a normal amount is.... (50 words)

Has anyone else ever dated their ex boyfriend's ex girlfriend?

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6 November 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I apolqize in advance for being long.... But has anyone else ever dated their ex boyfriend's ex girlfriend? Because not too long ago I became comfortable with my sexuality and my ex boyfriend's ex girlfriend that he dated after we broke up knows that i'm bi-curious and s... (276 words)

I don't know how to cope without her, I feel so empty

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6 November 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - me and my girlfriend had been goin out for 4 years, she is everything a guy could want! we broke up like a week ago, the reasons behind this is, my girlfreind is in her second year of university and she feels there is to much to cope with having a job, uni work al the time and ... (172 words)

I miss my ex so so much!

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6 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I miss my ex so much. I think about him all the time. I would do anything to have him back. Its been almost a year sense he broke up with me. What can I do, to win him back when he wont even give me the time of day?... (50 words)

My boyfriend is a super genius and I can't measure up!

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6 November 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I met my boyfriend at mathmatics lecture. I doing it to get some extra credit in class, but he was going for fun! That's how nerdy my boyfriend is! But he's not one of those dorky nerds you see in cartoons, he's one of those sexy geeks if you know what I mean. Anyway I reall... (258 words)

Should I just forget about him?

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6 November 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I have an issue that is really bothering me....There is this guy, him and me were super tight nearly going out...then i met the guy that i have been with for nearly a year so we went through a stage were he hated me and we fought heaps..I know i hurt him and i hate myself for ... (183 words)

What is up with me? I'm so great at scaring men off.

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6 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Or so I worry. I'm generally considered very sweet, attractive, and smart. But I constantly worry about scaring men off or sending them running for the hills at every turn. Most recently, I met a great man. He's moving a little quickly, but I am guilty of the same because we ... (337 words)

I'm more then his buddy or does just want me as a girl toy....

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6 November 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I need help ASAP!!!!!! I have this guy that I call my buddy so that's what we say we are...but we are so past the buddy stage we kiss and stuff but when I ask him what are we he sed to me that he don't have time for a girl but if he did I would the first to know. I know tha... (154 words)

What do I do to get over her? Any tips to getting somone out of your mind for good?

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6 November 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - I dated a girl for around a year and 2 months and we broke up in september. After the break up she tells me she fell in love with somone at her work, and for close to 3 months hadn't told me anything. At the begginning of the summer I started working 65+ hours a week all ... (259 words)

Boyfriend becomeing distant...help...advice?

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6 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - The guy I've been dating for 5 months is becoming really distant and I don't know what to do. At first we saw eachother 4 times a week and everything was great. He opened up to me and text or called throughout the day. Now we only see each other once a week and half the time he ... (132 words)

He's 'working' with his ex - what should I do?

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6 November 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - my boyfriend and i have been together for 6 months now. we are both 19 and love each other a lot. he has been trying to get a job at this place for a while now. this girl is helping him for the past two months with barely any progression. they talk to each other through te... (300 words)

Should I leave my cheating husband or try to make it work?

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6 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my husband for 11 years, married for 5 years, I caught him emailing women online for sex, and trying to set up sex with women while I was out of town, they even called his cell phone,so I'm not sure if he slept with any yet but the intention is there, I told ... (191 words)

Has he just lost interest and I should take the hint and move on??

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6 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I relocated abroad about 5 months ago with work and just before I left I started seeing a guy - it was literally for only a few weeks but we'd been flirting with each other for 6 months prior to that. After I moved we were constantly emailing, calling and texting each other and ... (156 words)

Can you fall in love with someone that you have never met?

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6 November 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Can You Fall In Love With Someone That You Have Never Met??? I have been chatting to a man for the past 9 months on the internet. We met on a roleplaying game and have talked every day since (give or take about 5 days in the beginning). Ever since, we've been inseparable... (339 words)

Does it sound like he is being for real with me?

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6 November 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi! I am in an intersting situation at the moment and I was just wondering if anyone had some advice. Ok so this is a kind of complicated situation, so ill make it as clear and concise as possible. so back track 3 years ago-senior year a high school-me and my boyfriend bro... (1072 words)

Should I keep "pretending" to be her friend so she gets back with me?

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6 November 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - ok so i am 19 yrs old and was seeing a 26 yr old. she recently broke things off because of the age, i have been horrible ever since! she totally broke my heart! when we first started dating it was great we got along all the time! she even once told me i dont care about ur age i ... (123 words)

I need some advice on this girl I like, I want to know whether she likes me and if I should make a move and ask her out..

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6 November 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - I need some advice on this girl I like, I want to know whether she likes me and if I should make a move and ask her out. We have known each other for a little while; she used to go out with one of my friends, but they recently broke up under some less than friendly ... (210 words)

Pregnancy test was negative, then what are these symptoms?

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6 November 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi everyone. I'm in a bit of predicament. I have been dating my boyfriend for quite sometime now and we rent a house togther. In the past week I had a pregnancy scare. I took a pregnancy test today because I missed my period that was due on the second of november. This was odd ... (179 words)

Men over 40: do men loose their sex drive after 40?

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6 November 2008 (F) age 41-50 - This question to men over40...I really need to know how common is that,, that man loses his sex drive over 40? I'm so confused because I know many older ,60 and up guys who are chasing after woman and yet I keep hearing about andropause what happens to man over 40 and they sto... (70 words)

My friend's husband is a scum bag and I don't know what to do.

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6 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - My husband's friend and his girlfriend are on a "break", and he is sleeping with hookers. I feel so bad for his girlfriend because he totally lies to her saying that would never cheat on her. She believes him and thinks they are going to get back together. He is totally leading ... (114 words)

My gf's mum doesn't like me!

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6 November 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - me and my girlfriend have been dating for some while now and her mum dont like me i av tried everything but she stil tries to split us up i have had an aguement with her because of what she is doin and now my girlfriend is saying she doesnt want to be with me i dont no what to ... (83 words)

Could I be pregnant even though we used a condom?

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6 November 2008 (?) age 18-21 - Vincent and I had sex, but that was days ago and since then i've been feelin sick. Im not sure if i could be pregnant when we use a condom every time. Im rather close to my period; okay next week. Y'think i should take a test, or once again...probably over reacting because its ... (62 words)

Why cant I have guy friends just because I am a girl? Do girls always have to start drama?

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6 November 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - So drama is a huge thing in high school! and i hate drama!!!! ugh well i use to get a ride from my friend, but now i cant. here is the story: so i make better friends with guys then girls. mostly because guys dont really cause drama. well my three closest friends are guys. an... (327 words)

How can I get over this crippling lack of confidence and start dating?

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6 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 36 year old virgin and I am starting to get truly depressed about my situation. I still live with my parents and the only sexual contact I have had was a brief hand-job whilst I was a student at college. My only relief now is masturbation. My problem stems from a lac... (163 words)

I have feelings for an older guy...he's 46...

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6 November 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Well i have feelings for this older guy he's 46 and i am 21. But him and my boyfriend are friends and live together. I have no idea what to do i find the older man very interesting. I enjoy talking to him i always smile when he's around. We've talked about a lot of stuff and ... (154 words)