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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How to get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

25 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating this guy for a while, things got bumpy in the last little bit of it. So rough, that I lost trust in him due to something that I found on his computer. This lack of trust between him and I led us to fighting 2-3 times every time we saw each other and it was ... (306 words)

Why do SOME people assume things about people, that may not even be true?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

25 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have just learnt that apparently some guys think that all girls are slags, this got me so annoyed, I am so angry that people actually think like that, why do people think like that, it's just gross, disgusting and demoralising/degrading towards women/girls. I know not all... (105 words)

I just curse myself for being gay.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

25 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys and guyesses! Well I've recently told people that I'm gay and I have a boyfriend. I've told 2 really close mates before now but I've "come out" as it were. People are treating me so different! I mean most guy mates are just acting so strange around me, as if they're ... (127 words)

He disappeared on me with no warning or explanation...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

25 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Until 2 months ago I was dating a man for 1 1/2 years. Suddenly he disappeared on me without warning. He no longer called, wouldn't answer my calls etc, and I haven't spoken to him since then. I thought we were very close - we talked marriage - so this has been devastating ... (164 words)

He feels betrayed I dated others while we were on a break.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

25 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, my long term boyfriend who sometimes has given me lots and lots of stress has finally confessed to me that he finds it hard to deal witht he fact that I was dating others before I dated him, and he is afraid I will one day leave him. He says he doesn't know how to solve ... (281 words)

How can you tell when you chest is growing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5631 days ago

25 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - How can you tell when your chest is growing?... (9 words)

Does she really love me or is it an act?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5631 days ago

25 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Well here's the thing my dad got with this new woman and she had kids me and one of the kids got along well..Really well. They kept having arguments and it ended up with my dad walking out on her so me and my dad's girlfriends Daughter (miss X).Decided to give it a shot a... (547 words)

His grandma's making me NUTS!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

25 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfrien of 2 years and I moved in to help take care of his 70 year old grandmother and 91 year old great grandmother. Unfortunately, I am on my own pretty much entirely as his great grandmother has dementia and thinks he is the devil. Besides the fact that he's extremely ... (115 words)

Does this mean I'm with the wrong guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5631 days ago

25 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello. This is a messy one! I'm going through a divorce right now. I've actually started living with a guy from work. Meanwhile, a different guy from work (who did not know about the first guy) started coming on to me. I rejected him *of course*. He is not married but has ... (216 words)

Having children - is it a deal breaker in love? Please help.

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am suffering from a recent painful break up. After 4 years with a man, who is divorced with 2 children, we have ended our relationship because we decided that he cannot have more children (due to finances and instability) and I very much want to have a child. I am 37 year ... (525 words)

I want him back, what shall I do?

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. i split up with my boyfriend and we were together for a long time. We split up because rumours had it that he was cheating on me. So i ended it. we were talking a couple of weeks ago and he said he never cheated on me but did tell his mate to tell me he had, but he didn... (114 words)

I'm losing him to porn!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

25 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - OK, here is my problem... PORN. Well I guess it's more of my fiance's problem than mine. At first I thought it was just something he watched whenever we weren't able to have sex, but more and more I see it as a problem. When we first got together he couldn't keep his hands off ... (175 words)

Can you sue for emotional and financal abuse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

25 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was in a relationship with a man who is a narcissist. Abused me and my mother financially. Very emotionally abusive. My question is, Can you sue for emotional and financial abuse? We have proof. Thanks... (36 words)

Is it okay to like someone who's older than you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5631 days ago

25 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - is it right for you to like someone thats older then u? i am 13 and i have been going out with an 16 year old guy. i dont see anything wrong with it we love each other is it right?... (42 words)

I'm scared of this whole sex thing, will having sex be the right thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

25 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so i am 13 i have been going out with this guy and he is 16 i know that tere is a huge difference betweeb our ages but im just in love and i know that he loves me too. i really want to have sex with him we both want that really bad but then i think that im too young and ... (127 words)

How can I keep him interested in engaging in a phone conversation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

25 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I just met a guy that I really, really like, and he likes me a lot too, our chemistry is great when we are together but when we are on the phone we have nothing to say, but we would text each other with no problem. Can you please tell me what are some things that I can maybe ... (81 words)

Crush or infatuation???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5631 days ago

25 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I like this girl soooooo much. I'm pretty sure she likes me 2. She's always friendly 2 me and she'd always stare and smile and blush whenever I came around. Because of all this, that is when I started 2 like her. I don't see her any more though. We went to different high ... (166 words)

What's the point of being freinds when I still love him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

25 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - He dumps me but says he wants to maintain friends. I told him it would be too hard for me because I wouldn't know what to say to him because I have a lot of anger because of the break-up. As a friend, I tried to just let him know how work was and what I do every few days... and ... (101 words)

Questions about birth control and initiating sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

25 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry if this story is long XD To summarize what types of birth control are there? and how do I initiate sex without asking for it? My problem dates way back to my old ex he had treated me bad and forced me into giving him a blowjob... I soon dumped him. I was really de... (878 words)

I just wondered why this still upsets me after 9 months???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

25 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with my ex boyfriend for a year. We were very very much in love. None of us had ever been this in love before. There was a lot of physical attraction there. He was very romantic and did lots for me and vice versa. I thought we were going to get married. However we used ... (347 words)

How can I get over for having to settle for second best?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5631 days ago

25 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ever since I was little I've wanted to be in the military. When I turned 18 I applied for an ROTC scholarship and was about to get one. Then they looked at my lungs and said "oopsie! you can't sign up." I don't remember another time when I was so disappointed. It's been over... (108 words)

Told a few white lies in the beginning, feel guilty......

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

25 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Everything is going well, and we are in love. Just have a quick question. I told some very minor white lies in the very beginning of it. Nothing harmful, just small things to "pump" myself up I guess to make her like me. Just kind of slightly exaggerated things about my past. ... (128 words)

They want me to go to college but I don't want to go.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) age 26-29 - Hi, my name is Selena and I am having a lot of problems with my parents, they want me to go to college but I don't want to go. What should I do! Should I listen to them or not??... (41 words)

Am I not seeing what everyone else does?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

25 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Here I go again - I have been seeing this guy for 3 years - he has two girls I have one at home too. We get along fine when it is the two of us - days fly by - we giggle wrestle and just have a good time and do projects and such I help him around his house but he never he... (407 words)

Can you still have sex and get access to her clitoris if her legs do not part very wide?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

25 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Can you still have sex and get access to her clitoris if her legs do not part very wide?... (19 words)

I need advice on my mates.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5631 days ago

25 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I was seeing this girl for about 2 months and it was going great, until about 2 weeks before I finished it, I seemed to get awkward between us and I tried to sort it with her but then she turns around and says she dosn't want to keep stuff from me. She told me that she had ... (266 words)

How do I fix a relationship I screwed up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

25 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my gf for about 3 years and I believe I have screwed up in that I grew complacent and began treating the relationship like a friendship and not a boyfriend/girlfriend thing. This is my first relationship of any kind and I really am not sure what to do. Recentl... (159 words)

He's becoming increasingly mean, rude and he intimidates me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

25 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I liked this boy for about 3 years, I didn't tell him because I didn't want to ruin our friendship. This summer we slept together (drunk) it didn't go very well and I wasn't really prepared as in not shaven. So it was never going to be perfect him because most men prefer i... (342 words)

For the past few weeks my fiance's refused to have sex with me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

25 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - For the past few weeks my fiance's refused to have sex with me. No matter what I tried he wouldn't have sex with me. Even dressing up in sexy lingerie didn't work - he still wouldn't have sex. I asked him if he was stressed, but he said nothing was stressing him out. I as... (190 words)

Why do so many men have double standards?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

25 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Why do so many men have double standards? My b/f is always clicking on sexy videos of hot females in his free time, a habit which greatly annoys me. So I decided one day to simply set up my own account and start watching sexy videos of hot men. He got so jealous and threw a ... (167 words)

I met a wonderful man on the internet, but now I'm afraid I might have pushed him off, what shall I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5631 days ago

25 November 2008 (F)

age - I have met the wonderfull man on the internet , we have spoken on the net, text and telephone for over 3 months. He is away in the USA taking his ill mother for a short holiday, I cannot contact him by phone, although he said he would ring or e mail. I fully understand that ... (196 words)

Did my husband cheat on me and gave me a std?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

25 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - my husband of 21 years told me he had sex with another women 1 month before we got married. when we were married i got pregnant on our honeymoon, after i had the baby i ended up with a std, i was 18 when we got married an was stupid i really did not understand std's. just ... (231 words)

I went online for cybersex pretending I'm a woman and it turns me on! Does this mean I'm a gay?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

25 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - cyber sex hi im male , ive got a wife and 2 kids, we have not been getting lately, ive signed to a web site for cyber sex chat, you can talk to women and even do cam to cam cyber sex , the problem is theres more men on than women and it got boring, ive registered now p... (158 words)

My boyfriend use to get coldsores, does that mean I will get herpes if he goes down on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5631 days ago

25 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is very used to getting coldsores but hasnt had one in a bout a year. We started to haave sex about 8 months ago and he goes down on me. As coldsores is herpes, and it never goes, does this mean i have herpes? can you tell?... (51 words)

Will it hurt the first time even he were to be really gentle?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

25 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Would it hurt the first time if he went gentle on me?... (12 words)

I love and hate this man and every time I meet someone he comes around and mess everything up! What to do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5573 days ago

25 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hey, i used to post on here quite a bit before i started seeing a counsellor... over the past few months my life seemed to be getting better. then suddenly my grandma was rushed into hospital and since then i feel like im right back at the beginning. when my grandma became i... (480 words)

I don't have any real close friends! It saddens me, what can I do to find some?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

25 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have no family and even though I know many many people and have many acquaintances - hundreds...I will not call any of them true friends. I feel so down about this all lately, there just seems to be a lack of nice, genuine kind people. Whenever people are in trouble or need a ... (399 words)

I'm worried I will grow old and never meet anyone and it's making me sleepless! What to do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

25 November 2008 (F)

- Im 25 years old and Im just a normal hapy-go-lucky girl with a good job, good friends and family. Im currently single, but I would say it was rather through choice. I know Im very attractive, and I hate writing it as it makes me seem arrogant but I need to let you know this in ... (288 words)

My sister in law lives with a looser and now my husband is supporting them, what shall I do??

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My sister in law is with a loser guy. To give some examples: he has a voilent terrible temper and is unkind to her, they have a 1yr old baby, he has never changed a nappy or helped with the baby. He has never held him for more than 5mins or even play with him. If the baby is ... (696 words)

Does it hurt the boy to have sex for the first time?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4701 days ago

25 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i have a few questions about sex does it hurt a boy when they hav sex for the 1st time and does it really really hurt for a girl?? my second question is when you bleed when you have sex for the first time would it be embarrasing because the blood will go on the boy ... (84 words)

What can I do to become boyfriend material and not just friend material?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

25 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I need help big time with this! Every time I start dating a woman, I get along very well and sometimes go for further dates. I had two short relationships, but no physical contact apart from kissing. I am very careful not to get physical too soon to allow my date enough spac... (223 words)

My boyfriend can go months without wanting to be touched

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

25 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend is 34 yrs old but doesnt really like romance,he can go months without touching me or been touched.wat culd b d cause?... (24 words)

I have an online friend who I just found out is only 14! Will I get in trouble for just talking to her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

25 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I started speaking to a girl on facebook because I like her style of fashion etc. Have been talking about music, hair, make up, clothes etc as no one I know is into this particular thing (which is why I found someone on facebook as no one to speak to about these styles and ... (209 words)

He says he 'has to think about things" before deciding if I am his girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

25 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I've been kind of seeing this guy for about a month now. We hang out a lot, call each other and text. We haven't told anyone about our "seeing eachother" status, except a couple of my friends know. We haven't had "the talk" yet, where we confirm being exclusive but we did ... (243 words)

He's giving mixed signals and I'm confused now, does he want me...??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

25 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i just wanna ask for some peoples ad vise here, as im completley confuesed :$ i know this guy for along time but we only started talking this year through mutual friends, and i always though there was somethin about him, i didnt even think he cared who i was untill out of the b... (218 words)

I'm so skinny and I hate it! What can I do to gain some weight?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

25 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im so skinny and i hate it. Im a 15 year old girl, 5ft4, and weigh about 6stones 9pounds. I hate being soooo skinny. I eat sooo much and im stil the skiny stik i alwayz have been. People can make such horible comments. 1)Erghhh, your arms are so skinny 2)Thats dis... (88 words)

Sick of past pictures with my boyfriend!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

25 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship with "Damian" for 2 years...we are like any other couple who has it's ups and downs....we are engaged to get married next year in the fall. We live in South Florida in the same city he lived for the past 10 years. I dont like it here (I used to ... (228 words)

Could the amount I watch porn be affecting how I get turned on with my boyfriend??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

25 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I have been with my boyfrined for afew years now. Atfirst our sexlife was great but it has slowly gone downhill. Before we got togther I had watched porn with ex boyfreinds and loved it. However when we got together and tried to watch it I felt uncomfortable and insecure. ... (128 words)

He blew me out but gets all upset when I see other guys! What is going on with him??

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a situation at work with this guy I have fancied for about a year and a half, we were suppose to meet up but he blew me out (he sent me a text saying we wanted different things), anyway just recently we have been gettng on really well, and he got really upset when I went ... (121 words)

I keep hearing my parents having sex and it puts me off! What to do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

25 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some advice, I keep hearing my parents having sex and it's driving me mad, I know it's natural and all that but it is freaking me out. It's actually putting me of sex. And why do they always go to the toilet once they have finished???... (49 words)

Does it matter or not if a girl isn't a virgin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

25 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, i would like to know whether does matter if a girl is virgin or not...I had few relationship before and i did have sex with those people.My current girlfriend is not a virgin.She had one relationship with this person that she thought her love of life and she did ... (98 words)

I'm circumsized, will I be able to give a woman pleasure eventhough?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

25 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - well im 19 and im still a virgin and im scared if ill give a woman pleasure she desreves.and ive been readin that a circumsized male can give a woman pleasure than alot say that isnt true.so i go a big penis and that wont help even if its big its still circumsized.so since im ... (79 words)

What is the best way to get close to this guy?? I really love him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5631 days ago

25 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, Well i'm in that common situation, where i have very strong feelings for a guy friend (who i have only known since September). I told him a few weekes back, but he rejected me (apparently because he wants to get back together with his ex) However, to my friend he cou... (201 words)

How do I get older women to take me seriously?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

25 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Why are older women so reluctant do date young guys? I've been trying to get an older women for two months now I've gotten NOWHERE. I've never had problems getting girlfriends my own age, but whenever I hit on a woman in her 30's or 40's she doesn't take me seriously or says ... (126 words)

My girlfriend always keeps texting other guys when with me. But when she's out with her friends she tells me she can't text me! Why am I so low priority to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

25 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, Recently my girlfriend and I went on a break, we've gotten back together and things are going great, however there's one thing that has really started getting annoying for me, she's constantly texting. Now she's pretty attractive, so over the course of a week she'll g... (142 words)

Is he just playing us both?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

25 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So it's only been 2 months since my boyfriend and I broke up. He is the love of my life, my first boyfriend. HE means the world to me. I am still very close with his mom and dad. So close that although he is seeing someone else right now, that they want me to come over for ... (288 words)

How can I avoid taking drugs again when around my old friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

25 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - so recently i started hanging out with some of my old friends, and when they really knew me we were all in the drug scene together (smoking pot every day alone or in combination with other drugs) but after i moved i got a new girlfriend and we had a few party months, and a year ... (205 words)

I worry over my extremely unregular period! Anybody had similar experiences and/or know what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

25 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I started my period at the age of about 12. My periods have never been normal, I have them every other month as opposed to every month. Not long after I turned 16, I noticed that I hadn't had a period for about 3 months. I went to my doctor, who said that it was probably stress ... (218 words)

How can I tell if she's truly in love? And how can I certain her about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5631 days ago

25 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - what are the sign i can derived or notice if my girlfriend is truely in love with me.and also,what are those things i can do to sertify her.... (28 words)

We have unprotected sex regularly, how come I don't get pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

25 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya i seriously need help :( well basicaly im a 15 year old girl i lost my virginity at the age of 13,and now im 15 ive bing having sex with my partner on a regulr basis(every weekend) on a saturday but the thing is we hardly use a condom but what i need to know is how come i ... (84 words)

Can you love somebody and cheat on them? Should we stay together or split?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

25 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - well its been about 3 weeks now since she's been home from the vacation im still unsure what exactly happened while she was there with that other guy but i cannot quit thinking about it , she had told me on the phone that we would just have to see how it went when she got home, ... (148 words)

My husband has 2 children with his mistress and I feel lost and confused, what to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

25 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been married for 20 years and we have 3 children. throughout my marriage my husband and I has had our hands full of ups and downs. I've had three affairs and he's had one long term affair of 15 years. He's forgiven me and I've forgiven him. At any rate, my affairs were my ... (447 words)

Do all girls bleed their first time? And what contraceptives work the best?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5631 days ago

25 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my borfriend are going to have sex fer da first time well its my first time, but im afraid that im going to bleed. Do all girls bleed on their first time?? We want to know wich type of condoms work the best and which pregancy pills work the best? Any advice ... (58 words)

I just realized I'm 6 months pregnant! Can I do anything now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5631 days ago

25 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I had sex(for 1 min) with my boy friend without any protection..I had no idea about pregnancy after sex because I was mad after my boy friend...But I am realising it now after six months...Till now I had no side-effects...Is it risky for me???Can I do anything now????... (48 words)

How should I go about getting divorced with the least amount of pain and what can I expect for custody?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

25 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Here's my situation. I am getting a divorce, me and my wife were married in Alaska and lived there for 1 1/2 years, we now live in Ohio and have lived here for 1 1/2 years. We have a 3 year old daughter. I am the only one who works and it has been that way since we got married. ... (115 words)

Why don't I want sex with my boyfriend any more??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4388 days ago

25 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and 3 months now. He is the only guy I have had regular sex with. Every time he kisses me I get claustrophobic and when he tries it on with me I get annoyed and it does nothing for me at all. I am now only having sex with him because he ... (220 words)

My insecurities are looming again... help!

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there guys. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 9 months now. I got with him just a week after spliting up with my ex boyfriend (he dumped me because of my insecurity and jealousy). I didn't really have time to get over my ex, but I liked this guy as soon as I met him ... (420 words)

Break up money trouble?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

25 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hiya, I've recently had a relationship break up which has been very difficult. It was me that did the breaking up and obviously the feeling wasn't mutual so my ex seems to have been rather bitter about it, this of course I understand. However we own a house together. When w... (323 words)

Feelings for a friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5631 days ago

25 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - What's the normal time a girl should wait around on a guy? The only problem is... this guy is my best friend of 6 years..I feel like I am losing him It all started when he admitted he had feelings for me(I had no idea).. then I admitted I felt something for him a few years ... (206 words)

I'm ashamed that I went through his private conversations.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

25 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in this relationship for about a year and a half. He is married but since the start he repeated that he is in hell and is trying to get out. He convinced me to start this relationship by saying that things will be ok soon and that we will be together in public. He ... (267 words)

Are there consequences to having sex 3 times a day?

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Before me and my fiance got engaged he was never asking for sex, only when it was the right time, now we're going insane... sex three times a day? Are there consequences to doing it this much? Is there a reason we're in this phase? O_O even though i love the sex just ... (58 words)

What can I do for my boyfriend who was molested as a child?

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have been together with my boyfriend going on 3 years now. We're both in college and have been together since high school. He admitted to me about a year ago that he was molested by his babysitter's son while in elementary school. This happened multiple times and I ... (411 words)

We plan to marry in January but I can't forget that she has been unfaithful, please advise.

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25 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Sir, I’m happy to stumble upon your website. I have a fiancée whom we have dated for 6 years 3 months. I really love this girl and she claims to love me too. We arranged to get married early January 2009. All the marriage arrangements have been made. I discovered this ... (169 words)

My boyfriend's brother and I have become really close - what would you do?

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i have a 23 year old bf and i'm 18, my bf has a 19yr old brother. The brother and I have become quite close ever since we were introduced, we spend a lot of time just talking But now i really feel something between us, like a spark or something and he feels it too though w... (173 words)

Do you think what we have done is wrong?

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I've been in love once when I was 2nd year college and we broke up after to years for the reasons we don't understand and it's hard for us because we are to far from each other and maybe we are not really meant to be... then after that I never felt in love again for so long ... (518 words)

I have the chance to lose my virginity with a girl I have been chatting to over the Internet - should I go for it?

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25 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a virgin but I've got the chance to loose it to a girl I've been chatting to over the internet. We are planning on meeting in a hotel and spending the day "doing it" She is lovely to chat and is well up for it even though I'm a virgin but I'm not very attracted to he... (104 words)

Should I leave him because he doesn't love me after 6 months?

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'd be really grateful for any advice you could give me as I'm not sure if I am overreacting. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 6 months. He is 39, I am 34. I told him I was falling in love with him recently and he replied that he was not in love with me and wanted t... (249 words)

Can losing your virginity make you more confident?

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25 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Can loosing your viginity make you more confident? I ask this question because a mate of mine used to be really shy and worry alot about what people thought of him but when he lost his virginity he became a totally new person! (in a good way) I have the chance to loose min... (84 words)

Did I tell my friend the right thing? We talked about her on/ off relationship.

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25 November 2008 (F)

age - a girlfriend of mine called me the other day to tell me of a situation between her and her lover of almost 6 yrs. she then told me that it has been on and off for the past year. with arguments about other women etc.. she told me that they were to get together this past weekend ... (238 words)

My ex wants us to be close friends after the break up - but I want to move on. Is this mean?

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25 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - well we broke off becoz of her family problems. now that we have decided to remain friends,we had reduced alot but this girl still wants me to call her atleast once a day. we are having hard time to accept this friendship and keep going back and forth after the breakup. bu... (172 words)

All three friends like me - should I go ahead or withdraw as to protect their friendship?

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have three friends who are all interested in me,at first i thought it was two of them interested in me but after having a chat with one of them,he opened up and told me they were three him inclusive but he had to withdraw bacause of wanting to save the relationship he has ... (153 words)

She lets me stay over and sleep in her bed - but sex is out for now - why could this be?

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25 November 2008 (M) age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I recently went through some rough patches, i.e. she moved me out of her house her parents own that I moved out of my place to live in almost a year ago. Now we are together still and she lets me stay over and sleep in her bed, but will not let me touch her ... (99 words)

He will surely want to return to me as it usually happens and I always give in - but what should I do this time?

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, im a single mom aged 23 with two kids. the kids dad died in a accident 4 years ago when they were just babies. i live alone with my two kids in a lovely home. i had 2 relationships since the death of him, the first one i finished as i didnt feel ready to move on with a ... (489 words)

Are the chemicals released during sex causing me to have a high tolerance for noise?

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - For some reason, whenever I have sex for 20+ minutes, I cannot hardly hear afterwards! I mean, I can have a conversation with someone just fine (it's just a little harder than usual), but I always feel like I cannot hear the TV or hear music that I might be listening to. ... (99 words)

My work mate think I'm out of his league and can't get into a relationship at the moment - what's going on?

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Something has started between myself and a work mate. Am now really confused. We haven't slept together, his said he thinks I'm out fo his league and has never been out with a girl like me. Says he's met me and all his barriers have been knocked down. Last night came out ... (82 words)

I'm not sure if I squirted or if it was urine. Or did I squirt? And is it normal for female ejaculation to be as thin as urine?

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've only been having orgasms for the last 4 years, and when I first started, I would sometimes pee b/c I didn't know how to control my pelvic muscles. In any case, since then I think I have realized that I can have squirting orgasms. However, I still sometimes wonder... (244 words)

I want to make a move but I'm scared of rejection!

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have got this male friend for +- 8 months now and we’ve known each other for years but we only started to be close recently. We keep in touch regularly and I really enjoy his friendship. Now I am starting to have feelings for him, and suddenly he makes me feel nervous. He is ... (93 words)

Should I wait for him or should I stop hoping

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25 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this guy that I like and I'm afraid to tell him I like him. We had this date like night where we went to dinner and a movies. Honestly, it was suppose to be two friends hanging out, so thats why I don't know what to call it. It was normal at first and there weren't any ... (174 words)

I'm not sure about being intimate with my long distance guy!

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, just need a bit of advice please if anyone can help. I met a guy on a chat site just over a year ago and have met each other twice since then. We live approximately 150 miles apart and both work shifts so meeting is quite a challenge. we talk and text regularly admittedly ... (99 words)

If I quit masturbating, will it help my 'performance'?

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25 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a gay 18 year old male and I use to constantly masterbait to porn. Recently I was with another guy and I wasn't able to "perform" because I would lose my erection. I was embarassed and I honestly masterbaited earlier that day. I was wondering how I could change from being ... (81 words)

Back in the dating scene and confused: should I have called HIM?

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Can anyone throw some light on my current situation please? I am new to the dating scene after ending a very long term relationship so I'm not good at this. I met a guy last Sunday that I thought was quite attractive. He is a close friend of a close friend of mine. I didn’... (319 words)

How do I make him miss me?

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i really want my ex back, but because when we first broke up i did the typical girl thing and panicked and text him and rang him so he didnt even get a chance to miss me. he said to my friend he thinks we'd be back together if i hadn't have done those silly things, but it p... (108 words)

Am I being unreasonable just because these mates are girls?

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has a few girlfriends. He has actually slept with one of these girls but says it was a drunken mistake and that they are like brother and sister. He has this other girl mate who is only 23, she calls and texts all the time. I can accept that he will have other ... (221 words)

I don't want to be a dad!

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25 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't want to become a dad at 15 years old but I what to have sex with my girlfriend, we both want to but we don't want kids yet, what do I do.... (34 words)

What exactly is "friends with benefits", please?

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25 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi. What exactly is friends with benefits? All sounds a bit immature to me! Is this a normal sexual relationship based on denial so that no-one gets 'hurt'? Many thanks.... (30 words)

What are the odds that my hymen was broken during a rape kit when I was 6?

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I had to have a rape kit completed on me when I was only 6 years old. They did a pap smear (HURT INCREDIBLY!! I still remember the pain) and then inserted a speculum, too. I don't remember whether or not I bled afterward. In any case, I lost my virginity when I was onl... (151 words)

IS she no longer interested???

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25 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Well I've dated this girl the last week or so, she started being quite forward texting me every day asking how's my day going and stuff, this was before we actually dated, which I found a bit forward but thought nothing of it. This girl also suffers from depression which she ... (443 words)

Is this lust more than love?

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my bf foor 8-9 months now and we had sex in the 7th month of our relationship, I'm 19 and he's 23. Yes it was great and he said it was worth the wait. Now the thing is, ever since we slept together he seems to be full of lust rather than love, I might be read... (164 words)

I have a high sex drive and it is a huge struggle for me - what could I do?

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25 November 2008 (M)

- Okay here's the deal, quite simply I have a high sex drive and my boyfriend has a low sex drive. We love each other and have no intentions of breaking up. The difference is sex drive doens't really affect him a great deal but it is a huge struggle for me. I don't know what to ... (129 words)

Did I miss my chance? Should I tell her how I feel?

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25 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - First of all, I'm sorry for how long this is! It would mean a lot to me if you would read it all and give me your advice, thanks! - - - I met this girl over the summer while on an outdoor experiential type program. Almost on day one I knew she was something special, ... (649 words)

Is my BF out innocent flirting or something much more?

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've had sneaking suspisions about my boyfriends 'friendship' with a girl he works with whom is also a married woman for some time now. So yesterday I thought I would get to the bottom of it by getting into his email account and looking through his sent and deleated items ... (249 words)

He makes me feel guilty for wanting to break up, even though I'm pregnant with his child!

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear All, I want to break up with my BF and I am 38 weeks pregnant with his first child. Every time I get up the nerve to and even actually do it. He finds some kind of way to make me feel guilty about my decision. We never spend time together, he is never here and we n... (171 words)

Am I a virgin if I have used "man like" toys during masturbation?

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is something that has been plaguing me for ages . . . I have never had sexual intercourse with a man, but I have used man-like toys during masturbation and my hymen was ripped/broken. Am I a virgin? Sorry if this question is a bit graphic, but I cannot seem to find... (98 words)

Long distance relationship... seeking advice.

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25 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - So here is a dandy. I met a girl on the net about a month ago. We met on a video chat website, and at first we just talked, you know the normal 'hi, how are ya's' But we quickly started sharing pictures and falling for each other. There is an age difference of about 4 ... (219 words)

Does he really mean that he loves me?

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend told me last night that i had the key to his heart and dat he really d0es love me and dat im da best gf he ever had i did really appreciate it and i love him alot but me and him had a deal about him not getting high and just found out he did it today but he ... (87 words)

Going from relationship to friends and how to get it back...

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25 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - How do I tell my best friend I am in love with him after I limited our relationship to friendship over a year ago when my ex passed away?he is the one who got me through it and I realize finally he is the one but he has a personal crisis going on and I don't want to make ... (76 words)

Why did he beg me to stay if he was going to leave me to wait for her?? What happened to us?

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, i could really use your help. In my junior year of high school i had a class with and worked with robert. we got really close and all through my junior and senior year (his senior and first year of college). we knew each other before that but we weren't close. he ... (928 words)

Was that too harsh?

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25 November 2008 (?) age 30-35 - All the names here are fake I went to this school dance with my friends. I ask my best guy friend, Alex (who I have a crush on) to dance. I kept stepping on his feet accidentally. Later after the dance I over heard Alex talking to his bud. Friend: So you dance with (my n... (151 words)

Can I get pregnant if I've miscarried and had an abortion?

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - If I had an abortion and a miscarriage, can I still get pregnant?... (13 words)

I hacked into his email account... how do I tell him?

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so my boyfriend went to another state for thanksgiving with his family and he started acting weird he wouldnt call me and when I called, one night his brother answered and sang and hung up.... then I called back, he answered and I heard a girl in the background and laughter ... (143 words)

Have I been dumped?

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i want to know what i should do about my boyfriend that hasn't called or texted me in 2 days. he has never done anything like this before. i dont understand what is wrong with him plz write back ... (42 words)

Her first time with her ex he was really rough and hurt her very badly. How can I reassure her I will be gentle ?

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25 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - my gf has been giving me blowjobs in replace for sex since shes not ready but is prefectly fine with that but i know shes afraid because her first time with her ex he was really rough and hurt her very badly she soon broke up with him and fell for me. i know i cant force her ... (98 words)

What's the right Christmas gift?

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating a guy for 2 months now, everything is going well. The problem is i don't know what to get him for Christmas. He has everything he needs, and i want to get him something special. Any Ideas??... (40 words)

We just broke up and I'm feeling depressed... what should I do?

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25 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I've just broken up with my girlfriend of 5 months but during this time the relationship was very serious. Today I received a text saying she wasn't ready for a relationship and we were over. I've tried to meet her and phone her but she's just completely ignoring me and I'm ... (66 words)

Is it because of rough sex that I'm getting sore after sex?

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So, my ex and I got back together about 3 weeks ago. Since I haven't been on birth control in a while, the first time we had sex I used the Plan B (Morning after pill), the following weekend we ended up using a condom and he morning afterwards I noticed I was bleeding a bit, ... (189 words)

I want to break up with my girlfriend. she doesn't cook, doesn't clean, is messy...I want her out !

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25 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i want to break up with my girlfriend. she lives with me and has no where really to go if i break up with her. she is a sweet girl. we lived together for about three months and things just aren't goin the way i thought they would. she doesn't cook, doesn't clean, is messy, and ... (86 words)

Is there something I can do to strengthen the relationship?

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I love my guyfriend who's 18 years older than me. He is very nice to me and very mature which surprises me that he's not already in a relationship. He seems to like me a lot. Last time he hugged me it felt a little romantic. I've known him for a half a year and see him about ... (147 words)

After 6 years his wife still won't sign the divorce papers. Wouldn't it be better for her to let it go ?

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I really need some advice... I feel like my boyfriend is pulling away. we've been seeing each other for almost a year and things are wonderful when we're together. Currently we live 3 hrs apart, but we talk daily! The problem is his wife! They are legally seperated- but she ... (349 words)

She dumped me via text, can I get her back?

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25 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend dumped me today after 6months by text message. what can i do to get her back?... (18 words)

Should she get back together with him AGAIN?!

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - my bff and her boyfriend have been dating and breaking up 5x in like 1 year and a half. He always breaks up with her because of the other guys in my class. He keeps asking to get back together with her. Should she get back together with him AGAIN?!... (50 words)

How do I make him go?

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband told me tonight that he doesn't give a s**t about me....I have wanted this to be over for a long time. When I spoke to him on the phone, I told him that if he feels that way, he should just go (he hung up). We have no kids, and the only thing we have is the house. ... (159 words)

I switch between liking boys and girls... is this normal for being bisexual?

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25 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, although throughout my life I have definitely been sexually attracted to woman, my feelings towards men are starting to come out now. If i was completely gay this would be more of a problem for me but since I'm bisexual I feel like I can just ignore the homosexual ... (122 words)

Confused... does he love me? or her?

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys, quite new to this but really need help on this one! I have asked everyone I know for their opinion and now I am asking you! please help!! When I was at college 2 years ago I had a best friend there who just also happened to be my "friend with benefits". He was cons... (872 words)

He lost his sex-drive. How do get it back ?

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am so confused... and need some help. I have been with the same man for 4 years. (He is 21 I am 20) We were sexually active soon after we got serious, we would fool around a lot, but not much sexual intercourse would happen because I wasn't on birth control. I am now on the ... (167 words)

Could a large penis have done this to me?

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently started talking to one of my ex boyfriends from when I was younger. Having sex with him always hurt a little, because his penis is very large. It had been a long time since I had sex, I would say about a year, and we had sex yesterday. It was very intense and a ... (235 words)

Out of the blue, she says she's pregnant with my husbands baby!

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for over six years now. We sepereated back in December of 06 and got back together in July of 07....Been together ever since. Before we seperated we had two children that are now six and four. After we got back together I found out I was ... (303 words)

Is it possible to have a baby without having sex?

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - is it possible to have a baby without having sex?? plizz anwser!!... (15 words)

His sister hates me, what should I do?

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi my name is kimberly and im 17 and me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 10 months and his 23 yr old sister hates me! shes really jealous of the girls her brother dates and she always tells me mean things and i answer nice back to her and it makes her more mad but ... (69 words)

I can't figure out my cycle and it's driving me insane!

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I'm getting very frustrated and angry. I'm 15 and I got my first period about 2 years ago, so my cycle shouldn't still be irregular, should it? Well I can't figure it out! 2 months ago, It took me 32 days to get my period, and then it only took 19 days the next time! It's ... (98 words)

She's mean to me, but people still tell me she likes me!

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25 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - i liked this girl, she is flirty with me sometimes and treats me very mean most of time. she is usually very nice to other people (even those who tease her). her friends tease her about me saying she likes me(?) She is mean to me, but she nags me and stuff she doesn't do to ... (81 words)

Will my hubby record me?

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I'm a 25 year old, married woman. For Christmas this year I have bought my hubby a digital camcorder with the intent of letting him film me pleasuring myself and the 2 of us together. We are both quite adventurous in the bedroom, but I am a little worried about how to let... (148 words)

Girlfriend having thoughts of her past relationship that was bad.

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25 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been dating the same woman for about 3 months now and everything at the time appeared to be going great until today she said we needed to talk. Granted we have been talking for about 3 months and started talking a little over 2 months after her break up with her ex. Now ... (568 words)

He always gets me the best gifts so what can I get HIM for Christmas?

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so here's the deal, I'm 18 and me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 2 years. He is 18 also and he is not into sports, has no hobbies, does not wear jewellery, and thinks I have bad taste in guys clothes. So what on earth do I get him for christmas?? He always g... (100 words)

Should I allow him to date a girl whose mother may or may not approve?

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My 16 year old son (junior in high school) is dating a very nice 16 year old girl. The problem is her mother does not know. Quick history: during their freshman year, Kevin and Lindy, dated briefly. The mother was aware of the relationship and very friendly towards Kevin. Kevin ... (150 words)

I feel as if I'll never be completely happy in my marriage.

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25 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Here's my situation. I am 25 years old. Me and my wife have been married for 3 1\2 years and have a 3 year old girl. Our relationship is rocky at best. I love her but I don't get the same respect from her as I give. I have put up with it for 4 years now. She is rarely in a good ... (237 words)

My boyfriend's libido has decreased...

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months. We are very much in love with one another. When we were first getting to know each other and the topic of porn came up, I let him know that I was not fond of it as I believe it is degrading to women and I had an x who watched ... (547 words)

Female advice wanted please

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25 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - So, I recently got back together with an ex-girlfriend. This has only been going for about a month though. We have been dating on and off for the past year and a half. In that time, she got back with her another ex-boyfriend for a very short period of time, but it kept us apart ... (441 words)

Are there a lot of open marriages out there?

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Are there a lot of open marrages out there? I should be more clear married couples that don't want to divorce but stay together as friends, parents, and partners ... but not romance or sexual partner. I'm in a relationship like that, I'm divorced and I have met a man who is in ... (172 words)

What are the side effects to cinnamon?

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Can someone be allergic to cinamon? and if they were what wud the sud effects be ? ... (22 words)

I don't know how to act with him!

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex-boyfriend is coming to my town again but I don't know how should I act with him! cuz I'm afraid to see him again! Also I don't know what he's gonna say or he's gonna think abou me! I need help to figure out! WHAT SHOULD DO I??? ... (56 words)

Why does he keep coming back into my life?

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so I was in an off/on relationship for about 7 yrs. and finally I cut all ties with him last year. I stopped answering his text and calls. I had to because it was becoming a habit..he knew how much I cared for him and we would stop talking for months then we'd start up ... (179 words)

Is he really imposing his views on me and making me change my view on certain things...

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25 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey people I'm just wondering why my boyfriend is soo demanding... i know it sounds weird but my boyfriend kinda changed me in many ways that I didn't even relise how much I was changing... I gave up a lot for him as in i was planning to save my virgintiy for my husband but e... (182 words)