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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My bf went back to his ex wife without saying a word to me! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend of 8 months, has in the last month has gone back to his ex wife without even telling me,i dont know what to do or think, we did not live together but i thought that he could have wrote a letter or something to tell me but i have not heard from him, i found out from ... (86 words)

He said 'it's not his fault' that I'm pregnant!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - please can someone help me because i really dont know what to do! my boyfriend and i had been together for just four months and he knew i was no where near ready for sex, even though im 16 and legal n all that i didnt feel physically ready for it! he told me he didnt want me ... (518 words)

Should I deposit money in her account without telling her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

2 November 2008 (M)

age - My girlfriend works as a nanny for a large family, which for some reason in the last 3 months have somehow not paid her on time, sometimes her wages are paid 1 week late, meaning that she sometimes is low or runs out of money, i have offered her money but she wont take it from ... (210 words)

Two guys -one is a pothead, the other is taken! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5654 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - UGG.. i know i already put one up but i really need help.!!. okay so i am 14 years old in high school, a freshman to be exact. and i like TWO GUYS!! the only problem is there obstacles in the way. GUY #1-- He is 17 and is a sophmore at the same high school. we talk everynig... (285 words)

He was cheating, so I kicked him out! Now his parole officer is looking for him...am I to blame?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5654 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - its the same old story of cheating and hurt feelings. my bf is on parole, he cant live with his family due to their abuse of drugs and alcohol, so he has been living with me. i have a history of childhood sexual abuse, so im not fond of love and emotions, but this year i had ... (389 words)

Should I apologize for stealing their bf's?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, the end of my sophmore year in high school i hooked up with a long time friend. the only problem was, he had a girlfriend. we started hooking up more regularly and eventually his girlfriend found out. she got really mad, yelled at me, and hates me now. about two weeks ... (108 words)

Torn between two really nice, decent guys! Whom do I pick?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5489 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im torn between two really nice, decent guys and im unsure which to choose: i think i need to make a decision or at least do something about the situation pretty soon otherwise its unfair for everyone involved. guy 1 I haven’t known him long. i got with a couple of times ... (346 words)

Married man broke it off with me! I'm heartbroken-should I contact him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I know this is a long post, but I am desperately searching for some advice. I started dating a guy back in March. I had known him for about 5 years, and also knew that he was married. He had flirted with me before, but I always kept my distance because he was married. Ov... (414 words)

Was I in the wrong here or was he? Advice appreciated!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5654 days ago

2 November 2008 (F) - I'm trying to gain some insight on things..i wish my ex would come back but i have questions the situations that happened over the course of the 3 years i was with him. i wanted to reveal some aspects that made me feel insecure which led to a cycle that i guess i couldn... (1551 words)

He left me for his co-worker! Is this a mid-life crisis?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4005 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age - my husband has been gone 7 weeks now, i think i am slowley coming to terms with the fact that my 25 year marriage is over. tonight he sent me a text moaning that his adult children are ignoring his texts and that he loves them so much, then saying he left me for a happier life, ... (174 words)

What do we do about his gf? She doesn't seem to want us around!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5654 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - For many yrs me and my Husband (together with other people) have performed in this Chamber music group. We recently moved across the country. It just so happens that one of the other musicans that we are also good friends with lives in this town. We were in contact with him ... (334 words)

She keeps telling me "Nothing is wrong" So should I let it go, or keep pushing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

2 November 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok well me and this girl I have been going out for three years are going good, but I am having trouble knowing when something is wrong. Are there any signs to show that something is wrong because she keeps telling me "nothing is wrong" or "its nothing"? Should I let it go or... (58 words)

Wayward husband got another woman pregnant! I need advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Me and my husband have been married for 6 years and within those years, we always had arguement about money and support he was not giving me and to the birth of my baby daughter and other women. A year ago, he had affair, forgave him, but he left our home, cos of my constant ... (268 words)

Now what's done is done, but how can I forget my first love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

2 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i met a girl on msn than we fell in love, my bad luck she is my first love . she gives me her phone number, i call her everyday, she is not near me, she is very far but i know her family. I want to get marry with she! But my family don't accept. We contacted and talked for ... (93 words)

I think I'm in love with a boy I met on the internet.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I really need I help I recently fell for a boy I met over the internet he was 18 and I'm 15, but things didn't really work out. One minute its on, then its off, but I think I fell in love with him. It's really hard to get over him and he feels the same. How can I get over... (66 words)

No period yet! Could I be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i had intercourse on the 23rd of september but the condom broke but he DIDN'T ejaculate so i took the morning after pill, the next day. Before that i was waiting for my period to start, once i took the pill (on the 24th) 5days later (29th sept) i got my period. Its now the 1st ... (122 words)

It perplexes me. Really, since when are C cup's small?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

2 November 2008 (F) age 36-40 - I hate when people call C cups small. They are always talking about "small boobs" referring to Bs and Cs. Where does that leave AAs and As? I'm a B cup by the way. I don't think Cs are small. What's the deal people? Learn to look! Don't you think it upsets AAs and As even more... (102 words)

Should I ask her face to face, if she likes me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

2 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I know this girl through a friend. I met her about 8 months ago in a party. We partied hard that night. I really like her. She knows that i like her. I have told her through texts. I dont see her very often and we text each other quite frequently. I have already asked her out ... (287 words)

I'm too young to be stressing and worrying!! Please help me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

2 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I seem to be uncomfortable, with worrying, should I be worried about what might or might not happen in the future. I am still young and have a ton of problems in my mind. I'm just wondering if my worrying is carrying to much stress for my age? Should I be stressed? Sh... (64 words)

How do I get over an abusive ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Here's my story, I'm going to make it short. I really need help because I'm loosing it. I was in an emotional abusive relationship for about four months..when i got out of that relationship i felt so alive i thought i was over it after a couple of months we broke up but the... (184 words)

My penis is aroused every morning, is that normal?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

2 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. I am 22 year old guy. Every morning when i wake up my penis is erected and really hard. I am a virgin and i masturbate quite often. (daily or once every two days). I masturbate to pornography. I think i dream too much about the pornography, and that's why my penis is aro... (86 words)

What do I do if my ex blackmails me so I can't date anyone?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

2 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am in stuff I don't want to be in. My ex girlfriend keeps pulling that 'if you loved me you would kissed me or hug me or agree with me.' I did love this girl but she is using it against me, and I have some friends who know about us, and I could get into some seri... (120 words)

Please help. My life's a roller-coaster of feeling so loved to feeling so worthless!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I have recently come out of a 3 year relationship not knowing who I am or what I did wrong. He was very controlling, I gave up my job, and alot of my friends. Its not that he stopped me, it was just easier that way. Everything that was wrong was always turned into my fault ... (287 words)

Could there be something in the works with this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5534 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I know if this guy is interested in me or not? He's in one of my lab classes, and we talk and kind of flirt a little bit during lab, but we never hang out or talk outside of class. We barely know each other, but he invited me to this party he was having and I felt like... (90 words)

Why does it hurt me so much that he's not a virgin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i'm 18 and am in a wonderful relationship. Don't get me wrong I love him, I really do, but he's not a vigin and I am. I know it shouldn't bother me so much but it does and I don't know why. He knows I want to wait to have sex untill I get married and he has no problem with ... (150 words)

I just wish I could have untouched lips again!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've never kissed my boyfriend, but i kissed another guy, my first kiss, and i hate to think i did. I feel awful and it makes me want to be sick! I just wish i could have untouched lips again. What can I do to forget?... (46 words)

Does he realise what he has lost with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5534 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi eveyrone, just a short one really, when my ex bf left me for the mother of his child to try and work things out, everything was ok, but now shes got back with an ex - not my ex bf. my ex and her went down the pub the other day, and I told the barmaid that if you see my e... (153 words)

Can I still consider myself a virgin, even if it didn't mean anything to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i was a virgin recently and my so called boy friend came over..we were casual flirting and then he started to get a little too flirty. he layed me on my bed and i told him i didn't want to have sex and i tried to move my hand to block his penis. i then tried to come up with... (188 words)

After his unrequited love I fall in love with him... now he doesn't love me any more...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a guy madly in love with me, at first it was unrequited love and then I began to fall for him had agreed to go out with him even though i didnt feel as strongly for him as he did. But deep down I knew i loved him so much! When he'd come round my mum could see in his eyes ... (280 words)

She doesn't want to get in the way of my dreams...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

2 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 21 years old and in January, I am leaving for college in another state and just my luck, I meet this cool girl about 3 months ago. We didn't start dating until about a month ago. I have talked to a fair amount of girls growing up, and more recently - just to weed out... (342 words)

I need as many answers as soon as possible please!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Do you know what std's causes a person's skin to look yellow or darker? Also what std's cause a heartburn like feeling with stomach pain and also bleeding after periods? What about red spots that appear on the face but don't stay that long?... (46 words)

I have a crush on a gay guy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5654 days ago

2 November 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I think I have a mini crush on a gay guy...!! he's so so so nice and cute but he's gay and that is the problem. I dunno what to do !!... (32 words)

Porn in relationships? Healthy or not?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I just wanna get your feedback on how you feel about Porn in relationships. tell me as much as you can please! answers from both sexs is appreciated!i feel as if him watching porn is affecting my sex drive with him and im not wanting to have as much sex with him anymore. please ... (55 words)

My life is finished and I don't know what to do...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

2 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - This is my first question cuz I just signed up... sorry if this is long. My gf and I met when I was 17 an she was 16 we started dating and we both were always excited to see each other an plan days ahead. We didn't go to the same schools and we lived about 45 minutes away from ... (712 words)

Anal sex has suddenly started hurting. Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5638 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well me and my boyfriend of about three years have been having sex for the last six months or so but we had a break from sex whilst i was away in South Africa for a month. Well we're having sex again now and it is really hurting. I mean anal sex is really becoming to a point of ... (110 words)

Do I talk to my Ex about how quickly he's moved on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm just going to jump straight into this. My boyfriend of three years and I have recently split. It was a mutual thing, we weren't getting on so decided to end it. The things that's bugging me is that on the same day we decided to end our relationship, he added this woman... (153 words)

Is our relationship a lost cause?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been in my current relationship for a year and a half. I love my boyfriend, but I'm not sure if I should continue to invest in this relationship. Since a few months after we began dating, he has become extremely possessive and has absolutely no control over his temper. I ... (259 words)

Do I lie about the paternity of my child?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5654 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im, back wit ha "sequal" to my last question(lol).. umm well i have not gotten my period yet. and if i dont get it this month im worried i might be pregnant. my and my BF havent been using protection all the time. PLus i have cheated on him..='( he knows, but thinks it was only ... (134 words)

Help! I've been hanging out with my ex's best friend and now my ex has called. Do I call him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5638 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently got dumped by this guy i was seeing. We only dated for a few months but I got really attached. It started off slow, casual dating. We had the talk about not seeing other people and he expressed that he would be jealous if I did. everything was great until his best ... (187 words)

Unrequited love - what to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, how to start... I've fallen in love with this one guy (we'll refer to him as Joe). Now, Joe (to me) is perfect. He's an amazing musician, he's funny, and he's extremely intelligent. I'm one of those people who is quiet, shy, overweight and kinda is forgotten about in ... (292 words)

I really like him - should I wait for him to make the first move?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hii, theres a boy in my year who i havnt known for very long but we seem to have a connection, when ever we see each other we both smile and it feels so right, my friends always say he blushes when i hug him, but i dont no where to go from here, i dont want to rush it and ruin... (86 words)

Any advice will be appreciated!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5633 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i have just joined a new group of friends which are boys and girls. I go to a girls school so this is pretty cool for me. unfortunately when i came into the group most of them were already coupled up but there was this one guy who wasn't. I had an instant attraction to him, not ... (294 words)

What should I do about my cross-dressing husband?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband regularly wears saree and other Indian female attires.He feels very comfortable in them.We do share saree, salwar kameez,blouse,petticoat(saya),nighties,ghagra and cholis, bras ,panties etc.In fact I always buy free size women dress, so that I can share that with my ... (198 words)

How do I get over my nervousness?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5635 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help me out, i feel so down! Everything goes wrong for me and my family, and i emphasise the word 'Everything'. We never get any luck, things go wrong all the time!!! It's becoming unbearable. And i'm going through yet another situation where i've been reject... (342 words)

How do I ask a guy something without being pushy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5654 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont know how to talk to this guy. Any suggestions? He's been distant recently. We did have a past and I found out he's a player and I only want to be friends, but he will randomly ignore me then talk to me. Lately, he's ignored all my texts and my messages to him online in... (188 words)

Is it possible to have periods when you're pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi me and my boyfriend (of 2 years) have been trying for a baby now for the past 9 months im 21 and he's 22 we have been best friends for 5 years before we got together so we know its the right thing and we have had a few finger crossing moments but no hope.......and then this ... (193 words)

Copying GF

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

2 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey all kind of a trivial matter, love my GF lots shes awesome lets me do what i want doesnt winge (much :P) really sexy and i wouldnt trade her for the world, now heres the problem: weve known each other for about 3 years ive liked her for all those years, not too sure abo... (138 words)

Does he still love me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my treasured and beloved boyfriend for over 2 years now. I've had my share of bad relationships. But none of them turned long term like this one. I am a picky person. Down to the some of the hobbies or interests he should have. Because it just fluffs my pillows. ... (625 words)

The boyfriends nasty habit

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a boyfriend now... haha... anyway.. he is constantly touching my sides and leaning his head on mine. He is always slapping my butt in front of his friends just to show off and it gets really annoying. we are only 13 and I know that's young, but come on its the 21st ... (124 words)

Did I make a move forward by calling him on the phone or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy 2 years ago in a tech event. We became friends that day and since he had to move away after wards, we started keeping in touch by emails once a month. I emailed him and he always replied back. The once a month thing became in a twice a month thing to a whenever... (201 words)

I’ve run out of ideas of what to do - please give me advice

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've liked the same guy for two years At the beginning of last year we were sort of a couple Our parents are friends which made it so much easier to see each other we all went away on holiday..there we got even closer not knowing what was still to come. My parents were sti... (264 words)

I have a family and BORED why??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all Iposted before and received so much great information. I have something I would like everyone's thoughts on. I ended an affair of 2 years this weekend and I'm feeling upset about it I almost feel depressed. I'm married for 14 years and have a great family but why ... (104 words)

What am I doing wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

2 November 2008 (M) - wouldn't say I'm a bad looking guy. I'm funny and reasonably confident when I want to be. I've got ambition and passion. I am friends with a lot of girls. Usually what tends to happen is I'll meet them on a night out and then progress to texting/speaking to them on Facebook... (469 words)

Does he like me or he's just playing with my heart?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone He sent me a text msg and said:" BaBee .. I miss you alot" and then later hetold me that he was just a wrong message. ( he sent it to his gf) I always keep wondering whether he sent me a wrong mesage or it was his plan. He did many other things that make me thi... (210 words)

I'm scared this other girl will win his heart...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with a guy ten years older than me but the problem is he moved to Edinbrugh a few months ago and I miss him. I heard off a few of his friends that he'll be coming back for a visit but as you can guess there's competition. A girl I know used to always flirt with him ... (140 words)

Ex-boyfriend a bit too friendly? Am I being used or pulled into a FWB?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so me and my ex-bf have been split for about three months now. He broke up with me for some internet friend and said they were so in love that she was going to move down here next year... then she broke up with him a month after they got together. Now she doesn't even want ... (589 words)

Is sex with your loved one a major part of the relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

2 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Is sex with your loved one a major part of the relationship?... (12 words)

Every time I call him he is soooooo tired.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm a 23 year old engaged girl. Me and my fiancé were in different places, only communication through chat and fone.. Ours is an arranged one.. once he tried to be horny but I was not comfortable at that time.. later we had nice talks.. and kisses.. Now the problem is h... (95 words)

I've emailed him and asked him out for a drink but haven't heard back yet...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been at my new job now for 1 month, me and my male boss get on very well. He is 31 and I'm 19. He is single and has a child. He talks to me a lot about his life, most of the time he is the one to start a conversation with me. I asked him out for a drink via Email, not sure ... (142 words)

I'm miserable and in love with someone else.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, ok I have a sitution thats a little different then a lot I've read so far. I am a female and I'm with a female, I've been with her off and on for 3 years and she is a wonderful person but she doesn't trust me and she has some serious jealousy issues.... things she ... (377 words)

Is the perfect girl I met from the internet cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

2 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am currentley dating a girl that I met from a dating website. She onley lives 10 minutes away too. It's been 3 weeks now and everything is going ok but she always seems to be busy. She will arrange to meet me and then right at the last minute she will ring me and say I ca... (368 words)

Does my wife of 30 plus years have a sexual fantasy about another man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

2 November 2008 (M)

age - My wife of 30 plus years has a sexual fantasy about another man. How do I know this? Back a few years ago my car broke down in in a rural area. I ended up leaving my car with a friend of mine, got it fixed and my wife took me to pick it up. When we arrived my bud who is married ... (428 words)

My girlfriend has gone off sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

2 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my girlfriend now for 6 months. We live together and have a dog but for the last 2 months she has gone off sex. I keep asking her what's wrong and she says she doesn't know but it's not me so don't worry but I do!... (52 words)

How can I convince my fiance I'm a virgin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am 25 years old and have been in a relationship for 5 years. We've know each other for seven years and now we are engaged. The problem he is very possessive and now becomes a lot more then before. I used to share things about my male friends but he never liked it much ... (274 words)

Is this normal after having anal sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night I had anal sex for the first time but it's like the guy didn't know what was happening, I don't think he realised it was my anus or not. But he kept alternating between the two. I've heard this can cause disease, does anyone know how likely this is? Also this morning ... (127 words)

My ex says he doesn't want me back, but acts as if he owns me! What do you guys think of this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Last nite i went somewhere with my ex, and his sister a local place, but for someone who said he didnt want to get back with me was very strange, he wispered something in mt ear as in cheak to cheak like he was going to give me a kiss, then he looked down my top in which i said ... (159 words)

I still have a foot fetish, how do I loose it??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

2 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I have been talking to the veiwers of dear cupid about my female foot fetish, i still have this fetish. Does anyone have advice on how to lose this fetish? Thanks,... (39 words)

We just split up and I feel miserable, please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend just split up he says he needs space so i have not seen him for a while, we text eachother fine, but when i ask him what he wants he replies i love you but i don't know, our sex life hasn't been great for a while and he seems distant, i keep getting told to ... (118 words)

My brother had such a lovely girlfriend but decided to break up with her to be with the horrendous woman who is the mother of his daughter. How can we advice him to make a better choice??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5654 days ago

2 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hello all, im new to this so not sure how it really goes but have been told the results you get bk are good,(sorry its long) Anyway its mainly about my brother hes 28 and he has a young daughter aged 4, hes had a really good gf who would do absulotly everything for him they whe... (357 words)

I suspect he might be cheating, what do you say about the "evidence" I found?

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2 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Is my husband, or has my husband cheated on me? We're a young married couple, and he travels a lot for work. He's also not from the US, and so our marriage legalizes him here. I wonder if he's cheating. I've brought up the subject before to him, and he didn't seem agitated ... (185 words)

When we get intimate I always stop before cuming, any suggestions how to get past that?

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2 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I hope someone can help me with this, Me and my bf are having a few problems in the bedroom. We have not had sex yet, but when we get intimate and he starts to play with me i can only climax. I don't know why i cant go past that. It feels good, but i just seem to stop. ... (98 words)

I was sexually charged for him. Due to repeated rejections, I am now uncharged, what is going on??

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2 November 2008 (F)

age - I have a dilema. I have been with my BF for over 2 years. We live together. I am older than him. Before we became a couple, we were sort of friends. I went out to a bar with him once, and he met a girl while he was with me. After they talked for a while... he told her blun... (248 words)

He's obsessed with the 360!!

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2 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Help! My fiance of 6 months is obsessed with the 360 that's all he ever seems intrested in and its starting to make me question the relationship what should I do?... (31 words)

Can't get my ex out of my head, do you think it would help meeting up with him now that I get the chance?

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2 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid, i broke up with my bf since jan 07 and i got married with another man who is so loving and caring and i love him so much too. But i still can't forget my ex 100%. I will have a training in the country where my ex-bf is working. Should i let him know about this?... (106 words)

I like a girl in my seminars and want us to be friends but how do I approach her without giving the wrong idea?

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2 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - There is a girl in one of my seminars in university who I would like to get to know better - but only as a friend. We worked together for the first time on Friday and she seemed really intelligent and thoughtful and a nice person. Unfortunately these seminars are the only tim... (149 words)

Hard time moving on, how do I get over this horrible ending to a relationship?

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2 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I moved from San Diego back home to NH and met this incredible girl. She completely accepted me for who I am and fell deeply in love with me. It all happened rather fast. She cheated on her boyfriend of 10 months with me. Within two days we were sleeping together and within ... (788 words)

My boyfriend is a pack-rat...Help !!

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2 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I hope you can give me some good advise on this, I have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 years now and recently I have moved with him to a 2 bedroom flat in Chafford Hundred, I lived with him previously in hornchuch in a one bedroom which was very nice, but his problem ... (648 words)

Another boyfriend question

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2 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - ok this is the first time for this...My boyfriend and I broke up two months ago. the funny thing is he never told me we broke up, he just quit answering my calls and texts! We dated a year and a half. we have mutual friends and when asked by them what happened he says he ... (272 words)

I am married and interested in someone else?

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2 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been married for only 1 year and have been in this relationship for almost 7 years. Several months ago i met this guy for several minutes. I found him on myspace through my friends page. Started chatting and now find myself very interested in him. So far i like everything ... (156 words)

I'm really shy and insecure and afraid she will never like me, what to do here??

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2 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, so... I like a girl who I talk since a couple of months. I never confessed because I'm really shy and insecure... I also suffer from BDD (at least I have some of the symptoms). So, I guess I'm a shy and ugly teenage boy. That's why I don't think she will ever like me... ... (92 words)

My question is what is the easiest way to have sex the first time with least pain? and what do you think about our decision

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2 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex boyfriend dated for over 2 years. Its been months since we broke up but we havent gone out with anyone since, we've had little "flings" but there over and meant nothing. We hang out all the time now and remain best of friends. We still have feelings for each other, ... (155 words)

My boyfriend took me to a swinger's club !!!

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2 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I went to a swingers club and he wanted to join a couples room of course not knowing what it was I said yes the woman opened the door and there was like six couple having sex or just oral sex. I told him I couldnt do this and he was upset. He ignored me the ... (88 words)

Why cant I be the one?

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2 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i dont know what to do, i'm tired of just being the friend. i've been in love with this girl i've known for the past 2 years now and she became my bestfriend. i've never felt so comfortable around a girl like i am whenever i'm with her. i've helped her through so many bad ... (200 words)

He broke my heart! :(

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2 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I was with my boyfriend for 5 and 1/2 years. Everyone always said that we were great together... we were so in-love. Two weeks ago we broke up. He said that he no longer could be with me. He gave me no explaination. Needless to say, we got back together a couple d... (192 words)

I'm in my 20's, but my libido is suddenly non-existant...Why ?

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2 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my fiancee for a while now; we're getting married in a couple of years (purposeful long engagement due to money constraints, moving, etc.) I lvoe him to death. I can't see myself with anyone but him. However lately I jsut haven't been feeling sexual at all. I ... (189 words)

Does she actually like me or not?

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2 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so, a bout 2 weeks ago there was a girl who randomly came up to me and asked me if I was actually a lesbian or if it was just a rumor. I told her I was and she said something like "thats cool and don't worry about the people making fun of you becuz you can be anything you ... (393 words)

She used to like partying, but since I go along, that has changed !

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2 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hey everybody well im here because i wanna know whats wrong with our relationship well my gf used to be a party animal and me i never went to parties..and now that i wanna go we have went to some but she doesnt enjoy it..i mean is it cause i dont know how to dance? someone ... (109 words)

I'm scared !

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2 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. me and my boyfriend had sex. we got really carried away and just pulled our pants down and he stuck his penis in me. he didn't put a condom on cuz it was just in the moment. so we had sex and i guess he pulled out before he cummed and it got all over me. all on my butt and ... (169 words)

He shows an interest in me, then has sex with my friend ! how do I handle this ?

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2 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, I'm 20, so over the summer I lived in another state, met this guy. He told me he liked me, but we knew I had to leave for school in a few weeks, so we couldn't start anything official. Everyone told me that I was all he talked about. I let him sleep in my bed nearly every ... (735 words)

How do you kiss or makeout with a guy?

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2 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - How do you kiss or makeout with a guy? I am 13 and too chicken to kiss or makeout with a guy. Someone please help!... (25 words)

How do I know for sure that he likes me ?

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2 November 2008 (F) age 30-35 - I have this friend that is a boy and we,ve been friends for 3 years now i really really fancey him and we have kissed and all that a good couple off times but am not shure if he fanceys me back and i really want to no if he does cause i really like him so how do i find out H... (68 words)

I think I'm depressed and need some sound advice

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2 November 2008 (F) age 41-50 - I can't figure out the meaning of life anymore. I'm not suicidal, but lost my interest. How can you get back to living ,without any religious faith? I know I'm depressed, but it's more, I just don't see the point. Is life ever turns good unexpectedly? I would re... (75 words)

I found out she was raped... what should I do now?

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2 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. I been with this girl for 2 months. last month i found out that she's been raped 7 months ago. No one knows about this except me, she didn't tell her family. We cant have sex coz she don't let me. I don't wanna dump her but the relationship isn't going anywhere like thi... (71 words)

I can't stand the woman my Dad is marrying!

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2 November 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My stepmom and dad are getting married in a few months. I honestly dislike her. I don't like the way she treats him. She puts him down all the time and he just lets her. If I say some of the things I would be grounded for a week. I fight with her almost everyday. And it feels ... (89 words)

A boy likes me but I don't like him back!

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2 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - there's this boy in my middle school that likes me but i dont like him. im goth and he's starting to wear black evry day 4 me. its annoying!!! hes spead 3 lies about me cause i rejected him. last week his buddy was teasing me about nick liking me so i started strangling the ... (73 words)

I don't feel attractive enough to get a nice guy.

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2 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone:) i have a small problem,id like to change it if i can.im single and really hoping to find someone soon for the long haul.my problem is,most guys im attracted to are ( in my opinion) wayyyy out of my league.im not ugly by any means,but im not a super model.i think ... (183 words)

What's the best way of coping with a break up?

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2 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of a month just broke up for me today, and I'm reacting really badly to it. I had a foreboding it would happen, and now that it has I'm really upset, even though I tried to prepare myself the best I could for what I knew was coming. I just want to know what ... (227 words)

I really, really like a girl but she don't want to be any more than friends

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2 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i have really liked this girl for a couple of months, and she even went out with one of my best mates and they seemed to make us spend even more time together, as we were friends before that. yh i really like her and she split up with my best mate over a month ago now and she ... (81 words)

He's hurt me terribly but I love him! What do I do?

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2 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, so I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 years now and throughout our relationship there have been a few things that have been rough, but what couple doesn't have that? We managed through it...or I managed through it. About a month ago, I just had a bad feeling and I kn... (601 words)

In need of some big advice about why life sucks.

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2 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - how will i know if i found the right one for me?just because somebody is treating me and we both feel comfortable doesn't mean that we are right for each other......it might not last...but what are the for sure signs?n why do people pop in and out of your life? Do things happe... (64 words)

Why is he suddenly acting so insecurely and being horrible?

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2 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been together for almost two months...although we have known each other for 6 months and part of that we started out being friends with benefits, everything was great until just the other night. He got all upset when i received a text from a guy that we ... (465 words)

What do you do when an exes mate judges you because you split with their friend?

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2 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - You date someone for over a year, they lie to you, you finish with them, they manipulate you back many times. You dont trust them again though. Its all a mess and you know it wont work but they always tell you it will. Eventally you end it for good and stick to your guns even ... (177 words)

I'm going crazy, why wont he talk to me?

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2 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont understand why I can be pushed aside like this! I havent been able to sleep lately because I am unsure why talking to someone is so hard to do. I understand people are busy, including myself, but this guy talks/flirts with me and appears to ignore me for a week or tw... (158 words)

Should I tell my best friend's girlfriend that I like her?

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2 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have developed a great friendship with this girl, that has gotten to the point of awkwardness every now and then [which for some reason feels right]. However she is going out with my best friend and he and I are truly best friends and she is another of my best friends. I am ... (157 words)

She is So Close to Her Ex and I Can't Understand Why? What do I do?

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2 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I've been with my fiancee for 4 months. We're more like high school sweethearts. The only problem I have is her ex. She keeps in touch with her ex up to this day. She had an intimate relationship with him for 3 years. She broke up with him a year ago because he cheated on ... (204 words)