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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I get him to cum on me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

14 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it wierd for a girl my age (18) to be thinking about her bf "finishing on her"?.... lately I've been thinking about this A LOT after I gave him head, the first time he wanted to cum in privacy and I didn't think of it much but now I really want him to do it on me, is this ... (82 words)

I'm having problems with THE PILL. I'm bleeding erratically.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

14 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need some help please. ive been taking the pill for about 6 months maybe. on and off. first two months to get used to it and going on holiday etc. but i often forget sometimes. i have an alarm and things that goes off but my routine is always irratic so i dnt always h... (516 words)

I don't want to look silly by telling him I like him when I don't know if he feels the same way!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

14 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I really like a guy I met on holiday in July. He showed me around for a few days and other days he sent his friends because he was working. we are now very good friends and speak online, less now due to exams. otherwise we would talk for hours. I really like him but don't th... (135 words)

Attracted to a female friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5571 days ago

14 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my boyfriend broke up last week and this girl I like is bi and really gorgeous and really pretty, she lives with her mom but her mom is leaving to go out of town for a week on a business trip. her mom said she could use her toys while she was gone. She and I have be ... (104 words)

My friend always drags me and my boyfreind into her relationships arguements!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5544 days ago

14 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello aunts sorry if this is long! Im 16 and have been with my boyfriend for around 9 months. Everything is great, and for once i can actually say ive fallen in love with someone that makes me truly happy and feel good about myself. But my problem is my friend keeps bringing... (430 words)

What can I get her as a gift to show her I care?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

14 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Christmas is coming, and there is this gal whom I really love. I have fallen for her. I hope there will be something between us soon. So I need to know what can I give her as a gift that will show I care and I look forward to something and she is the best thing that ever ... (64 words)

Does anybody know how to make a home made sex toy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

14 November 2008 (?) age 26-29 - Does anyone know if it is possible to make a home-made sex toy? Because of my age I'm unable to buy my own and I definitely don't want to ask my mom or dad to get me one. Does anybody know how to make a male home-made sex toy?... (51 words)

I can no longer stand my girlfriend's dad!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

14 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I can no longer stand my girlfriend's dad! He is a great guy but he stresses me out so much and the last 2 days i have had this bad stomach ache because i have been so stressed!..He no longer wants me to put my arm around her and hold her unless she is on her period! He says ... (168 words)

Kissing.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

14 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey Everyone!! I need some help. Tomorrow I am going to a friends house, i have reciently started going out with a girl. She will be there and it will be the first time we have seen eachother since i asked her out. Tomorrow we will maybe kiss. I'm really nervous.....i have ... (84 words)

I have never felt about anybody like I feel about her, and this night has just confirmed my feelings.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

14 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm struggling here. I'm married for 9 years, 2 kids, together just for the sake of the kids, no real love or passion any more. Problem - work colleague (married also). I had the hots for her, a couple of works nights out where we were close (holding hands, cuddle whe... (348 words)

Do I stop talking to him altogether?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

14 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - We were together for months but he told me he was too busy with school and work. I said that I wasnt going to do it anymore without a proper relationship and he asked me to be his girlfriend. A week later, he told me that his grades were too low and he doesnt want a gf. He kept ... (236 words)

Sex/Love

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

14 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been thinking if I should lose my virginity to my boyfriend that I've been going out with almost a year. He's a virgin too, we're both 15 years old. Since I'm his first love and he's mine to we want our first time to be with each other but I don't know if I'm ready ... (106 words)

Do I go and tell him how I feel or let the best thing that's ever happened to me slip away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

14 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I split up with my boyfrend six months ago and it was me who decided to end things between us due to a lot of things. However recently I have missed him loads. I haven't ever felt thay way about anyone in my entire life. I still love him sooo much and I want him back more than ... (115 words)

What can I do to boost my nerves before it's too late and he's gone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

14 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What do I do? I am in love with this guy who loves me too, only I don't have the nerves to tell him I love him too and I can feel him slipping away but I just don't have the guts to admit I love him as much as he tells me he loves me. What can I do to boost my nerves before ... (72 words)

Every time he is near I just want to grab him, hug him and kiss him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

14 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - FORBIDDEN LOVE! Ok. Away back last year I liked this boy. He is only 3 months older than me but is in the year above me at school. As soon as I started talking to him I fell in love. He was the first guy I really felt this way about. He is just amazing, has a great smile and ... (305 words)

So easily aroused, is it because of my inexperience?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

14 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'll first place a background about myself, I'm 21 years old, man, I have never engaged a realtionship because I'm way too shy. When people come to talk to me I am receptive enough not to be rude, but I'm very quiet in this too. My problem, besides the abnormal shyness... (180 words)

I found sexy girls stripping from "Youtube" on his computer!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

14 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I found online "you tube" videos of sexy girls stripping, dancing around and what not in my husband's history on his computer. So I confronted him and at first he was like well I left my IPOD in the car and went on "You Tube" to listen to music and then saw the different links ... (141 words)

Lately I feel like I am just watching my life through a glass wall.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

14 November 2008 (F)

- Hi. I'm 17 (18 tomorrow) I am usually outgoing and optimistic but lately I feel like I am just watching my life through a glass wall. I've had this feeling before a few times since I was about 15 and it leaves me drained. I'll have maybe an hour or so a day of feeling OK, but ... (273 words)

Why would he want head again right away? Was I not good enough?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

14 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - ok so the other day i gave head for my first time to this guy...before he asked if i ever did it and i said no and he said ok i'll teach you. so yea he said it felt good and all and eventually he cummed then like 30 or 45 minutes later he asked me to do it again and i said why ... (128 words)

Why are some age differences okay in dating, but not others?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

14 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Why is it ok for a 50 yo man to date a 30 yo woman, being 20 years apart? but yet a 21 yo man can not date a 16 yo girl, when that is only five years. Or even a 18 yo man and 16 yo girl. If they got caught the guy would go to jail...Why is that?... (60 words)

I keep thinking he is leading a dual life, but I have no proof.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

14 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I went on holiday back in July and an incident occurred there which, for some reason, I keep dwelling on and I'm not sure why. We have been together for nearly 1 1/2 years in a long distance relationship. Up until just before we went on holiday everythi... (675 words)

How can I change my masturbating up a bit?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

14 November 2008 (?) age 26-29 - as a guy, i love to masturbate but doing it the same way can get boring after awhile. any suggestions to change things up a bit? any tips are fine with me.... (32 words)

My boyfriends cum tastes horrible!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

14 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriends cum tastes horrible! he is really keen for me to give him head and as much as i want to satisfy him i can't stand the taste, i have never given head before him so i didn't know what it tasted like but im sure it can't be this bad. i dont know what to do!... (62 words)

I have fallen for this total stranger so much that I think about him daily.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

14 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was working the other day and this guy and his mom came through my lane. I do the usual "did you find everything ok?" thing, but the I noticed how cute the guy was, so I was a bit extra chatty. They wanted to purchase some hunting gear for the ammo they got I needed ID, the ... (625 words)

How can I control my raging hormones?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

14 November 2008 (?) age 26-29 - hi, i feel like i have a personal problem. to put it simple im horny allllll the time. i get hard so easily. i feel that its not a good thing to be hard a lot and get hard easily. im always in the mood to masturbate but i can not always do it because i dont have anything to ... (114 words)

I believe I’m dating a nice but much less sophisticated woman here.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

14 November 2008 (M) - Should I stay or should I go? I've been dating this gal for only a week. A little background, we are both mature adults 40+. She is nice, attractive, and seems to have a good career. The problem here; is she acting too needy or just lacking in social sophistication? ... (308 words)

Is she acting too needy or just lacking in social sophistication?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

How can you tell stomach aches from period cramps?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

14 November 2008 (F)

- Hi, I'm 17 and I was wondering how do you tell apart period cramps from a stomach-ache? Because sometimes I'll get stomach pains and I can't tell, therefore I don't know the best way to treat it, eg. whether to take anti-acid tablets and not eat for a while or to take ... (61 words)

I want to forget him, but I think he's the love of my life.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

14 November 2008 (F) age 51-59 - I don't know ,if I know my own feelings, but I got a big problem. I'm married , we have children, and a good life, but , i can't forget my first love , 20 years ago , I'm obsessed with this, and I tried everything but it hunts me. I live a double life, sometimes I fantasiz... (126 words)

Do I still have a chance with him or did I mess up big time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

14 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - dear, whoever wishes to help me im a 18 year old guy and i have been speaking to a 22 year old guy for 3 weeks now, we get on really well. we arranged to meet up yesterday and we did, he was really great a bit shy but great. we watched tele at his for a while the general n... (383 words)

How can I come across as shy not rude and deal with his family on Christmas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

14 November 2008 (F)

- my bf mum has invited me round for a pre christmas dinner. there is going to be my bf his parents 3 brothers his brother fiancee 2 uncles 1 aunt and his gran. ive met his brothers parents brother fiancee and 1 uncle. my worry is i will freeze up and seem rude coz im not speak... (152 words)

My husband has always had porn in his life and I'm aggravated and tired.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

14 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i'm tired and confused and need help. i've been married for 15 years, my husband has always had porn in his life since i've been with him, everytime i find it i cry i get furious and he says he'll stop and does for maybe a week or 2 till i find more. i know that men look at ... (348 words)

Should I tell him how I really feel? Or should I keep it to myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

14 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some help on how i can get over my ex boyfriend. Arhhh i love him so much, but i have to get over him, i dont think there is any way that me and him could get back together and make it work, because no matter what we try it just will not work! He still loves me and i kn... (269 words)

What is it about him that makes me this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

14 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - We live far from each other.We are not friends. I’m afraid to go in the same room that he is in, my whole body physically shakes (even if I just look at his pix) and I get this weird feeling inside, it’s very hard to describe it but it scares me. When he is near me, I find ... (164 words)

He turned on me. Why did he do all of this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

14 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Three years have passed and i think im miserable i want relationships. When i was younger i was in awe of this other boy, he was sporty and good looking. I so wanted to be like him, then he started to say some things (sexual) and like at first i was scared of him as i didn't ... (184 words)

I lost my brother, broke up with my BF. I'm so lonely... how can I get him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

14 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend told me he still loves me but he wasnt happy so i broke up with him. the problem is i miss him so much, he says he still loves me and he thinks about me all the time. i just lost my brother 6months ago and im feeling deeply alone now that me and my boyfriend broke ... (85 words)

Do me and this man (my teacher) really talk in metaphors? Opinions please.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

14 November 2008 (F) age 30-35 - Hey guys, Ok, this question may be long, but I need some opinions from you because I really don't know what to think. My teacher of perfomance is 48 and i'm 18. I know what are you going to say and i know it's illegal to have relationship, because he's involved in my school. ... (426 words)

I don't know if I should leave my marriage.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

14 November 2008 (F) age - I don't know if I should leave my marriage. We have no fun. No sex, no good times, nothing. No adultery, or drinking, or beating what seem to be the only valid reason, to leave a marriage. It is a dilemma, because, why would I leave, if I'm not abused? Yet, I'm totally ... (173 words)

Should I tell my best friend or let HIM tell her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

14 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm falling for my best mate's boyfriend but I don't know how too tell her. I told him and he said that he is mad about me! and we got together but he still hasn't dumped my best mate, he said he is waiting for a right time but we've been together for about over 5 weeks now ... (87 words)

Do YOU believe in destiny?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

14 November 2008 (M) age 41-50 - I was wondering, how many people believe in destiny. Do we have a destiny, so things will happen to us, without our wishes, or we are in control 100% what happens to us. I'm asking this because some people are so convinced that they can totally be in control, and others a... (89 words)

Can your hymen tear from being fingered?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

14 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Can fingering tear your hymen? Just curious.... (7 words)

I think I might be getting into an online relationship. Thoughts and advice anyone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

14 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I think I might be in a situation where I could end up in an online relationship. Can this ever work? It's just we are opposite sides of the ocean. I think if were geographically closer it really could work. I have been doing some serious flirting, and she seems to like it... (78 words)

Is there ever a point where breasts are too big?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

14 November 2008 (F) age 30-35 - My breasts are 34F's but I'm still young and they are still growing. I also have big nipples. Will boys be put off by this? Is there ever a point where they are too big?... (35 words)

My first time having sex... is all that foreplay needed? What positions are best?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

14 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been thinking about sex lately and my bf has too and weve both talked it over and decided to this weekend D: i know im ready im not scared of anything but what am i suppose to do... just lay there? ive read up foreplay before sex and ive given him plenty of blowjobs but hes ... (82 words)

I bled when he fingered me. What's wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

14 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, i need some advice. I've been with my boyfriend for just over 2 month now, and last week he fingered me for the first time [i've never been fingered before] and i bled, then he done it again today and i bled..is this normal? why am i bleeding? I'm not anywhere near my ... (82 words)

I don't know if I have the strength to keep the baby...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

14 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Split up with my husband almost a year ago after 16 years of marriage, met this guy who is 20 years senior and whom has a partner of 4 years. At the beginning it was nothing serious and I appreciated the attention I got from this very wrong relationship (or affair I should ... (538 words)

Is there a chance I could be pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

14 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i slept with my fiance 4 days after i had my period. is there a chance i could be or get pregnant?... (22 words)

His Mom hates me, and I mean HATES me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

14 November 2008 (F) - hi. my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 9 months now. i love him to bits, you cannot imagine how much i love him! he's that person everyone loves. but, the major problem is that, his mum hates me. like seriously HATES me. it was 4 months ago that i was over at ... (457 words)

I told him I liked him, he kissed me, then he backed off because he's been hurt before! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

14 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I had an amazing weekend with a guy that I've liked for a while. I finally got the courage to admit to him that I liked him, and after chatting about the situation he kissed me. I was over the moon and thought that eventually it might turn into something. I hadn't heard any... (194 words)

I have never orgasmed during sex, only through foreplay, any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

14 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have never been able to orgasm during sex, I can through foreplay but not intercourse - any advice??... (19 words)

Will we be safe enough with just a condom?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

14 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Quick question: Me and my boyfriend are going to have sex, however I am not on the pill or anything, will we be safe enough with just a condom?... (32 words)

Do you think he will be able to tell I am a virgin at 25? He has a bad reputation too...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

14 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice, any gratefully welcome. I am a 25 year old virgin (yes 25), I have never ever had a boyfriend (never), I don't really know why it just never happended, anyway, a guy who works with me has started to show an interest and we flirt a lot (like all the ti... (179 words)

I hung out with her a few times, but now I'm seeing her friend. Should I bring up my concerns?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

14 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Alright, let me start with a little back story here. I met a girl (A) through a few friends of mine, we hung out a few times, I never really felt "it" with her, so we just became friends. A few weeks back, a friend of hers (B) from home came to visit her and I totally hit it... (329 words)

I feel everyone I met and have fallen for has let me down, will I ever be happy, maybe with the new guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

14 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Will I ever be happy??? I have never had much luck in relationships, my first long term partner from age 17 cheated on me after 2 1/2 yrs then split up 3 years later to find out he had cheated several times, the second relationship was a great guy just mr safe, never cheat bu... (258 words)

I'm so confused, I've been seeing him for the past 3 years, but lately contacts are rare. Should I leave it at that? He has a family.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

14 November 2008 (F)

age - I guess i already know the answer to this question, but i need to hear it from someone else really. I have been seeing a guy for the last 3 years, we met online, chatted, then met, and ever since we have been really good friends, he is/was my best mate. He was attached, wi... (636 words)

Should it 'burn' when we have sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

14 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i am married and we have sex often (like 2-3 in a week)......but the problem is that, it really burn in there. it did when we just got married (a year ago, but just thought that it will be fine when i get used to it. But the problem seems to be there...which eventually makes me ... (61 words)

Could someone please tell me what to do about this long-distance relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

14 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, Need some major advice. In a Long Distance Relationship (UK to Australia) with my girlfriend, and have been for a few months. We only made it official about 3 weeks ago but neither of us have been looking at other people since we last were together, 2 and a half mon... (436 words)

How will I find someone to feed my hunger for sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

14 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i am ananya iam 25..not married yet...still virgin..i masterbate myself often is it good for health...i had a boy friend but he didnt satisfied me cos i didnt co operate wit him...wen ever he tries toinsert his penis inside my vagina i used push him out..cos my vagina is ... (93 words)

She broke up with me and broke my heart after promising to be with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

14 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - well this is a long story i'll try to make it short but plz try to be a bit patient and read the whole things cos i really need help. i'm a 22 year old guy livin in asia i'm not a very social person cos i was bullied most of my childhood by class mates and others. so i use... (674 words)

Help with ex girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

14 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I cheated on her while on drugs and drunk (which is no excuse, i know) but what happened happened. I love her so much and after it happened she saw that I had asked the girl if she was clean on myspace message and asked if I did anythign with her I said no at first but then ... (355 words)

If I am on top should he be sitting or laying down?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

14 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend wants me to go ontop but we dont know how to position ourselves i cant seem to keep the rythmn either help plz should he be laying down? or sitting up ... (33 words)

Whats a good way to calm nerves?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

14 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm just wondering if anyone knows any good ways to calm nerves down. My biggest problem is my nerves and i get stomach aches because of them. I need a way to calm down my mind and relax. but i just have so much trouble trying. I need a way to get my mind off something, but ... (91 words)

How can I help my son gain confidence and find love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

14 November 2008 (F)

age - I am concerned about my 29 year old son. He is a lawyer, very well-educated and a sensitive, interesting person. He has a pleasant face which looks very charming when he smiles. He's witty and funny, thoughtful and generous. He is short (5feet 6) and this bothers him ... (122 words)

My wife and I move in and out of each others lives and homes. What do I do to make us both happy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

14 November 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Need help! Don't know what to do. I married this woman. We met at college and she chased me. We went out and then married twelve years later. In between I kept moving out or taking jobs away but I always ended up coming back to her and she would always take me back. Then we ... (394 words)

I want to keep in touch with my ex, but am not sure if that is wise

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

14 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I received a letter from exboyfriend yesterday. He lives in Canada and it a long distance relationship. He break up with me back in january because things were not going ok between us. It hurt me a lot because when it happen I wanted to spend my life with him. Now I hav... (358 words)

I am on the verge of jumping on a plane and see my ex, but he has a girlfriend, would I be mad to do this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

14 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Please help! I am still in love with my ex boyfriend. We split up 11 years ago but I still miss him! We have met up with each other occasionally over the years but I have not seen him in two years. He lives abroad so it's not easy to meet in person anymore. The last time w... (168 words)

If we both put effot into a LDR, will it work?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

14 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18 years old. I moved from idaho to kentucky for my boyfriend we have been together for almost a year. I put my life on hold for him for 5 months now. Well I decided to go to school back in idaho. So I am going home. Both of us have been stressed about me leaving so we ... (142 words)

I am tempted to befriend this creepy person again, but only to get int ouch with his friends, any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

14 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay, I had this friend a couple of years ago who I used to hang out with. We originally went to school together, and years later bumped into each other in a gay club (I'm not open about my sexuality to any of my friends). I then broke down, sobbing and told him everything, ... (563 words)

My boyfriend is texting another girl but says they are just friends, should I be worried?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

14 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for just over 4 months. He's really lovely to me when were together and always says he loves me. But a few weeks ago i found he had been texting another girl. I found messages on his phone from her and at first flipped out as i read them in the wrong ... (475 words)

My boyfriend has another girlfriend but I can't decide to leave him!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

14 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i can't decide because i'm blinded with my strong love for this person...my boyfriend right now has another girlfriend...i am the third party...the situation is killing me because im the second priority.how can i deal with this...i can't let go of him... (42 words)

My girlfriend is shier than I, how to initiate a first kiss?

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14 November 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi guys, few questions for you... How do you snog properly and do you have any tips? And how can i take it further? And do you think i should at 13? Also if my GF is more shy than i am, how should i initiate a first kiss(snog)? Any help will be very greatly appreciated! Thanks ... (61 words)

She likes me too but isn't fully over her ex. How to make sure I don't lose her?

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14 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey. er i need help, Basically im in love with this girl, or at least its nothing ive ever felt for anyone before. She just broke up with her boyfriend of like, a year, a week ago, and after liking her for 3-4 years i decided to tell her. I got a great response, she fe... (107 words)

My boyfriend who has cheated on me wants me and our kids to move in with him. Do I finish my school fiirst?

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14 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid I am 19 years old with 2 young children.I have been dating the father of my children for 3 years now.He cheated on me a few years back but, we made up since then.Now he tells me he has to go work in the same place he cheated on me in,while I was pregnant with our... (146 words)

Her text said I love you then she turns up with 2 guys and has me thrown out??? What gives?

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14 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I was seeing a girl for 7 months, she moved away to work 70 hours a week, so I went there with the intention to live and work with her, to save our relationship. We ended up arguing about the job which after looking on the net about, found out it was a sales cult. So she went ... (206 words)

Long Distance Relationship - But My Boyfriend's best friend is a girl

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14 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. He broke up with me after he left, and then begged me to get back together with him. While be were broken up he went on a trip with another girl and told me that she had a boyfriend and that I had nothing to worry about. ... (275 words)

Was I destined to be miserable?

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14 November 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I need help, I feel lonely and isolated in my school. I feel like I can't connect with people and I feel like they always avoid me.... was I destined to be miserable?... (34 words)

Do I leave him and risk losing custody of my child?

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14 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some help in choosing whether or not to be with my fiance anymore. I'm 20 and he's 23, we have a baby together and we've been together for 2 years now. Before anyone judges me on having a baby, she was no accident. It was a decision that was made for me due to cancer in ... (294 words)

I'm crazy on her but she seems crazy on someone else!

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14 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am terribly in love with a wonderful girl. She makes me extremely happy and I love every minute with her. I am a year ahead of her at College, and I met her the beginning of this, her freshman year. She has a boyfriend of 3 years, back home and was struggling with a long ... (235 words)

Should I be more open minded and not show him that I'm jealous and interested?

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14 November 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - The man I'm dating likes to go out together when he has time and he likes to communicate but he doesn't say to me about a serious relationship. He has told me that he doesn't want a commitment and he just wants to have good time. Although I am looking for someone that would be ... (324 words)

Is it okay to hang out with him or is it wrong to hang out with a friend`s ex?

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14 November 2008 (?) age 30-35 - So there was annoying guy who was dating of my friends but he cheated on her (hard to believe I use to thought he was cute) with her best friend (it wasnt me!!) She was very upset (in a way angry) when she found out. They broke up after that. She got a few cat fights with her ... (202 words)

Is being too nice... wrong?

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14 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - People are always telling me that I am too nice... so what's wrong with being too nice? I have a boyfriend who I thought liked me for me and likes to be with me because of my personality and looks, but I'm starting to get the feeling that he is taking advantage of me. What do I ... (58 words)

How do I not screw up a chance at a new relationship?

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14 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So I've been single for over three months now since my ex boyfriend cheated on me and then dumped me. The worst days are behind me now (I think) although I still feel very sad at times. Out of the blue this guy in my class sends me a message saying that we've never hung out a... (299 words)

Should I write him a note to ask if he's okay?

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14 November 2008 (F)

age - Two months ago while doing my daily walking exercise I saw a man standing in a corner with his dog and he smiled and said hello, I said hello and we and my daughter continued walking and on our second round we bumped into him and the dog barked at us and he called us and asked ... (268 words)

His firstborn child is with another woman!

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14 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help me! I have been back dating my current bf for about a month now. Long story short, we originally met 2 years ago, got engaged too fast and realized we needed to slow things down, so we broke off the engagement and took sometime apart, we got back together about 6 ... (251 words)

He has trouble reaching a climax.

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14 November 2008 (F)

age - Hello: I am a sixty five year old female and my husband is sixty six. We have been married for 45 years and have always enjoyed sex with one another but recently we both have been on a lot of medication due to sugar diabetes, high blood pressure etc, it is my husband who is ... (130 words)

When the sperm enters the egg, does the girl still ovulate?

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14 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - when the sperm enters the egg, does the girl stop ovulating that day or do she still ovulates ...... (19 words)

Was he just being nice, or is there something more to it?

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14 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm asking for your advice. A guy I know, who works at the same place as me, spent 2 and a half hours chatting to me through facebook chat. He was chatting from 2230 till about 1am. He has to be up at 5am for work. We get on really well, always taking mick out of each other ... (118 words)

She's acting like an amorous school girl around me and she has a common law spouse

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14 November 2008 (M)

- I'm uncomfortable around a fellow student. Ever since I met her she's been acting like an amorous school girl around me and she has a common law spouse. I pretended I didn't hear her or clue in to what I interpreted as "advances" but eventually I started avoiding contact... (408 words)

How can I not let my emotions get the best of me?

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14 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi!!! I've been seeing this guy for a while now and we're starting to have some communication problems 1.) B/c he's busy w/work he owns his own business plus work a unpredictable job on call! He tells me he's not seeing any1 else but @ times I think he is. I've been go'n ... (107 words)

Does the areola size really matter?

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14 November 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - ok so heres the thing, im happy with my body and i like how things are portioned overall but theres one problem. My breasts are a 36C and i like the size but my areola [the part around my nipple] on them are like 2 inches and kinda dark sometimes and my nipples are tiny. i cant ... (125 words)

I feel like I should just move on, but I can't!

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14 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone. We are back together for few weeks after a major fight. Since then, we don't meet each other much. She always missed my calls and not calling back. She said she is busy with her work. She works at night but recently, she said she work at day time too. She... (228 words)

I fear my family will not accept my b/f if they find out I have HPV b/c my b/f just found out he has genital warts!

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14 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I just recently found out my b/f has genital warts and neither of us has ever cheated so I don't know who gave it to who, and my biggest problem is that i'm sooo close 2 my family and I NEVER want them to find out... i'm scared they will play the blame game and not accept my ... (177 words)

I need a new girl in my life, but first I have to get this one out!

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14 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - How do I get over somone who cheated on me. I see her alot too, around campus, which sucks. I still have feelings for her, for some reason, and I think about her more than I should. It's been over a month now and I still think about her everyday. This shit is killing me. I ne... (75 words)

I need guys, men and life-experienced women to help me!

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14 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have prob. My mums best friends son is unpredictable. He stares at me in his rearview mirror and then looks away.Took few pix of me secretly. He and I confessed of our feelings in the past but funny that evening I was told in confidnece by my mum that his mother told her... (234 words)

Let him go or keep him around?

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14 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay so I am beyond frustrated with this guy i'm dealing with. i don't even know if its dealing, there is no title. We met about 3 and a half years ago and we live a distance of 4hrs apart. For the last couple years we've basically kept in touch and seen each other here and ... (216 words)

She said she likes me but she's still in love with him!

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14 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Basically I've been having this on and off relationship with someone for over a year now. The problem is she was/is in a long distance relationship with someone from another country that she only sees once a year. He was her first b/f, practically first everything.... (139 words)

My fiance is giving me an attitude and the silent treatment!

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14 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - i have problem with my fiance and give me an attitude and silence treatment all the time. i love my family very much and i would do anything for them but i dont think my fiance is not taking it very well. i decided to help my brother and asked my fiance say that if i can move ... (157 words)

My wife cheated on me... and it's on tape... but I love her. What do I do?

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14 November 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 31 I’ve been married for almost 4 years and I known my wife for 6 years and we have a beautiful 3 years old girl, and we have a second one on the way, but I have learn something very horrible and I do not know what to do, I truly love my wife and my family A few d... (395 words)

I'm sick of trying to make things work, but I can't see myself without him!

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14 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, ive been with a really nice guy for over a year now. we met almost two years ago and from the second we met, we got on really well. we met up a few times and sort of acted like a couple, went to the cinema's etc.. but then after about 4 months of meeting up we decided to ... (630 words)

I'm scared to grind... what should I do?

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14 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - so im 14 and i went to my school dance the other day. all of a sudden the guys started grinding. i live in a small town and the guys only were grinding with this small group of girls who almost all the guys like. me and my friends were dancing together and that was fun. b... (97 words)

I just found out I'm pregnant from a one-night stand! What should I do?

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14 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello everyone and cupid, im 18 years old and my adult life is goin great, but sepemtember, my friends, azlynn and alanna, invited guys from murfreeboro, of course they were from a band called [moderator removed identifying details]. We all got a hotel n spent the night wi... (234 words)

My first time was great...is there something wrong with me?

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14 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey. urm, well here goes.. me and my boyfriend have been together now for 7 months, im 16 and he is 19, we decided today to have sex for the first time, my parents are out until sunday so we had a free house, and it went pretty well, exept ive heard first times are meant ... (196 words)

I ended a friendship with an online friend but can't get over this missing him

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14 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This will probably seem to many as a ridiculous question. But, I met someone online, he is the same age as me ( he is he really is) and we became friends...at first more then friends then we just decided to remain friends because we knew we were never going to meet. I've ... (225 words)

My girlfriend is not ready for sex... what can I do?

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14 November 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I want to have sex with my girlfriend as we are living with each other since last 3 yrs i told her i can use condom while doing sex but yet she is not ready for doing sex wht should i do?... (42 words)

Could my girlfriend be pregnant from mid-day sperm?

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14 November 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - alright. new to this so i'm going to be blunt. I masturbated about mid-day and just kinda wiped myself off. the old once over with some tissue. then later on, unexpectedly, my girlfriend of two years came over to visit me and we ended up having sex without a condom. is there a ... (69 words)

Where are all the decent men who don't lie? Do they exist?

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14 November 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Where are all the decent men who don't lie? Do they exist? If they do where would they be or how do I find them?... (25 words)

A serious relationship scares me...

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14 November 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this guy for almost a month and a half, and it seems like it's just a roller coaster of emotion. The first time we started going together, we were both really excited, and everything seemed great. Then all fo a sudden, after a week, I got scared, and brok... (179 words)