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writes:How do i get over her from 3 years? I mean I worked through it and lstened to everyones advice and I have been doing that for the past 3 years, but its still very hard for me. I still have to see her at church every weekend and her friend are my friends too so its like I just wish I can go somewhere and start something new. I'm really getting tired of being down al the time its like I'm so strong that I barely even think of her for a month and then all of sudden when I see her face it just sucks, and I can't cry anymore because really I have no more tears. I did all the no contact and sacriface but I don't know I mean everything is going great I graduated and I'm getting ready for my birthday in july and also I'm going to college up north so I won't be able to see her but is this normal, I mean its been three years since can anyone give me an opinion or advice on this? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2008): Love hurts. I recently went through the same thing, and seeing that girl rips your heart out. This is because you sacrificed one of the hardest thing, a type of intimate love. The feelings and thoughts will still be with you, but you will heal over time. That stinks because we are people who want things right away, but this is something that just cannot just go away. The purple girls advice is great. Just keep in the word and continue to seek God. You will be fine.
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reader, theOC +, writes (24 June 2008):
I don't think you did the no contact and sacrifice that you were suppose to do. You still see her at church every weekend and your friends have a link to her. You need to sever that link in every way and over those three years I can see why you haven't completely gotten over her.
If there is a link that exists, then you're not going to get over her. The move to college up north and your birthday coming up should be a change. Congrats on graduating and deciding to go to college. I think the college experience will be great for you. In my eyes, it will completely sever ties with this girl and I believe that you will take that next step towards moving on. Best of luck to you! Study hard and party hard!
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