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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What Does taking things Slow really mean???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 30-35 - my bf and I were broke up for almost a month now, but we have been hanging out the past few days, and chatting..We were together for 3.5 years, and broke up because of communication basically. Anyway we had a lot of fights, and we both know we need to talk to fix it. But ... (217 words) 

He calls me every day without fail. Does he really like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 18-21 - There is this guy who calls me every day and we would talk for hours and hours together...He didn't tell me he liked me but i want to know if that's not the case then why does he want to talk to me every day,and why does he get angry if I dont answer his call or don't speak to ... (76 words) 


   

I'm feeling low after failing a subject at school... What step should I take?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 18-21 - I failed a subject in school...What do i do? I feel really bad.... (13 words) 

I've lost a friend's address and number! Now I don't know where he is!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 18-21 - Hey guys, I was wondering if you could help.. Basically I met a guy on holiday in Majorca, Spain about 6 years ago, he worked as a rep for the hotel and we became friends while I was there. We swapped addresses and telephone numbers, and the last time we were in contact was ... (150 words) 

Should the child always come first before a relationship?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 200 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 36-40 - Should the child always come first before a relationship? I am dating a widowed guy with a kid who prefers to give up sex with me if his daughter (seven) wants to sleep in bed with us that night. He doesn't ask me if I mind first. Every major life decision (where to live, ma... (334 words) 

   

I think we could work but he doesn't agree! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 10-12 - Here goes... I love to give advice I'm really good at it but only with other peoples problems! ... My problem - I started meeting a guy about 4 months ago and we started seing each other but argued so called it a day but then started seeing each other again. I really do like... (127 words) 

When I orgasm, there's no fluid! Am I normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 18-21 - Hi. When I'm having sex with my boyfriend or doing sexual things and I have an orgasm, there is never any female come. I know not all women can do female ejaculation, but I was wondering is it normal that my body just goes tense or should there be some kind of liquid?... (55 words) 

Ex-fiance wants me back but I'm scared he'll turn out like his Dad and hurt me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 18-21 - I broke up with my fiance 3 days ago because he would rather hang out with some hottie instead of me and he has been cheating on me... now the girl didn't want him and went for his cousin and he wants me back and he said it's not over.. I said it is.... and yesterday his dad ... (102 words) 

Told her I was older than I am. Now she wants to meet my Mum! What to tell her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

13 June 2008 (M)  age 16-17 - I'm 16 and I went on vacation not too long ago and I met this girl who is 19. I'm worried about her asking to meet my family beacause I LIED and told here I was 18. We've only been together for 3 weeks but when I go back to where she lives she wants to meet my Mom. What should ... (86 words) 

Is it possible for a partner to carry on 'pleasuring' after orgasm with it continuing to be enjoyable and then able to create another orgasm?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 18-21 - ...When i think i am reaching then achieving orgasm my heartbeat and breathing becomes faster, the sensitivity increases and there is uncontrollable, like, twitching of my legs and well the pelvic area, this seems to build till i get a tingley pins and needles like feeling that ... (263 words) 

I have helped him through troubled times but then blew up and disrespected him... he left and I don't know what to do with this mess?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 41-50 - Please help! My man and I have been together for nearly 4 years. When we first met, it was like something made in heaven . . . he pursued me for nearly 1 1/2 years. We live in different cities. Also during that time I would not see him, but we talked daily. Once I agreed ... (359 words) 

No guy in my life has given me a good example, how can I get over my paranoia and trust issues?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 206 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 16-17 - I have just started seeing this guy, he's really nice and i like him quite a bit already, the feeling seems to be mutual n i think soon we are gonna make it official. Only problem is i get really paranoid, i have been cheated on alot and been treated quite badly by guys. I... (115 words) 

When do girls usually stop growing in terms of height?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 13-15 - Hi everyone, just a quick question really. When do girls usually stop growing in terms of height? I'm 15 now, 5ft 4 and I was just wondering will I get much taller than this? ... (35 words) 

How do I stop my friend smoking?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 13-15 - About 2 months ago, a close friend of mine started smoking after having a cigar at another friends sleepover. At first I thought it was just a phase, we're 15 and I thought she'd just got caught up with what the "cooler" kids were doing. I didn't get involved, because my dads a ... (128 words) 

How can I make myself feel better and trust my boyfriend? and how can I get over my grandma's death?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 205 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 18-21 - My grandma passed away almost 2 years ago. I was her favorite grandchild. And at the time I just found out I was pregnant and living with her. (When I was 14, my mom started dating a man who would push me around and tell me my family hated me and my mom would do nothing... (503 words) 

I just found my ex in MySpace and started talking again. Although I am married I feel there is now future for my marriage and feel lost... please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 200 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 26-29 - 6/13/08 About a month ago, I found my ex on Myspace. I haven’t seen him in 7 years. We have a 7 year old daughter together, but he has not been in her life. She doesn’t know who he is. When we split up, I left him and asked him not to contact me or my daughter. I have be... (270 words) 

Why do you think young teens have sex? Shouldn't you wait for the right person?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 16-17 - I cannot understand why people have sex at such a young age. There're many posts on dearcupid coming from 13-15 year olds saying "I want to have sex with my boyfriend" or "Could I be pregnant?". What's the rush??? I'm 16 and haven't even had a boyfriend and even if I did, I ... (108 words) 

My husband cheated on me twice and I just can't trust him! Is there no hope for us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 36-40 - Hi, My husband of 12 years cheated on me twice last year and we have been trying to rebuild our relationship ever since. Tonight (a year later) is the first night he has gone out alone with mates and I am shocked how little I trust him. Even though he has sworn never to stray ... (220 words) 

When will my penis grow bigger? My voice is changing but still no armpit hair!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 33 days ago

13 June 2008 (M)  age 13-15 - I 12 going on 13 in September and my Penis is 3 1/2 inches when erect and 2 inches when soft. When will my Penis grow bigger? Are there any other ways tomake it bigger? My voiceis already changing but still no arpit hair.... (44 words) 

What can I do to know if my boyfriend really wants to be with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 206 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 18-21 - Hello, I want my boyfriend to pay attention to me, but i don't want him to just because i pretty much force him to. To help him see if he really wants to be with me or not, what can i do to take some of the attention i shower on him away? I don't want him to stay... (99 words) 

Will the pill still protect me during sex if I forgot to take it the day before?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 18-21 - Cud you tell me my risks of being pregnant? i slept in same bed with my bf last night and woke up with him coming in me. i dont mind him doing stuf to me if im sleeping. but turned out he never used a condom. i have been on the pill for a while. but i missed it the day b... (106 words) 

I'm from Europe and I want to study abroad in the US for 6 months but my mom won't let me... please help me convince her, you are my last hope!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 13-15 - Hi :) I'm from Europe and It's been a long time that I'm thinking of spending 6 months in the USA,in a High School.I'll turn 15 on 21st June (15 is the age to study abroad)and it's my dream.I asked my mom but she doesn't want me to go there :( she didn't say why! I've spok... (280 words) 

Has anyone felt as you don't matter to the other person after the split up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 22-25 - Does anyone after a relationship has ended that they didn't matter to the other person at all? I have been feeling this way. Broken up since October last year. Trying to be friends now- not going too well. Even though I am not attracted to him for how he turned out to be (liar... (112 words) 

I got dumped and I feel she keeps playing with my feelings... what does she want????

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

13 June 2008 (M)  age 18-21 - Ok here´s my situation: My girlfriend and I dated for 10 months. We had the best time, and we were sure we would stay together forever. So recently, she started saying I was making her suffer too much, but she wouldnt make it clear why. I assumed that I would make her j... (411 words) 

How do I get him to focus on ME and my lips not just my boobs?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 202 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 16-17 - hey guys, I have a boy problem. There is this guy that I have liked for almost 5 years on and off and we have a lot of history. He was my first kiss. He and I have been there for each other growing up as our parents got divorced and we were going through difficult time. ... (436 words) 

Should I call and say sorry? I turned my teacher now and I don't know if I did the right thing!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

13 June 2008 (M)  age 18-21 - Maybe I messed up by turning my teacher down,let me explain.Okay im 16 in high school and have a huge thing for my teacher.I posted a question asking for advice on how to handle it.She says she cares for me and loves me and we talk on the phone just about every night(not going ... (178 words) 

My fiance admitted to cheating when we first started dating but now I found out he also lied about his ex... How do I get over this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 206 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 22-25 - My fiancee admitted to cheating on me once with someone he met over the internet once when we first started dating. I was dealing with this and had almost otten over it but then found out that when we first started dating he said he hadnt had sex for 3 months and he had lied ... (156 words) 

Why does my fiance lie about watching porn?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 22-25 - My fiancee told me that he doesnt masturbate hardly ever. He also said when he looks at porn he looks at the one we made- nothing online. Which is a lie because I can see when it was last watched and he never watches it. We live together and he deletes the history on the ... (114 words) 

I am just terrified that I'm going to end up an unhappy mother of two, maybe three daughters who longs for a son!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 30-35 - My problem is that I desperately want to have a son, and the thought of being pregnant but never having a son terrifies me and its been going on as long as I can remember. People think i'm being silly, or say "we all have preferences", but i've been imagining myself with a son ... (380 words) 

How can I stop this addiction? Am I an alcoholic?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

13 June 2008 (M)  age 16-17 - Okay Im a male that sort of has a huge problem that I need some advice on.Im a 15 year old kid still in high school trying to make it threw but Im am sort of an alcoholic.I drink every single day,usually hard alcohol like a least a half of a fifth of if not more.Or I'll just ... (179 words) 

How can I tell if the boy I like likes me back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 13-15 - hiya everyone i am 12 and i really like this lad but i am not sure if he is into me how can I tell? He always makes eye contact with me but when im around he looks around for a destraction. he talks to me a lot but he feels embarrased. ... (56 words) 

I haven't had a period for four years... could it be because I gained weight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 16-17 - hi i started my period when i was 12 i am now 17 and havent had a period since i was 13. do you think that this could be becaus eof rapid weight gain and lack of slep. since i was 13 i have put on quite a bit of weight due to personal problems at home. do you think this c... (112 words) 

Should I just give up school to make things easier? I receive no help at home...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

13 June 2008 (M)  age 18-21 - Okay I have a huge problem.Everything in my life is going down the drain right now and making me way to stressed.Im mad 24/7 any little thing sets me off like a damn bomb.Im only 15 and I have more problems then any one I know.Almost everyone in my house does drugs and is a ... (195 words) 

Is there a solution to my dislike of his dogs?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 30-35 - Dear All: I am having a problem and that's how I got to this site. My new husband of 6 months has two pompekes and his Mom has been taking care of them for a while for us. The dogs came to our new home on Saturday and there is doggy poop all over a sandbox right near our f... (438 words) 

How do I get out of this silly situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  - I stupidly started seeing my ex again a month ago. The reason he's my ex is because he dumped me 3 years ago for someone else. They recently split up, he finished with her, and we started meeting up again and sleeping with each other. The first time it happened i said to myself ... (350 words) 

Why is he acting this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 206 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 36-40 - Last weekend I was with my friend. He is male we have been friends for a year now. We went in a relationship then he went back to his ex then broke up with her and we waited for 2 months then got together again and have spent time together, but seems this week we just fight. ... (236 words) 

Can any woman out there find the right words to console him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 18-21 - hey my boyfriends dog passed away and he really loved it a lot..he would do anything..he is in nebraska right now and i am in nevada..i want to send him a nice msg consoling him,but i am not finding the right words..could anyone(females only)please help me out!!!its urgent!!... (48 words) 

Should I email him and try to arrange a meeting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 26-29 - The thing is my friend who i was really close to left last summer and i miss him loads. He moved near london and i live near scotland so i don't think i will ever see him again :( I'm 16 by the way. I saw him at christmas and i was so shocked i couldn't talk lol It was great we... (204 words) 

People are making fun of me because my dad died

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

13 June 2008 (M)  age 13-15 - hi my dad has died 5 years ago every one makes fun off me because of this what should i do ????????????????????????????... (24 words) 

She told me that that she will never talk to him again if he gets with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 13-15 - Hello i need some help.... i met this guy about a year ago and i really like him and he really likes me. He has stayed good friends with his ex who he went out with like 2 years ago. Ever since this boy has said he wants to be with him, she has been really flirty... so i ju... (133 words) 

What are men from 45 upwards looking for in a relationship with a woman?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

13 June 2008 (?)  age 41-50 - To all the males out there! In your opinion,what are men from 45 upwards looking for in a relationship with a woman? What is important, what less important? Your comments and insight will be appreciated.... (36 words) 

I'm 14 years old and I'm still single!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 13-15 - Hi, I've been single my whole life and I what out. My friends and family say that I'm beautiful and that guys are just nervous. If thats the cause then why do guys go out with girls that are prettier than me? ... (44 words) 

My little boy aged 8 brought a card home from school for fathers day,the thing is his father does not want to know him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 30-35 - i recently split with my boyfriend whom i love dearly,but i have been working hard and moving on with my life without him and i have been doing ok until today that is when my little boy aged 8 brought a card home from school for fathers day,the thing is his father does not want ... (67 words) 

He broke up with me, now I feel like sleeping around a lot, why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

13 June 2008 (M)  age 18-21 - hi . my boyfriend recently broke up with me, and now i feel like sleeping around a bit with different guys. i know its slutty and i don't want to do it, but i'm sooooo lonely and miss the physical contact :( what should i do ?... (48 words) 

If I gave ex videos of our kids for Fathers Day would he read more into it than just a present?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 26-29 - We broke up last year and share kids together. For fathers day I wanted to give him some copies of old videos of the children when they were babies as I know he'd like that but Im having second thoughts as it may seem as though I am using emotional blackmail on him or he may ... (136 words) 

Do you think concealing private porn viewing is enough to shows that he is just secretive and dishonest in general?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 22-25 - I have been w/my bf for over 4 yrs. While I was away someone threatened to tell me about this cybersex thing he had w/ a girl when he was only 16 and we had just started dating. He freaked out and told me the whole thing which, even though it was stupid, made feel mistrustful ... (192 words) 

I'm concerned about my vagina odour!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 13-15 - am 14 and have a boyfriend and he wants to have sex but i keep saying no because my vagina smells and am embarassed... (24 words) 

How do I deal with a superficial boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 26-29 - I have been dating a guy for about 3 months, and things were going pretty fabulously. We both use "Love", and we both talk about the possible future together. Then we were doing a "relationship status check", and he said his only issue with the relationship was my physical ... (176 words) 

Am I being a complete idiot thinking this guy has any interest? Why do I feel he does?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 206 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  - this may sound mad for me to be asking this but here goes. I was fixed up on a blind date with my friends nephew, he is 31, well after texing for a few days and exchanging pictures we met. We really hit it off big time and were up till 2 in the morn, and exchanged a few ki... (535 words) 

I can't cope with my mothers mood swings! help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 206 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 16-17 - Mum mother is in the denial big time. I dont think i can cope with her mood swings anymre, all she does is tlk to me like shit, but then like in the space of 5 mins she can be all happy and bubbly again. When she goes off on one, she really does go off on one, i jus get... (267 words) 

Any interesting games/ideas that would fire up a mega party for 14 year-olds?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 13-15 - i am having a end of form party for 26 people and have no idea what to do. we are 14 and i know it will start of lame and then get better. but what games shall we play??? Please help... (41 words) 

My love for her is fading and there's another woman on the horizon, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

13 June 2008 (M)  - Hello, I got engaged and moved in with a woman whom I love. Now she's gotten sometimes distant and jealous, and acts out in mean ways. She's changed. My love for her is fading, but I want to work on this and make it happen for us. At the same time, there is a very e... (129 words) 

He says he can't focus on work and us, only on one or the other, any advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 30-35 - Hello everyone. I am going to give this a try, thinking about it on my own has made me crazy and everyone around me just tells me to leave. I'm in love, have been since I moved in with my boyfriend 7 months ago. We had been together a little longer than that, but actual... (519 words) 

To see him or not to see him....what do you think??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 22-25 - My boyfriend and I split after 2.5 years...he moved across country and told me he just wanted to be friends. This devastated me--I saw a future with him and did not see this coming. The reason he said for this was when he first asked me to go with him, I said no because I ... (227 words) 

Is insecurity getting the better of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 16-17 - I'm sixteen and my boyfriend and i have been together for 11 months now. Lately he's been reacting to me in a vague way and I've got it into my head that he wants to finish it. I'm not sure whether its my own insecurity. We've talked about it but its not helped.... (53 words) 

Should I wait for her? If so how long?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 202 days ago

13 June 2008 (M)  age 18-21 - Ok there is this girl I met online as friends at first. Well she was married so no interest from me. Well we found out how much in common we got and she fell for me. One night she confesses her feelings and that her husband treats her like a slave. She says she wants me to ... (374 words) 

Would you say we are dating now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 18-21 - Excuse the length of this but I want to explain things properly so people understand everything properly. I met a really nice guy about a month ago at a workshop where we spent the entire weekend together just chatting and we really hit it off. He told me he really wanted t... (202 words) 

When will my penis grow?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

13 June 2008 (M)  age 13-15 - I'm 12 turning 13 in September and My Penis when erect is 2 1/2 inches. Thats way to small for me.Butwhen its soft its 1 1/2 inches and thats very small. My question is when will it grow? ... (38 words) 

Being a good stepmother is stressing me out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  - I have a step daughter who spends time with my boyfriend and I every 2nd weekend. She's 8 and is a really kind kid. I know our weekend activities will be different because she's with us. I don't mind going to the zoo, science centre with her. However, I feel stress when I a... (212 words) 

What do the females think about men who complain about not having enough sex ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

13 June 2008 (M)  age 51-59 - What do the females think about men who complain about not having enough sex and their wives not being adventurous enough to indulge in new things? How can a man change your actions on this? Is this a permanent situation or can a different approach improve the outcome? If ... (79 words) 

My Dad took care of me ok but I don't feel we have a bond

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 26-29 - I love my DAD some what. All my life he help me, gave me aplace to stay, and send me money when needed. He never live with me, i don't know to much about him, hes from Ga im from Va, he see me maybe every 3 or 4 years. I never met my family in Ga before only talk on the phone 1 ... (158 words) 

Any tips on first kiss?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

13 June 2008 (M)  age 13-15 - So I went on a date with my girlfriend last night and I ws thinking about kissing her. But I havent had my first kiss yet and I dont know how to kiss? So I thought I need some adviceonhow to kiss a girl.... (44 words) 

He's scared to explode inside of me! Why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 201 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 26-29 - My sex life is great but only 1 thang thats wrong my sexpartner is scared to explode inside of me. I told him that its hard for me to have kids (don't want none) but its that warm feeling that goes inside of me that i'm misssing. He knows i'm on birth control pills also and he ... (72 words) 

Should I get out of this habit of having sex with my sexpartner?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 26-29 - its me!! earlier i've told yall about the guy i love is getting married. Now he's not the babymomma got mad because he don't spend enough time with her. So she leaves and go back to her town for days and take the son with her.(she has her ass on her back) My sex partner really ... (185 words) 

Am I just being pathetic to be jealous when he says 'we' in referance to his ex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 22-25 - Is it wrong to feel annoyed if your boyfriend of 10 months (serious relationship, living together) says things like "us" and "we" regarding his ex wife. Let me explain. He left his ex-wife over 11 years ago. They have a boy aged 12. He needs a lot of schooling suppor... (388 words) 

Have I made a mistake?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 202 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 36-40 - A guy and I work at the same company different departments. Ok, he asked me out 2 years ago, I couldn't accept. So, we have been speaking in the hallways and I finally asked him out Monday and he said that if he wasn't working 2 jobs and going to nursing school, he would like ... (148 words) 

My husband is very insentive when it comes to love-making... I'm only 50 but feel I'd be better living alone than like this!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 51-59 - I am so embaressed and have no one to go to for advice. Maybe someone here can help? I am going through menopause and lately trying to have sex is really painful. I have read what I could on this and tried to relay the info to my husband. I explained to him that I will need mor... (408 words) 

I'm really confused!! First he turned me down..then asks me out, but he's moving!! Why is he doing this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  - Theres this guy who ive known since about march this year. I really like him and we talk alot because we share a college class together. We would often get together and study out of class as well. Anyway one night I sent him a message asking him out, but he never replied. Next ... (113 words) 

I want to do something with my pubic hair, do I have to go to a salon to get a 'landing strip'??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

13 June 2008 (F)  age 18-21 - Hey - am having sex with my boyfriend next week and wanted to do something with my pubic hair. I have it trimmed as it is now, but was thinking of maybe getting it done in to a teardrop shape or a "landing strip". Is this something I can do at home or do I have to go to a ... (66 words) 

We haven't spoken in a week!! Does he see me as being too 'easy'???

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13 June 2008 (F)  age 16-17 - i feel that i am in love with this guy. but the thing is, the first time we ever met we slept together. he said to me that he likes me and that i would make a great gf. we have been talking on msn, and by texts, but in the last week we haven't spoken at all, he is never online ... (93 words) 

There is a big problem with his ex...what should I do?

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13 June 2008 (F)  age 16-17 - Well My boyfriend and I have been getting on great, there was a bit of a rocky start on my behalf due to my relationship before, but thts all finished! Now four months down the lines things have been sed tht i find a bit hurtful. My partner was in a 3 and a half re... (258 words) 

We have no sex life!! What should I do?

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13 June 2008 (M)  age 26-29 - I am 29 and have been with my gf 29 for almost 2 years in the first 6 months ourt sex life was brilliant and she couldn't get enough of me then almost what seemed immediately it dropped from once every other day too once a month if I was lucky and it has made me frustrated for ... (442 words) 

Some days we flirt and some days we don't!! I'm confused!!

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13 June 2008 (M)  age 41-50 - Hi all, Ok, have been flirting with a girl at work and we smile, laugh together, have friendly conversations and lots of eye contact and the atmosphere is comfortable and relaxed. It's certain to me that we like eachother. However, some days she is simply formal and just s... (109 words) 

My girlfriend constantly talks to her ex!!! What should I do...?

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13 June 2008 (M)  age 26-29 - My girlfriend is constantly talking to her ex. I mean all the time. We had an argument about it and it seems she would let it get to the point where we break up rather than stop talking to him. She is going somewhere with him and his mates soon and I don't know what to do. Am I ... (74 words) 

Having a partner is not everything but I don't really want to spend the rest of my life on my own, any helpful advice would be so appreciated

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13 June 2008 (F)  age 41-50 - I split up from my partner in september because he cheated on me, it was the most painful time, emotionally and financially, i,m now starting to get on my feet at last and i can tell you, it hasn't been easy as i did love him to bits and i thought he felt the same, obviously ... (231 words) 

Known him for 2 weeks - is it too soon for a visit to his town??

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13 June 2008 (F)  age 30-35 - Hello everyone.. i have a question, and my friends are giving different answers, would be good to get some objective views! On a previous post, i mentioned my failing relationship. Well, it failed. To be honest, when it ended, i was devastated, but i realised it was more a loss ... (209 words) 

FWB/casual do people think he would commit more over time?

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13 June 2008 (F)  age 18-21 - Hey all would just like an outside view on a situation. I met this guy 2 weeks ago (total stranger) and we got on very well and have met up nearly everyday since. He is always trying to kiss/cuddle and sends sweet texts about how he misses me etc. I really like him and he's the... (230 words) 

What are these "bumps" on her vagina?

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13 June 2008 (F)  age 13-15 - my question is pretty major. My Girl Friend doesnt want to have sex because she has bumps on her vagina, ive seen it myself. they are almost like pimples, but only occur on the surface and are nowhere by the "inside" of her vagina...do you guys have any ideas of what this could ... (75 words) 

No one I know has ever experienced anything like this, would like advice from anyone who has?

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13 June 2008 (F)  age 18-21 - alright, this is going to be long, so bear with me: i'm 20 years old, my ex (as of today) is 22. we had been dating for 8 months last month and after finding out that he had cheated on me (no sex, but making out) throughout basically our whole relationship, he told me he wa... (998 words) 

It's been a month since the break up and I'm still not over it-please help

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13 June 2008 (F)  age 13-15 - I am in my 11th grade..! Its almost a month since my relationship ended.I'm trying to forget the past and hv started a new life.I keep myself busy.If i do feel I'm missing my bf i still control n try moving on i feel time can only heal a broken heart i always a wanted a co-ed ... (130 words) 

He wants to take my virginty during our outing with his parents!

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13 June 2008 (F)  age 13-15 - ok, so me and my boyfriend are going to a monster truck show and he wants to have sex during our outing (6:00 PM- about 1:00 AM) He says that he loves me and that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. I just feel like losing my virginity on an outing with his parents ... (103 words) 

Mixed messages so I wonder if I want really want our relationship to continue for much longer

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13 June 2008 (F)  age 41-50 - my boyfriend and I have been together almost a year. We are both divorced and in our 40s. Last week he made a surprise holiday booking for us for later this year which made me feel incredibly happy and appreciated, and he has something planned for my birthday in a fe... (501 words) 

Whenever I drink I cannot get an erection-why?

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13 June 2008 (M)  age 18-21 - So I've noticed that whenver I drink I cannot get an erection. I'm just shy of 18 so I figure this shouldn't be happening to me yet, and I've already talked to my buddies and they don't have the same problem. But I cannot even drink a few beers without losing my ability ... (127 words) 

Did he reject me or is there still some hope left?

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13 June 2008 (F)  age 18-21 - okay i told this guy that i liked him yesterday and he told me not to think too much about it and it'll all be perfect and things could work out....but its all so confusing and today i was kind of down so he asked if i was okay and of course i said yes....so i'm now wondering ... (93 words) 

I'd really like to hear female perspectives on what sex feels like for them?

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13 June 2008 (M)  age 22-25 - I've been wondering for some time now. What does sex feel like for a woman. It sounds really immature i'm sure, but I've always been curious as to what the physical sensations must be like for my significant other. I've talked to a few female friends and they struggled t... (170 words) 

No orgasms in 3 years -- what's wrong with me?

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13 June 2008 (F)  age 18-21 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years and we have had a lot of sex. I have only had one orgasim out of three years. Is something wrong with me? I don't know what to do. Can you please help me?... (45 words) 

How will I know whether she's interested in me?

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13 June 2008 (M)  age 16-17 - How do you know whether a girl is interested in a guy or not?... (14 words) 

I'm confused on my sexuality!

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13 June 2008 (F)  age 13-15 - i dress like a boy.. act like a boy.. want to be a boy.. what does this mean? should i get a sex change or what? i know i'm a tomboy but i really want to be a boy. and have all the qualities of a boy. everyone calls me a little boy and i don't get offended at all, i just tell ... (108 words) 

What do you do when your BF's a flirt?

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13 June 2008 (F)  age 13-15 - so me and my boyfriend have been going out for about a week now. we fight a lot over little things but it always ends up alright and we kiss and make up :) but there's reasons to these little fights.. he seems to be a bit of a flirt and i don't like it at all. he jokes around ... (188 words) 

I gotta crush for my teach - for the last 3 years - and it's not going away! Help me!

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13 June 2008 (F)  age 16-17 - I have a huge thing going for a teacher at my school.... I have had a huge crush on him since the beginning of the year when I was a freshman. I'm a junior now and the feeling is still there. Now I don't think this is just a crush anymore. He wasn't a teacher of mine but I wo... (207 words) 

I need help getting my life back on track - can you help me?

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13 June 2008 (F)  age 22-25 - Things haven't been good for me for years. 8 years ago my mother lost her still born baby and the chemical imbalance made it so that no matter what I do I can never do anything right. Before all that happened her and I were really close, now I can't ever let her in. that was ... (474 words) 

How do I make make this not seem like an ulterior motive?

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13 June 2008 (M)  age 30-35 - Recently I sent my (LDR) ex g/f a gift I'd made her for Valentine's (we broke up before V-day) ... and she called to say she loves it/to thank me for it. ... to make this short(er) - I want to go visit her later this summer but I'm wondering how/when I should mention my idea/... (87 words) 

How do I approach a guy when we're both too proud?

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13 June 2008 (F)  age - Any suggestions on how to approach a guy that I want to have wild and passionate sex with? He and I are at a standstill because we're both too proud to approach the other. Looks like I'll have to be the one to make the first move. Should I be concerned that now he's tired of ... (60 words) 

How do I shake this grabby guy?

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13 June 2008 (F)  age 13-15 - umm so this guy asked me out and i sad no right so then he texts me and says ok but can we kiss a few times at this b-day party and i didnt say anything all i knew is that i did not like him and i knew that he was a creep so at the b-day party he kisses me and i push him a... (320 words) 

Can an 18 y.o. get in trouble for getting a 15 y.o. pregnant?

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13 June 2008 (F)  age 16-17 - can an 18 year old only get in trouble for getting a 15 year old pregnant if somone reports him? ... (22 words) 

I love her and we dated! Now she says she's not bisexual!!

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13 June 2008 (F)  age 13-15 - Heres the story,to start off,I'm bisexual and i went out with this girl last year for four months.Everything was brilliant i was on top of the world and i was mad about her!We had no problem telling our close friends that we were together,they didn't abandon us or anything!But ... (373 words) 

Did he sexually harrass me?

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13 June 2008 (F)  age 13-15 - hi i'm 13 and umm i was at a party and some boy kiss me when i said to get off he wouldnt and my "best friend " is trying to get a picture while im begging him to get off and then he said "you like it" and now im questioning whether this is harassment or not? I talked to him ... (83 words) 

I don't want my 2 regular girlfriends to find out about my girls on the side, but 2 of them are now pregnant!

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13 June 2008 (M)  age 30-35 - I'm in need of some serious help. I have been in a long-term relationship with a wonderful girl for the past five years and with another equally beautiful girl for two. The first girl I met through friends, the second in a strip club. I know some people wouldn't approve ... (223 words) 

His actions are confusing me! Please help!

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13 June 2008 (F)  age 22-25 - Ok, so my boyfriend and I split last month. He went to another state and I stayed right where I am. I was heartbroken, devastated, felt alone---I thought this was the man I was going to marry. Now everything has been thrown away and I felt left in the dust. He didn't seem to ... (222 words) 

I feel like I'm always the stronger one, what can I do?

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13 June 2008 (F)  age 22-25 - I love my bf of 5 yrs. and we have been looking at rings. There is something that is bothering me, though. I feel like I am almost always the stronger one. I'm not saying I want him to be a macho man, in fact I would hate that, but he seems so wimpy sometimes. He can't m... (209 words)Â