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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2008): By accepting that even though you love them, they are not in love with you. I know it's hard, but if they loved you, they'd be with you. Don't lose heart, your soulmate, the woman who will love you for ever is just around the corner. Take care.
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (25 June 2008):
 Read the book "We" by Robert Johnson. It will help you figure out if what you have was based on Romantic Love or not, and gives you what you need to get over her IF it is based on Romantic Love (not the same as real love).
Start there. If you do not get the answer that way, check out my autobiography From Loser to Seducer where I learn how to get over my ex-fiance.
-Frank B Kermit
www.franktalks.com
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reader, LonleyBoy1986  +, writes (25 June 2008):
OK I'm assuming here that she has broken it off with you, hence you needing to get over her. The first and most important step you need to take is realising that she perhaps isn't the love of your life after all. I know how hard that is, and I've gone through the same myself recently, but as soon as you take her off that pedestal and realise that she isn't perfect, life starts to get easier. It does take time (I'm at 7 weeks and I still find myself crying ransomly about her) but slowly things look up. Make yourself see that you are better than her, that you don't need her to be happy, however hard that is, and you will start to feel better. It's incedibly hard, but I know I will get there, and so will you. The first steps are the hardest, but things do get easier.Good luck!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2008): This is an extremeley thing to answer and cure. One suggestion I can give you is to go somewhere where you can be relaxed and distracted, maybe go to a mountain and ski or go to the forest and take a thermal spa. This will make you think less and less of him and giving it time it will make you get over him. Also try to socialize with others; that way you'll get more friends to hang out and think less of him and with luck, find someone that you like. Keep in mind, though, that this will not take into effect one day to another. You have to give it time and keep a determined mind that you will get over him.
I know I didn't say enough, but this will help you a lot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2008): if this person is the love of your life,have you tried everything to resolve the issue if you have and its over then,you after just get through the days the best you can,but you wont ever get over them you just learn to accept they are not a part of your life and it does get easier
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