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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm shy when men approach and talk to me, can you help me out here please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm kind of shy and when men approach me and talk i'm scared that my body language is telling them i'm not interested even though I am, because they don't ask me out and I can tell they want to. I want some of these guys to ask me out but i'm so shy. How can I make a man see ... (139 words)

I hate feeling like this because I feel like I'm a bitter prude...so please help me.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

24 June 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I hate teen sex comedies. I actually hate the way sex is presented in most western media. And I want to get over this, I want to be ok with it, I wanna enjoy it if it's possible. For example, all this "American Pie" things... where regular ugly guys' lives are about "scori... (685 words)

Is it an orgasm I'm experiencing or not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am a girl and I am 21, I have only had an orgasm once and it was when I first met my current boyfriend and he was eating me out, I had had a few drinks so don't remember. Anyway, I can't seem to have an orgasm, not even when he touches me or goes down on me. After touc... (167 words)

How can I let my boyfriend know, again, I am still uncomfortable with his mouth odour without hurting his feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5368 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok.. so my boyfriend has this problem that his mouth has a bad odor sometimes. We have talked about it and he start doing some things to improve it (mouth wash and so on) and then he stops or it doesn't work too good (the effect lasts about 20 minutes). Sometimes when we are ... (116 words)

We've not had sex in 2 months, should I leave him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 yrs, and we have not had sex in 2 months, should i leave?... (21 words)

I have never had an orgasm with him, he just isnt doing it right. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so I've been dating this guy who I've been on the ups and downs with for a bit. Well, I've noticed that for the past few times, we can't keep his d*** up. I feel fuuny when it happens cuz I never know what to say, he get's frustrated and when i ask him what's wrong, he'll ... (144 words)

I just need help getting over my feelings for my best friend's girl.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

24 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - A while back my best friend introduced me to his girlfriend. We instantly hit it off, and we've become close friends. But recently i've started to like her a hell of a lot as more than a friend. I would never betray my friend. Both their friendships mean everything to me, I wo... (74 words)

How do you get over the love of your life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 June 2008 (M) age 41-50 - Straight out. How do you get over the love of your life.... (15 words)

I have a problem with my eyes, can someone help please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Yesterday my eyes were good. However, when I woke up the next morning my right eyelid was not the same as my left eyelid. Usually both of my eyes have double eyelids. Now my right eye is just a mono eyelid. Why is that? Will I get my double eyelids back?... (53 words)

If he took off with my daughter I would be devastated! Please help!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a daughter that is about to turn 7. Her father and I split up in November 2005. He has not helped us at all. He has moved on and married another woman that has 3 kids. He has seen my daughter a handful of times and all but one my older son who is 17 went along. Now ... (169 words)

I don't know how to approach the topic of sex, without hurting his feelings.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been goin out with my b/f for almost 2 years and we never have sex. He put it off at first saying he had too much to drink, or that he was too tired, but then he eventually told me he had a problem with gettin it up 'coz he's so nervous about messing it up. I don't kn... (92 words)

Can someone please help me tell him its over??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to break it off with my on again off again boyfriend....okay here it is... I've been with this guy a few years we have a kid together... in a nutshell tons of love, drama, sex lies, abuse and last but not least b.s...one minute he luvs me the next I'm a whore. I... (178 words)

How do I choose and who do I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Please help me. I have a boyfriend of 4 years who i am in a long distance relationship with, although we do see each other at least twice a week and talk everyday. he is willing to give up everything and sell to move to where i am and buy a house for us and my 2 kids. i do l... (283 words)

What are some ways that I can 'subtly' flirt with him??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys, I'm in need of some advice. I'm 15 and i recently started working. I fell HARD for this guy i work with and some of my friends there say he likes me back. But i'm still not convinced he likes me. What are some ways that i can see if he likes me back? I'm not really... (156 words)

Is it embarasing for a guy not to be able to continue sex because his penis isn't har enough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend's penis goes limp sometimes when thrusting inside me. Sometimes he has problems getting hard, most of the time when it happens he blames it on him being hungry. It's true that during those times we usually haven't had dinner or eaten for the whole day. Does an ... (89 words)

Why after we dated for a year does he not speak to me anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I was a single woman for two years. I decided to give myself another try with a man after being by myself. The relationship was good in the beginning. I felt that I finally found a good man. We became good friends first then it moved to a more romantic relationship on a higher ... (470 words)

Which movie should I suggest for my first date with the guy I like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - heyy ok so here it goes...im 14 and im going to the movies with this guyy tht ive liked for a while and i need some advice as to which movie i should suggest like i kno in most cases a chick flick is totally off limits...but i dont wanna end up seeing a dumb action movie thnx f... (64 words)

If I loose weight, will it help me attract guys?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - People tell me that I'm not fat, but I would like to lose some weight because the extra pounds on me revolt me. I am going to, for the sake of my health as well as attracting guys, but what I wonder is: if I were to lose weight and improve my appearance, would it help me ... (77 words)

What do I do? I'm a newly wed (4 months) and I'm not getting sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

24 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - hi im unsure what to do im newly married 4 months ago we had been together 3 half years we have a 3yrold little boy together when we got together we had an amazing sex life but for the last 18 months or so my partner has just lost interest in sex i love to have lots of foreplay ... (104 words)

Why don't girls like me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

24 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I posted a question on here a few weeks ago and people suggested advice. Now though, I feel like the situation hasn't got any better despite me taking some steps to improve it. I still feel like girls just aren't interested in me as anything more than a friend and don't ... (487 words)

How do I break up with my violent boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I break up with my boyfriend? Bear in mind: 1. He really really loves me and this'll break his heart 2. I cheated on him, he doesn't know yet and I don't know if I should tell him because he said he'd kill me if I cheated 3. He gets violent when he loses control of... (108 words)

Does my teacher have a crush on me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

24 June 2008 (?) age 26-29 - i'm in seventh grade now but, i still have a crush on my sixth grade science teacher i think he likes me does anyone else? details:i think he likes me because he's always talking to me, smiling at me and when he high fives me he like holds my hand. plus he smiles whenever my ... (92 words)

How do I convince him I will change? How can I get him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend just broke up with me 4 days ago and I really can't let go. We've only been dating 3 months but I felt a huge connection with him. Maybe it was because he was older (i'm 22, he's 34), or maybe its because of something deeper. But the reason that we broke up is ... (171 words)

I want to make love and he doesn't, what am I doing wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - me and my partner have been together for two years the problem is that i want to make love with my partner as frequently as possible where as he doesn't and it really upsets me when i ask him whats wrong he says nothing. what am i doing wrong as i'm scared this will ruin our ... (58 words)

Is my partner taking me for a fool?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 June 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi i've been with my partner for 8 years, we have one daughter aged 6. I recently asked my partner to marry me and she declined. Some time later after reading an article in the paper i became aware that i had no parental responsibility, because of my daughters date of birth and ... (113 words)

I've not had a period for 2 months! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im nearly 16 and ive already lost my vaginity to a older lad, he's 18 and we've known each other since i was 3, his mam and my mam are really good friends too. i've now had sex with him over 5 times and the last time was 2 months ago and ive not had a period for them 2 ... (88 words)

1 year on since heartbreak, and I haven't yet found anybody... Should I be worried, and how can I feel better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. Well, here I am, one day before the first anniversary of the day that my first love broke my heart. And I don't really know how to feel. Our relationship was long distance, lasted 2 years and we met up 13 times over that course of time, sharing a week or two t... (446 words)

What do I have to do to get her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ive known this girl for about a couple months now and we just started hanging out outside of school, i really like her and she knows it, but her friend told me she just wants to be friends, but when i hang out with her she flirts and talks like she does like me, im not the most ... (108 words)

I have been vomiting and with a lot of nause but just had my period... could I be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - am i pregnant? i have been vomiting i always have a nausea feeling late at night and early morning and earlier in the month i was having bad cramps and my breast are getting bigger by the day!!! but one thing my period has just came on and im still feeeling nausea!!! ... (53 words)

Why do some people have absolutely no luck in love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Why do some people have absolutely no luck? I'm 29 and I'm beginning to wonder what's wrong with me! I've been interested in guys and had a series of disappointments, but I've never been interested in someone who reciprocated. I really care for my best friend, maybe even ... (227 words)

Should I let what people think of me including what my family thinks of me get in the way of having sex?? I'm 14

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello im 14 and me and my bf want to have sex but its a long distance relationship so we wanna have fone sex till we can actually meet up and have sex. I'm worried that my parents will be disappointed in me for loosing my virginity at 14 ive researched all the things that could ... (104 words)

Why can't there just be enough guys for every girl to have a partner?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I would really love to find a boyfriend, but I'm so frustrated. If a guy is desirable, handsome, smart sweet and knows how to listen... those guys are always taken, or they're gay. It seems counterintuitive that someone like that would be single and available! It really ... (109 words)

What is he trying to tell me??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - HI Lovely Aunts, So I've posted on here a lot lately and still need advice. My ex called me last night before he went to bed and we talked about going to a wedding I have to attend in August and then he invited me out to see a concert with him later in September. Am... (113 words)

I want to start this relationship all over again!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age - He's too busy... His wife cheated and preferred others...so did my husbands. I have "trust" issues from 2 failed marriages...they preferred others over me. I think he too is afraid to let a woman get close to him. He divorced for 27 years and me but 4. We started dating... (221 words)

Any straight guys know what its like to give a blow job...?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 830 days ago

24 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - does any curious straight male know what it feels like to suck a cock? Please tell me as I am interested in experimenting with my best mate.... (30 words)

Am I feeling guilty...? What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend who i have been with for two years. when we first became involved, i was in a relationship of three years. i told him i broke up with him but continued that relationship for the first year of my relationship the new guy. And i cheated a few more times. ... (93 words)

Been with my bf for nearly 2 years...but lately it seems as the the slightest thing he does annoys me...Help!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now, i really liked him for ages before we actually started going out...but he sort of messed with my head - saying he liked me then going out with other girls etc, he really hurt me! However, we finally got together and ever sin... (261 words)

How can I get a latin guy to notice me as a girlfriend?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4354 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm so scared that I'm never going to be happy. I would like to have a boyfriend, but I know very few people like me, who are attracted to people of a different culture or background. I'm an American and Floridian of mixed British and European Spanish ancestry, but I've ... (322 words)

Porn or prostitution? Which is worse?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

24 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Is porn more degrading than prostitution? Just wondering what peeps opinions are.do you think that been a porn star or working in a brothel is more degrading? serious answers please... (30 words)

Why do straight people develop romantic feelings for a friend of the same gender?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

24 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Does anyone have a psychological insight into why one can easily develop sexual/romantic feelings for a friend of your own gender even if you are usually straight? ... (27 words)

Will taking anti-biotics reduce your chances of becoming fertile?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Im so sorry for bothering all you wonderful people. This is what i should have included in my previous question posted a few hours back. I just want you guys to confirm the reality to this: will taking anti-biotics reduce your chances of becoming fertile, and what other side ... (81 words)

Happily committed but am dreaming of a guy I worked with. What's going on here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 22 and in a happy committed relationship to a wonderful man. However, I keep dreaming about contacting this guy that I used to work with. Nothing ever happened between us but there was intense flirting between us and there was an intense sexuality between us. Sometimes ... (72 words)

Who do I choose-my lover or my wife of 31 years?? Advice needed badly!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

24 June 2008 (M)

age - hi there. my story is long and complicated. but to give you an idea of what i am going through. here goes. i am married for 31 years with 2 grown up kids. the relationship i have with my wife is good at this time but hasn't always been this way. she flies of the handle and ... (307 words)

He's the ONE for me--but he's taken! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've tried to move on with my life, but I'm so afraid that my chance at finding true love has passed me by. My best friend and I live in different countries (he's from Mexico and I hope to eventually return) but we became best friends when I studied abroad and met him in ... (283 words)

My large breasts are a real hassle...should I get a breast reduction?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This is kinda awkward 2 ask without sounding totally full of myself, but here goes. I have really big boobs, which i hate by the way, and my friends boyfriends always comment on. It makes me uncomfortable. They kinda look fake because im slim. They are 34e. My best friends ... (214 words)

My fiancee told me things about her past. I wonder..can I trust her, in the future?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

24 June 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I am in a long distance relationship and recently got engaged. There is no doubt that I love my fiance. There is however something that I have never shared with anyone and wanted to know what your advice would be. About two weeks after startting our relatioship my fiance ... (227 words)

What are my chances of having a 2nd set of twins with a different dad?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey,any advice,comments or research greatly appreciated... Ok, I am nearly 30 years old and have had identical twin boys for my Ex who's dad is a non Identical twin, My fathers 1st cousin's are identical twins and I know theres twins far off in my mums family... Thi... (97 words)

I just know that he's "the one" but I don't know how to make him see that!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - What do you do if you love your best friend, and you know in your heart that he's meant for you, but he lives in another country, and he has a girlfriend that he loves and thinks of you only as a best friend? I'm going crazy because my friend is so special to me and I am so ... (116 words)

I fear its too late, he pulled away and hasn't come back, what do I do ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been single for 3 yrs and in Feb. I met someone who is perfect for me, the first 3 months were Bliss,we were together everyday , he put everything and everyone aside for me, and just this month that all changed, I have only seen him twice a week in the beginning of the ... (259 words)

I would like to win his heart but I'm scared that I've lost him forever!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Several years ago I studied abroad in mexico and I became best friends with a young man at my school. He's very special to me, and I think I love him and I always harbored hopes of being together. I'm in the USA now but plan on eventually returning to Mexico and I thought ... (477 words)

"If you don't like it, just leave!" sign of non-appreciation in relationship?

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24 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This question was inspired by all the people who, like me, googled or felt the need to post a forum titled" My boyfriend does not appreciate me".It was a bittersweet experience to know that i am not alone, although i wish no one in the world felt this way--Im glad there is ... (609 words)

Is it safe to have sex if you are taking anti-biotics?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys! I never asked my doctor the last time i went.. I just wana know if is it safe to have sex if you are taking anti-biotics? Won't it affect your partner's health or your's in any way? Your reply will be very much appreciated.... (47 words)

I think my boyfriend may be gay !

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I think my boyfriend may be gay but I'm sure he would never tell me the truth if I asked. We have been together for almost 8 yrs. We were broke up for the good part of one year because he was arrested for threaten to kill me. He has since been through anger management and we ... (205 words)

What do you think is the best way to ask a guy out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - what is the best way to ask a guy out?... (10 words)

I cheated on my boyfriend and I don't feel guilty. Do I have no morals or is it a reflection of my crumbling relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Why don't I feel guilty for cheating? I've been with my bf for a year and things have been really bad between us for a while now, we can't seem to fix it but he won't let me break up with him. Last night I ended up giving a blow job to a guy from work, it was planned and we h... (107 words)

I'm worried my first time will hurt!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 June 2008 (F) age 30-35 - Im thinking of having sex with my boyfriend , but im worried about the pain. I have a horse and therefore i ride alot , ive rode all my life and im also very sporty ive been told that by doing sports that that can make it less painfull ? so do you think my 1st time will be ok ... (72 words)

Should I be insulted, my husband tells his friends he was attracted to me because of my breasts?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - would you be insulted if your husband told a group of people we were out with (mainly his friends) that the first thing that attracted him to me was my big breasts and was the reason he approach me. I felt a bit like it was disrespectiful, i mentioned it to him and he said ... (76 words)

After 3 years I still just want to talk to her... any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

24 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hey my peeps! Listen to my soppy story and see if you have any advice for me. Well im turning 19 in July.. This is my first year out of school. When i was in Grade 11 me and this other girl named "J" started talking through texts and calls. she had o boyfriend and they were ... (424 words)

I'm still dreaming with my ex but I am now married! I don't know what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My problem... I keep dreaming of my ex-boyfriend. I've been married for 3 years and have a child with my husband. I love my husband very much and I always have. I dated my husband before I dated the ex that I am dreaming of. My ex and I dated for 3 years and it was a great ... (250 words)

I've started feeling really paranoid about him checking out 'XXX' sites

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 19 and i just needed some advice. Is it ok if he browses for girls to check out on sites such as myspace? And he also goes on a site where people put up sexy videos and pics. I have a feeling he gets off to them. I dont know if i should be both... (108 words)

I feel like there are three people in the relationship and it's making me insecure!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I have been dating the most amazing guy for 6 months. He is wonderful kind, and we are madly in love. However during my previous relasionships ex boyfriends were unfaithful to me on more than one occation. I've come to terms with the past, and if anyone is going ... (252 words)

I'm not willing to become a hermit because of my mother's own problems. Please help!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I posted a week ago about how I had been struggling to move on with my life after being betrayed by my friends in the past -- best friend started dating my ex two weeks after the break-up when I was very depressed, then both were malicious to me several times in the following ... (745 words)

Is it okay to stop taking birth control pills for just a month.!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello.! I was wondering if it's practical to stop taking birth pills for just a month seeing as my boyfriend is going on vacation that long (this Thursday 26th he's leaving) and I don't see my need to take it because, I obviously won't have sex. In the leaflet it says 'y... (157 words)

Should I lose my virginity before going to Uni?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

24 June 2008 (F) age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 18 and will be going to university in September. I'm still a virgin, although nearly lost my virginity with a boyfriend last year. He was also a virgin and was too nervous, so it was impossible. I'm really worried about the rumours about Fresher's Week, that ... (109 words)

Is there a site that offers support and motivation for teens that are trying to get fit and improve their health?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello aunts :] This isn't really a relationship question, but you guys are always so much help. I was wondering if anyone knew of a site that offers support and motivation for teens that are trying to get fit and improve their health? Maybe a forum or something? If not, ... (132 words)

What are the kind of things I should and shouldn't do when I take her out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok I'm feeling a bit nervous now, I asked a girl I know out to have lunch, and maybe walk around downtown afterwards. I want things to go well so I'm asking all of you this, what are some of the things I should and shouldn't do when I take her out?... (52 words)

I'm actually having trouble making conversation with anyone as of late. Please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5784 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm interested in this guy who I kind of knew when I was in high school. We didn't go to the same school, but I knew him and his family from church. He's been out of state for a while and just got back for the summer. I'm finding it difficult to make conversation with him thou... (174 words)

How can I strike a careful balance in this friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey hope you can help. I don't have many friends and those I do have seem to care only about themselves. When they have problems they turn to me and while I am willing to help and offer advice, I often get frustrated when, once i need to turn to them, they have no time for me ... (439 words)

I'm in total turmoil and it's been 9 months now!!!!! HELP!!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. Back in February I posted a question along the lines of asking for advice on how to deal with the fact my ex of 7 years had met another guy at work and I couldn't help myself but ask questions about what they get up to. I thought it was earlier than February, but t... (437 words)

My boyfriend is begging me to have sex with him, What should I do?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

24 June 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 13 years old, my boyfriend and I have known each other since we were 4 but we only started dating last year. My b/f and i are really close, but he keeps begging me to have sex with him. I trust him alot, but i'm not sure what to do. Please help.... (57 words)

We both seem to end up using the 'When you live with me routine'...

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24 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend split up a few months ago, and got back together, we decided to really work on our relationship and spent a lot of time together, and decided we would work on moving in together, we began to get the house he has decorated. This means i've been spending ... (158 words)

Is there anyway I could work at winning him back slowly?

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24 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was seeing a guy who i still really like and can't get him out my head, he told me he could not see me but really likes me, but he has anxiety problems, and feelings for his ex. He said he does not want to hurt me as he will let me down as having hard time at the moment. ... (134 words)

I'm 14, he's 25, does he love me?

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24 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 14 yrs old and have crush on a boy who is 25-26 yrs old. I don't know if he is having a girlriend or not, but he talks with me very nicely as if he also loves me. What to do???... (44 words)

How can I make my brother's wife have sex with me?

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24 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - How I can make my brother's wife to have sex with me?... (12 words)

How do I change some issues I have with this guy?

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24 June 2008 (F)

- I think i'm falling for this guy i've hung out with, but there's a few problems i need to sort out with him, but not sure how. 1) He changes how he acts all the time - one min he all compliments, next he's pushing me into walls then he's accusing me of liking him too much the... (163 words)

I believe he wouldn't lie to me even if the truth hurt- am I being a fool?

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24 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi I met this guy at work a few month after breaking up with the father of my child. We were really good friends and we just clicked. He also has a child and a wife but they have been seperated for 2 and a half years. He is so kind to me and I know he is in love with me his a... (225 words)

I'm worried that his sperm may have leaked down from "there" into my vagina because I don't want to get pregnant!

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24 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Everyone I need help. Don't get me wrong when I ask this question but how possible is it to get pregnant from anal sex? My boyfriend didn't use protection and I'm worried that his sperm may have leaked down into my vagina. I really don't know what to do and I've been worried to ... (82 words)

A secret email account... What else is he hiding?

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24 June 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm really confused at the moment. I have a lovely boyfriend whom I have been with for many years - we both love eachother very much and he means more then the world to me. Recently I discovered he had a second email address that he had not told me about. I discove... (556 words)

What can I do? ! really hate my body!

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24 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i'm sure you get this all of the time but i'm going to ask my question anyway. i really hate my body. i have small breasts (about a b-cup) they used to be bigger (a c cup) and then they shrunk (i lost 30 pounds because i was overweight). they are still perky and a nice sha... (493 words)

My husband gets firm erections in his sleep. But he can't get one with me!

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24 June 2008 (F) age 51-59 - My husband gets firm erections ,in sleep. But he can't get one with me,or not when he tried masturbating just to try it, how it works. So it looks like something is not ok with his sexual desire, or he shot it down,for some unknown reason.He is sure ,he loves me, but its no ... (104 words)

Unsure if I love my husband more as a brother or a long term partner!!

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24 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi aunts wonder can you shed some light on my problem please? I will be married for 2 years in July we have had our problems etc but managed to sort these and had split up twice during this two years but then got back together. My worry is, i am not sure if i really love m... (345 words)

Should I be worried about what he will get up to while I'm gone?

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24 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 years old (I know my display age is wrong) and I have been with my bf for almost 2 years. I have always had security issues and problems with trust. Anyway, the other day I asked him if I could look through his MySpace just to ease my mind that nothing was going on... (201 words)

Are the good times we have worth all this arguing?

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24 June 2008 (?) - Hello all, thanks for reading. I've been with my boyfriend for nine months now and it has really been a roller coaster ride. For the first two months of our relationship we were both living in Arkansas, then I moved back to Montana to be with my family, as my mother had gotten ... (259 words)

We just click and get on completely, but I'm worried about the past violence stuff

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24 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, im in a bit of a perdictement here... Iv been seeing this lad, and i really really like him and always have, im just a bit concerned about his past anger problems.. He really is the nicest guy ever, the sweetest and the loveliest, just he's had a bit of a violent past, out ... (194 words)

He keeps asking why I love him, how do I explain?

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24 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend constantly asks why im going out with him and why i love him so much. and i cant answer becuase i just cant explain it and he thinks that i dont love him at all becuase i cant tell him why. and mostly everyone knows you cant explain true love right? and i dont know ... (84 words)

We broke up but he is now asking if I will lose my virginity with him?

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24 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am only 17 years old, I've dated a guy for only a month then we broke up. We kept talking for a while and he's always been honest to me, even when we broke up. Know were going to see each other and he ask me if i want to lose my virginity with him. Should i? Wer'e only going ... (73 words)

Is she still in love with me?

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24 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok i use to date this girl we went out for about three months everything was going ok then we broke up...it all started going bad when she told me she kissed anotha boy and me i count that as cheating...but i didnt breake up with her i stayed with her because i was so in love ... (319 words)

Is it possible for withdrawal to work as birth control?

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24 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it possible for withdrawal to work as birth control? I know it's not supposed to work. I'd like to have a baby. The problem is my bf isn't sure, so when we have sex he shoots his sperm on my stomach. I am secretly hoping to get pregnant but nothing so far. This has been ... (92 words)

It's been three years but I'm still not over her!

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24 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - How do i get over her from 3 years? I mean I worked through it and lstened to everyones advice and I have been doing that for the past 3 years, but its still very hard for me. I still have to see her at church every weekend and her friend are my friends too so its like I just ... (187 words)

Should the mother of my fiancee's kid back off a little?

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24 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Im interested in what you have to say and your opinion.. My fiancee has a 5 yr old son to another woman from years ago, before i ever knew him. She comes in our house to talk about 'their' son, which i dont have a problem with. Its when my fiancee goes out the front, with her... (236 words)

How do I approach my online friend for a date?

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24 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - This girl is sending me signals.. But I've never met her, was supposed to hangout but never did and now I dont know how to approach her. I've only talked to her through the computer and she hasn't been dating but she wants to date. I really like her can someone please help.... (56 words)

I love her and I trust her, so why do I get so jealous?

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24 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, well i have been in a relationship with this girl for eight months. I know i love her, if anything happened to her i swear i would die. And i know she loves me. I really think im the problem though. I trust her, i know she would never cheat on me. And i know she trusts me. ... (312 words)

How long after graduation should I wait to date my teacher?

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24 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - so i just graduated from high school, and turned 18. my 26 yr old ex teacher and i def have a thing for each other...its way obvious, and he's lead singer in a band and asked me to go to one of his concerts on my birthday (which i did) and i told him how i felt and he said that ... (201 words)

I don't understand, is he jealous?

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24 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy who i think likes me,but claims not to. i think he is mad because another guy said i like another dude i work with. Usually i would drop him off but today its like he didnt even want a ride because of what another coworker said. well thats at least what i think...I ... (65 words)

How do I let her know I am still interested?

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24 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, sorry if this is all over the place but theres a lot of info that i want you all to know so that you can put yourself into her shoes. thanks! My first girlfriend that i had about 4 years ago and i still keep in contact via email, even though im the one that emails firs... (305 words)

Do I need to apply sunscreen in the evening?

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24 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a question about sunscreen. Do I need to apply sunscreen spf 30 in the evening? Such as around 8:00pm and there is still a bit of sun outside. I usually excercise in the evening outside.... (37 words)

I miss the romance! Is he losing interest?

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24 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. We started out as friends and slowly (VERY slowly) progessed into a comitted relationship. In the beginning he would do such cute, sweet things for me. For example, he brought me flowers in a huge blizza... (214 words)

How can I ask my boyfriend to perform oral on me?

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24 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - What is the best way to get my boyfriend to perform oral on me? I'm not sure if he doesn't want to or if he's shy about it?? I just don't know! I preform oral on him and don't get it in return... and i really want him to do this. Any advice on getting him down there? LOL, ... (68 words)

Can love really happen this fast?

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24 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I met a wonderful woman online a few weeks ago. It took me one week to fall in love. I met her online first, and in only one round of email correspondence back and forth, we both had made one Hell of a connection. We both immediately sent our phone numbers, and talked ... (236 words)

I think I might be pregnant - what symptoms should I look for? And how can I keep it healthy?

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24 June 2008 (?) age 41-50 - i have had a hard time getting pregnent. i have had many misscariages and an ectopic which caused me to lose a tube. when i was pregnent i had to get hormonal injection shots in my butt every day and even then i lost the baby. i have never made it pregnant farther than about 2 ... (279 words)

I want to go clubbing, but I'm not quite 18, help, please.

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24 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I want to go clubbing, I'm 18 in one month, but all my friends are 18, In a month they wont be here, we are all goin away, so i do not want to miss out. Have you guys got any ideas how i can get in?... (49 words)

Do guys only like me because of the way I look?

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24 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel as if every guy that i date only wants me for my looks! Thisreally worries me. I do not have a bad personality at all. I am funny easy going kind and lots more! But it just seems that my looks get in the way! Every guy that i like or date puts me off when they start ... (96 words)

I feel betrayed and am not sure I can continue this relationship. Am I over-reacting?

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24 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok I met this lovely girl 6months ago when i was on holiday in another country. We were instantly attracted and had a holiday romance for a week. I expected nothing to come out of the relationship. Then we communicated online and she flew to my country to visit for 1 week. ... (616 words)

Who here is against recreational sex? Any antisexuals?

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24 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I know several asexuals but only a handful of antisexuals. It's disheartening that I often feel I am alone on this. While asexuality is gaining acceptance, people ridicule those who are against sex. The only sex I am not against is procreational mating. I teach abstinence and ... (95 words)

I'm worried that I just messed up our friendship. Do you think I did?

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24 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have this friend, and i totally dig her, she is awesome. She is going though a divorce and i'm being a good supportive friend. Which is so hard to do, because i have feelings for her. Well i did something stupid, i sent her an email with a poem i wrote about her. I dont know... (78 words)

How do I stop myself from developing further feelings?

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24 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I stop myself from NOT falling for or developing further feelings for a particular person? I simply can NOT for various reasons have a relationship with this person - ever! They arent related to me or anything but for various reasons I do not want to go into. Let's just... (159 words)

I always thought we had a great relationship, until now. How could I deal with this if we broke up?

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24 June 2008 (F)

age - My long time boyfriend does not want to get married. His excuse has been that he does not have a secure job. He makes business trips to Russia. By going thru' his email i just found out he has been having a relationship with his translater. He says it's internet flirting but ... (159 words)

What do all these mind games mean? Does she like me or what?

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24 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I met this girl about 2 months ago at a gym she works at. Since then, we've gotten to know each other. She's really nice, easy to talk to, and seems to be pretty much awesome. She also knows my good friend that works out at her gym as well. For about the past month, I've... (181 words)

I just found out that my fiance is a compulsive gambler, what should I do?

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24 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I just found out that my fiance is a compulsive gambler! We have lived together for over a year. It was not until we linked our bank accounts that I found out where all the money was going -- online poker! He knows how much he has hurt me and promised not to do it agai... (216 words)

I was stunned that the man I was so in love with would turn his back on me so quickly.

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24 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm really having trouble getting over my past relationship. Last year a lot of things happened--my car was stolen, I had to move homes, my boyfriend got in a terrible car accident (basically unrecognizable) and I nursed him through the entire thing without any support from his ... (389 words)

She thinks I’m a perfect husband, I'm not, I can't help cheating on her. Please help!

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24 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm very deeply in love with my wife, but I have some issues. I can’t stop cheating. I have an addictive personality. Once I do something I like I continue to do. It’s crazy because my wife has the BEST SEX I have ever had in my life. There is nothing she is lacking in that... (275 words)

I'm almost 21 yrs old and have not had sex yet, I really don't know what I'm doing wrong. Please help.

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24 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm almost 21 years old and have not had sex yet. my longest relationship was about 3 months back in high school when i was 16. i really dont know what the hell i'm doing. i'm not gay lets get that out of the way. I just feel sometimes too nervous at times. i do smoke pot mayb... (203 words)

Do you think this new guy I have been seeing may have a fetish?

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24 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I am just curious, I know there are people out there who have bizarre fetishes and such. I am wondering if this new guy I have been seeing may have one. I am curious here.....he recently set his myspace status to "I love coloring ;)" It sounds innocent except for the ... (72 words)

I am beginning to realise why these friendships were left in the past! Now, how can I make more of an impact?

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24 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am feeling extremely lonely at the moment. I feel I am forgetable and have no impact on people’s lives. I joined Facebook to reconnect with some of my old school/college friends because the last two of my circle of friends have moved away to different countries, and I was ... (641 words)

If he does love me would he be doing all these things?

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24 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Lately i have been having serious doubts about my boyfriends love for me. He says he loves me yet he no longer complements me, wont text or ring me all day unless it's necessary, hardly spends time with me, always finding fault with me, never informs me or ask`s my opinion. If... (90 words)

Does anyone have any soul searching suggestions, aside from the obvious?

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24 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Heya, i'm a bit of a mess at the moment. Basically I just split up with my girlfriend of 1 and a half years last friday (i did the breaking up). The reason being, she wanted me to spend more time with her which on reflection was completely just and fair as I had often shun... (296 words)

My friends being bullied in another school and I don't know how to help her tackle her depression!

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24 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, Although this doesn't directly involve me, one of my closest friends has got bullying problems. As in, the girls in her class - with her going to a private school - are really uptight and everyone seems to have to gang up on someone. Unfortunatley it's her turn ag... (231 words)