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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:How do I stop myself from NOT falling for or developing further feelings for a particular person? I simply can NOT for various reasons have a relationship with this person - ever! They arent related to me or anything but for various reasons I do not want to go into. Let's just say that I can NOT ever pursue having a relationship with this person. Anyway so how to I stop myself? I am attracted to them and it is growing more; I can not avoid them at all because I see them nearly every day and will need to interact with them also. I could be totally wrong but I think there is a small chance they may be slightly attracted to me also...which I suppose me suspecting this doesnt help my dilemma (but of course I could be wrong!) Please help / advise on how to stop myself from developing further feelings etc.thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2008): You have to stand strong in your convictions that "This Is Wrong For Me." I know, that is much easier said than done. Perhaps this person has feelings as well. But as you stated, it is off limits. Keep it that way. Stay away from this person at all cost, but keep it cordial when you do see them. Look for companion ship other places. I pray that this situation will resolve it self. Keep the faith!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2008): Love isn't an emotion, it's a choice. Something you will learn when you are older. You should started looking in other directions at other guys that may be a better choice for you. Once you meet a special guy that makes you happy, it will be easy to keep things platonic with this person you cannot be with. Also, keep in mind, sometimes the reason we want someone is actually because we can't have them. It makes it intriguing.
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