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Lately he doesn't text me back, should I be upset or just get over him?

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29 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I recently started to text this guy. My friend gave me his number and she said he is really nice, so I started to text him and have been for about a month now, but I found out that he is a player. But when we talks he calls me sexy and baby and all the right things that make me ... (162 words

Brown discharge...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

29 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm 15 and I haven't started my period yet, but I have been having a discharge for a about 2 years I think but the other day my discharge went from white to brown... what is this from and what can I do to make it not brown?????... (48 words

Struggling with a break up. Please help.

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29 November 2008 (M age 36-40 - I'm not really sure there is answerable question in the following, but I need a place to express myself and if you feel you can help me, please do. Again I woke up to a text message from J (my ex). "How was your day today?" I know she's not leaving these for anyone else,... (463 words

Behavioural problems???

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29 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I think I have some sort of behaviour issue... I am extremely melodramatic, I have a very short temper and tiny things annoy me... such as mistakes i've made in writing especially in pen it makes me so angry and i often attept to write it agian and agian till i get it right. ... (222 words

Am I worrying over nothing... or is he cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

29 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - Me and my husband have been together for nine years and married for two. We have three kids together all under the age of five. Hhe is in the military and recently went to do training in a different state. He started talking to a girl and lied to me about it when he got home, ... (140 words

Is it love... or the wrong signs?

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29 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi I'm 16 and i have a crisis I guess you could say. I feel very attracted to a 27 year old man. the thing is he used to work at my school as hall patrol. he plays football for a county team and i feel obligated to go to his games to cheer him on. when he came to visit my ... (205 words

How do I tell my boyfriend I'm in love with his brother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

29 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - I think I love my boyfriend's brother, and I don't know whether I should tell him or not?? I want to so bad, cuz I hate hiding my feelings, BUT I do not want to cause drama between family. Its getting to the point where I really dont care though... I know that sounds really ... (125 words

I feel so much of an outcast...

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29 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm 18 years old and I've never had a boyfriend. It's driving me mad! I went to an all girl school until I was 16 and since then i've had male friends but never felt attracted to any of them. Now that i'm at university all my friends have had so many boyfriends and the majority ... (146 words

He was seeing his ex the whole time we were together!!!

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29 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - Please help, I don't know what I should do!! It's quite long I'm sorry! I've been with my partner for over a year now but broke up for 2 months half way through the year after finding out he was cheating with who I thought to be his ex but turned out he never left her, I took ... (296 words

Troubled and dysfunctional family...

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29 November 2008 (F age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I need help, at least advice from anybody who can have a little attention to this. I have a very disfunctional family and it's really killing me, parents never been good to me specially mother who seems hated me frome the very start of my life. brothers and sisters ... (328 words

Past love comes back...

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29 November 2008 (M age 30-35 - hey Quite a hard situation, and I feel like a dick for some of it, get that out the way first. I was seeing a girl about a month ago called, let's call her J, and I really loved her but we didn't see each other much (she goes to college, me 6 form, and we live 4 miles apart), ... (181 words

Why is the news of my ex being engaged bringing me down?

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29 November 2008 (M age 41-50 - I broke up with my ex of 5 years a few years ago. She broke up with me and got together with the guy she was cheating on me with. Just found out recently they got engaged. I have a great girlfriend now and we have such a good time together so why is this news bringing me down? ... (59 words

I need to draw a wedge between them...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

29 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I'm Peridot. I was in a relationship with this great guy, but now it's somehow falling apart. I don't know how to get him back... And plus, there's this girl, who is trying to make problems between me and him purposely. She calls him up, chats with him and tries to go out w... (375 words

Back with my ex after a year and my libido has vanished, what is wrong with me?

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29 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am a 30 year old woman and I have been in a relationship for 8 years now. My boyfriend and I use to have a wonderful and exciting sex life. We currently just got back together after being seperated for almost a year and my sex drive has vanished and his has increased to the ... (171 words

My boyfriend and I fight constantly, I'm scared I'm gonna bring a baby into a horrible relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

29 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi I'm 22 and need some help. In July of 08 I found out I was pregnant. When I told my mom she went off and told me my life was over and I wouldn't be able to do the things I wanted. So after telling me this I kinda started freaking out even more than I was when I found out. So ... (223 words

Problem with testicles!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

29 November 2008 (M age 36-40 - When feeling the testicles, whatever connects to the left gland (vein, semen line, etc) on the left testicle, what does it mean when in contrast to the right gland the connection feels swollen and bumpy? plz answer as soon as possible, thank you... (44 words

Does my teacher have feelings for me? Is it wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

29 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Right, I completed secondary school back in June after finishing my exams and all that :). about a month after leaving I added this teacher on a networking site, and it was pretty cool. First we just chatted about movies and favourite bands etc. then he stared telling me more ... (372 words

Another player?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

29 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I liked this guy a couple years older than me.. and he was sweet and stuff when we started talking and we ended up having sex when we hung out.. well my cousin knows of him and heard he was a player. She told me this last night. Well it wasnt like we had sex right away and then... (403 words

What are the chances of having a false negative pregnancy test?

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29 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Gonna try keep this as short as possible! Was just wondering what the chances of having a false negative pregnancy test are? I took a test around 2 weeks ago which resulted in negative. But my period still hasn't come, making it over 6 weeks late! I used to have trouble with ... (79 words

I'm on my 7 day break from the pill but still haven't come on! What is going on?

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29 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey! This is sorta a relationship problem but im on the pill and stopped taking it last wednesday for my 7 day break but i still havent come on. Im thinking of going over to my boyfriends tomoro and if we will have sex will it make me come on? I really dont want to come on at ... (66 words

My relationship has gone stale, how can I revive it and start being myself around him?

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29 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for three years, and about four months ago, we moved in together. We've had problems in the past that are still lingering around, trouble is, now that we're constantly around eachother, the problems have become intensified and scattere... (225 words

Am I expecting too much from my boyfriend with responsibilities, and is love enough?

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29 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - Dear aunts and uncles, Apologies for the ridiculously long essay, but I am feeling very sad and sorry for myself tonight, and am using this process as therapy! Some background: I have been with my bf for a little over a year now. It started off like a real romantic... (990 words

I don't feel he is prioritating me over his ex, what can I do to make him understand my needs in this mess?

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29 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - i don't want to leave him because i'm blinded with my strong love for this person...His ex keeps calling me and she was telling me that they were getting back together.. she told me that the only reason that my boyfriend was getting back with her was because they have a baby ... (258 words

My attraction grows stronger every day and it's making my relationship hectic!

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29 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - So I've been in a relationship for 6 months now with my boyfriend who I love very much, But recently I started having second thoughts about us. I have been spending alot of time with his brother lately who I have known alot longer and have always been fond of him and really ... (193 words

Should I wait to go to the hospital or do I go now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

29 November 2008 (F age 51-59 - I have searched the web trying to find an answer to my question. 7 days ago I was almost at the end of my period. Went to work as usual, but when I came home there was no string??!! I tried to find it, then I was questioning if I used one or not. So now 7 days on I have a dull ... (121 words

Can two people of the same sex get married?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

29 November 2008 (F age 51-59 - Can two people of the same sex get married? My mum says yes but dad says no, and they are falling out about it. What's worse mum turned down dads marriage proposal and now he's thinking of leaving. Mum says it's just a piece of paper. What can i do to help them stick together... (56 words

Is she being very friendly or does she love me?

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29 November 2008 (M age 30-35 - I have a female friend who is very attractive and friendly,she has a lot of male friends although she says they are childhood friends and family friends. I told her i liked her and wanted her to be my gf but she said she was not ready for a relationship and even told me the ... (101 words

Guys: would a bj feel better with a warm or cold mouth?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

29 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm thinking about giving my BF a surprise BJ when he comes home from class tomorrow, soon after he comes inside. My question is, do you think it would feel especially good if I gargled/drank hot or cold water right beforehand? Does one feel better than the other? And ... (66 words

One second I want to be with her and the other I don't!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5615 days ago

29 November 2008 (M age 30-35 - I don't know what to do with my relationship. Sometimes i want to be with her and other times i just want to be single again. We've been going out for more than a year now and although she does make me happy i'm getting bored. One second i'll think i can't wait to spend... (251 words

Would you say she loves me or not?

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29 November 2008 (M age 30-35 - If a girl who is my close friend allows me to hold her hands,laughs always when with me,comes to visit me,phones me and always talk to me whenever she sees me but have lots of malefriends. Does she loves me... (40 words

Want to get engaged before buying a house, is that wrong?

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29 November 2008 (F - My boyfriend and I are planning on getting a house next year together. We have been living together since we we first started dating which will be 4 years in March. We have known eachother for about 8 years altogether. I'm 26, he is 24. I love him with all my heart and would ... (215 words

We love each others but he is too afraid to leave his wife, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

29 November 2008 (F age 51-59 - I am in love with a married man and we have been in this relationship for over 5 years. There is no question that he loves me. However, him and his wife own a corporate store together that he runs. He has told her about us and that he wants a divorce many times, but nothing ... (120 words

Could I be pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

29 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi. I'm 17 and I'm getting worried. I have been gaining a lot of weight lately and I haven't had my period in almost 2 months. It doesn't look like my stomach is getting bigger but I'm starting to wonder... Could i be pregnant?... (44 words

This is driving me nuts! How can I get over her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

29 November 2008 (M age 26-29 - In february I was told by my friends that this girl fancied me so I naturally asked her out because she was attractive with a great personality. But after less than a week she broke up with me and I found that I fell for her, and even after all these months later I think about ... (92 words

What can I do to loose weight?

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29 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm 17, 5 ft 3 in and 130 lbs and I want to lose weight deperately. I've thought about getting hydroxicut or some weight loss pill but theres no way for me to get it. I am not old enough to buy it. I've tried diet and exercise but its a little too hard for me. My friends and ... (90 words

Stuck with my ex for 2 years due to a business agreement! How can I get out of this?

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29 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - Did i do wrong? i have just ordered a free laptop for m ex bf where he would give me the money and i would but im my bank for the direct debet, the thing is the deal is for 2 yrs, So whatever happens he needs to stay in contact with me for thoses 2 years, im still good fri... (92 words

I think it's funny now... is it normal for me to think of it this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

29 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - About 9 months ago me and my boyfriend had a major fight as he lied about where he was one night, following it we both went on a night out with friends but seperately, and met up later, when we met up I caught him on the phone planning to meet up and have sex with another girl. ... (190 words

Do I stay with my wild boyfriend who loves me or go back to my ex who says he loves me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

29 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have found this site really useful and have read it recently to help with my situation, however, I have joined today to be able to get some real advice for my exact situation. I cant talk to my family as they just change the subject (although we are a close family, ... (1214 words

From 100 mph to 0 in 15 months....!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5619 days ago

29 November 2008 (M age 36-40 - So I started going out with my current girlfriend after meeting her at the bar, she was a rebound for me at the time so things didn't really start off intending to turn into a relationship but it did- and that made things tough. Anyways the sex was amazing and that kept my in ... (376 words

I'm afraid to let my parents know that I have a boyfriend as they think I'm too young.

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29 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend and we have been talking for a while now and I'm afraid to let my parents know because I'm not allowed to date until I'm 18 but I'm afraid that if I make him wait I will lose him. I really love him and want to keep seeing him he feels the same way but I ... (129 words

He laughed and called me his "fuck buddy!"

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

29 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi People I'm finding this really hard, I've been split with my bf just over a month, and I'm still in contact as in friends and I still sometimes sleep with him in the car, Well last nite I went round his house for the first time since we split and we got on well, anyway ... (280 words

I just had my hair cut and I HATE IT!!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

29 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Well... This probably will seem like a really dumb problem.. but I need help. It's not really a relationship question either, but I hope you can help anyways. About a week ago, I went and got a haircut, before I went in, my hair was down past my shoulders. I asked her to tak... (153 words

Do think this breaks all friendship rules - because my friend slept with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

29 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - About 7 months ago one of my good girl friends finished with a guy she’d been seeing, it was all very emotional and she was upset. That night we went to a friend’s party where after getting very drunk she found a rebound- good looking, one of the best at the party. The party ... (267 words

I'm nearly sixteen and I'm so scared of having sex,

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29 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hello, I'm nearly sixteen and I'm so scared of having sex, although I haven't got a boyfriend, the thought of it just scares me. If I got into the situation, I wouldn't have a clue what to do, it's not like I ever have boyfriends or stuff because my last relationship lasted ... (82 words

My boyfriend is super shy!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

29 November 2008 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend is SUPER shy, and I don't know why! Like before we started going out we would talk ALL the time and now its just like...i dont even know. When he is around his friends he talks all the time and is really funny! And i like him alot, but now when he is around me he ... (268 words

Should I break up with my "imaginary boyfriend"???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

29 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - hey people, Basically, I was introduced to a guy at college, I thought he was cute but hey I think everyone got good looking friends. So anyway, we started to get to know each other and he WAS NOT my type of guy. I like the type of guy who is a dare devil and takes me on amazi... (246 words

He likes to chat with other girls online and says I have nothing to worry about...????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

29 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - good evening I don't know how to say that and I know I am an understandable person but it really bothers me that my boyfriend likes to chat with other girls online and when I told him how do I feel about that, he assures me that there is absolutely nothing I should... (264 words

Two cheating people on a weekly basis for 8 months

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29 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi, For the past 8 months I have been seeing this guy. He has a girlfriend far away with kids and I am engaged. We see each other on a weekly basis and go on vacations to amazing places all the time. Is it normal to have a pure sexual relationship with doing all this with the ... (125 words

Ran into my ex who behaved very oddly!

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29 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - Well, this is more a rant than a question but opinions would be appreciated. So basically last night I ran into my ex, first time I'd seen her since we split up (oh and it was BAAAAAAD break up I hasten to add). She kind of took me by surprise, I saw her walking into... (387 words

Is is all right I have a teacher's myspace?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

29 November 2008 (F age 26-29 - Right, my question is: Is it all right that I have a teacher's myspace? The thing is he's not my actual teacher, I only got to know him during cross country last year (he was one of the teachers that ran the club) and I thought he was fun and cool. He mentioned he had... (380 words

As the years pass I feel as if I've lost "the one". Does anyone else feel like that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

29 November 2008 (M age 51-59 - We had known each other since childhood, it was almost inevitable that years later, as adults, we would get together. We both came from unhappy homes and in the past had problems with drink and drugs. Together we straightened ourselves out and conformed to normal society, got ... (360 words

I don't understand why I can't wear a tampon.

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29 November 2008 (F age 51-59 - Hello. I am a 40 year old woman. I don't understand why I can't wear a tampon. I have tried for years, however my body seems to push them out on it's own. Does anyone know why this could be? Yes, I use them right! lol I'm just so tired of pads. ... (55 words

Is it okay to just not be that bothered about sex?

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29 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - I'm a 26 year old woman, and I started having sexual relationships when I was sixteen. I've been in two or three serious long term relationships, and all have been loving, and relatively sucessful except for one thing. I'm really not that fussed about having sex - it's not that... (434 words

I'm really upset and angry at my dad...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

29 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hello, not really a romantic relationship problems but a family relationship problem. I'm a 19 year old woman who has just moved out to the big city and got her own flat for the first time. I'm a first year university student. Before that I was living with my mum who lives... (1174 words

How do I overcome this stupid feeling of hurt knowing that he watches porn?

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29 November 2008 (F age 51-59 - So some may think im over thinking and some may feel what i feel... but its just something that always seems to bug me here and there thought i'd see if i can get any advice or see what others think... my husband of 2 yrs watches occasional porn and i'll admit i watch an... (177 words

I don't like how he always tries to teach me... does he even like me?

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29 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hello Friends, Am not brilliant enough what can i do. I have a boyfriend and he told me at the initial time he loves me, but as time goes on he discover that am not brilliant, he always talk to me, try to teach me, but the way he teaches me is as if he making a jest on me. I ... (116 words

We're only friends, but I'm upset because he had sex with another girl!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

29 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey guys i need some help or advice. The thing is this i have a friend who is a guy and we've known each other for 4yrs. At 1st i liked him and he liked me but nothing happened so we've decided to be best friends. I might stil have feelings for him and he knows it. I dont want... (152 words

Are my eating habits the thing making me not able to lose weight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

29 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm 15 years old 107lb and 5 ft3. My family tells me I'm not fat but to me I am. I only weigh 107 but look 130! I really want to lose 15lb but it seems near impossible. It's not just numbers on the scale I want to see though. I want muscle but not like a 6 pack or anything, ... (103 words

I didn't enjoy my first time, although I do love her, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5619 days ago

29 November 2008 (M age 36-40 - hi,i am feeling a little embaressed abt sharing this problem..well,here it goes.last year it was my first time with my girlfriend but not hers,and while undergoing physical attachment i didnt feel,u knw wht i mean?but seriously i love my girlfriend whether i did or did not enjo... (77 words

We have had a sexual relationship for 4 years now, what in the world could be his problem? Why don't we advance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5619 days ago

29 November 2008 (F age - i have had a sexual relationship with a man for over 4 yrs now and in a recent conversation i made a coment to him stating that i feel i "scare him". not to say i am a scary type of woman but because of the type of person that i am. he kind sorta agreed and went on to say that ... (132 words

I miss my ex, she doesn't accept me back but does try to kiss me and wants to have sex, what to do?

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29 November 2008 (M age 36-40 - i miss my ex girl friend a whole lot we was together for 6 years we been broke up for like 4 months my in love i can't front about it she has a new boyfriend but still calls and comes by and like she finds reasons to come over like on thanksgiving she came by cuz she wanted my ... (204 words

I might move out of state and I'm scared of losing her.

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29 November 2008 (M age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for about going on 3 years. Her parents deceased.... lived with aunt... lived with me... because of my mom's problems(anxiety).. she moved to best friend's house(girl), an hour away...(I don't drive... both 18 years old) and we promised ... (70 words

My close friend who fancies my boyfriend threw a fit, is this my problem?

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29 November 2008 (F age 26-29 - Hey Im in a pickle ive just started going with someone. I really like him. We went out together for the first time and my close friend whos been depressed lately kept hugging me and pulling me away and crying on me WHILE I WAS WITH HIM. I was getting seriously annoyed so was m... (126 words

She said she wants to make out but doesn't know how to initiate it, any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

29 November 2008 (M age 30-35 - My gf and i have been together for nearly nine months. We love eachother very much, however, because of her previous relationships (this is my first), it has taken her along time to be intimate with me, and she knows this. I've respected her wishes by doing this and she and her ... (136 words

Dilemma!!!!!!

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29 November 2008 (M age 41-50 - Friends, Me and my English girlfriend decided to get married in Jan 09. Our love started 4 years back and thats why we decided to get married after living together. I came to India in Jan 08 because of expiry of visa. Being in India, I was renovating the house and looking ... (224 words

He can't get out of his marriage but I think he has strong feelings for me...

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29 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi. I am feeling very confused right now. there is this guy I love.. I have loved him for a year now,but i found out that he has a girlfriend. He thinks of my father as an idol or something and shares everything with him and respects him immensely. He told my father, who t... (242 words

Why is my friend acting like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

29 November 2008 (? age 30-35 - My best guy friend has been ignoring since school started all because he has a girlfriend. At first I thought it was he didnt want drama that he with his ex (she thought he cheating on her with me). Once I said hi to him and he didnt even look at me. Why he is acting like this? ... (58 words

I am having a hard time deciding which month to get married...

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29 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hello, my name is Ashley I am having a hard time deciding when to get married. I am engaged and in love. I am having a hard time deciding what month to get married. I'm think Between March, April or May. My birthday is in April and his is in May. I kinda don't want to in... (75 words

Do boys like it when girls call them?

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29 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Do boys like when girls call them? ... (7 words

My boyfriend insulted my colored hair!

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29 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am very angry and upset with my boyfriend. We were out with some friends of his at a bar. They commented on my colored hair. I dyed it black. My original hair is dark brown almost black. My boyfriend said I reminded him of Rosie O'Donnell. I got very mad broke out in tears... (83 words

Am I really pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

29 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - okay. I know that I have written something else about this, but it has been almost 3 months since I was supposed to have my period. (it was only like 10 days when i originally posted about this.) Since posting before, I have been getting very bad cramps (like my period was ab... (155 words

I like a girl that beat me academically, and I dissed her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5620 days ago

29 November 2008 (M age 41-50 - Here is my problem; first, I have a girl I liked before. When I got beaten on GPA by her, I have been cold toward her, I ignored her whenever she asked or said something to me. But recently I thinking of her a lot; make me harder to breathe whenever I got her image pop up in to ... (92 words

Wanted to get married and made HUGE mistake!

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29 November 2008 (? age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I had been together for five years, but he always changed the subject when I brought up marriage. One night, I broke down and told him that I thought we should either get married or split up, but he didn't respond well to the ultimatum. A month or so later, we ... (170 words

My friends can't accompany me to the party, should I go alone to meet strangers?

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29 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - alright so i'm going to a party tomorrow. it's a birthday party. for my old best friend. me and her have been friends for so long then she moved and we kinda drifted. but anyways, i was supposed to go with my new 2 best friends (well not new, but they're my best friends now). ... (159 words

Thick, white discharge during masturbation?

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29 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - When I masturbate with a toy, I either end up squirting or I produce a thick, creamy white discharge, and lots of it. Is this white discharge normal? When I get turned on, the discharge is always slippery and clear, but during "intercourse" it changes to thick and white!... (115 words

Is it possible to squirt with NO g-spot/vaginal stimulation whatsoever, only clitoral ?

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29 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I just want to make sure that this is possible: ~is it normal to, during a clitoral orgasm, squirt? A few times, on purpose, I didn't touch my urethrea/vagina/g-spot whatsoever, and I still squirted--I think. Is this possible? Normal? With NO g-spot/vaginal stimulation? ... (53 words

Why don't guys complain about women watching porn?

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29 November 2008 (? age 26-29 - I have read many of these questions in the past 5-6 months and i have noticed some things that i don't understand... Women cant stand that their husband/boyfriend view or watch pornos when they have a wonderful girl right there for them.Yet some women do it themselves and s... (63 words

How do I show a girl I'm interested?

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29 November 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 14 and in 9th grade. In elementary school I was a bit nerdy but in middle school when I started changing my look I became more attractive and less nerdy. However I could not get any girls in my school because they remembered how I used to be. Now that it's 9th grade ... (109 words

Does my roommate's friend like me?

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29 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I just moved in with a room-mate of mine and her friend used to come over every once in a while. Since I moved in he's been coming over regularly. Does this mean that he likes me or am I crazy? ... (46 words

What to do if a boy is flirting with other girls?

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29 November 2008 (F age 26-29 - If your boyfriend is flirting with other girls , does that mean that he likes them or no???? What should I do?... (23 words

My boyfriend isn't interested in sex with me!

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29 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - So, I have a big sex issue. I've been with my boyfriend for a year and though I've always know he has a low sex drive, recently our sex life has really been lacking. For the past 3 weeks, we have rarely been having sex, he acts like he's not really turned on, and neither of us ... (205 words

He doesn't sound as if he means it, when he says I'm sexy, how do I increase his desire for me?

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29 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend and we're getting really serious. He tells me how I'm beautiful, sexy and a lot of other stuff but he doesn't seem like he thinks that I'm as sexy and hot as he says. What can i do to make him want me more?... (48 words

Seeing his ex behind my back, can I ever trust him again?

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29 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for two years. We are both 25 years old (The age on my profile doesn't update for some reason). We recently broke up because I found out by going through his computer that he has been seeing his ex behind my back for movies and he admitted to me ... (369 words

I'd love to try anal but it hurts!!! What can I do?

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29 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - And it's not b/c my boyfriend wants it, either--I'm single anyway. Anyhow, since I was like 16 I have always had an interest in anal, but it's too painful whenever i try to do it with an average sized toy! Is there anything I can do? I've tried lube, and while that helps... (84 words

I feel like I'm falling apart.

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29 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - This is quite complicated but I will shorten it to my best ablilty. Basically I met this guy. We have met once previously a few years ago, but the contact this time was purely online. I find it a safe medium for me as I am still coming to terms of childhood abuse, which has... (475 words

I got a job and he's gone all quiet on me...

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29 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - I think my boyfriend has split up with me, but hasn't told me. I saw him a week ago, when he said he would text me the following day but he didn't. I have thought for a while something was a bit 'off' but thought he would eventually open up as to what the problem was. It ... (386 words

Miscarriage???

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29 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I am 15 years old and have been dating my boyfriend for over 10 months. we haven't been having sex long but I think I'm pregnant even though we used a condom but it broke. I truly do love my boyfriend with all that I have and I really want to marry him and have a family w... (216 words

How Do I Convince Him????

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29 November 2008 (? age - Okay, here goes...I'm used to doing the answering, but I am feeling troubled right now, and there are so many wise Aunts out there, I've decided to reach out... I am in a LDR, very long 3,000 miles. We have visited each other and fallen in love. It has been almost a year now... (414 words

How can I feel better?

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29 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Im feeling kinda lonely and depressed lately. The thing is i'm having trouble home, they are some problems going on with my parents to my older brother. So i go to school and every single one of my friends have a boyfriend, i'm the only one who doesnt, at the beginning it wasnt ... (159 words

What can I do with my cheater boyfriend??

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29 November 2008 (F age 51-59 - I have been in a troubled relationship for the past 6 years. It has been on and off and he has cheated with numerous women. I recently took him back and we began counseling and therapy for his bi polar disorder. I am supporting him and I went to his apartment and discovered ... (104 words

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