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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I'm kind of shy and when men approach me and talk i'm scared that my body language is telling them i'm not interested even though I am, because they don't ask me out and I can tell they want to. I want some of these guys to ask me out but i'm so shy. How can I make a man see i'm interested in them. I just sit there and freeze up when a man talks to me, I keep my eyes down. I do talk to them a little and smile, but I know they cannot tell I am interested because of my terriable nervousness. Can anyone can give me some tips? I know I need to make more eye contact, but what else could help? Thanks for any help or input you can give.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (25 June 2008):
 Practice with men you are comfortable with and who ain't dating material and just talk with them.
Doing it in a setting where you are comfortable like work or at your sports/hobby club might help as well.
Everything to get your mind used to talking to a man while at the same time giving your mind something else to focus on then that you are talking to a man.
Many a shy person opens up when they are talking about their favorite subject.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (25 June 2008):
 How are you with your girlfriends and male friends? Do you freeze up then too?
My suggestion is to focus on the man talking to you and think how you would respond to a good friend.
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