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female
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13-15,
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writes:I am 14 yrs old and have crush on a boy who is 25-26 yrs old. I don't know if he is having a girlriend or not, but he talks with me very nicely as if he also loves me. What to do???
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reader, lexilou  +, writes (24 June 2008):
 He is way too old for you and just because he is being nice does not mean he loves you. He may just be a nice person. Or not. Who knows?
But you shouldnt even contemplate starting up a relationship with him, I doubt he will be interested anyway as to most men of that age you are just a child x
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reader, Annalisa + ♥, writes (24 June 2008):
 It is highly unlikely that his attentions towards you might be love: a healthy man his age will only be physically attracted to women close to his age and for love to develop, a couple need to spend a lot of time in each other's company, sharing a supportive friendship.
If you were really close and you were exeptionally mature, he might fall for you, but a relationship would never work, because a) you would have a very limited choice of common interests;
b) your respective friends would clash;
c) he will eventually want sex and you are too young to oblige, not to mention illegal;
d) your family is likely to be dead against you two going out together.
All this would eventually become too much for him and he would leave you.
So what should you do? You answer: nothing.
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reader, Smiles  + ♥, writes (24 June 2008):
 At this stage you are still to young to be dating somebody his age; it is a NO NO; you should really stay clear from this guy; go out with firends closer to your own age; dating this guy can only cause you lots of heartache and even worse it can mean problems with the LAW; as you are under age; surely you would not want that;
You seem like a very wise girl; do what is best for you; avoid getting closer to this guy or dating him.
Have fun with the younger guys!
GOOD Luck!
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reader, Jovial +, writes (24 June 2008):
 You are to do nothing. At 14 a 25years old is way over your league. Just enjoy the crush and it will soon be over in no time, remember a crush is a normal reaction to show that your hormones are in order no big deal, I mean if u have reached puberty and nature doesnt make a call we do get a bit worried that something maybe wrong with you.
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reader, Honeygirl +, writes (24 June 2008):
 Sweetie, this man if far too old for you. You need to look for friendship with boys who are in your age group. I dont think that a relationship between the two of you would be a very healthy one...
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