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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

During sex I like to be on top, but he likes to be in control... where is our happy medium?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - do guys prefer to be on top or for a girl to ride them? for me personally i like to be on top but he prefers to be in control how can we do both at the same time?... (39 words)

I'm dating an older man but falling for his son who's my age.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing this guy for a few months who's alot older than me. Recently I've been spending alot of time with his son who is my age. I've found myself developing feelings for him but don't know what to do.... (41 words)

He's taken back up smoking and I'm so disappointed it hurts.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is an "recovering" addict/ alcoholic. He goes to the AAA meetings and everything. When he started to sober up, he made me promise not to drink. Which Im fine with, since, I never do it much anyways. He also, wanted to quit smoking. So I helped him through it. He ... (280 words)

I'm afraid of his feelings - does my ex still love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need some help over here! my ex- boyfriend is gonna visit me the next month and i don't know what' going on in my heart, so i wanna know what should do i?? and i don't know if he still loves me! it can be really confuse but i need help to figure my situation out! .. ... (122 words)

I'm almost 17 and want to have a baby, but I'm worried what my Mom will say.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. Im 16, nearly 17 years old and i want a baby. Im in a very stable relationship with my boyfriend who i have been with for almost two years, and i just feel i am ready. at the moment i am living with my boyfriend and his parents as me and my mum dont get on. however i am ... (86 words)

Now that he's not on probation, he wants little to do with me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5572 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for a little over a year. After the first month I met him, he was arrested, I stayed with him through that. Then, six months later, he went to court for what he was charged for and put on six months probation. Throughout his probation, we ... (207 words)

How can I truly let go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend of a year just dumped me. he has another girlfriend, but i find it hard to let go. i still call text and do everything i know i'm not suppose to, problem is i love him and all this is a shock to me. i hardly go out i dont have a of friends. There's no one to ... (75 words)

How can I survive when my husband doesn't even look at me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) age - My husband doesn't even look at me. I'm attractive, by and other's opinion. He does not smile at me, or want anything to do with me. I always have to initiate everything. Even a walk or just a bit of nice time together. He is always in a bad mood, and never have anything... (190 words)

Is it normal for a man to stare at pretty, young teenagers?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age - is it normal for a man to look at pretty young teenagers? yes of course it is but he really stares, when out shopping or going for a meal i can see him as he examines them from head to foot when he thinks i am not looking, this year when we were away on holiday i could sense ... (117 words)

I didn't think I could bleed for so long! What's wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i think there is something wrong with me, i am on the pill and have been for about 6 months now, me and my partner broke up about 4 months ago but i have been taking the pill still to control my periods more as they used to be heavy and last about a week. (ive been having ... (178 words)

I wanna get over him, how do I do this AGAIN???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I wanna get over him, how do I do this AGAIN Seems he only comes back to me when he got no one and nuffin He obviously still madly in love with his ex, loves her to bits and just cant let her go she is his first ever love why cant i be enough for him, i asked him why im not ... (168 words)

What should I say or do to get my necklace back without being suspicious?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing this new guy for a few months now, and we are doing really good so far. I have recently found myself in an awkward position though and I need some help. I am best friends with my ex-boyfriend (don't worry he has a girl now) and we hang out together often. I ... (188 words)

I have no one to talk to... what is masturbation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

17 November 2008 (?) age 26-29 - ok well this is probably 1 of the hardest questions for me to ask anyone. so this is why i am asking everyone here i dont want to ask my friends or my parents because its embarrassing. what is masturbation? what is jacking off? how do i masturbate? im well i guess u can say im ... (102 words)

I really want to get intimate with him yet he doesn't seem interested at all!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Been dating my bf of almost a year...we moved in together a little over two weeks. I really want to get intimate with him yet he doesn't seem interested. We've tried to get intimate about 4 times but I think he was nervous or something because "fireworks" didn't happen. I'm 26 ... (225 words)

Do things happen for a reason or is that wishful thinking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) age 51-59 - Do things happens for a reason? Like if your marriage breaks down, its not all that bad, because the reason it broke down, that there is a better love can come to your life? So it's like meant to happen? Or if you lose an opportunity in your career, it's just for your own good, ... (89 words)

I can orgasm, but I can't always be sure if I've ejaculated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

17 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Im 15 and cant ejaculate, but to be honest I have tight foreskin too. I can pull it back but it wont stay back and I cant always be sure if I have ejaculated I can orgasm though. I don't wanna get the snip but im not sure what to do, i've not been to the doc's and tbh im really ... (80 words)

How true can it be for a woman to have sex with another woman, but not call her self lesbian or bi?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - How true can it be for a woman to have sex with another woman, but not call her self lesbian or bi? For 6 years now I been lovers with a very hot and sexual woman. I give her oral sex all the time and we have hot make-out sesions. I lust her, I always try to cut communication ... (96 words)

What really turns a guy on during sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What really turns a guy on during sex? i really wanna please my bf anything i can do to him? wear? say? we both enjoy it but i wanna spice things up and surprise him with something that will give him a spark :] help and advice pleasee!!!... (48 words)

Will things change or should I just give up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

17 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi I'm 21 and have been in a gay relationship for just under 2 years but to say it's been easy would be a lie. I have cheated when we split up over christmas and also spoke to lads on my phone I'll be honest. But he has never cheated so he says but he went to meet a guy that ... (272 words)

Can a married man have 'butterflies in his stomach?'

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - There is the man about 40, a married one- married with 2 children. The couple are not well matched but they have been together for about 14 years now. I have always fancied him but I never suspected he may be in love with me. Recently he has told me I was important for him. he ... (199 words)

I hate breasts!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) age 30-35 - I hate breasts! I hate the fixation, the obsession, the sexualization! Why can't we be just like other mammals who only get large breasts when they're lactacting, and have flat breasts the rest of the time? UGH! Yes, I'm small chested, I have huge hips and I'm not fat, but... (450 words)

I don't want to come off as clingy, so what's the next move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

17 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hey i recently posted http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-you-think-i-still-have-a-chance.html and no one seemed to reply. i have: I rang him today, and asked him out on Tuesday, he said he didn't know what he is doing for Tuesday so I just need to ask him on the day... so... (111 words)

Leave it or wait and approach her in person in the near future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

17 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I saw a colleague from work on an online dating site.I don't really know her other than to say hello to.But I get the impression she likes me. I decided and reasoned out that rather than ask her out directly at work,I would join the site and ask her out via the site. ... (190 words)

Completely rejected and need advice on how to move on!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am heartbroken, lost, and confused. I met this man at my work. Very exotic and spoke spanish (which always gets me) and i was attracted instantly. Time progressed and we began to talk. We hung out a few times and the 2nd or 3rd date we were having sex. Finding out that he was ... (334 words)

We broke up because we were better off friends and now he hates me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i recently broke up with my boyfriend of one year because i felt that we were more friends than lovers (although the sex was good). now he really hates he and thinks i set out to hurt his from the start. i didnt he say he will delete my number and never wants to talk t... (101 words)

I don't want to be a 40 year old virgin! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

17 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I am in my late 30s and have never had a girlfriend. When I was younger I was painfully shy and suffered extreme anxiety in social situations. I have now overcome a lot of my shyness and have gained a lot of confidence just through life experience, but I am still hopeless when ... (285 words)

In school I love History, and now I'm thinking about career choices...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I am currently a first year university student in London studying History. I love history and am really passionate about the subject but have lately been thinking I might like to go in to either police work or social work. What would I have to do? I'm 19 btw. ... (54 words)

We've been flirting non-verbally... when is the right time to get verbal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5636 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I like a bloke in class and he likes me. We haven't spoken yet, we dont see each other very often, since he doesnt come to classes regularly. We have had eye contact so far, but the first couple days I knew he liked me (him flirting with me non verbally), he waited for ... (256 words)

When I with him, I didn't care for him. Now that we're over, I want him bad!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

- I need urgent help. I think im infatuated with my ex. We have fallen out badly - he left me for another woman, still led me on by sleeping with me so I told his gf and he found out and went mad, he called me a slag and I sent him a very nasty email on the spur of the moment. ... (205 words)

I'm not a looker, but I'm charming.... how do I meet people outside school?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

17 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I wanna meet people outside my school but i don't how, im kinda shy around new people until i get to know them a bit then i loosen up, but i dont feel too comfortable walking over to people and making conversation. is there anyway to boost my confidence i bit more? im not good ... (84 words)

He broke my trust and we've been working on things but I can't stop snooping.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - 8 weeks ago I found out that my husband of 4 years had been visiting a transvestite for bondage (no sex/kissing/touching) sessions. Quite a shock as you can imagine. The last couple of months have been an emotional roller coaster and complete hell at times.There have been times ... (290 words)

I didn't invite one girl to my sleepover but the other girls want her there!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i am inviting some girls to sleepover for my birthday. however i didnt invite one girl becuase i was sick of her lying to me. the other girls are begging me to invite her but i talked it over with her and she says she doesnt care(but i dont know) i mean its not like shes never ... (67 words)

My friends say it's time for me to date, but I don't like anyone enough.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - my friends say it's time for me to date but i can't find anyone that i like enough that likes me back. wut should i do?... (26 words)

How can I look attractive or am I screwed for the rest of my teen years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

17 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Im not really wanting a relationship right now but I still not 100% on why girls don't like me. Right im a bit chubby but hey a lot of people are. I've got light blue eyes and thick blonde hair, I play rugby so im not out of shape. Is there any way to look for attractive or am ... (70 words)

My BFF's boyfriend makes her crazy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - My friend had this boyfriend and whenever she was around him she acted really stupid and tried flirting with him she completely discluded our group and when she wasn't around him she acted like nothing ever happened! She broke up with him and everything was great until they got ... (104 words)

I'm bi, want to make a move on my best friends ex girl and worry I'll look like a fool!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

17 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm really like this girl. Couple problems though she just broke up with my best mate, he bullies her and is pretty horrible to her but they're still crushing on each other. I'm having a party on Friday because it the end of exams and I don't know if I should make a move, if I ... (109 words)

I can't ejaculate yet... is something wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

17 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 and can't ejaculate yet, is there something wrong?... (10 words)

How can he say he loves me but not want to continue it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm the other woman. I know and heard every comment known to man about this. I am not one to just do something like this. It all started in high school. We both was seeing other people and we started out as friends and then it went from there. We would talk and meet and ... (372 words)

I've got raging hormones and I need instructions on how to please a girl.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

17 November 2008 (?) age 26-29 - hi everyone, i have 2 questions im very very curious about. i know im young im 14 years old but well i have raging hormones haha. well i really would like to know is 1.) how do i get a girl wet or make her wet? and 2.) how do i finger a girl like step by step directions. can ... (67 words)

Can a cheater/liar ever change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have been together for 17 years, it has been a rough 17 years as he first cheated on me during our dating period. He even thought the girl was the girl of his dreams and moved out for a while. I having faith, took him back as we had a 1 year old dauther. ... (600 words)

Should I text him to say I miss him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Aunts/Uncles I went out with this guy for a month in September, things were amazing, I really liked him and lost my virginity to him. It was my first proper relationship. We broke up just after we turned one month, he dumped me by text and still after a month I really w... (156 words)

Can you really date you ex's best friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I have definitely heard the saying 'You don't date you best friend's ex' but I really don't know if I should stand by it. The thing is, a few weeks ago I broke up with my '3 months' boyfriend and he seems to have got over it by now. I know for a fact that he still likes me ... (123 words)

Could this friendship blossom into more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Over the last few months I have started to get to know my neighbour and he seems like a really nice guy. But I am unsure as to what he thinks about me! Has anyone got any tips on how to tell if a guy is interested in you or not? A few days ago he came round to collect so... (156 words)

My friend has told me we're just friends yet he goes all weird whenever I talk about my dates.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have had an interest in my best male friend for a while now. I have been honest with him about my feelings and we still maintain a friendship. He has said he does not have romantic feelings for me. Recently I have begun dating someone else and whenever I am asked about this ... (81 words)

How can I orgasm easily?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently me and my boyfriend have started penetrative sex, we both talked it over and stuff (we were both virgins and we are using protection) personally I love it... and with him he gets really sad because he thinks he not doing it correctly, he's only made me orgasm once ... (90 words)

Guys and liking me - am I asexual?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Guys seem to have feelings for me but I never feel anything for them, I get nervous sometimes if they get too close for my liking but that's it. Am I asexual?... (32 words)

What to do for the best?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I had sex about a month ago, my period was 2 weeks late and very light only lasting on and off for about two days, two pregnancy test were negative, should I just take the negative test and be happy or should I consult with my doctor?... (47 words)

We've set our wedding date but I'm having second thoughts about it all...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am engaged to be married in 2010. Everything in our life is perfect except for a few things that are HUGE in my eyes. We enjoy doing the same things, our family and friends are perfect and everyone gets along very well and we have the same beliefs and ideas on raising a ... (599 words)

Lies about email address and talking with her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5638 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age - Help my I have been married 31 years next month to the same man. He worked over sea for 7 years so we could get ahead . We have a cute 5 year old grandson. I would send him pictures all the time of the family through email. This women Named Julie saw his picture on my husband's ... (258 words)

Is this platonic friendship... or is there more in it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im sorry for the length of this question, I gabble A LOT and it is preety long so thank you for reading, I'm a bit confused at the moment, I have a GREAT guy friend who I met at the beginning of September and we have just clicked! Straight away we both said that it was weir... (324 words)

I need help, am I bi or straight? Confused!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am 21 years old and haven't had sex in the past 2 years, until this summer. I had sex with a guy over the summer, got pregnant and had an abortion and since then I haven't had sex. Anyways, for the past few months I have been really confused. I don't know if I am bisexual ... (208 words)

I think my boyfriend is seeing someone else.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years now and he tells me he loves me and how he wants to settle down with me, have kids ect.. but I still have that feeling he is seeing someone else.. He is very secretive and won't let me near his phone, he will even take it to ... (151 words)

How hard do you have to be to penetrate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

17 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - How hard do you have to be to penetrate? Usually when my gf gives me oral for example, at the beginning I'm not that hard but as you get into the motion you become more and more hard, however you can't apply the same trick to sex because if you're not that hard.. you can't ... (70 words)

Do I stay in this town or do I move back to the city with my children.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I moved from the city to be with my husband only to find out that he had an affair with a lady I happen to know. I cannot forget what happened between the two of them even though I have forgiven my husband. The question is, do I stay in this town or do I move back to the city ... (99 words)

She says he won't get to see his child if he ever leaves him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in love with a guy who has a bbaby mama. She threatens him with not being able to see his baby if he leave her. He's not happy at all but he's scared to leave... I love him so much I have his name tatooed on my body and I want to become his baby mama as well as his wife, ... (71 words)

Why can I not conceive when I'm perfectly healthy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 25, I have been sexually active for years, I have tried to concieve a child for so many years. I'm seeing doctors at my local heath department but they continue to tell me I'm disease free but yet I haven't concieved yet. I was told an infection can cause you not to get ... (62 words)

What should I do... give this new guy a go or get back with my ex ????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Arghhh I'm so confused, so let me explain my problem to you then. well .... My ex boyfriend still likes me and wants me back, and I was considering it, But now there's this other lad that likes me. But the thing is I don't know what to do because, I think I am still in love wit... (330 words)

My friends tell me to run from him but I don't see him in that light at all...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have a little dilemma. I met this guy online and we hit it off from the very first meeting. I told him from the start that I was not looking for anything serious and just wanted someone to have fun and a casual relationship with ..like a FWB. He said he's bee... (339 words)

I want without my parents negatively judging me for it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I have been dating my bf for almost 3 years. I'm 23 (almost 24) and he's 25. He works for an airline company and is always saying we should go places and travel, especially since it's free for us. I would love to travel, but my parents are very old fashioned and don't ... (237 words)

How can I decide? I feel like I love them both!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

17 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been searching everywhere for answers and it appears I'm not alone by the postings I have read... My problem is this, I thought I loved my Girlfriend who I have been going out with for over 8 years. We get on quite well; we have similar views on life. We have 2 childr... (583 words)

She doesn't want to be with him, but doesn't know how to end it because they live together.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

17 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I've been friends with this girl for 5 months who has a boyfriend. She moved from the east coast out here in the West to be with him for his new job. She doesn't want to be with him, but doesn't know how to end it because they live together. He is her first boyfr... (289 words)

They won't let her leave!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

17 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, my girlfriend needs out of where she lives. She's in Germany, 19, with people (very bad kind) and she wants out. She's a U.S. citizen but the people she lives with won't let her leave. They have her passport, it's abusive there. She's scared so I'm trying to find away... (76 words)

Is it normal for a man to still not want to begin a new relationship 12 months after splitting up with the ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Is it normal for a man to still not want to begin a new relationship 12 months after splitting up with the ex? A bit of background… they were together for three years. It was his most significant relationship to date (he is in his mid-thirties). The relationship was... (103 words)

How can I get my mother to accept that I'm making myself miserable by staying with my husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi - about 3 years ago I moved out from living with my husband as I was very unhappy (verbal abuse and undermining, some physical violence). It came as a shock to my parents in particular as I had hid my unhappiness from them but I told them of some of the things I had gone ... (526 words)

I have feelings for another man - what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i am a 30 yr old female. Married with 1 little girl. My husband is a preacher and we married young. He is 2yrs yonger than me and we got married when I found that i was pregnant. Now I have met some one who I feel is the one for me. My husband also found out about the other ... (97 words)

Is sperm good for the complexion?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Is a guy's sperm really good for the skin or is that just a myth? See my bf doesn't like to cum in a condom. He pulls it off when he's ready to finish and puts his sperm on my chest or belly. I usually just wipe it off but he says I should rub it in because it's healthy for my ... (78 words)

Is this a serious relationship or am I just going to get hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm wondering if the relationship is going anywhere with my guy. He has told me he doesnt want a girlfriend in the past but I wonder if things have changed. We have been dating 7 mths now. We are exclusive and everything feels like I'm in a relationship with him. Do I assume ... (181 words)

What's happening to this world?!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What's happening to this world? Every time I'm here everyone is talking about sex, even 10-11 year olds, what happened to childhood? I didn't even know what sex meant when I was 10, there must be something to do, I can't take seeing some girls getting pregnant at an early ... (65 words)

Am I bi... or am I just too open-minded about sex?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

17 November 2008 (F)

- I'm a 19 year old girl, I know this is a very common question but I'm confused about my sexuality. I know I am attracted to guys, but VERY occasionally I'm attracted to girls too. I've only had one major crush on a girl. So I figured it was just a one-off. The other day ... (121 words)

I feel resentment towards her for breaking my heart in this way.

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17 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I fell in love with a girl around 6 months back. On one of the first few times I met her. We became good friends and I asked her out a few weeks ago, she said no. It was heart-breaking to say the least and I think about what I could have possibly done wrong when things seem... (552 words)

A question about WATER!

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17 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Quick question My mum told me it's bad to drink different types of water in the same day - i.e Evian and Caladonian. I was just wondering if this is true and if so what are the side effects??... (45 words)

Problems with husband's ex-girlfriend (mother of his son)

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17 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi. I have been married to my husband for 2 years now. He has a 9-year old son with an ex-girlfriend. They broke up when their son was 3 but the ex still expects my husband to help her out with her own finances as well as to help her family. The son leaves with my husband and ... (216 words)

Do all men picture women they fancy naked in their minds eye?

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17 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay so here is something I have come across that I'm quite perplexed about. My ex claims that all men picture women naked at the least the one's that are attractive anyway. What happens when it's a co-worker? and the guy is in a relationship that they supposedly are c... (100 words)

Is there a right way to have sex and what mood should we do it in?

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17 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this guy for about 2 years and I really love him and we know we're both ready to move onto the next step of our relationship, we both know about protection and all that but is there a right way to have sex? or is it bad to plan out sex (we're both virgins). ... (90 words)

Do I give him the chance and go back with my husband?

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17 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I split about about 4 months ago. We were having to deal with a lot of pressures in our lives, losing our house, my father dying and a new baby and a toddler (I had post natal depression). We never stopped getting on or talking we just loved each other. ... (336 words)

Bullying... how do I fight back?

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17 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Why do I let people get to me? At college I am quite good at the subjects I do especially drama and I had a brilliant year last year and now other people are being nasty and horrible to me. It seems it all centers around friendships. I done all I can to help my group and ... (150 words)

She wants me to take her to meet my parents!

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17 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I need help please. I met a lady and we became friends. We exchanged contacts and on the same day she text me saying "I love you dear" I replied thank you. After a week she told me she wanted to visit me. She came and we had sweeet kisses. Both of us are Chri... (112 words)

I know I've done a really stupid thing... I just don't know what to do...

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17 November 2008 (F)

- In the last year I have become really close to a girl I met in my local pub. We are very good friends and go out in a small group of friends every weekend. But now I'm worried that I could lode her friendship over something really stupid that I have done. On the weekend we w... (681 words)

Is he ashamed to take me out in public or just simply scared that someone else might come along?

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17 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months now. We've always been very close and honest with each other. But recently it seems like he's ashamed to take me out anywhere, or even show me affection in front of family. I've told him that a lil kiss on the lips when we... (153 words)

Was I right in dumping him?

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17 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 20 year old female. I was in a relationship with a guy for 6 months. We were friends for around a year before that. During the course of our friendship I came to get to know both the good and bad sides of his personality. We worked on a few college projects together ... (807 words)

We have finally split up for what I thought was for good. I feel that I have made a massive mistake but when we were together I was so unhappy. I am just so confused :(

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17 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my partner ( now ex ) and i have been together for 6 years on and off we have finally split up for what i thought was for good and that i wanted now he has really gone and moving on i feel that i have made a massive mistake but when we were together i was so unhappy i really ... (97 words)

When is the right time to tell my parents that I don't got my virginity anymore?

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17 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - When is it to be the right time to tell my parents I don't have my virginity anymore? I am only 13 years old, and I just lost my virginity a few days ago with my girlfriends I have been dating for 13months (1year1month). I understand it is far to young to be doing intercours... (121 words)

Is it normal for a girl of that age to be like that? What made her do it?

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17 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend walked into my room without knocking and I was caught doing sexual activity's. After 3 seconds she came directly onto me she started to take off her clothes and I asked her what are you doing because I was scared, I wasn't ready to have that kind of experien... (140 words)

Is my penis length natural?

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17 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hii. I am wondering if my erection is normal. First of all I guess I should tell you my age, its very embarrasing. I am only 13 years old but my erection is 6-7 inches. Is that normal? I've looked at multiple length charts and all of them said differnt. And is it normal for me ... (82 words)

I am new in this relationship thing. I have this beautiful young girlfriend, but I don't see anythin happening between us. What do I do ?

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17 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi i am new in this relationship thing. am 19yrs. i just started dating this year september. i have this beautiful young girlfriend. she is new to this dating thing too. we are in the same class. i sent her an sms telling her that i dont see anythin happening between us. is l... (143 words)

After 5 years I've noticed that she is only affectionate after a few drinks. I want her to stop drinking so much. But how ?

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17 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I love being with my girlfriend. We have a ton of fun together and rarely fight. After 5 years I've noticed that she is only affectionate after a few drinks. A few drinks is daily lately so in the mornings and afternoons she seems distant; makes me uncomfortable. How can I ... (71 words)

I've got a new partner but she wants me to use protection and I respect that, problem is when ever I try to use protection I can not get it up !

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17 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I've got a new partner but she wants me to use protection and I respect that with her as normally most girls ive been with just dont really care about protection. Only problem is when ever I try to use protection I can not get it up...is this because I am nervous or alergic. I ... (134 words)

My boyfriend has cancer and he is doing kemo. I think I am pregnant. Is that bad for the baby ?

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17 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has cancer and he is doing kemo. but we still have unprotected sex and now i think i am pregnant. is that bad for the baby what should i do?... (32 words)

How long should I wait before asking her to go steady?

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17 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright so just wondering here, I've never really been in a relationship, all I've had to date is various flings. Currently I'm having a thing with a girl who has had two relationships, both lasted more than a couple years. I know she sees a relationship in our future, an... (95 words)

I know its normally men that do this to women, but in my case I have been wronged. Why do women do this to men? Can woman attack men legally like this?

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17 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I was a recently engaged to a woman who i have been with for the past year and a half. Our relationship has always been somewhat turbulent, due to many extensive factors, however the majority being her unwillingness to find a job, her desire to use me as a means to receive a ... (854 words)

Am I just a sexual pervert or am I bi or gay?

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17 November 2008 (M)

age - I don't think I have a problem, I just need to understand myself. I'm middle aged and as straight as they come. However, I have recently started a sexual relationship with an oriental 'ladyboy' She still has a penis, but boobs, long hair, pretty face and wears makeup and looks ... (111 words)

He needs a nick-name. Any suggestions ?

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17 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, so my boyfriend calls me all these nick names and keeps talking about how i don't really have one for him.But I want the nickname for him to be special, maybe having something to do with the first time we met.We met at a campsite and start talking, we spent the day ... (111 words)

Should I ask her out ?Or because shes fooled around in the past, does it seem I'm just going to be a time consumer in her eyes ?

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17 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been talking to a girl recently, and she doesn't live to far away from me. We've hung out a few times, and the times we have we couldn't get our hands off each other. It was pretty much just flirting/cuddling/ and kissing the whole time. I know shes done a few things in ... (98 words)

My boyfriend has been masturbating to his ex's photos...

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17 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I just found out my BF of 2 years has been masterbating to his EX these 2 years. I came out and asked him and since he told me. She has huge boobs...he is a boob guy...I have great boobs 34D but they are not gigantor. I am very hurt about this. He loves me so much and f... (106 words)

My two best friends are a gay couple and I have fallen for one of them! Help!

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17 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My two best friends are a gay couple that have been together for 4 years. I know how crazy what im about to say sounds but I have completly fallen for one of them. We have the closest relationship and at times I truelly believe he feels the same way. I've tried so hard to not ... (226 words)

Confused about my relationship with this married (and separated) man, should I stay or go?

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17 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing this married guy for approximately 1yr and 3months. He's no longer with his wife. Ever since he left his wife, it's like things has change. I love him dearly, sometimes I feel as if he loves me, then there's time that I feel as if he's punishing me for the ... (74 words)

Problems with maintaining erection, could you give me any tips?

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17 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a girl that i really like her i have tried having sex with her 4 times but it won't go up i don't know why, i have never experience this problem before its not like i don't like her because she is the finest one i have had and i mean fine, and its hella embarrassing when ... (80 words)

Is it my boyfriend's baby?

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17 November 2008 (F) age 30-35 - I am pregnany and 2 months before i got pregnant i slept with a guy with a condom and i had my period the same month and the month after that then i slept with my boyfriend without a condom and he ejaculated in me and i missed my period is it his baby... (55 words)

She has told me that she is happy with her new boyfriend however everytime we talk she talks about how she has thought about us being together in the future ! What do I make of this ?

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17 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - So ok... In my last question i asked if i should let go of the girl i love with all of my heart right. well here is an update and a new question... she has told me that she is happy with her new boyfriend, however everytime we talk she talks about how she has thought about us ... (478 words)

Why does he get sore the next morning after our sexual play?

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17 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay my boyfriend have been pleasuring eachother with our hands for a week now. I come almost every time he fingers me. He always pulls my hand away before he comes because he says he doesn't want to gross me out. We do this a few times in a night, and the next day he's sore. ... (112 words)

How can I stop bieng in denial and start feeling good about myself?

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17 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I think i have very low self esteem and im sick of being in denial. Hello everyone, ill get straight to the point. lets say that someone compliments me for doing a good thing or achieving something. Most people would take this well and it would make them happy but when i... (315 words)

Is there something wrong with him or me?

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17 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i AM 23 YEARS OLD. Ive been dating the same guy for three years now. I love him very much, and we have a lot of fun together. He was a virgin when we first started dating. But now we hardly have sex, maybe once a month if im lucky, and when we do he'd rather do it doggie ... (93 words)

Do guys like girls with wide hips and small boobs

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17 November 2008 (?) age 26-29 - Do guys like girls with wide hips and small boobs? Because thats how i am. I like me and i wouldnt change anything. But if i get together with a guy...do you think he'll lke my body?... (37 words)

I don't think she is ready for more than kisses. How do I convince her though?

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17 November 2008 (?) age 26-29 - ok so me and this girl have been together for a good amount of time now. i was her 1st kiss. i personaly am ready for more but i dont think she is. how do i get her to do more then just kiss? im ready for like a hj or anything actually haha. i just wanna tell her but i dont ... (106 words)

Does intermittently questioning yourself and your love necessarily mean you don't love?

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17 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This question may be asked a little too late, but I'll go into it anyway. Do you ever question your love for your partner, or do you think this necessarily means that you don't love the person? I feel strongly, and believe I care deeply for my partner, hope to be with him t... (589 words)

My girlfriend still has feelings for and close contact with her ex, what should I do?

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17 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - What should I think if my girlfriend admits to still liking her ex and he still likes her? They also have close contact at work (not in the same office, but their company has internal instant messaging that she uses frequently) and they do things together outside of work. ... (84 words)

We're on a break because I told him I went on a date with another early on. Are we over? Should I wait for him?

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17 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok someone please give me some insight on this situation. I was talking marriage with this guy I have been with for almost 9 months. Well he said he wanted me to explore other options before I settle for him. I said no I didn't want to. He asked me why not. He kept pushing and ... (620 words)

I would like advice about how to go about my teacher being attracted to me, and do you think he is?

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17 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i know everyone is sick of hearing about teenage girls and their crushes on their teachers. Whenever a girl writes about that kind of stuff, the reply is usually, "you're reading too far into it, or its wrong and you'll get over it soon, and that he probably has no feelings for ... (469 words)

Could my reaction to orgasm be a turn off to a guy?

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17 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, my question is kinda embarrassing. I had my first orgasm today and my entire body was just shaking like mad, like I was extremely cold, which I wasn't. Is that normal and if so, would that be a kinda turnoff for a guy when I do eventually have sex?... (50 words)

Should we cut off all communication- to help us both decide what we want??

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17 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and i went on a break after five years and a year of that having been engaged. After 5 months, he met someone and was ready to move on. I was absolutely devastated, went through a debilitating depression and all the stuff that supposedly comes with a break up. I'm 26 ... (303 words)

Putting up with the partner's stress and mood swings - when is enough, enough?

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17 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - What say you? When is enough, enough? Does how much you'll put up with depend on the circumstances of your partner's mood swings as well as the length of your relationship, or is it never excusable to take your mood out on your partner? Does anyone have some personal experie... (87 words)

My boyfriend is a workaholic. What should I do? I'm not ready to lose him either!

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17 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been going out with this boy for about 3 1/2 years- we are 19 and he is a workaholic , always stressed - he bought some land to build on and now our relationship is suffering. With his always working , i know he wants to get ahead for the future but at what cost? I ... (168 words)

How can I live with cheating on my boyfriend? I just feel so empty inside...

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17 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am absolutely positively in love with my boyfriend of three years. I've been a complete mess for the past week and depressed. So, here my story goes. About a week ago, I made the biggest mistake of my life. I felt like I didn't matter to him and everything in my life was s... (563 words)

Is it possible to have an allergic reaction to a partner's sperm?

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17 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it possible to have an allergic reaction to a partner's sperm? I had sex with a male friend. He ended up ejaculating on my stomach. Now I have a mild rash on the same area he let his sperm out on. Is that possible? It's the only cause I can think of. ... (53 words)

I decided not to break up but then I discovered he watches porn, am I not good enough for him?

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17 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so here is my story. A few nights ago I told my boyfriend I think I needed a break to think things through then after I talked to him a bit about things (the biggest thing was that I wanted to have sex with one of my friends) and I realized that I loved him so much and ... (278 words)

Why are redheads teased? Have you had to deal with it, too?

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17 November 2008 (F)

- I hope people can help me out here. I have long red hair, titian is what my family calls it. It is not like I do not like it or anything but whenever I am assertive or stand up for myself I always get the same comment from people...oh it must be the red hair. No way do blondes ... (135 words)

How can I forgive and forget that he slept with other girls during our break up?

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17 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years. We are both Young at 20 and 21. About 9 months we had a very sudden break up he told me he was afraid that we were to young to be so serious. I was very depressed but I was slowly moving on. We saw each other one day ... (165 words)

I don't want to go straight to sex... should we try oral or wait?

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17 November 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - hi me and my girl friend are both mature for our age , i would like to do more than kissing and snogging but i dont want to go straight to sex. would you recommend us tryin oral or wait till we both feel ready for sex and yes i really am 14 she is 15 ... (64 words)

Why don't I feel when I orgasm, yet I know I have?

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17 November 2008 (?) age 26-29 - Hello. I masterbate... alot, but when i orgasm i dont feel it but i can see that i have. Why dont i feel it? Is there any thing i can do so i can that i've came?... (40 words)

I'm being bullied over a drunken one night stand.

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17 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im sick and tired now! and i cant face it anymore, back in july i split up with my boyfriend of nearly two years, i was only fourteen when i fell in love, and we lasted 22 months! until his mum got made redundant and they ended up moving away, he was too far to make a long ... (523 words)