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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I know if he is telling the truth that I really make him happy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age - How do I know if he is telling the truth that I really make him happy?... (16 words)

Is this a sign of wanting me back ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

11 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Why is it every time I talk to my ex she tells me that people asked about me and they talk highly of me and tell her that I'm a good guy ? I feel like all she has to say is that they asked about me . ... (50 words)

Why doesn't my husband want to have sex with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) age 51-59 - How can you find out, why your husband don't want sex with you? Is there a good question to ask? And what can you do , if you don't find it out? How to read his mind? And ,what if you can't find it out... How long can you wait an answer, or solution? He does not want to reso... (85 words)

He's my teacher and I've fallen pregnant to him!!!!! HELP!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok.. here's the thing.. I've been seeing this guy for all of nine and half months now and only recently we both decided we would consumate our relationship. It was my first time and I'm glad it was with him. It was very special and so is he. He is very loving in ALL aspects o... (410 words)

Do you think he's really over me considering...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So I ran into my "ex" and his new girlfriend today. But my situation is so weird, because he called me a month ago saying that he could never stop loving me, but he has a new girlfriend. So...his mom told him today that he needed to apologize to me. The funny thing, he called ... (231 words)

My girl wants sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5638 days ago

11 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this girl for about 4 years and shes suddenly we've been talking about taking our relationship "the next step" and im not sure if i hsould because were both 16 would it be illeagle? and if so im afraid im gonna hurt her... were still both virgins and have done ... (70 words)

How do I get my mum to trust me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, From the dawn of time my mom has told me to save sex for marriage, condom's don't always work, and guys will say anything to get sex. so now that i finally have a boyfriend my mom constantly asks me if he's been touching or grabbing me. i tell her he hasn't but in r... (103 words)

How can I make my breasts and butt bigger without surgery?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - How can I make my brest bigger and butt as well.I don't want to go under the knife,Has anyone out there takeing any pill and if so do thay work,what is the name of the pills thanks... (41 words)

He doesn't need to use a condom, how can we find a compromise?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi aunts, I need some ideas from you. My partner of 6 months and I enjoy what we think is a healthy sex life. I am on the pill and take it between 6.30 and 7am every morning (rain, hail or shine). The problem is, my partner insists on putting a condom on before he orgasm... (216 words)

What is the reason for thinking about my ex so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5527 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Is this normal? I broke with my ex a few months back and started seeing this really nice guy but when we are having sex I think about my ex. Also sometimes when I am alone, I touch myself thinking about my ex. Now this is the weird part - my boyfriend actually performs 100 ... (67 words)

I can't stop thinking of this older man.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there I am 19 years old and I am in love with a man that is 40 years older than me, he is married and has children. I don't know what to do, I have a boyfriend that I also love, I want to be with them both, but I know I can't. I can't stop thinking about the older man please ... (66 words)

I'm scared to tell my friends about my "older" boyfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and I'm dating a man 20 years older than me. Although when I first met this man he thought I was 18. I don't think that it's immoral as I am mature for my age and it is never an issue between us, I enjoy our mature conversations and he makes me laugh. I love him more ... (105 words)

Just found out my boyfriend of 5 years is calling chat lines.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I just found out that my boyfried of 5 years is calling chat lines and he has given his number out to this women. He didn't know that I had his password to his cell phone. I told him about the massage I heard and he told me he just does it when he is around his friends and ... (90 words)

I'm struggling with my wife not wanting to have sex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

11 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I've been married for a little over 11 years. For the past 2 - 3 years (if not a bit longer) our sex life has diminished to the point of virtually nothing (manual stimulation at best). For more than a year, my wife and I haven't had intercourse and she doesn't like me ... (283 words)

Since I broke up with my boyfriend I have lost all motivation.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have always been a very active person taking part in a variety of different actvities such as swimming, badminton, going to the gym etc. Ok so the problem is since I broke up with my boyfriend I have lost all motivation. Now all I do is sit at home eating, watching tv. I ... (188 words)

I am falling in love with you, so I think we need to stop seeing each other

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Concern for many years. I have had a few casual boyfriends and a couple relationships in my day, so I am not new to this. There has been a nagging question that I want to have a male perspective on. All my male friends give me answers like "what is his problem?" or "... (189 words)

How do I tell my mother in law to butt out and let me raise my family the way I choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5638 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My mother in law has a problem with my husband and I going naked a lot especially infront of our son who is 3 years old. I grew up in a family where nudity is allowed and so my brothers and sisters I went around the house naked a lot. I continue to sleep naked and walk around ... (178 words)

He was the one that made the group worthwhile and now he's gone...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I really really need some help. I am totally head over heels for this guy I know, he's only a couple of months younger than me, and totally gorgeous. He's got a lovely personality and a great sense of humour. He's tall, dark and handsome, with the most beautiful eyes, I ... (333 words)

Do I have some sort of abused woman syndrome?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5638 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Why am I not over him? I recently broke up with my boyfriend of almost 5 years we lived together for almost the entire time, My head tells me leaving was the right thing to do so I did, He was very cruel he would say awful things and constanly cheated so one day I got up and... (275 words)

I'm in a very odd situation...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm 17 and technically I'm still a virgin but medically I am not, meaning my cherry's been popped. And lately I've just been wanting to have sex and I don't really want to be in a relationship or have it be special at all. I just want to do it. I'm single by the way. And ... (158 words)

I think my friend is suffering from bulimia...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help me. I am in year 10 at school and he is in year 11. We have never been the closest of friends but since yesterday we have become very close and he told me that he thinks he has an eating problem. I am fairly sure it is bulimia nervosa. He has told me that it started ... (284 words)

He's showing all the symptoms of liking me but he has a girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - There is a lad in my class and he is made to sit next to me and when he does he rests his leg on mine. He looks at me from time to time and is always talking to me on instant messenger. He has a girlfriend and the other day he got my phone number and wouldn't stop texting me. ... (99 words)

She gets mad at me all the time, what is going on??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

11 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hey everybody i really dont know whats going on between me and my girlfriend, she goes to college and visits me every week. shes 18 im only 16. were going to be 6 months tomorrow. she visited me yesterday so we can be together for our anniversary, and everything was going good, ... (270 words)

How to get over a guy who just left me for someone else?

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11 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, can you give me some good advice on how to get over a guy?who just left you and went for another girl,and now he says he loves her like he used to do with you?... (36 words)

How can I get this man 'out of my life'? Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

11 November 2008 (?) - I am 52, my live-in bf is 50. My bf is the problem..I can't put my finger on it. He seems very insecure, clingy and always needing desperately, some validation but it's constant and I am exhausted. I have tried reasoning with him, tried to ask him to get help (for his ... (941 words)

I'm dating a girl 4 yrs younger than me and everything is fine now, but when I turn 18, will our relationship then turn illegal??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

11 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Well I'm dating a 12 year old and I'm currently 16 years old. And I'm always hearing about when I turn 18 it'll be illegal, but I can't find the law that say's this. I just want to make sure I won't get arrested when I turn 18 and what is the law against dating minors since she ... (74 words)

How long does hearbreak last for?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Still heartbroken after 6 weeks!! How long does hearbreak last for? I have really strong feelings for a man that I didn't really know too long but we did ring and meet up! He's not the best guy in the world and doesn't worry about keeping in touch with me unless ... (115 words)

He doesn't show love and I think I should leave! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) age - MY husband says, he does not know ,why he is not interested to have sex with me. He says, he loves me. I don't feel it. He never looks at me nice,and never makes me feel loved. I tried everything. We have children.. Its a terrible thought, that I might have to leave.. I... (160 words)

In love, but scratching and sick of the lice.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, i have a problem. my boyfriend is really cute and really sweet but I have lice. i would use the shampoo and get rid of it and for about 3 days it would be gone but then i would get them back. i just figured out i've been getting them from my boyfriend. i don't kn... (104 words)

Is there anything I can do to encourage his feelings for me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Please can you help me with my current situation? A few months ago I had a brief relationship with a guy I had known for many years. We were both fresh out of long term relationships and things between us seemed to move very fast. He recognised this and told me that he was w... (319 words)

Does my daughter hate my gf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5638 days ago

11 November 2008 (?) age 41-50 - I took my daughter (who's 5) grocery shopping and she wanted cookies, I told her no because of my girlfriend (she call her a slut) and she put them in my girlfriend's bag. I think dont my daughter likes her very much. We been together for three years after my wife died fou... (119 words)

We're both virgins and he's dying to have sex, but I'm not so sure.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi im 15 and my boyfriend is 17 and he tells me he is a virgin but he does not act like one. he asks me to have sex with him like 3 times a day or more and I don't know if im ready to have sex, I mean a guy has just put it in then it hurt too bad, so I told him to stop and my ... (100 words)

I need help forgetting my past friends and memories...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Everyone has moved on with their lives my mom, my brother, all my past friends. im only 15. i dont know how i feel. sometimes i think im just jealous of them. i have everything i want, but not everything i need i feel empty hollow... please i need some advise on how to forget a... (72 words)

I stole money and now I feel so guilty!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

11 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hey, i just wanted to confess to something i did 4 years ago that haunts me, and i'm terrified one day it will come back on me, but its unlikely, but i dont know what to do. i'm a good person and i do a lot for others, i teach kids, i do work with the homeless and dis... (481 words)

We have been living together for two months and all the good qualities about him just disappeared!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - When my boyfriend and I met,it was an instant connection felt on both sides.After our first date,we decided to go on a camping trip(lasted for a week)the next day that turned out to best time in my life.He showed me he was the type of man I had been longing for.He was very ... (131 words)

I want to keep my virginity so is this compromise solution I found, normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Im 21 and wish to keep my virginity until I am married however i still want sexual pleasure. My bf and I thrust a lot with underwear on but topless (dry hump) but I cant feel his penis properly. So he took it out but after a bit my lacey knickers were causing pain... (111 words)

My boyfriend falls asleep after sex leaving me aroused and frustrated!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend always falls asleep after sex, he's really good in bed, but I can't seem to orgasm while having sex and so he cums and falls asleep and I'm left frustrated and horny, what should I do?... (38 words)

Did I say the right things to her and did I seem strong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5638 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, So my gf of a year cheated on me. At first, she broke up with me saying she didn't love me anymore and I could get better than her. I was confused, I knew she loved me..I couldn't understand what she was saying. So I asked her if there was someone else? No. Did she ... (255 words)

He is all I have, I'm losing the only thing I have...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i dont know where to start.i love my bf and he used to love me madly.i said i used to couse he changed in a strange way lately.after living 4 months together our relation has to turn in to long distance relation just for 3 months.we passed 2 months behind,1 month later i will ... (303 words)

Best friend betrayal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in love with this boy so badly, but he's asked out my best friend, and wants a serious relationship with her. She knows I really like him, and she keeps rubbing it my face. She hasn't said yes or no yet, and I really need to stop them going out. What do I do?... (56 words)

Do I keep or dump him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend (dating for 3 months),a clever and charming business guy, has suddenly stopped giving me attention and says he is too busy with his work to see me. He says he still loves me, but not seeing him as often as before brings doubts to my mind... He is not a romantic ... (117 words)

Feelings toward the ex what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5638 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I went out with this guy for 7 months from january 17 of this year through august 12 of this year. I hated him for the excuse of "god told me to" that was his reason to break up with me. Now i went out with his friend and everything was fine until i found out he got ... (165 words)

We're over, yet he still talks about me like I'm a diseased person. Whats going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5638 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I dated this guy, (unofficially) therefore he was unfortunately dating other girls while he was with me, he thought i knew thinking he told me, but he didn't, so I thought the only one he was involved with.. Things were going well until we just started to drift apart and he w... (371 words)

I know he masterbates to porn then denies it. No sex for me !

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hello every one, i have just written lately about my husband,the one that i have just got married to and he is little cold with me even before he was dieing to marry me,and i found out that he look at porn and play with his self. every one told me its ok if that doesnt affe... (284 words)

Hurting and want it to stop.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5638 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - Well, well where to start... I started dating this guy almost 2 years ago, it was amazing he swept me off my feet made me feel like no other guy has ever we spent all of our time together, then all of a sudden he changed and was very protective and had to know where I was... (727 words)

I thought we were doing great but my wife told me she's not attracted to me anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5638 days ago

11 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I need some feedback here-,my wife and i have been married for 8 years now-weve always had our problems of course-no infidelity-nothing like that. about 6 weeks ago we were getting ready for church and my wife tearfully told me im not in love with you anymore-dont love you and ... (160 words)

It feels as though my boyfriend's friend (and flatmate) has control over our relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my boyfriend for about 6 months now, and his best friend has become quite a good friend of mine. Recently they got a flat together, and at first it was great. I was allowed round whenever, I stayed most nights and we all got on great. But lately my boyfri... (214 words)

I need Help badly!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am girl of 26, I have started having feelings for my friend more than as a friend. We spent nights together, now I feel that I want him truly. But he only feels for me as a friend, nothing more. We have been friends for 4 years but we met recently because he lives abroad. He ... (86 words)

I'm having problems with my fiance and his daughter

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello I met my fiance and have been with him for 2 year now. We get on usually very well. I have a son who has special needs and is 13, but I have always treatined him as noramlly as possible especialy with dicipline. My fiance has no problems telling my son of or other ... (443 words)

Why does a man's penis sometimes get hard when someone puts a finger in his anus?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

11 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Why does a man's penis sometimes get hard when someone puts a finger in his anus?... (16 words)

If you leave sex for a few days your hymen heals itself and you have to break it all over again. Is this true??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Last Friday, I lost my virginity to my boyfriend. It really hurt (me being very nervous probably didn't help) and I bled, but I thought that at least next time it won't hurt as bad. Thing is, my friend told me that if you leave it for a few days your hymen heals itself and you ... (92 words)

Wow! What am I doing wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend tells me he feels no pleasure during sex and the only reason he does it is to get an orgasm out of it. Is something wrong? +we're quite young.... (32 words)

Losing my virginity...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 21, we've been going out for over 4 months and we are both still virgins. Tomorrow we've decided to go all the way but I'm scared it will hurt and that I won't know what to do can anyone help me please. I love him and it feels right, I'm just ... (61 words)

Will my ex husband ever look back fondly upon me and the kids?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age - My husband has recently divorced me leaving me with two children to bring up. He currently still pays the mortgage and the bills but won't see any of us or answer any texts or anything. He left me for another woman after having had numerous affairs. I am still really upset and ... (279 words)

Because of my vomiting and not eating my boyriend thinks I have an eating disorder. I don't agree.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, im 16, female and 5"3 in the last 3weeks ive changed what i eat a lot. it started where i threw up everything i ate, this lasted for 1 and a half weeks during this period itriedd to throw up half of what i ate but i just ended up throwing up most of it anyway. then i sta... (387 words)

He looking up ex girlfriends on facebook on google

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay so I have been dating this guy for 2 1/2 years and man has it been rocky. The main problem with our past is his past relationships or fool arounds they have not gotten out of the picture part to his fault and part to the individuals who have engaged in being disrespectful. ... (140 words)

How can I make him feel good during sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my bf have been having sex (were both 16 and used protection) and im wondering how can i make him feel good during it. he plays with my chest alot (to be honest that turns me on like crazy..) and was wondering if i can do something for him it takes him around 10-15 ... (88 words)

How could I make her love me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - How could you make someone you love fall in love with you?Ive been dating this girl but had to be separated from her due to business.I've stayed in touch with her through phone.And i knew that i love her in the two months we stayed apart.Now i'll be going to where she lives for ... (69 words)

Fiance distant while I am in Iraq

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

11 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok here's my deal. I am in Iraq and I have been with my Fiance for almost 2 years I try my hardest to call IM and email I even text and send her flowers once a month to let her know she is still on my mind and in my heart. the problem is she recently when I call or chat whith ... (191 words)

I think he is married and all the signs are pointing to that. Should I talk to him about it or simply just move away.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, have been seeing this guy for 2 months but never been to his place. yesterday he took me to a lodge. i think he is married and all the signs are pointing to that. should i talk to him about it or simply just move away. he doesnt answer my calls in the morning and i ne... (95 words)

Please tell me am I just being stupid or is there something going on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi my husband went to hospital last week and i took his phone home with me but he told me to turn it off charge it up then bring it back to him, then in the morning i turned the phone on to phone his family and tell them he was in hospital and he got a text massage saying im at ... (223 words)

How do marriages survive this kind of thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5625 days ago

11 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - OK, you guys were right. I've been a fool. My wife didn't just sleep with this guy once, she's carried on at least ten times with him. What hurts the most is - we had a deal on the table. I would forgive her her one indiscretion, and she would for give me being a total co... (159 words)

I feel he takes advantage. What can I do as I'm so fed up right now ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, my problem isnt huge, but i feel like from your profile you can help me with my situation. I am so fed up at the moment and sometimes tearful. Im 29 and live with my boyfriend, and he does absolutley nothing to help me around the house apart from cook (then i end up ... (152 words)

Why can't I get pregnant ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hey just got married there three months ago and came off the pill.am having lots of intercourse around the time i shoul be ovulating but nothing happening so far bought some ovulation predictor kits and am hoping they will work have two beautiful kiddies from previous ... (106 words)

Should I go to this party?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been invited to a party by my ex boyfriends sister, i dont know if i should go or not, as my new boyfriend thinks it would be wrong for me to go, but my friend thinks that my new boyfriend is worried that i will get back with my ex, as we split over something stupid, and ... (73 words)

What can I do to speed things up to the next step?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5638 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I need a bit of help! I'm 27 And my boyfriend is 24. We've been together for more then 2 years now. I'm getting a bit depressed, cause he doesn't want to take the relationship to the next level! He says he's too young for that and I should have thought about that before I ... (80 words)

Meeting someone for the first time - how can I avoid being nervous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

11 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently went on to an online classifieds website (like gumtree) and asked for a friend who would be able to hang out with and teach me another language. Now im meeting them tomorrow, and i only know their name and their gender. I'm really nervous going into this and it... (99 words)

My dad doesn't care about me at all - what can I do to get out of here?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

11 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My dad has been emotionally abusive to me my whole life and i need it to stop now but i dont think he will ever change. For as long as i can remember it has been like this. He NEVER says anything good to me at all, i have never heard him say i love you. He has never said sorry ... (252 words)

I have to stop feeling this way before it kills me. How do I handle this ?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) age 41-50 - I need help. I am getting seriously sick - literally and metaforically - because of the situation I am in. Here goes..I have been married for several years now. During the marriage me and my guy have been through a lot ups and downs and I see him as be my best friend, my soulm... (1593 words)

Weirdest break up ever!

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11 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating my bf for 2.5 years and we just broke up. We broke up because we're in transitioning phases of our lives- leaving uni, he's going to medicine and going away for two months and i'm trying to get a job interstate and we've both been under alot of stress which has ... (679 words)

Should I get intimate with her... even although I'm attracted to men?

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11 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a very dear friend - a girl who I have known many years. I feel scared of getting intimate with her though I know she cares a lot for me. I also think I am attracted to men. I am in a dilemma. She has had one boyfriend in the past but it came to nothing and was over in ... (104 words)

Why was he so pissed off at me???

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11 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone, I am in a relationship that started almost a year ago. I am 23, in college and recently lost my job suddenly which has been causing me a lot of stress. Before I lost my job, my boyfriend (he's 24) and I used to argue sometimes, and every once in awhile we wou... (491 words)

He sent his gal pal a picture of his penis!

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11 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so me and my boyfriend have been together right at a year and been living together for 6 months. He's 26 I'm 22.. I've dated way more guys than he has girls. He's been in 3 serious relationships his whole life me being one of them and the one before was 4 years before we ... (334 words)

Is he really shy or just not into me that much?

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11 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating this guy for a month now... we're on date 7 lol! My problem is I'm not sure if he is just really shy or not into me that much. Now I am quite a shy person when it comes to guys and don't like to make the first move when we are together but i have been trying. ... (193 words)

Should I say no when he proposes and just wait for another man to enter my life?

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11 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I have two friends who are both inerested in having a relationship with me, I genuinely love one of them the mere fact that we share very many things in common, he is reserved, composed and above all a phlegmatic which I am as well and when next to him I feel good, bu... (181 words)

My love for him burns bright.

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11 November 2008 (?) age 26-29 - I've been in love with the same guy for about a year a half. At one point in time he liked me, and a lot, but he also liked another girl. He chose her over me, and I still don't know why to this day. But they broke up after six months, and I honestly couldn't be happier about ... (251 words)

Happily married for decades? How'd you know it would work or did you just decide to make it work?

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11 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am looking for people who have been happily married for 20+ years on this one. How did you know this was the right person for you? Was it passionate at the beginning or was it respect that grew to admiration that grew to love? ... (46 words)

What to do about sex when you're in a long distance relationship?

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11 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating my boyfriend for 1 1/2 years now, and starting this June we have been in a long-distance relationship. I get very horny sometimes and just want to have sex. And when I get horny, I think all kinds of thoughts. I'm sure it is probably worse for a man (ie bf... (138 words)

I have second thoughts about my ex, should I break my present relationship or let these thoughts pass?

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11 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am in the relationship but i have second thoughts about a previous relationship... and i have had many thoughts of cheating but i couldnt let me self hurt my partner like that... but i am weaking and i am scared that i am gonna hurt them... and i dont want to do that... what ... (77 words)

Why did my guy friends stay up until 3 to talk about me?

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11 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My two guys friends did not sleep until 3 o'clock because they talked on phone to each other about me. I'm really surprised to be their topic. I am wondering in what case guys talk about girl? Do you think that they stayed late to talk badly about me. Or one of them has a crus... (61 words)

Do I really love my boyfriend? Or is my pride more important to me?

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11 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i get into little arguments once in awhile. we've been together for 7 months. it usually starts because of something he does or say that just irritates me. and the way i deal with it is just not talking to him. i know that's unfair to him. but, this can go on ... (267 words)

I don't know how to start off in sex!

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11 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I don't know how to start off in sex! How do you start off, do you just start making out and then let it unfold or just let him lead you, or should I even lead him?... (37 words)

Is it friendship only or has he more in mind?

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11 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Am I reading too much into this? There's this guy in one of my classes who I talk to and kind of flirt with a little bit, but I haven't really hung out with him outside of class until last week. He left class before I did and he was waiting for me outside and we live in the s... (210 words)

IS this midlife crisis or have I fallen out of love with my husband?

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11 November 2008 (F)

age - Help! I have realised that I dont love my husband anymore. I like him, hes a nice guy but theres no passion or interest. I dont know what to do as we are in a business together and after working so hard at the business I dont want to give up my portion. Youngest child is ... (220 words)

My boyfriend wants to make out but I don't and he doesn't get it!

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11 November 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend wants to make out and do other sexual things all the time. He said he will wait until I want to do them, but then he will go and bug me about doing stuff with him. I don't like to do that kind of stuff, and I don't want to. I tried telling him, but he just doesn't ... (66 words)

How can I keep my relationship exciting?

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11 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - im always myself but what are some good ways to keep my relationship with this girl alive. we like each other we have fun. but i want to keep it more exciting bc she is a very attractive outgoing girl.. i want to be consistant and not mess it up.. anyone have any suggestions so ... (59 words)

Is talking about your marital problems with a male friend "cheating"?

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11 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Is talking about your marital problems with a male friend "cheating"?... (11 words)

Can't believe I'm asking this, but what do I do after she CHEATED on me, to get her out of my mind?

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11 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex-girlfriend of over a year cheated on me and its been 2 months and I still think about her everyday. How do I get her out of my mind and move on? This is seriously dogging me and it sucks that she cheated on me yet I still have feelings for her. I'm not the type of guy ... (155 words)

After a year and a half, is our future still uncertain?

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11 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Things have been shaky with my current gf. We met over 2 years ago and went out for I think a month or two before I found out I was the boyfriend "on the side". I confronted her and told her to choose; she decided to dump the other guy. But I felt uncomfortable with the idea ... (306 words)

Should I let my friend ask this boy out for me?

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11 November 2008 (?) age 30-35 - hey. this is my first question on this website. so i hope i don't mess it up. well here goes. my problem is that i like my friend nathan. well, today my friend told me that nathan liked me back. and that tomorrow she's gonna ask him out for me and i'm not totally sure if i ... (105 words)

Should I contact him after he left me to be with my best friend? I want him to come and see our son!

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11 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex left me 4 months ago for my best friend and we have a 20 month old son together and he hasnt came to see our son in about 3 months, he doesnt call or pay child support. Im having a hard time letting him go and I just want him to be apart of our sons life. I havent cont... (216 words)

First time unprotected sex after we've been careful for long - what is causing the bleeding?

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11 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Last night my boyfriend and I had unprotected sex for the first time. We've been together for almost 2 years and we've always been very careful. I'm on birth control. We've always used a condom up until last night. And I never had unprotected sex before..EVER. Though since l... (91 words)

I had a dream of a 13 year old giving some guy a blowjob, I think I want one too!

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11 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - ok, please don't jump the gun I am 23 year old, it just happened to me a few days ago, I was ill and so I was sleeping a lot, and I had a dream of a girl who 13 and I know her, she was giving someone a blowjob and no it wasn't me and now a few times I think about that dream... (126 words)

My girlfreind is so depressed because of me .

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11 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my girlfreind have been going out for one 13 months now and i really love her alot infact i could pretty much say i cant live without her. Im 14 yeah young but madly in love. When i was high i mistakenly tried to make out with another girl. She eventually found out. I tr... (381 words)

He wasn't that hard! Am I unappealing to him?

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11 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - ok so i theres this boy who i been talking to the past 2 or 2 1/2 years but we only see each other over the summer when he comes by where i live and we hangout alot then but during the year when hes not here we talk on the phone almost every night and i really like him alot n ... (205 words)

Depressed since he dumped me! Help!

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11 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I had my first real boyfriend for a long time and then i cheated on him with his friend and i dont know why really. But then he broke up with me and he is going out with this slut and i just want to him to be with me again and ever since we broke up i have been so depresse... (68 words)

Something came out of my vagina..after we had sex!

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11 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I had sex with a guy without a condom while I was intoxicated. I went to the bathroom after and went pee, and after I pee'd something came out of my vagina. He claims he didn't cum, and he promised if he did that he would pull out. I'm kind of scared, and I was wondering if ... (91 words)

Can't reach a climax...help!

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11 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I just became sexually active about a month ago. The problem that I am having is that, I am totally turned on, and it feels really good, but I can't get off before he does, even if he is pleasuring me in other ways, I still can't reach climax. HELP!!!!!... (50 words)

Sexual problems with my new hubby...any advice?

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11 November 2008 (F)

age - My husband can't touch my pubic area, she eldom touches my breasts, and he hasn't had sex with me for 30 months. We have only been married 34 months. Before marriage we had sex daily. He can't ejaculate in me either.... (43 words)

Blood in my discharge...am I pregnant?

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11 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 18 and about 2 mnths ago i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend i lost my virginty to him and now im experiencing back problems, my period was a day or late and i'v had blood in my discharge.. could i be pregnant please help?... (48 words)

He lied about watching porn for 3 years. Should I dump him??

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11 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend have been together for nearly three years. The topic of porn is something that has come up in our conversations before and he knows it is something I really do not approve of. I found out back in June that he has been watching porn for the entire duration of our ... (423 words)

She's not texting or calling me! Is she hiding something from me?

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11 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hello, i have a question concerning if my girlfriend is cheating on me. we have been dating a month now and at first when we were going out we were together i wouldnt say all the time but most the time. i would come stay by here house 4-5 nights out the week. Here latel... (206 words)

I like him but we barely talk..any conversation tips?

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11 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys! I'm in desperate need of advice. Well, I kind of like this boy that goes to my school. But the problem is that we barely talk. I don't even think he notices me! :[ I'm pretty shy and I have no idea on how to get his attention. I only have one class with him [besi... (144 words)

My best friends (females) are together and I've been sworn never to tell anyone!

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11 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 13 and I'm really close with 2 of my friends (Since we're into all the same stuff and can talk about anything with eachother!) but they're MUCH closer to eachother to me. Loads of rumours have been going around school that they are lesbians and are together but I a... (282 words)

When two guys talk about one girl

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11 November 2008 (F)

I found out my boyfriend send a video of him jerking off to his ex!

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11 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So last week my boyfriend and I were sitting on the couch and he had his laptop. He signed into his email and plainly let me see his password. To tonight I decide to be nosey and just look in his email. I'm really paranoid about the things his ex has been sending him lately. ... (150 words)

Love and Torture

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11 November 2008 (F) age 30-35 - Ok. I have a problem. I am SOO madly and deeply in love with two people. One is an old teacher of mine who moved to NC but I still keep in contact with him and the other is this boy a year younger then me. I wanna tell the younger boy that I like him but can't think of a good ... (230 words)

I don't seem to please her sexually!

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11 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys I need a little help with something you see I met this wonderful girl... she used to be all depressed but now she says that I make her happy. But now all of a sudden we have had sex and I gave her a lot of pleasure but now... She says that she's not in the mood or just ... (126 words)

Help! What should I do about my sister?

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11 November 2008 (?) age 41-50 - My sister (who's 5) was being abuse my dad (now in jail) (my mom died 2 years ago). When I was growing up my dad (or mom) never laid a hand on me not sure what chance when I move out. I really had no choice but to her take in. Ever since my sister is afraid I might do what my ... (136 words)

How can I flirt with him in a "nice" way?

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11 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I'm 15 and I love to flirt. But I'm used to the kinda I guess slutty flirting and wearing things that show off my body but there's this guy I saw at chruch that I really wanna get to know and I don't wanna be like that in chruch and this guy is also the past... (99 words)

Will this girl I'm dating make my depression worse?

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11 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I've started a relationship with a girl that has major depression problems. She started different but every time I see her now she just cries and says how she wants to kill herself. She takes medication and sees a psychiatrist. I don't want to end it with her and I have ... (143 words)

Am I being cheeky asking him to sacrifice this?

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11 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey There, can someone help me. My partner and I welcomed a baby boy last week. I am 2 stone overweight since the pregnancy.... His Mam called down this evening with a pressie for him, a floatation, which is basically a relaxation therapy thing and a massage. It will involve ... (169 words)

It's all coming to a head and I feel I want out!

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11 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I started dating my wife when I was 32, I was 34 when we married and I am 38 now. She was 19 when we started dating and 21 when we married, 25 now. I had 2 sons to my previous marriage. I was very very close to them and I gained custody of them right after I started dating ... (374 words)

Do I have to choose between my family and the love of my life...

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11 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been apart from my ex 3 months now, he's tried so hard to make it up 2 me and I'm very very confused, he stole from me which I still can't get my head round but I love this guy to pieces, I wanted to marry this guy and start a family. I was so happy with him and I hurt so ... (200 words)

I'm stuck on deciding if I should break up with my boyfriend.

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11 November 2008 (?) age 26-29 - My so-called boyfriend and I have been going out since Oct.14,08.He does some things that I don't like. For 1,he won't show me any affection.He won't even hug me or put his arm around me or anything.I know it's only been a month,but he could be more lovey dovey since it's jus... (382 words)